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Re: He Bought Her A Range Rover Sports And Dumped Her On Valentine Day by Nobody: 10:48am On Feb 15, 2015
is LOVE BY 4CE?

E NR WANT HER AGAIN. PERIOD!

ABI NA CRIME TO DUMP GIRL AGAIN?
grin grin
Re: He Bought Her A Range Rover Sports And Dumped Her On Valentine Day by simdam500(m): 10:59am On Feb 15, 2015
wemmieslim: Nawa o....,God punish d modafvka,bastard son of a HOE.

Aunty wemi... let hear the guy side of the story before we take law into our hands...










Seriously what he did was bad but he must have a reason
Re: He Bought Her A Range Rover Sports And Dumped Her On Valentine Day by Nobody: 11:04am On Feb 15, 2015
NOLLYWOOD!!!
Re: He Bought Her A Range Rover Sports And Dumped Her On Valentine Day by Nobody: 11:22am On Feb 15, 2015
sweettease:
So sad, God will compensate her with a much better husband in Jesus name!
I can't begin to imagine what she is going through now, 11 years, kai! He will reap what he has sown.
Amen..

@Op, please tell her that God has a better Man for her.

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Re: He Bought Her A Range Rover Sports And Dumped Her On Valentine Day by LadyX(f): 11:35am On Feb 15, 2015
100Cents:


I wonder oo.

She should have left him after 6 years, when she was 27.

Anyway, her investment was the job she got for him..
She thought the guy had to marry her because she got him a job. When you do good don't expect payment otherwise you'll be disappointed.
Re: He Bought Her A Range Rover Sports And Dumped Her On Valentine Day by MacOG1Anon: 11:57am On Feb 15, 2015
By this story, the person I think is most to blame is actually the lady (your cousin?). I still cannot/will not blame her because Love s indeed blind, and I speak from experience. If you have dated anyone for up to 4 years, I believe you should know if it is leading anywhere. If you are dating a man that has a job, what can possibly be the excuse of not tying the knot with you? To be fair to the man, he must not marry your sister just because she helped him get a job, he should marry her because he wants and 'Loves' her. If you blame the guy for getting your cousin a parting gift as big as a range rover, you'll probably murder him if he gave her nothing...

Finally, It's better to call of a marriage that will not last to prevent, beatings, infidelity and their consequences when you unfortunately go ahead with a marriage that wont work.
Re: He Bought Her A Range Rover Sports And Dumped Her On Valentine Day by wemmieslim(f): 12:49pm On Feb 15, 2015
simdam500:


Aunty wemi... let hear the guy side of the story before we take law into our hands...










Seriously what he did was bad but he must have a reason

And it took him 11years to decide
What does he have to say after wasting 11years of someone's life?...There's no justification for him o.
Re: He Bought Her A Range Rover Sports And Dumped Her On Valentine Day by Nobody: 1:00pm On Feb 15, 2015
wemmieslim:


And it took him 11years to decide
What does he have to say after wasting 11years of someone's life?...There's no justification for him o.


yes you don't have to sit on a chair for too long before you know if its comfortable or not
Look at it from a positive angle... Its not about the time spent/wasted in the relationship.
11 years of love, hate, fun, joy, laughter and lesson learnt... Not a total waste.... Marriage is no price to be won with how long one endures
She can get married in 12 months time and live a "happily ever after life" or on the second hand they can go ahead with their marriage and struggle for 5 years and finally divorce..
Life is a mystery and there is no hard and fast rule about what works and how it works

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Re: He Bought Her A Range Rover Sports And Dumped Her On Valentine Day by fabolakers(m): 1:05pm On Feb 15, 2015
Your cousin is turning 32 this year and they started dating after NYSC which means your cousin was 21 years during NYSC and when she started dating the guy. I find this hard to believe. All girls think about after graduation is marriage. Nice Script though. I will call Peter Jackson.
Re: He Bought Her A Range Rover Sports And Dumped Her On Valentine Day by wemmieslim(f): 1:30pm On Feb 15, 2015
favoured234:



yes you don't have to sit on a chair for too long before you know if its comfortable or not
Look at it from a positive angle... Its not about the time spent/wasted in the relationship.
11 years of love, hate, fun, joy, laughter and lesson learnt... Not a total waste.... Marriage is no price to be won with how long one endures
She can get married in 12 months time and live a "happily ever after life" or on the second hand they can go ahead with their marriage and struggle for 5 years and finally divorce..
Life is a mystery and there is no hard and fast rule about what works and how it works



Hmm....good point u made,but 11years seems like a life time to me,that's a decade,and it looks scary,most of the stories I read just makes relationship and marriage terrifying, and yes,I am scared cos if I get so attached to someone for that long,I don't think I might be able to let go......I just pray God help d lady in question and help her to grasp reality to let go and move on,its hard mhen,only God can help her,am wishing her all the best in life!!

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Re: He Bought Her A Range Rover Sports And Dumped Her On Valentine Day by sweettease(f): 1:39pm On Feb 15, 2015
babamadiba:
different in what sense?
His character changed.
Re: He Bought Her A Range Rover Sports And Dumped Her On Valentine Day by babamadiba(m): 1:42pm On Feb 15, 2015
[quote author=sweettease post=30752187]
His character changed.[/quote I knew y I asked cos something similar happened to a friend, exactly 15yrs and d guy suddenly became a beast after the wedded.
Re: He Bought Her A Range Rover Sports And Dumped Her On Valentine Day by sweettease(f): 2:00pm On Feb 15, 2015
mikketech:
wooow interesting. Applaud. U sound more like a victim to such? Anyways sorry for ur life. U talk like someone who is over aged and not married. Lol. As*** life don render ur life miserable. All in da names of runs
Is that the best you can do? Lmao, the joke is on you because I'm none of those things. I'm young and beautiful and my idea of life isn't about being a liability to anyone or taking short cuts to success but you on the other hand is likely to be a wife beater, an abuser if your first response to the opinion of a female of no social or blood relationship with you is an aggressive shut up, and calling her trash. Barbarian!






babamadiba:
Hmmmm... May God help us.
Re: He Bought Her A Range Rover Sports And Dumped Her On Valentine Day by ddooskie(m): 2:17pm On Feb 15, 2015
CharlieMaria:
interesting
Charley, I syt u grin
Re: He Bought Her A Range Rover Sports And Dumped Her On Valentine Day by pomsky: 2:48pm On Feb 15, 2015
BrTune:
My people I greet una o.
This Valentine don Red 4 my Cousin o.
Her fiance whom she has dated for 11 years and whom she helped get a Job in Shell just dumped her.
My Cousin is turning 32 this year, and began dating this hediot immediately after NYSC. This man, she helped get a Job, through a retired senior officer in Shell.
When she began dating him he was a nobody, hopping around with his CV from pillar to post, until my sister started pushing his CV in Shell, until reluctantly a family relation gave this man the job, because he thought the Man was gonna go through with the marriage.
Fastforward to this day, after making my cousin turn down suitors in powerful positions, and so many eligible bachelors, he left her heartbroken this morning, when he informed her that he was in love with another girl.
My cousin is currently suicidal, infact sef, My family just hired a matured lady as a personal escort because we cant trust her with her life anymore.
This pig wasted 11 years of my Sisters life, when we were telling her to dump the man, she was forming love, now it haf done her like Nigerian movie and he even had the guts to buy a Range say na reconciliation gift, like my Sister needs his money.
To all the ladies out there, better shine eyes o. If the man is not ready 4 marriage better leave him bcoz time is not always on a Ladys side. Now na to start do night vigil 4 husband na him we dey o.
MoD move this 2 the approprait section so NL ladiea can see this n wiseup.

......she's not too old. I guess it's the pain and shame dat makes it unbearable. She will get a great and deserving guy who will appreciate and love her for who she is......also, GIRLS DON'T GIVE YOUR LIVES TO A MAN WHO HAS NOT WEDDED YOU,.....safe advice!
Re: He Bought Her A Range Rover Sports And Dumped Her On Valentine Day by Sugarpeaches(f): 2:56pm On Feb 15, 2015
LadyX:
How can you date for 11 years?

I had a roommate who was running a sandwich program ,she kept on saying she has been with her husband for 22 yrs now ,dat was last year (2014). I was surprised cos dis woman obviously isn't up to 40, she den explained dat she started dating him while in secondary school,den she went to the same university wit him, so dey dated a total of 12 yrs n have been married for 10 yrs . Right now she's so happy ,cos her husband is well to do and treats her like a queen . But its different stroke for different folks, wat worked for her may not work for someone.

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Re: He Bought Her A Range Rover Sports And Dumped Her On Valentine Day by LadyX(f): 3:00pm On Feb 15, 2015
Hearing such positive stories has made me change my opinion about dating period.

Sugarpeaches:


I had a roommate who was running a sandwich program ,she kept on saying she has been with her husband for 22 yrs now ,dat was last year (2014). I was surprised cos dis woman obviously isn't up to 40, she den explained dat she started dating him while in secondary school,den she went to the same university wit him, so dey dated a total of 12 yrs n have been married for 10 yrs . Right now she's so happy ,cos her husband is well to do and treats her like a queen . But its different stroke for different folks, wat worked for her may not work for someone.
Re: He Bought Her A Range Rover Sports And Dumped Her On Valentine Day by Sugarpeaches(f): 3:13pm On Feb 15, 2015
[quote author=LadyX post=30754475]Hearing such positive stories has made me change my opinion about dating period.

I was inspired by dat woman's story but I can't date a guy for 11yrs o ! God forbid abeg !
Re: He Bought Her A Range Rover Sports And Dumped Her On Valentine Day by oluprinzzy(m): 3:22pm On Feb 15, 2015
Exponental:
@op.... seriously, ur sister is sick!
hw can u date a man with a good job for 11years?
Shey she wan force d man carry am go alter ni
Re: He Bought Her A Range Rover Sports And Dumped Her On Valentine Day by allcomage: 3:24pm On Feb 15, 2015
sweettease:

Imagine! I'm not even so crazy about the help now, it happens! But 11 years? He is just realising after 11 years and you see nothing wrong with it? A child in primary 6 then can be a graduate now and you think it's not a big deal? Where is your conscience? Your comment shows you are capable of it.
Sun does not shine at night. Until we hear from the guy,I will not pass blame but I can guess.It might be that after helping the guy got a job she felt he was hers forever and started misbehaving like having affairs,socialising with top guys in their industry,keeping late nights,going to unreal conferences,becoming lazy and bossy,not cooking and keeping home. She was doing these and enjoying her life with the air he was hers for and that is why 11yrs passed with out her knowing,if not she would have tied him down in the first 1-3years with marriage or pregnancy. No real man will take it. There's no smoke without fire.
Re: He Bought Her A Range Rover Sports And Dumped Her On Valentine Day by annita19(f): 3:49pm On Feb 15, 2015
BrTune:
My people I greet una o.
This Valentine don Red 4 my Cousin o.
Her fiance whom she has dated for 11 years and whom she helped get a Job in Shell just dumped her.
My Cousin is turning 32 this year, and began dating this hediot immediately after NYSC. This man, she helped get a Job, through a retired senior officer in Shell.
When she began dating him he was a nobody, hopping around with his CV from pillar to post, until my sister started pushing his CV in Shell, until reluctantly a family relation gave this man the job, because he thought the Man was gonna go through with the marriage.
Fastforward to this day, after making my cousin turn down suitors in powerful positions, and so many eligible bachelors, he left her heartbroken this morning, when he informed her that he was in love with another girl.
My cousin is currently suicidal, infact sef, My family just hired a matured lady as a personal escort because we cant trust her with her life anymore.
This pig wasted 11 years of my Sisters life, when we were telling her to dump the man, she was forming love, now it haf done her like Nigerian movie and he even had the guts to buy a Range say na reconciliation gift, like my Sister needs his money.
To all the ladies out there, better shine eyes o. If the man is not ready 4 marriage better leave him bcoz time is not always on a Ladys side. Now na to start do night vigil 4 husband na him we dey o.
MoD move this 2 the approprait section so NL ladiea can see this n wiseup.

Dated for 11 years? Sorry sis but your sister is d umb as hell. What kind of love makes a woman spend 11 years of her life dating and to make the matter even stupidest, dating a broke asss loser.
Re: He Bought Her A Range Rover Sports And Dumped Her On Valentine Day by delishpot: 3:58pm On Feb 15, 2015
BrTune:
My people I greet una o.
This Valentine don Red 4 my Cousin o.
Her fiance whom she has dated for 11 years and whom she helped get a Job in Shell just dumped her.
My Cousin is turning 32 this year, and began dating this hediot immediately after NYSC. This man, she helped get a Job, through a retired senior officer in Shell.
When she began dating him he was a nobody, hopping around with his CV from pillar to post, until my sister started pushing his CV in Shell, until reluctantly a family relation gave this man the job, because he thought the Man was gonna go through with the marriage.
Fastforward to this day, after making my cousin turn down suitors in powerful positions, and so many eligible bachelors, he left her heartbroken this morning, when he informed her that he was in love with another girl.
My cousin is currently suicidal, infact sef, My family just hired a matured lady as a personal escort because we cant trust her with her life anymore.
This pig wasted 11 years of my Sisters life, when we were telling her to dump the man, she was forming love, now it haf done her like Nigerian movie and he even had the guts to buy a Range say na reconciliation gift, like my Sister needs his money.
To all the ladies out there, better shine eyes o. If the man is not ready 4 marriage better leave him bcoz time is not always on a Ladys side. Now na to start do night vigil 4 husband na him we dey o.
MoD move this 2 the approprait section so NL ladiea can see this n wiseup.

Women are like that sha. Love too blind them. Its well, karma dey him front.
Re: He Bought Her A Range Rover Sports And Dumped Her On Valentine Day by thecommunist(m): 4:09pm On Feb 15, 2015
UnknownT:
At least a picture of the RR
lool, there goes a realist. grin..asking for the sisters picture is asking for too much, so at least a picture of the range rover.
Re: He Bought Her A Range Rover Sports And Dumped Her On Valentine Day by bayulll01(m): 4:10pm On Feb 15, 2015
[quote author=BrTune post=30735579]My people I greet una o.
This Valentine don Red 4 my Cousin o.
Her fiance whom she has dated for 11 years and whom she helped get a Job in Shell just dumped her.
w na to start do night vigil 4 husband na him we dey o.
MoD move this 2 the approprait section so NL ladiea can see this n wiseup.[/quoted]ok we have heard did u say ur sis is 32,okay give me her contact op she's fine shaa,and I won't mind oil job also,then we talk abt marriage
Re: He Bought Her A Range Rover Sports And Dumped Her On Valentine Day by Austyn44(m): 4:30pm On Feb 15, 2015
12 years a slave comes to mind...
but I guess it's none of my business undecided
Re: He Bought Her A Range Rover Sports And Dumped Her On Valentine Day by BrTune: 4:43pm On Feb 15, 2015
Lol bros na 12 years a slave.
Austyn44:
11 years a slave comes to mind... but I guess it's none of my business undecided
Re: He Bought Her A Range Rover Sports And Dumped Her On Valentine Day by phenol33(m): 4:50pm On Feb 15, 2015
BrTune:
My people I greet una o.
This Valentine don Red 4 my Cousin o.
Her fiance whom she has dated for 11 years and whom she helped get a Job in Shell just dumped her.
My Cousin is turning 32 this year, and began dating this hediot immediately after NYSC. This man, she helped get a Job, through a retired senior officer in Shell.
When she began dating him he was a nobody, hopping around with his CV from pillar to post, until my sister started pushing his CV in Shell, until reluctantly a family relation gave this man the job, because he thought the Man was gonna go through with the marriage.
Fastforward to this day, after making my cousin turn down suitors in powerful positions, and so many eligible bachelors, he left her heartbroken this morning, when he informed her that he was in love with another girl.
My cousin is currently suicidal, infact sef, My family just hired a matured lady as a personal escort because we cant trust her with her life anymore.
This pig wasted 11 years of my Sisters life, when we were telling her to dump the man, she was forming love, now it haf done her like Nigerian movie and he even had the guts to buy a Range say na reconciliation gift, like my Sister needs his money.
To all the ladies out there, better shine eyes o. If the man is not ready 4 marriage better leave him bcoz time is not always on a Ladys side. Now na to start do night vigil 4 husband na him we dey o.
MoD move this 2 the approprait section so NL ladiea can see this n wiseup.

chai daddy u can lie ooo!!! daddy wen did the torties fail from the sky!!!!
Re: He Bought Her A Range Rover Sports And Dumped Her On Valentine Day by etungha08: 5:15pm On Feb 15, 2015
Dear Nairalanders, I have a similar case in my family-my husband's younger brother who is in his early forties, have been in a relationship with this babe for 14yrs now(not kidding) without marrying themselves-infact they're 'live- in -lovers'.they live together,do what married couples do-yet not legally married-worse-off,my brother-in-law has been receiving the lashing and heat for everyone that wishes him well to either do the needful or allow the lady to go her way-his response has always been- 'I will marry her soon'.

Unfortunately, the lady has never 'taken in'all these years. To me I feel both of them are fooling themselves.in the end the lady might be the looser-cos the guy will easily go for 'a sweet sixteen'.

Bottom line-avoid long courtship.
Re: He Bought Her A Range Rover Sports And Dumped Her On Valentine Day by anthoniaz(f): 5:28pm On Feb 15, 2015
tiamiyukunle69:
Dated for 11 years........na season film?
I have seen 14years.
They got married April last year...the guy they give her belle for her mama house.They had three kids before the marriage.

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Re: He Bought Her A Range Rover Sports And Dumped Her On Valentine Day by Bebetter: 5:34pm On Feb 15, 2015
[size=14pt]This story is not complete... so wait.. you people were blackmailing him with marriage as a perquisite for a high paying job? and am sorry... why are you of the myopic opinion that your sister made the man! (see thinking), so when she was making him by getting him a shell job, why did she not make herself too, since she is now the maker of men... abegi.... this story is one-sided and blatant nonsense! [/size]
Re: He Bought Her A Range Rover Sports And Dumped Her On Valentine Day by tiamiyukunle69(m): 5:51pm On Feb 15, 2015
anthoniaz:

I have seen 14years.
They got married April last year...the guy they give her belle for her mama house.They had three kids before the marriage.

this one na gobe o.....nothing wey you no go hear for Naija
Re: He Bought Her A Range Rover Sports And Dumped Her On Valentine Day by Bonatti(m): 6:07pm On Feb 15, 2015
Nairalander01:
This cousin of yours must be really patient, 11 years and yet nothing to show for it; thats how some men end up attracting curses upon themselves.

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