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Re: Why You Shouldn't Date Her For "Love" Alone. by Nobody: 5:13pm On Feb 15, 2015
emusmith:
I do joor cheesy
You don't Jor. tongue
Re: Why You Shouldn't Date Her For "Love" Alone. by snowhyt(f): 5:15pm On Feb 15, 2015
emusmith:
I did... but my prayer for you was to...

get married this year grinlipsrsealed
married keh?? marriage is so not on my 2015 list
Re: Why You Shouldn't Date Her For "Love" Alone. by LewisO: 5:22pm On Feb 15, 2015
snowhyt:
rilli?? then when God is done makin d "wife material" she'll fall from d sky in2 ur arms ryt?? i pray ur dream comes true
Who is this guilty one quoting me? undecided

Precise! Typing that doesn't that mean i had a heart broke, huh? That's just the pure truth, and am saying that because am always a sooth-sayer!

U ladies needs to change your attitudes for good. undecided

*Leech ladies everywhere* undecided
Re: Why You Shouldn't Date Her For "Love" Alone. by Nobody: 5:52pm On Feb 15, 2015
emusmith So, I heard yesterday was Val's day. How was it? Did you..... M.M? tongue
Re: Why You Shouldn't Date Her For "Love" Alone. by snowhyt(f): 5:52pm On Feb 15, 2015
LewisO:
Who is this guilty one quoting me? undecided

Precise! Typing that doesn't that mean i had a heart broke, huh? That's just the pure truth, and am saying that because am always a sooth-sayer!

U ladies needs to change your attitudes for good. undecided

*Leech ladies everywhere* undecided
sorry swthrt, i aint guilty of any of d things u mentioned...
sooth-sayer?? lolx... tell me abt it..
.
yea, some ladies need 2 change bt dont make it seem as if its all ladies dat hv bad attitude nd character.... bsides guys too need 2 change also...BTW no one is perfect, we all have flaws
Re: Why You Shouldn't Date Her For "Love" Alone. by LewisO: 6:20pm On Feb 15, 2015
snowhyt:
sorry swthrt, i aint guilty of any of d things u mentioned...
sooth-sayer?? lolx... tell me abt it..
.
yea, some ladies need 2 change bt dont make it seem as if its all ladies dat hv bad attitude nd character.... bsides guys too need 2 change also...BTW no one is perfect, we all have flaws
Adhered to your post! cool
Seems u're sensible, nice meeting ya. wink
Re: Why You Shouldn't Date Her For "Love" Alone. by Nobody: 7:29pm On Feb 15, 2015
snowhyt:
married keh?? marriage is so not on my 2015 list
When then? cheesy
Re: Why You Shouldn't Date Her For "Love" Alone. by Nobody: 7:30pm On Feb 15, 2015
Herzumpther:
emusmith So, I heard yesterday was Val's day. How was it? Did you..... M.M? tongue
What's M.M? hmmm grin

suspicion mode activated! cheesy
Re: Why You Shouldn't Date Her For "Love" Alone. by Nobody: 7:31pm On Feb 15, 2015
LewisO:
Adhered to your post! cool
Seems u're sensible, nice meeting ya. wink
cool
Re: Why You Shouldn't Date Her For "Love" Alone. by Nobody: 7:33pm On Feb 15, 2015
Herzumpther:
Lol. Mi good o.
Happy Sunday.

Pinches me nibohuh
Where else? hmmm coolcheesy
Re: Why You Shouldn't Date Her For "Love" Alone. by Nobody: 7:39pm On Feb 15, 2015
emusmith:
What's M.M? hmmm grin

suspicion mode activated! cheesy
cheesy
Re: Why You Shouldn't Date Her For "Love" Alone. by Nobody: 7:41pm On Feb 15, 2015
emusmith:
Where else? hmmm coolcheesy
tongue
Re: Why You Shouldn't Date Her For "Love" Alone. by snowhyt(f): 8:10pm On Feb 15, 2015
LewisO:
Adhered to your post! cool
Seems u're sensible, nice meeting ya. wink
thanks
Re: Why You Shouldn't Date Her For "Love" Alone. by snowhyt(f): 8:12pm On Feb 15, 2015
emusmith:
When then? cheesy
whenever i'm ready grin
Re: Why You Shouldn't Date Her For "Love" Alone. by Nobody: 8:21pm On Feb 15, 2015
snowhyt:
whenever i'm ready grin
No hope for guys? cheesy
Re: Why You Shouldn't Date Her For "Love" Alone. by Nobody: 8:22pm On Feb 15, 2015
Re: Why You Shouldn't Date Her For "Love" Alone. by RomanyChi(f): 9:05pm On Feb 15, 2015
emusmith:
Talk na embarassed
just observing... smiley

https://i.imgur.com/ScB9Y.gif
Re: Why You Shouldn't Date Her For "Love" Alone. by Nobody: 9:50pm On Feb 15, 2015
RomanyChi:
just observing... smiley

https://i.imgur.com/ScB9Y.gif
Lol, I trust you... cool
Re: Why You Shouldn't Date Her For "Love" Alone. by Nobody: 9:53pm On Feb 15, 2015
Herzumpther:
You don't Jor. tongue
You no longer trust me right? smiley
Re: Why You Shouldn't Date Her For "Love" Alone. by Nobody: 9:55pm On Feb 15, 2015
emusmith:
You no longer trust me right? smiley
I do. kiss

Front page againhuh Hian.
Re: Why You Shouldn't Date Her For "Love" Alone. by spyjulius(m): 10:02pm On Feb 15, 2015
emusmith:
Hope you're enjoying your Valentine? winksmiley

The feeling of "affection" towards the opposite sex...
That awe that causes you to stutter while talking to her...
That butterfly feeling, you know... They all depict the "love" I'm talking about - It's called Romantic Love.

Real Love has two stages: ROMANTIC and RESPONSIBILITY stages.

When both are combined, you call it Real Love- Friendship Love.


Even as Valentine's Day is wrapping up and some guys are considering going into a serious relationship with her OR perhaps that was your school of thought.

Before you do, read this: Why You Shouldn't Date Her For Love Alone



1. Being Possessive Is Most Likely To Surface.


When you find yourself being possessive. You see her with any guy, your head starts spinning with jealousy! You feel so bad! You want her to be close to you only. How unreal!
If she's your friend, you really won't be afraid of losing her. Unless what you have is just Romantic Love.
This kind of Love wants to GET, POSSESS.

Nobody likes being around a possessive person.



2. You Look Weak and Inactive


This kind of love makes you look weak when she's around. You act weak, talk weak and live weak. That's why she eventually leaves you for another guy.



3. Most Ladies Give The Attitude When A Guy Expresses Love


I'm sure many other guys can attest to this. I don't know why. Mistakenly tell a Lady you love her, she begins to almost immediately act funny. Hmm!
For the most part, you end up losing her. Hmm!



4. "Love Is Blind" Isn't A Lie.


This love blindfolds you to the true realities of whom she really is.
You see her "weak spots" but this kind of love cause you to overlook. You may overlook now but don't complain later wink


5. You Make Unintelligent Decisions.


Because you think you love her, you bypass protocol just to please her- That's not good for both of you anyways.

For example, you waste your savings on her petty wants during dating and when it's time for the real thing, you look like a child.



6. You Risk Being Heart Broken.


Some years back, I had a friend whom I loved dearly. I told her my feelings, she agreed but couldn't wait- I wasn't ready then. I didn't feel heart broken because I truly loved her.

I felt bad but not heart broken. I want the best for her. Its not a Do OR Die Affair.

One reason I believe no guy should cross a certain limit over any girl!

You shouldn't date her for love alone. What should be your standard?

Go for Reality. Don't present to her a mirage. Hmm! You borrow a car just to ask her out. That's unrealistic!
Be proud of your job, tribe and family. Tell her if she wants to hear.
www.latestnaira..com
If she loves you still, then that's no more just Romantic Love. It's crossing over to Responsibility Love. smiley
She is making a tough decision to accept you as you are above all her other suitors. smiley


You can add more

Have a good evening smiley
Re: Why You Shouldn't Date Her For "Love" Alone. by Frankdamaxx(m): 10:02pm On Feb 15, 2015
emusmith:
Hope you're enjoying your Valentine? winksmiley

The feeling of "affection" towards the opposite sex...
That awe that causes you to stutter while talking to her...
That butterfly feeling, you know... They all depict the "love" I'm talking about - It's called Romantic Love.

Real Love has two stages: ROMANTIC and RESPONSIBILITY stages.

When both are combined, you call it Real Love- Friendship Love.


Even as Valentine's Day is wrapping up and some guys are considering going into a serious relationship with her OR perhaps that was your school of thought.

Before you do, read this: Why You Shouldn't Date Her For Love Alone



1. Being Possessive Is Most Likely To Surface.


When you find yourself being possessive. You see her with any guy, your head starts spinning with jealousy! You feel so bad! You want her to be close to you only. How unreal!
If she's your friend, you really won't be afraid of losing her. Unless what you have is just Romantic Love.
This kind of Love wants to GET, POSSESS.

Nobody likes being around a possessive person.



2. You Look Weak and Inactive


This kind of love makes you look weak when she's around. You act weak, talk weak and live weak. That's why she eventually leaves you for another guy.



3. Most Ladies Give The Attitude When A Guy Expresses Love


I'm sure many other guys can attest to this. I don't know why. Mistakenly tell a Lady you love her, she begins to almost immediately act funny. Hmm!
For the most part, you end up losing her. Hmm!



4. "Love Is Blind" Isn't A Lie.


This love blindfolds you to the true realities of whom she really is.
You see her "weak spots" but this kind of love cause you to overlook. You may overlook now but don't complain later wink


5. You Make Unintelligent Decisions.


Because you think you love her, you bypass protocol just to please her- That's not good for both of you anyways.

For example, you waste your savings on her petty wants during dating and when it's time for the real thing, you look like a child.



6. You Risk Being Heart Broken.


Some years back, I had a friend whom I loved dearly. I told her my feelings, she agreed but couldn't wait- I wasn't ready then. I didn't feel heart broken because I truly loved her.

I felt bad but not heart broken. I want the best for her. Its not a Do OR Die Affair.

One reason I believe no guy should cross a certain limit over any girl!

You shouldn't date her for love alone. What should be your standard?

Go for Reality. Don't present to her a mirage. Hmm! You borrow a car just to ask her out. That's unrealistic!
Be proud of your job, tribe and family. Tell her if she wants to hear.

If she loves you still, then that's no more just Romantic Love. It's crossing over to Responsibility Love. smiley
She is making a tough decision to accept you as you are above all her other suitors. smiley


You can add more

Have a good evening smiley
All these ones nah story. Just bang her well like twice and play your part. She will respond.
Re: Why You Shouldn't Date Her For "Love" Alone. by Nobody: 10:04pm On Feb 15, 2015
Frankdamaxx:
All these ones nah story. Just bang her well like twice and play your part. She will respond.
Hmm...grin...Funny sha cheesy
Re: Why You Shouldn't Date Her For "Love" Alone. by kennyok(m): 10:06pm On Feb 15, 2015
there is no definition of love that is applicable to every single individual but when people term it been in love or im in love the saving power to overcome that weakness and others is BEEN YOURSELF in that relationship...
Re: Why You Shouldn't Date Her For "Love" Alone. by Nobody: 10:08pm On Feb 15, 2015
kennyok:
there is no definition of love that is applicable to every single individual but when people term it been in love or im in love the saving power to overcome that weakness and others is BEEN YOURSELF in that relationship...
I like that part, BEEN YOURSELF... Nice point cheesy
Re: Why You Shouldn't Date Her For "Love" Alone. by Truckpusher(m): 10:16pm On Feb 15, 2015
emusmith:
Hope you're enjoying your Valentine? winksmiley

The feeling of "affection" towards the opposite sex...
That awe that causes you to stutter while talking to her...
That butterfly feeling, you know... They all depict the "love" I'm talking about - It's called Romantic Love.

Real Love has two stages: ROMANTIC and RESPONSIBILITY stages.

When both are combined, you call it Real Love- Friendship Love.


Even as Valentine's Day is wrapping up and some guys are considering going into a serious relationship with her OR perhaps that was your school of thought.

Before you do, read this: Why You Shouldn't Date Her For Love Alone



1. Being Possessive Is Most Likely To Surface.


When you find yourself being possessive. You see her with any guy, your head starts spinning with jealousy! You feel so bad! You want her to be close to you only. How unreal!
If she's your friend, you really won't be afraid of losing her. Unless what you have is just Romantic Love.
This kind of Love wants to GET, POSSESS.

Nobody likes being around a possessive person.



2. You Look Weak and Inactive


This kind of love makes you look weak when she's around. You act weak, talk weak and live weak. That's why she eventually leaves you for another guy.



3. Most Ladies Give The Attitude When A Guy Expresses Love


I'm sure many other guys can attest to this. I don't know why. Mistakenly tell a Lady you love her, she begins to almost immediately act funny. Hmm!
For the most part, you end up losing her. Hmm!



4. "Love Is Blind" Isn't A Lie.


This love blindfolds you to the true realities of whom she really is.
You see her "weak spots" but this kind of love cause you to overlook. You may overlook now but don't complain later wink


5. You Make Unintelligent Decisions.


Because you think you love her, you bypass protocol just to please her- That's not good for both of you anyways.

For example, you waste your savings on her petty wants during dating and when it's time for the real thing, you look like a child.



6. You Risk Being Heart Broken.


Some years back, I had a friend whom I loved dearly. I told her my feelings, she agreed but couldn't wait- I wasn't ready then. I didn't feel heart broken because I truly loved her.

I felt bad but not heart broken. I want the best for her. Its not a Do OR Die Affair.

One reason I believe no guy should cross a certain limit over any girl!

You shouldn't date her for love alone. What should be your standard?

Go for Reality. Don't present to her a mirage. Hmm! You borrow a car just to ask her out. That's unrealistic!
Be proud of your job, tribe and family. Tell her if she wants to hear.

If she loves you still, then that's no more just Romantic Love. It's crossing over to Responsibility Love. smiley
She is making a tough decision to accept you as you are above all her other suitors. smiley


You can add more

Have a good evening smiley
This is why I tell people that love alone can't sustain a relationship because with true love comes responsibility and somebody need to step up and step in else you'll end up losing the love of your life to some other guys with the will and zeal to do both.

Op well done for the nice job you've been doing educating these youths that are easily carried away by juvenile delinquency and youthful exuberance thereby making series of relationship blunders which might make them end up miserable for their entire lifetime.
once again good one.
Re: Why You Shouldn't Date Her For "Love" Alone. by Nobody: 10:26pm On Feb 15, 2015
Truckpusher:
This is why I tell people that love alone can't sustain a relationship because with true love comes responsibility and somebody need to step up and step in else you'll end up losing the love of your life to some other guys with the will and zeal to do both.

Op well done for the nice job you've been doing educating these youths that are easily carried away by juvenile delinquency and youthful exuberance thereby making series of relationship blunders which might make them end up miserable for their entire lifetime.
once again good one.
Thanks bro. Ironically, some ladies are comfortable with that lie, so are guys too smiley
Re: Why You Shouldn't Date Her For "Love" Alone. by Tashaamania(f): 10:28pm On Feb 15, 2015
emusmith:
Thanks bro. Ironically, some ladies are comfortable with that lie, so are guys too smiley
Hey, what do you do for a living?
Re: Why You Shouldn't Date Her For "Love" Alone. by ssuccess(m): 10:30pm On Feb 15, 2015
emusmith:
At first, she will sound cold towards you...

Right now, she's in charge. To be in charge will take some time. Be real to her, don't advertise yourself to her. Be real bro. Don't overspend to please...

At the long run, she'll stay because of the real you.

Nice bro. wink
Thanks bro!...I hope i'll get back to you, 'cause I sure will if (or when) it does work out.
Once again, thanks!
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