striktlymi:
If a spouse is faithful in many things but one. Fulfills all other responsibilities to the partner and the children but for some reason the person can't stop extramarital affairs.

Would that singular act make him or her a terrible person to live with as a spouse and a parent?

MizMyColi:


Tsk tsk
I somehow missed that part.

I'm modifying rightaway.

Dyt:
Licking lips

striktlymi:
If a spouse is faithful in many things but one. Fulfills all other responsibilities to the partner and the children but for some reason the person can't stop extramarital affairs.

Would that singular act make him or her a terrible person to live with as a spouse and a parent?

mutter:
If a home builder builds a house without a front door and put the most priceless treasures, furniture and decorations.
He has spent millions on the most expensive materials from all over the world

Would that singular act of not building in "just "the front door make him a terrible and also a very stupid Homebuilder?

hermesprogidy:
Looking at it from social roles and societal expectations, it depends on the context and it depends on where you are and who you are. If you are born in Africa, Asia, parts of Europe and South America and you are a man, then you are likely not a bad spouse. But if you are a woman, hmm.. it's gobe o.

freecocoa:
I for say o.

MizMyColi:

I wouldn't automatically label a person bad for some mistake(s).
We all have our baggage.
However, it is only normal to see people who hurt us as bad.

People cheat for different reasons.
For some, it is imbued in them.
For others, one thing might have led to another.

One thing I can't stand is betrayal.

I may not dismiss him as outrightly bad, Yes I will forgive and do my best to forget ultimately, but the marriage/relationship will never remain the same again.

why should it be a he, women too cheat

It either gets worse or better.

**Modified**
BUT, if he's a perpetual cheater, Nooooooooooooooooooo
I'll have to find my way, biko.

I won't outrightly conclude he's a bad person.
It's just a weakness I can't live with!

Hollyb:
To me, it is an unforgivable offence

mxxpunkxx1:


I sent u a private message.
Pls chk

ammyluv2002:
Please, don't quote me next time with such harsh word

striktlymi:
If a spouse is faithful in many things but one. Fulfills all other responsibilities to the partner and the children but for some reason the person can't stop extramarital affairs.

Would that singular act make him or her a terrible person to live with as a spouse and a parent?

Edusouls:
i quoted you harshly cos, you women of nowadays are very ureasonable, and that's the cause of extreme headaches men are going through nowadays, sometimes we begin to wonder if women are realy helpers or men's doom..

MizMyColi:


That emoji made me smile broadly.
I won't go into details.
Just thought to let you know.

Thank You.

ammyluv2002:
Not really sha. .. Only thiGod can give a faithful partner

OBlaize:
[b][/b] first of all madam this is a very shit arsed comment! What has god got to do with it, its a very simple question requiring a very simple answer, ur saying infidelity is not really bad provided he's providing for u undermines ur requesting for a faithful patner, afterall u don't really c it as bad, and as you mr nairaland poster ar you asking the question to know or are you asking just so u'd get entertained, this is by far the dumbest question ever!! What extraordinary thing have you done if you provide for your family? If you can't provide for them why have them in the first place, if you can only provide and not stay faithful to your family then don't bother getting married and having a family,you should just stick to runs girls, they need people like you! Just saying, no beef intended

Dyt:


Replied but my email Addy is exactly down on my signature, that was so easy to crack or was it so hard to see?

ladyabadi:
Men will always be men. This is Africa, its almost normal for a married man to cheat. I do not enjoy bn cheated on, and do not pray for a cheating man but if it happens then shit happens so? Ladies be realistic, if a man provides almost all my needs and that of the kids and family at large why should I worry? One rule, please remember to use protection and when you are caught my demands increases.

striktlymi:
If a spouse is faithful in many things but one. Fulfills all other responsibilities to the partner and the children but for some reason the person can't stop extramarital affairs.

Would that singular act make him or her a terrible person to live with as a spouse and a parent?