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| She Broke My Heart, And Now She Is Back by OliverQuinny: 2:07pm On Feb 17, 2015 |
Dear Nairalanders, I am in a relationship with someone that hurt me when I needed her most. We met a while ago while I was still hustling on the streets of PortHarcourt. I was working in a small firm then, but I was doing all I could to make her happy. The job wasn't well paying, so I had to quit to pursue my Masters Degree and professional qualifications. The money stopped rolling in and we both started having issues. She became very difficult and eventually she left me sha, for no concrete reason. But I strongly believe its cos I quit the job. I still loved her, and wished she wud change her mind. Some years later, I got a job in one of the multinationals and was sent abroad on an official assignment. I met her again at the airport in London and we became friends. We started chatting and she visited me on a saturday. One thing led to another, and we were intimate. The feelings started rekindling, but I just couldn't forget the way she treated me when I needed her most and I am afraid that shez back cos of my wealth. Recently, she told me shez one month pregnant and am contemplating marrying her, but the way she hurt me when we were in Nigeria keeps taunting me. I keep having these flashbacks. Am actually scared that she will repeat the same behaviour in d nearest future even though it seems she has changed. Please ur advice is needed here. Mature minds only. 10 Likes 4 Shares |
| Re: She Broke My Heart, And Now She Is Back by Fragilefunds(m): 2:08pm On Feb 17, 2015 |
Ftc dancing shoki...  big shout out to seriousbabe and all other b!t(hes on nairaland @op please marry her maybe she has comeback to her right senses4 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: She Broke My Heart, And Now She Is Back by BeeBeeOoh(m): 2:08pm On Feb 17, 2015 |
U are in the best place 2 advice urself.. 64 Likes 2 Shares |
| Re: She Broke My Heart, And Now She Is Back by justi4jesu(f): 2:10pm On Feb 17, 2015 |
Sounds Nollywoodish to moi  85 Likes 2 Shares |
| Re: She Broke My Heart, And Now She Is Back by DeBlunt: 2:12pm On Feb 17, 2015 |
bless you  |
| Re: She Broke My Heart, And Now She Is Back by OliverQuinny: 2:12pm On Feb 17, 2015 |
It is real. Am actually scared she might change in the nearest future. justi4jesu: 3 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: She Broke My Heart, And Now She Is Back by Tallesty1(m): 2:12pm On Feb 17, 2015 |
What I think? Here is what I think... Have you ever update an app and realize after running it that the "fixed issues" were all a lie and it will never be the same? That's what going back to an ex is like. She will still dump you when money stops coming. As for the pregnancy, give her all the support but don't marry her. Reaping where one didn't sow is a sin, please don't allow her to commit that sin. How are you even sure that the preg is yours or that she's pregnant at all? Girls been using that lie to dupe guys since THE TIME OF SAMSON AND DELILAH. 142 Likes 5 Shares |
| Re: She Broke My Heart, And Now She Is Back by Nobody: 2:12pm On Feb 17, 2015 |
pls, na matches i come borrow oooo.... anybody with one?? 24 Likes |
| Re: She Broke My Heart, And Now She Is Back by valentee(m): 2:14pm On Feb 17, 2015 |
And you are here to seek for advices after she's already pregnant for u,anyway sha take this 'no money no love'dont blame her 7 Likes |
| Re: She Broke My Heart, And Now She Is Back by Welepamilayo: 2:15pm On Feb 17, 2015 |
Why did you not remember how much she hurt you when you were carrying out the deal? Pikin don enter matter now. I strongly believe you need to actually talk out the issues that led to your intial break up. If she really left you because money no dey flow, that is a huge problem IMO. If both of you cannot fully resolve that, you will go into a marriage where you are already skeptical, hesitant and suspicious of her intentions. I hope it all goes well. 21 Likes 3 Shares |
| Re: She Broke My Heart, And Now She Is Back by nickusoro(m): 2:21pm On Feb 17, 2015 |
Dude, if you are responsible for the pregnancy, any need for advice at this point would be too late. Marry her and take responsibility. Hopefully, you don't get broke again enough for her to ditch you. All the best. Now_Playing... #Hozier - Take me to church  #QuoteMeIfYouWanna 16 Likes |
| Re: She Broke My Heart, And Now She Is Back by justi4jesu(f): 2:24pm On Feb 17, 2015 |
OliverQuinny: Okay then if you insist! Will you follow my advice even if i have one for you? |
| Re: She Broke My Heart, And Now She Is Back by OliverQuinny: 2:28pm On Feb 17, 2015 |
If ur advice is mature enuff, it'll help me right now, so shoot justi4jesu: |
| Re: She Broke My Heart, And Now She Is Back by justi4jesu(f): 2:31pm On Feb 17, 2015 |
OliverQuinny: Thats good enough. My Advice "MARRY HER BECAUSE SHE CARRIES YOUR BABY ALREADY", there is no lady that doesn't like money but in her case she over-reacted. The Devil you know is better than the one you don't. 13 Likes |
| Re: She Broke My Heart, And Now She Is Back by dareyking(m): 2:34pm On Feb 17, 2015 |
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| Re: She Broke My Heart, And Now She Is Back by Nobody: 2:35pm On Feb 17, 2015 |
See complications. Well you have to marry her. I don't support abortion |
| Re: She Broke My Heart, And Now She Is Back by OliverQuinny: 2:36pm On Feb 17, 2015 |
We broke up cos we were also having arguements, and the moment I quit the job, it was kinda the "right time for her to strike". She explained why she acted that way though, said she wasnt mature enuff and dat she was just a baby then. I have since forgiven her, but my mind woudnt stop flashing back and am worried especially now that am considering marriage. Welepamilayo: |
| Re: She Broke My Heart, And Now She Is Back by Nobody: 2:36pm On Feb 17, 2015 |
forgive and forget 3 Likes |
| Re: She Broke My Heart, And Now She Is Back by OliverQuinny: 2:38pm On Feb 17, 2015 |
Is it compulsory to marry a lady cos shez preg? My heart is not in sync with my decision. diddydiva: 9 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: She Broke My Heart, And Now She Is Back by OliverQuinny: 2:39pm On Feb 17, 2015 |
Thanks... Thats encouraging. POETIST: |
| Re: She Broke My Heart, And Now She Is Back by Welepamilayo: 2:43pm On Feb 17, 2015 |
OliverQuinny: I am told no one is ever 100% sure when they get married but one should not be this uncertain. I think you both need to talk about your hesitations. I also get the sense that if she was not preggo, you would just want to continue to chop the thing without considering marriage. 9 Likes |
| Re: She Broke My Heart, And Now She Is Back by Welepamilayo: 2:45pm On Feb 17, 2015 |
OliverQuinny: Put her in your sister's shoe. You have to take responsibility somehow. If that means marriage to both of you, then that. Just don't let the child suffer because you both decided to not take pregnancy precautions. |
| Re: She Broke My Heart, And Now She Is Back by Nobody: 2:51pm On Feb 17, 2015 |
You made a mistake when you welcomed her back I don't mean to sound rude, just enjoy the show you have stage. 4 Likes |
| Re: She Broke My Heart, And Now She Is Back by chymystique(f): 2:51pm On Feb 17, 2015 |
Mr OliverQuinny, I just ve a question to ask.. "Are you Sure YOU are the unborn Baby's father?? 24 Likes |
| Re: She Broke My Heart, And Now She Is Back by justi4jesu(f): 2:51pm On Feb 17, 2015 |
OliverQuinny: So why you come dey disturb us ni, I'm sure you have taken your decision already with this statement of yours 2 Likes |
| Re: She Broke My Heart, And Now She Is Back by OliverQuinny: 2:52pm On Feb 17, 2015 |
Welepamilayo: Thank u so much. You may not believe me, but I feel relieved a little with ur post. Ur right, cos if she didnt get preg, I wudnt hav thot of marryg her. Thanks again |
| Re: She Broke My Heart, And Now She Is Back by OliverQuinny: 2:53pm On Feb 17, 2015 |
chymystique: I think I am. |
| Re: She Broke My Heart, And Now She Is Back by OliverQuinny: 2:54pm On Feb 17, 2015 |
Lacomus:LoL |
| Re: She Broke My Heart, And Now She Is Back by ibrews: 2:57pm On Feb 17, 2015 |
Op..u be mumuu...*no offence intended* 4 Likes |
| Re: She Broke My Heart, And Now She Is Back by chymystique(f): 2:59pm On Feb 17, 2015 |
OliverQuinny: well well, imo, I dont believe cause a woman got pregnant for u that u must marry her.. I think you should not propose to her YET.. wait a while and use the period to make up your mind if she's what you want in a woman.. this is your future and no one is gonna help u live it and the decisions u make today determines a lot in future. I dont wanna start casting stones @ u cause the deed has been done already  PS Checked your profile now and saw You just opened this account 50mins ago.. u knw wan use your old moniker? 10 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: She Broke My Heart, And Now She Is Back by Nobody: 3:03pm On Feb 17, 2015 |
OliverQuinny:you are wicked!!! Face the truth. You got back with her to revenge. you planned it all. Anyways I don't blame u but the gullible lady who can't make her no a no. it's truly your decision so make it. 4 Likes |
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