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Re: Babyosisi's Marital Advice To New And Intended Wives by Nobody: 5:39pm On Feb 17, 2015
keppyy:
A question for the married women..


Do you still admire men apart from your husbands?

What will you advice a girl that's not a virgin but does not want to "test drive" on how to keep a Relationship?

Sometimes, I feel like lying that I'm a virgin niiiii... angry


Yes
I have a crush on Barack Obama from the first day I set my eyes on him while he was still an Illinois state senator,I was smitten
Before his inauguration,I even dreamt where he and I were man and wife living in the White House and Michelle was our maid serving us drinks while we were on the White House lawn one sunny day
I am not making that up

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Re: Babyosisi's Marital Advice To New And Intended Wives by Nobody: 5:43pm On Feb 17, 2015
Herzumpther:
Hmmm. The only man that I've met and he believes so much in no sex till he takes me away? The only man that has refused me cooking for him saying if he starts doing husband things what will he be looking forward to when he marries me? 2 yrs now and no touching. smiley My dear if I start to say it all you will understand why I said at first I tot he was TOO GOOD TO BE TRUE..... I can't spill all publicly jare, I'm sure you understand what I mean even without spilling it all. Ma'am babyosisi, a male 'V' o.... shocked


He is a keeper!

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Re: Babyosisi's Marital Advice To New And Intended Wives by Nobody: 5:44pm On Feb 17, 2015
babyosisi:



Hmm
Even me don begin fall for olalekan too
He taught me I can date without sex. When he asked if I was still a virgin fear gripped me o. My answer was "No I'm not, did your pastor say you shouldn't marry a non virgin" he smiled and said "No". Me sef con vex ask am say you too are you a virgin and he said "yes" very shyly. grin

Hmmm I asked how he managed managed and he said his former church was against such (MFM) and he told me that since he has kept it till he left for redeem and at age 26 then he decided to kukuma wait till he gets married.

I was so ashamed of myself that day. sad

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Re: Babyosisi's Marital Advice To New And Intended Wives by Nobody: 5:46pm On Feb 17, 2015
keppyy:



He is a keeper!
Yes a keeper. I tot he was lying at first but I studied him like kilode. He is waiting for his big night according to him.
Re: Babyosisi's Marital Advice To New And Intended Wives by Nobody: 5:47pm On Feb 17, 2015
babyosisi:



Yes
I have a crush on Barack Obama
Before his inauguration,I even dreamt where he and I were man and wife living in the White House and Michelle was our maid serving us drinks while we were on the White House lawn one sunny day
I am not making that up

grin

grin

I cried the day I learnt YUL EDOCHIE is married.

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Re: Babyosisi's Marital Advice To New And Intended Wives by Nobody: 5:49pm On Feb 17, 2015
keppyy:

grin

grin

I cried the day I learnt YUL EDOCHIE is married.

Lol
You can manage Jim Iyke nau
He looks like somebody that will punch his wife sha
I hope you can fight back grin

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Re: Babyosisi's Marital Advice To New And Intended Wives by Nobody: 5:51pm On Feb 17, 2015
Herzumpther:
Thank you so much. My dad believes that those from Lagos are like what you mentioned above. I love and respect my dad so much that I don't see myself going against him...as a matter of fact, I've NEVER disobeyed him before and I don't plan to. Even tho I'm his favorite , he makes it clear to me daily that I should remove my mind from the Yoruba's (especially lagosians). I've gone totally silent on the ish and that was why I ran away on valentines day because I know what's on ground and for now can't lead olalekan on. Since Saturday I've refused to pick his call because I don't know what to say. Telling him to visit my dad.....I don't know if it will be a wise thing to do or if dad will pick offence stating that I know his stand already and I still allowed him to come. I don't know if I should just give everything space and maybe bring it up later. As strong hearted as I might make my dad look here he is very fragile and emotional. My dad is standing strong on this and that is really confusing me because any ish he stands strong takes the grace of God or his father to make him change his mind......I tire o.

Herzumpther tell Olalekan the issue at hand and tell him to pay your dad a surprise visit and table out his intentions towards you.
Your dad might even raise his voice at him but his persistence would show how serious he is about you and what he wants.
What ur dad is doing is initial gra gra to be sure the young man is man enough to stand his ground on what he believes in. How do i know
this, my sister once dated a yoruba guy and the first time he came to meet him was when my Dad and Mum came to lag, then my sis was
in lag. My dad shouted at him that he had the guts to come and meet him and his wife without invitation. Omo dude left and never came back
It was later i overheard my dad telling my Uncle that the guy is not serious that if he had come back again he would talk with him.
He said it shows the guy is still immature cos if he was a real man who knew what he wanted, he would persist.
So pls tell ur man to meet ur dad and he should persist even thou the reception wont be so cool all na gra gra to show he love u and wants
the best for u.
Sorry for my epistle and hope it helps.

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Re: Babyosisi's Marital Advice To New And Intended Wives by Nobody: 5:56pm On Feb 17, 2015
SavedbyYaweh:


Herzumpther tell Olalekan the issue at hand and tell him to pay your dad a surprise visit and table out his intentions towards you.
Your dad might even raise his voice at him but his persistence would show how serious he is about you and what he wants.
What ur dad is doing is initial gra gra to be sure the young man is man enough to stand his ground on what he believes in. How do i know
this, my sister once dated a yoruba guy and the first time he came to meet him was when my Dad and Mum came to lag, then my sis was
in lag. My dad shouted at him that he had the guts to come and meet him and his wife without invitation. Omo dude left and never came back
It was later i overheard my dad telling my Uncle that the guy is not serious that if he had come back again he would talk with him.
He said it shows the guy is still immature cos if he was a real man who knew what he wanted, he would persist.
So pls tell ur man to meet ur dad and he should persist even thou the reception wont be so cool all na gra gra to show he love u and wants
the best for u.
Sorry for my epistle and hope it helps.
Are you serious? shocked wow.
This sure helps, thank you.

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Re: Babyosisi's Marital Advice To New And Intended Wives by Nobody: 5:57pm On Feb 17, 2015
babyosisi:


Lol
You can manage Jim Iyke nau
He looks like somebody that will punch his wife sha
I hope you can fight back grin


Yes ooooO, I'm a pure Kalabari chick..



I fight like a tiger. grin

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Re: Babyosisi's Marital Advice To New And Intended Wives by Nobody: 6:00pm On Feb 17, 2015
keppyy:



Yes ooooO, I'm a pure Kalabari chick..



I fight like a tiger. grin
Lol keppyy cheesy
Re: Babyosisi's Marital Advice To New And Intended Wives by Nobody: 6:02pm On Feb 17, 2015
Herzumpther:
Are you serious? shocked wow.
This sure helps, thank you.
grin very serious oh, when i remember it i just know that our parents wants to be sure we are convinced about the decisions
we want to take. All you have to do is prove it.

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Re: Babyosisi's Marital Advice To New And Intended Wives by thorpido(m): 6:05pm On Feb 17, 2015
keppyy:


In what sense then? undecided
Actually,hit the streets sounded like rocking town.
Re: Babyosisi's Marital Advice To New And Intended Wives by Nobody: 6:05pm On Feb 17, 2015
Herzumpther:
Lol keppyy cheesy


Yes nauuuuu... grin

Don't try me oooOo..
Re: Babyosisi's Marital Advice To New And Intended Wives by Nobody: 6:07pm On Feb 17, 2015
thorpido:
Actually,hit the streets sounded like rocking town.


Nahhhhhhhh...


Just Stand, stare and Admire... grin
Re: Babyosisi's Marital Advice To New And Intended Wives by Nobody: 6:11pm On Feb 17, 2015
keppyy:



Yes nauuuuu... grin

Don't try me oooOo..
Try you ke grin where the liver dey? cheesy
Re: Babyosisi's Marital Advice To New And Intended Wives by Nobody: 6:12pm On Feb 17, 2015
SavedbyYaweh:

grin very serious oh, when i remember it i just know that our parents wants to be sure we are convinced about the decisions
we want to take. All you have to do is prove it.
Thanks again, God bless.

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Re: Babyosisi's Marital Advice To New And Intended Wives by Nobody: 6:16pm On Feb 17, 2015
SavedbyYaweh:


Herzumpther tell Olalekan the issue at hand and tell him to pay your dad a surprise visit and table out his intentions towards you.
Your dad might even raise his voice at him but his persistence would show how serious he is about you and what he wants.
What ur dad is doing is initial gra gra to be sure the young man is man enough to stand his ground on what he believes in. How do i know
this, my sister once dated a yoruba guy and the first time he came to meet him was when my Dad and Mum came to lag, then my sis was
in lag. My dad shouted at him that he had the guts to come and meet him and his wife without invitation. Omo dude left and never came back
It was later i overheard my dad telling my Uncle that the guy is not serious that if he had come back again he would talk with him.
He said it shows the guy is still immature cos if he was a real man who knew what he wanted, he would persist.
So pls tell ur man to meet ur dad and he should persist even thou the reception wont be so cool all na gra gra to show he love u and wants
the best for u.
Sorry for my epistle and hope it helps.

This is good.
The father doesn't hate the young man,he doesn't know him,he just loves his daughter and wants the best for her,
Same thing about mother in law issues
The fundamental driving force is not the dislike for a daughter in law but the love for a son
I wish everyone could appreciate that,it will ease a lot of squabbles with MIL.i am shocked nobody has presented MIL issues yet
These are big problems in many marriages,but it looks like nairaland wives are pros in that area
That is one topic I can comfortably give tips based on my own mistakes and lessons learned

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Re: Babyosisi's Marital Advice To New And Intended Wives by Nobody: 6:19pm On Feb 17, 2015
babyosisi:


This is good.
The father doesn't hate the young man,he doesn't know him,he just loves his daughter and wants the best for her,
Same thing about mother in law issues
The fundamental driving force is not the dislike for a daughter in law but the love for a son
I wish everyone could appreciate that,it will ease a lot of squabbles with MIL.i am shocked nobody has presented MIL issues yet
These are big problems in many marriages,bit it looks like nairaland wives are pros in that area
I really wish my sister can see this but she is not a nairalander. She married an urhobo man but her MIL....hmmm.

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Re: Babyosisi's Marital Advice To New And Intended Wives by Odillz: 6:20pm On Feb 17, 2015
*arranges mat and kneels down,hands on chest,one eye shut..starts singing*.
"In 5-6years time,you will all come visiting,
dancing to my wedding,
and omugó sad"

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Re: Babyosisi's Marital Advice To New And Intended Wives by thorpido(m): 6:22pm On Feb 17, 2015
keppyy:
A question for the married women..


Do you still admire men apart from your husbands?

What will you advice a girl that's not a virgin but does not want to "test drive" on how to keep a Relationship?

Sometimes, I feel like lying that I'm a virgin niiiii... angry
You're not a virgin and you will tell the truth to every guy that you intend dating.
There is nothing wrong with choosing to abstain from pre-marital sex even if you are no longer one.However,you will have challenges about that with a lot of guys.However,you don't want a lot of guys but that special guy.
There are still guys(brothers)who will date without premarital sex.Herzumpter just said so about her fiance.

Married people still admire other people apart from their spouses.Having affairs with such people is what is a taboo.
Re: Babyosisi's Marital Advice To New And Intended Wives by thorpido(m): 6:24pm On Feb 17, 2015
keppyy:



Nahhhhhhhh...


Just Stand, stare and Admire... grin
That's it.It will be good for your blood pressure.
Re: Babyosisi's Marital Advice To New And Intended Wives by hanubarbie(f): 6:28pm On Feb 17, 2015
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babyosisi:


Lol
You can manage Jim Iyke nau
He looks like somebody that will punch his wife sha
I hope you can fight back grin
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babyosisi:


Lol
You can manage Jim Iyke nau
He looks like somebody that will punch his wife sha
I hope you can fight back grin
babyosisi:


Lol
You can manage Jim Iyke nau
He looks like somebody that will punch his wife sha
I hope you can fight back grin
Re: Babyosisi's Marital Advice To New And Intended Wives by Nobody: 6:34pm On Feb 17, 2015
thorpido:
That's it.It will be good for your blood pressure.


Hehehehehehehehehe.... grin
Re: Babyosisi's Marital Advice To New And Intended Wives by Nobody: 6:39pm On Feb 17, 2015
thorpido:
You're not a virgin and you will tell the truth to every guy that you intend dating.
There is nothing wrong with choosing to abstain from pre-marital sex even if you are no longer one.However,you will have challenges about that with a lot of guys.However,you don't want a lot of guys but that special guy.
There are still guys(brothers)who will date without premarital sex.Herzumpter just said so about her fiance.

Married people still admire other people apart from their spouses.Having affairs with such people is what is a taboo.


Okay Sir...


Are you a counsellor/Pastor?
Re: Babyosisi's Marital Advice To New And Intended Wives by thorpido(m): 7:06pm On Feb 17, 2015
keppyy:



Okay Sir...


Are you a counsellor/Pastor?
something like that.
Re: Babyosisi's Marital Advice To New And Intended Wives by bukatyne(f): 7:09pm On Feb 17, 2015
laykhorn:
Blessed is the day Nairaland was born!
Blessed is the day I find this website!
Blessed is the day I stumbled upon this thread!
God bless Seun!
God Bless Babyosisi!
God Bless Bukatyne!
God Bless Moca!
God Bless EfemenaXY!
God Bless myself too!
And most of all, God Bless the Internet!
Thank God for Technology!

God bless you too

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Re: Babyosisi's Marital Advice To New And Intended Wives by bukatyne(f): 7:14pm On Feb 17, 2015
MercyMercy:

Ok. I really appreciate ur response,thanks.


You are welcome
Re: Babyosisi's Marital Advice To New And Intended Wives by bukatyne(f): 7:19pm On Feb 17, 2015
keppyy:
A question for the married women..


Do you still admire men apart from your husbands?

What will you advice a girl that's not a virgin but does not want to "test drive" on how to keep a Relationship?

Sometimes, I feel like lying that I'm a virgin niiiii... angry

Please never lie bout your virginity... If the guy finds it, it seriously belittles and degrades you. He is thinking What other lie did you tell

@Admiring: I appreciate God 's work in handsome men... Actively attracted to men in my circle; mbanu
Re: Babyosisi's Marital Advice To New And Intended Wives by Nobody: 7:39pm On Feb 17, 2015
bukatyne:


Please never lie bout your virginity... If the guy finds it, it seriously belittles and degrades you. He is thinking What other lie did you tell

@Admiring: I appreciate God 's work in handsome men... Actively attracted to men in my circle; mbanu


Are you Igbo?
Re: Babyosisi's Marital Advice To New And Intended Wives by Nobody: 7:41pm On Feb 17, 2015
thorpido:
something like that.

Okayyy..


Have a great day!
Re: Babyosisi's Marital Advice To New And Intended Wives by Nobody: 7:42pm On Feb 17, 2015
Herzumpther:
Thanks again, God bless.
No worries wink
Re: Babyosisi's Marital Advice To New And Intended Wives by urchbarbie(f): 8:13pm On Feb 17, 2015
i too! i wish to meet a man like dis.........am i wishing for too much? i want to do d "keep d wedding bed undefiled, abi na so them dey talk am.
babyosisi:



Hmm
Even me don begin fall for olalekan too

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