I have been seriously disturbed since i came back from work

my fiance had a meeting point around the town where we can later get another vehcle to take us to our different destination but i was so surprised that he was having a full erection that i could see thru his trousers.

I wansnt happy since because i dont know wat could have caused that.

Both of us are virgins planning for wedding soon

please does annyone knows what could be the cause?

I dont know how to ask him and i may be harsh on him

Thank u..

keppyy:



Are you Igbo?

Why?

laykhorn:


I think I now see the clear picture and I am convinced its the cause. I never for once took it serious before now.
I also bottled everything and never mentioned it to my friends. I'm now ready to tackle it heads on.

I called my mum yesterday, I still find it difficult to tell her; I dont think I would ever tell her. I just asked about the lady and she found it strange. I dont think I would have the effrontery to confront her not even through a phone conversation but I'll just have to put it down a diary as Aunty Babyosisi advised.
There is this yoruba saying that "When God has shown you the source of your problem, it is no longer a problem". I'll just have to deal with it and seek Professional help.
I'm saying a Big Thank You sister!

And you are most welcome, my brother.

I sincerely hope it only gets better for you, from now on. Don't rush the healing process though. A few baby steps at a time...

It is well.

laykhorn:
Blessed is the day Nairaland was born!
Blessed is the day I find this website!
Blessed is the day I stumbled upon this thread!
God bless Seun!
God Bless Babyosisi!
God Bless Bukatyne!
God Bless Moca!
God Bless EfemenaXY!
God Bless myself too!
And most of all, God Bless the Internet!
Thank God for Technology!

And God bless you too, Laykhorn.

ttymyluv:
I have been seriously disturbed since i came back from work

my fiance had a meeting point around the town where we can later get another vehcle to take us to our different destination but i was so surprised that he was having a full erection that i could see thru his trousers.

I wansnt happy since because i dont know wat could have caused that.

Both of us are virgins planning for wedding soon

please does annyone knows what could be the cause?

I dont know how to ask him and i may be harsh on him

Thank u..

All these small girls

It is normal nne,men can get aroused when they see someone they admire
It should make you happy that his sumtin is in top top shape ready for action when you folks begin ikwokirikwo
You should have touched it sef,after all it is now quarter to being yours

MojAyo:
thank u for ur advise,I'm trying to give it a try,dis time around,if it doesn't work out,I'm out of the relationship

Good girl.

It's all about valuing yourself. Never forget that.

This one too na problem?

And to think you've been 'seriously' disturbed about it

Pls discard the thought. You will be happy in the end that he can get it up without problem.

ttymyluv:
I have been seriously disturbed since i came back from work

my fiance had a meeting point around the town where we can later get another vehcle to take us to our different destination but i was so surprised that he was having a full erection that i could see thru his trousers.

I wansnt happy since because i dont know wat could have caused that.

Both of us are virgins planning for wedding soon

please does annyone knows what could be the cause?

I dont know how to ask him and i may be harsh on him

Thank u..

ttmyluv,

U may need us to educate you a little on bedroom stuff before you tie that knot
Jennykadry is seriously missing

Ask any questions along that line and I will gladly answer

Good evening my people .

Please I want to know if it's normal for me not to have feelings of wanting to see my mum after 6years?

Odillz:
Good evening my people .
Please I want to know if it's normal for me not to have feelings of wanting to see my mum after 6years?

Is this one marital issues too

But come o what did your mother do to you?

babyosisi:


All these small girls

It is normal nne,men can get aroused when they see someone they admire
It should make you happy that his sumtin is in top top shape ready for action when you folks begin ikwokirikwo
You should have touched it sef,after all it is now quarter to being yours

How she go do am now? It might burn her, or her hands might fall off na.

babyosisi:
ttmyluv,
U may need us to educate you a little on bedroom stuff before you tie that knot
Jennykadry is seriously missing
Ask any questions along that line and I will gladly answer

That is eh...

babyosisi:


Is this one marital issues too

But come o what did your mother do to you?

A long story for another day.
But is it normal not to miss her?

Odillz:

A long story for another day.
But is it normal not to miss her?

It depends on why you don't miss her.

Odillz:

A long story for another day.
But is it normal not to miss her?

It's hard to respond when we don't know the history

Odillz:
Good evening my people .

Please I want to know if it's normal for me not to have feelings of wanting to see my mum after 6years?

Very normal, some don't even look forward to seeing any of em mum or dad forever especially if you grew up doing virtually everything for yourself with em still alive healthy and strong, make we no start lol else e no go finish.

babyosisi:
ttmyluv,
U may need us to educate you a little on bedroom stuff before you tie that knot
Jennykadry is seriously missing
Ask any questions along that line and I will gladly answer

babyosisi. i will so much appreciate it cos i knw nothing abt bedroom stuff.

babyosisi:


All these small girls

It is normal nne,men can get aroused when they see someone they admire
It should make you happy that his sumtin is in top top shape ready for action when you folks begin ikwokirikwo
You should have touched it sef,after all it is now quarter to being yours

i love him so much and he loves me more but i feel she shod admire me alone!

My email is babyosisi@hotmail.com for those wanting to contact me regarding this topic

ttymyluv:


i love him so much and he loves me more but i feel she shod admire me alone!

The thing may have risen because of you
That is fantastic
That's what you want


Sometimes we can't control who we admire ,as long as he doesn't act on it with others,it is ok

ttymyluv:

babyosisi. i will so much appreciate it cos i knw nothing abt bedroom stuff.

Ghen ghen!
this just got interesting
Jenny ooooooooo! Where are you?

ttymyluv:

babyosisi. i will so much appreciate it cos i knw nothing abt bedroom stuff.

Please ask away
There are competent ladies here to help
You can't go in ignorant

urchbarbie:
i too! i wish to meet a man like dis.........am i wishing for too much? i want to do d "keep d wedding bed undefiled, abi na so them dey talk am.

who no like beta thing

urchbarbie:
i too! i wish to meet a man like dis.........am i wishing for too much? i want to do d "keep d wedding bed undefiled, abi na so them dey talk am.

who no like beta thing

alutacontinua:


Ghen ghen!
this just got interesting
Jenny ooooooooo! Where are you?

This is for ladies only
What are u doing here
Shouldn't you be shoveling snow off your driveway

ttymyluv:

babyosisi. i will so much appreciate it cos i knw nothing abt bedroom stuff.

I think it's better to just go into the bedroom and see how it goes from there. You can start by just starring at urselves embarrassingly like Adam and eve, 40 years later you will laugh at urselves when you remember ur first experience as couples.

babyosisi:


This is for ladies only
What are u doing here
Wouldn't you be shoveling snow off your driveway

I'm here to pick a good girl for my best friend

babyosisi:


It's hard to respond when we don't know the history

Okay,would share later.Thanks

FOREXMARTS:


I think it's better to just go into the bedroom and see how it goes from there. You can start by just starring at urselves embarrassingly like Adam and eve, 40 years later you will laugh at urselves when you remember ur first experience as couples.

Please let her ask her questions
The man is also a virgin
Let the professionals handle this biko

Odillz:
Good evening my people .

Please I want to know if it's normal for me not to have feelings of wanting to see my mum after 6years?

Odillz please send a mail to babyosisi or whoever you feel like talking to here. I'm happy you've decided.... Hun have you decided to open up to another? Please do dear. It has really been paining me that after all I still can't help and its because I don't know much. Please loosen up because if you don't they won't be able to help you.

Relax and I can't wait to see you on sat.

Herzumpther:
Odillz please send a mail to babyosisi or whoever you feel like talking to here. I'm happy you've decided.... Hun have you decided to open up to another? Please do dear. It has really been paining me that after all I still can't help and its because I don't know much. Please loosen up because if you don't they won't he able to help you.

Relax and I can't wait to see you on sat.

Don't make me cry .
You know I love you

Odillz:

Don't make me cry .
You know I love you

But you cry everyday and I'm sure you are crying now gan.
Oya Pele so gbor?

(((((Hugssssss))))))

Send the mail and feel better even if its for one night.

Pele ife me.

Funny you.
Thanks darl

Herzumpther:
But you cry everyday and I'm sure you are crying now gan.
Oya Pele so gbor?
(((((Hugssssss))))))
Send the mail and feel better even if its for one night.
Pele ife me.

Funny you.
Thanks darl

Odillz:
Funny you.
Thanks darl Funny you.
Thanks darl

Sha you have chop sha?

Be good dear.