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Re: She Broke My Heart, And Now She Is Back by sule5727: 5:30pm On Feb 17, 2015
OliverQuinny:
Dear Nairalanders, I am in a relationship with someone that hurt me when I needed her most. We met a while ago while I was still hustling on the streets of PortHarcourt. I was working in a small firm then, but I was doing all I could to make her happy. The job wasn't well paying, so I had to quit to pursue my Masters Degree and professional qualifications. The money stopped rolling in and we both started having issues. She became very difficult and eventually she left me sha, for no concrete reason. But I strongly believe its cos I quit the job.

I still loved her, and wished she wud change her mind. Some years later, I got a job in one of the multinationals and was sent abroad on an official assignment. I met her again at the airport in London and we became friends. We started chatting and she visited me on a saturday. One thing led to another, and we were intimate. The feelings started rekindling, but I just couldn't forget the way she treated me when I needed her most and I am afraid that shez back cos of my wealth.

Recently, she told me shez one month pregnant and am contemplating marrying her, but the way she hurt me when we were in Nigeria keeps taunting me. I keep having these flashbacks. Am actually scared that she will repeat the same behaviour in d nearest future even though it seems she has changed.

Please ur advice is needed here. Mature minds only.
bro dis girl no love u @ all she is back because u ve good job nw, it as happen to me!better run frm her tel her to leave u alone if nt she ll still repeat the same thing did to u before
Re: She Broke My Heart, And Now She Is Back by straight2point(m): 5:31pm On Feb 17, 2015
The only mature response I have for you is that, she has done it before and she will do it again, in other words, You have cried before and you will cry again. You better use your brain. I did gave a gurl like that one shot and never called her again. As for your case, just accept your baby. But don't marry her.
Re: She Broke My Heart, And Now She Is Back by bamidex28282: 5:34pm On Feb 17, 2015
OliverQuinny:
Dear Nairalanders, I am in a relationship with someone that hurt me when I needed her most. We met a while ago while I was still hustling on the streets of PortHarcourt. I was working in a small firm then, but I was doing all I could to make her happy. The job wasn't well paying, so I had to quit to pursue my Masters Degree and professional qualifications. The money stopped rolling in and we both started having issues. She became very difficult and eventually she left me sha, for no concrete reason. But I strongly believe its cos I quit the job.

I still loved her, and wished she wud change her mind. Some years later, I got a job in one of the multinationals and was sent abroad on an official assignment. I met her again at the airport in London and we became friends. We started chatting and she visited me on a saturday. One thing led to another, and we were intimate. The feelings started rekindling, but I just couldn't forget the way she treated me when I needed her most and I am afraid that shez back cos of my wealth.

Recently, she told me shez one month pregnant and am contemplating marrying her, but the way she hurt me when we were in Nigeria keeps taunting me. I keep having these flashbacks. Am actually scared that she will repeat the same behaviour in d nearest future even though it seems she has changed.

Please ur advice is needed here. Mature minds only.
huuuum,my man, you open your eyes and put your self in BIG mess,WHAT!
what did you mean "she came back" ,you are palying a game surounded by risk.
She left you cuz you are brock then,but now she is back cus of your wealth, right, now if you are brock again she will go.
Now let me ask you some valid questions.
1)Are you married with this lady yet,if yes no need to divorce her
2)Is she pregnant for you,if yes go for DNA test as soon as possible
This act as shown that she is after your wealth,
and when there is no love between couple,divorce is behind their door step.
That means if you are brock one day,the home will not be in peace
See! before a marriage could lead to divorce,there have been some signal before marriage only some are ignorance of it.
My man,God has shown you some signal earlier but you did not play by the rule.
Re: She Broke My Heart, And Now She Is Back by xtervaganza(m): 5:36pm On Feb 17, 2015
I, like you have has sex with some stupid ex now that jungle has matured. But will I let her trick me into kpanshing her raw? Hell nah, you were enjoying the sex and reconnected with her and made her feel like your girl again............





You're on your own oo
Re: She Broke My Heart, And Now She Is Back by cococandy(f): 5:43pm On Feb 17, 2015
Really?

Where was your brain when you were getting her pregnant? Now you remember she left you years ago but didn't remember that when you were hooking up with her.

All this to run was from responsibility?
No wonder she left you before.
Re: She Broke My Heart, And Now She Is Back by Nobody: 5:43pm On Feb 17, 2015
pinkhill:
you no even ask am if he is sure the pregnancy na em own...i dey doubt where i dey
the lady is really to be blamed here. she is gullible.

No one can say who is responsible for the baby but the guy seems sure.

Why would you get back with someone that left you when u were poor and even impregnated her .Now he remembered his feelings about her. it's not fair
Re: She Broke My Heart, And Now She Is Back by loswhite(m): 5:45pm On Feb 17, 2015
OliverQuinny:
It is real. Am actually scared she might change in the nearest future.
after impreganating her nw u need advice abi? are u afraid that u will be broke again? If no, then you have nothing to worry abt cos she will always stay as long as d money is rolling.
Re: She Broke My Heart, And Now She Is Back by Nobody: 5:46pm On Feb 17, 2015
adexsimply:

Madame, I'd advise you read your post to yourself like 5 times and judge if it makes sense to you
In other words, can you just listen to yourself?
reading once is enough for me to grab the gist. You guys are blinded to the fact that he said he wasn't sure he could forgive her yet he impregnated her.

talk of double standard!!!
Re: She Broke My Heart, And Now She Is Back by Nobody: 5:48pm On Feb 17, 2015
kraftsta:

Abeg pull over...we are discussing affections n emotion here pls don't join in d discussion if u don't av emotions,sincerely u sound like a runs gal...u need to ask urself if uv eva bn trully in love...I guess ur answer is no cos dats d only thing da can make u say dis as a revenge..
What's emotional about this?

if you don't know what to say pls don't quote me. huh?
Re: She Broke My Heart, And Now She Is Back by faithbibi(f): 5:48pm On Feb 17, 2015
she's pregnant for u, u r ready for marriage, why put this on narialand? The problem most men/women have were created by them. They r awalys looking for Mr/Miss RIGHT. How long do you keep going in and out of relationship? How sure r u that the one u claimed to be Mr/Miss RIGHT, is the right personn for u? Why not make the one in your possession Miss RIGHT? Cos u can always make your man/lady whatever u want him/her to be as long as the LOVE is there. Get on with the marriage, bro
Re: She Broke My Heart, And Now She Is Back by Nobody: 5:49pm On Feb 17, 2015
UncleJudax:

Taaa! More like she has been stalking him...skanks love money. So how many times has she been pregy...she probably read his body language...he marriage ready.
And the guy as been foolish enough to fall for her pranks.

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Re: She Broke My Heart, And Now She Is Back by Noviolence2015: 5:52pm On Feb 17, 2015
OliverQuinny:
Dear Nairalanders, I am in a relationship with someone that hurt me when I needed her most. We met a while ago while I was still hustling on the streets of PortHarcourt. I was working in a small firm then, but I was doing all I could to make her happy. The job wasn't well paying, so I had to quit to pursue my Masters Degree and professional qualifications. The money stopped rolling in and we both started having issues. She became very difficult and eventually she left me sha, for no concrete reason. But I strongly believe its cos I quit the job.



I still loved her, and wished she wud change her mind. Some years later, I got a job in one of the multinationals and was sent abroad on an official assignment. I met her again at the airport in London and we became friends. We started chatting and she visited me on a saturday. One thing led to another, and we were intimate. The feelings started rekindling, but I just couldn't forget the way she treated me when I needed her most and I am afraid that shez back cos of my wealth.

Recently, she told me shez one month pregnant and am contemplating marrying her, but the way she hurt me when we were in Nigeria keeps taunting me. I keep having these flashbacks. Am actually scared that she will repeat the same behaviour in d nearest future even though it seems she has changed.

Please ur advice is needed here. Mature minds only.
Marry her at least you know what she is all about. you like her that is why you collected again and now you child is on the way. Congrats
Re: She Broke My Heart, And Now She Is Back by Nobody: 5:53pm On Feb 17, 2015
Ilekeh:




Pregnancy is not a prerequisite for marriage. If she's grown enough to open her legs, she's grown enough to be a single mother. The father of the baby can support her.
just listen to yourself!!!

Now you sound heartless. So the guy loved her enough to impregnate her but not enough to marry her.

Both of the played a game and they have to pay for it
Re: She Broke My Heart, And Now She Is Back by tsdarkside(m): 5:54pm On Feb 17, 2015
dump her back,,,

it is said:: FOR BETTER FOR WORST...

a woman that dont understand that doesnt deserve your time!!!

is not that you were even lazy sef...

i say dump her!!

maybe the pregnancy is not even yours.they think they are clever,
but they dont know they are only doing their own selfs.

very wicked woman running around this days.protect yourself.....
Re: She Broke My Heart, And Now She Is Back by Whobedatte(m): 5:55pm On Feb 17, 2015
Atlantian:
Guy, let's be frank. Most people will tell you to drop her ass, but I will tell you the truth from experience. There is only one woman that will be with you when you are down. That woman is your mother. No other woman will. Better work hard and keep staying up on wealth, when you are broke, do not even expect your wife to be by you. It is simply natural.
This is classic FOOD FOR THOUGHT!!!
Re: She Broke My Heart, And Now She Is Back by Nobody: 5:55pm On Feb 17, 2015
Obiwannn:


y must she reap where she hasn't sown
so that justifies him?

can two wrongs really make a right?
Re: She Broke My Heart, And Now She Is Back by OLUJOSHINS(m): 5:56pm On Feb 17, 2015
Omo U stu.paid gaan oooooo.


If this is a true story then U must really be a dundee . Pregnant ko prognont ni mmmtttsssccchhheeewww.

She don see MUGU CAPITAL MUGU
Re: She Broke My Heart, And Now She Is Back by Funkychic(f): 5:58pm On Feb 17, 2015
diddydiva:

you are wicked!!!

Face the truth. You got back with her to revenge.

you planned it all.

Anyways I don't blame u but the gullible lady who can't make her no a no.

it's truly your decision so make it.

never seen any wicked act in dis by d Op...d girl fell for him again because of her love for money. I don't think d girl loves d guy if not his money which she will not hesitate to leave him if eventually d money's not there again .....Op, guess self advice is better
Re: She Broke My Heart, And Now She Is Back by adebisiolumide5(m): 6:00pm On Feb 17, 2015
Simple, the thing you can do is to go bact to being broke then you accept her!!!!
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.But if you cant go back to being broke!! tell her to Leave you alone!!!!



she never had faith in you that's why she left!!!





I sign OUt##
Re: She Broke My Heart, And Now She Is Back by Nobody: 6:02pm On Feb 17, 2015
Funkychic:


never seen any wicked act in dis by d Op...d girl fell for him again because of her love for money. I don't think d girl loves d guy if not his money which she will not hesitate to leave him if eventually d money's not there again .....Op, guess self advice is better
and the op?

he is not sure yet he impregnated the lady. Now flash backs are coming back.

like I said I don't blame him but the gullible lady
Re: She Broke My Heart, And Now She Is Back by Nobody: 6:03pm On Feb 17, 2015
The seemingly unwise attitude of dis poster worries me.

So adults still have unprotected sex?

Na wa oh!
Re: She Broke My Heart, And Now She Is Back by grandstar(m): 6:03pm On Feb 17, 2015
[quote author=OliverQuinny post=30815748] bible joseph tested his brothers to know if they had changed. likewise test this lady by pretending to be in financial mess. if she stays good, if not bad. then again, there's the baby
Re: She Broke My Heart, And Now She Is Back by Nobody: 6:04pm On Feb 17, 2015
diddydiva:

you are wicked!!!

Face the truth. You got back with her to revenge.

you planned it all.

Anyways I don't blame u but the gullible lady who can't make her no a no.

it's truly your decision so make it.
Re: She Broke My Heart, And Now She Is Back by danbrowndmf(m): 6:07pm On Feb 17, 2015
pinkycute will u leav me if am broke?
Re: She Broke My Heart, And Now She Is Back by rhames(m): 6:07pm On Feb 17, 2015
OliverQuinny:
Dear Nairalanders, I am in a relationship with someone that hurt me when I needed her most. We met a while ago while I was still hustling on the streets of PortHarcourt. I was working in a small firm then, but I was doing all I could to make her happy. The job wasn't well paying, so I had to quit to pursue my Masters Degree and professional qualifications. The money stopped rolling in and we both started having issues. She became very difficult and eventually she left me sha, for no concrete reason. But I strongly believe its cos I quit the job.

I still loved her, and wished she wud change her mind. Some years later, I got a job in one of the multinationals and was sent abroad on an official assignment. I met her again at the airport in London and we became friends. We started chatting and she visited me on a saturday. One thing led to another, and we were intimate. The feelings started rekindling, but I just couldn't forget the way she treated me when I needed her most and I am afraid that shez back cos of my wealth.

Recently, she told me shez one month pregnant and am contemplating marrying her, but the way she hurt me when we were in Nigeria keeps taunting me. I keep having these flashbacks. Am actually scared that she will repeat the same behaviour in d nearest future even though it seems she has changed.

Please ur advice is needed here. Mature minds only.

Why did you go back to her when you could not forgive her for dumping you when you needed her most? Any ways just forgive her but sit her down for a good talk on how to continue the relationship as friends or the next chapter : marriage. I know it sounds crazy but i believe you should give yourselves a chance in this relationship.
Re: She Broke My Heart, And Now She Is Back by inspiROHM(m): 6:09pm On Feb 17, 2015
OliverQuinny:
Dear Nairalanders, I am in a relationship with someone that hurt me when I needed her most. We met a while ago while I was still hustling on the streets of PortHarcourt. I was working in a small firm then, but I was doing all I could to make her happy. The job wasn't well paying, so I had to quit to pursue my Masters Degree and professional qualifications. The money stopped rolling in and we both started having issues. She became very difficult and eventually she left me sha, for no concrete reason. But I strongly believe its cos I quit the job.

I still loved her, and wished she wud change her mind. Some years later, I got a job in one of the multinationals and was sent abroad on an official assignment. I met her again at the airport in London and we became friends. We started chatting and she visited me on a saturday. One thing led to another, and we were intimate. The feelings started rekindling, but I just couldn't forget the way she treated me when I needed her most and I am afraid that shez back cos of my wealth.

Recently, she told me shez one month pregnant and am contemplating marrying her, but the way she hurt me when we were in Nigeria keeps taunting me. I keep having these flashbacks. Am actually scared that she will repeat the same behaviour in d nearest future even though it seems she has changed.

Please ur advice is needed here. Mature minds only.



This is really story for the gods. I will never advise you to abort the baby and I will never advise you to marry her but what you should have known is that an ex should remain an ex. Simple. DO NOT MARRY HER. SHE JUST USED THE OLDEST TRICK IN THE WORLD TO NAIL YOU IN THE WALL AND YOU FELL FOR IT HOOK LINE AND SINKER.
Re: She Broke My Heart, And Now She Is Back by harmeyd: 6:13pm On Feb 17, 2015
Behave lyk king of afrobeat (fela Anikulapo Kuti)

Re: She Broke My Heart, And Now She Is Back by Funkychic(f): 6:16pm On Feb 17, 2015
diddydiva:

and the op?

he is not sure yet he impregnated the lady. Now flash backs are coming back.

like I said I don't blame him but the gullible lady

well, I av no advice for either of dem....ha kpezie nke oma. Dats all
Re: She Broke My Heart, And Now She Is Back by tsdarkside(m): 6:20pm On Feb 17, 2015
diddydiva:

so that justifies him?

can two wrongs really make a right?

if the other side is not reasonable: YES
Re: She Broke My Heart, And Now She Is Back by Nobody: 6:23pm On Feb 17, 2015
Hey Op, I know how it feels to be left behind by someone you see as part of one's life. I have been there and I can easily relate to your story.

Firstly, the most important ingredient in any relationship is trust and this trust is already broken before marriage. So it ll be difficult for you to trust that lady for life and that alone ll frustrate you and dis lady in marriage.

The pregnancy, pls don't ever settle down with a woman cos of pregnancy. Pregnancy/a child ll not be able to sustain the marriage if you guys are lacking what it takes to make marriage works. All you both deserve from each other is nothing but true feelings

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Re: She Broke My Heart, And Now She Is Back by WORLDPEACE(m): 6:26pm On Feb 17, 2015
OliverQuinny:
We broke up cos we were also having arguements, and the moment I quit the job, it was kinda the "right time for her to strike". She explained why she acted that way though, said she wasnt mature enuff and dat she was just a baby then. I have since forgiven her, but my mind woudnt stop flashing back and am worried especially now that am considering marriage.
Is this the first time she's ever been pregnant for you?
Re: She Broke My Heart, And Now She Is Back by jasoncage(m): 6:27pm On Feb 17, 2015
Tallesty1:
What I think?

Here is what I think...


Have you ever update an app and realize after running it that the "fixed issues" were all a lie and it will never be the same? That's what going back to an ex is like.

She will still dump you when money stops coming.

As for the pregnancy, give her all the support but don't marry her.

Reaping where one didn't sow is a sin, please don't allow her to commit that sin.

How are you even sure that the preg is yours or that she's pregnant at all?


Girls been using that lie to dupe guys since THE TIME OF SAMSON AND DELILAH.
Damn, spot on.

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