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Re: She Broke My Heart, And Now She Is Back by boboLIL(m): 6:29pm On Feb 17, 2015
Yhu confuse pass buhar
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Re: She Broke My Heart, And Now She Is Back by sansid(m): 6:30pm On Feb 17, 2015
OliverQuinny:
Dear Nairalanders, I am in a relationship with someone that hurt me when I needed her most. We met a while ago while I was still hustling on the streets of PortHarcourt. I was working in a small firm then, but I was doing all I could to make her happy. The job wasn't well paying, so I had to quit to pursue my Masters Degree and professional qualifications. The money stopped rolling in and we both started having issues. She became very difficult and eventually she left me sha, for no concrete reason. But I strongly believe its cos I quit the job.

I still loved her, and wished she wud change her mind. Some years later, I got a job in one of the multinationals and was sent abroad on an official assignment. I met her again at the airport in London and we became friends. We started chatting and she visited me on a saturday. One thing led to another, and we were intimate. The feelings started rekindling, but I just couldn't forget the way she treated me when I needed her most and I am afraid that shez back cos of my wealth.

Recently, she told me shez one month pregnant and am contemplating marrying her, but the way she hurt me when we were in Nigeria keeps taunting me. I keep having these flashbacks. Am actually scared that she will repeat the same behaviour in d nearest future even though it seems she has changed.

Please ur advice is needed here. Mature minds only.
Re: She Broke My Heart, And Now She Is Back by Nobody: 6:36pm On Feb 17, 2015
NO NEED FOR PREACHING SERMON .

WHAT DO YOU KNOW ABOUT LOVE

YOU ARE EATING FROM THE POT OF AN ENEMY

GUY JUST DUMP HER NOW

SHE WANT TO USE THE PREGNANCY TO TIE YOU DOWN

CASE CLOSE

NEXT CASE PLEASE
Re: She Broke My Heart, And Now She Is Back by Ilekeh(f): 6:38pm On Feb 17, 2015
diddydiva:

just listen to yourself!!!

Now you sound heartless. So the guy loved her enough to impregnate her but not enough to marry her.

Both of the played a game and they have to pay for it

What's love gotta do with impregnating somebody?

That's the problem with you women. undecided

Two people were in heat, bleeped without protection and pregnancy became the consequence. Case closed.

Leave love out of it.
Re: She Broke My Heart, And Now She Is Back by sansid(m): 6:41pm On Feb 17, 2015
Hmmmm....Exactly what I went through in the hands of a lady I loved so much too. Same loss of job cos of msc n she abandoned me for another guy. The only difference between you n me is the fact that I hv moved on. I now have a decent job in Abuja with lots of prospects. Will never go back to ma ex. Never believed she would leave me, not ivn at that tryin moment. That experienced nearly damaged me emotionally as I was finding it difficult to trust ladies. If she did b4,she can still do it again. God will help u.

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Re: She Broke My Heart, And Now She Is Back by WORLDPEACE(m): 6:42pm On Feb 17, 2015
bisous:


At least you know her flaw I.e not dating a broke man....
I know it must hurt knowing you couldn't count on her when the chips were down..but truth is it could be that at that time you were also not lovable.....you know how a man gets when he has lost his means of livelihood......that may have been the case and since she says she was immature she may have learnt her lessons .....now she is pregnant for you not marrying her won't be a good idea...../b/especially because the devil you know is better than the angel you don't know/b/
The bold is the same mind set that ancient europeans used to have who were afraid to navigate too far away from their shores because they thought the earth was flat and they could fall off. well, guess what? they didn't fall off. They found riches in Africa and the new world. He should keep only if he is absolutely convinced she is worth it.
Re: She Broke My Heart, And Now She Is Back by adewumiopeyemi(m): 6:46pm On Feb 17, 2015
somepeople are just here to copy a thread and paste.... here.... angry
Re: She Broke My Heart, And Now She Is Back by 360command: 6:51pm On Feb 17, 2015
Guy, your answer can be found in the music by magic system titled "premier gaou n'est pas gaou oh / C'est deuxième
gaou qui est niata". To be fooled once is ok but to be fooled twice, then you are a maga... If u have listen to this song well, u know what to do if you are in your right sense...
Re: She Broke My Heart, And Now She Is Back by Obiwannn: 6:52pm On Feb 17, 2015
diddydiva:

so that justifies him?

can two wrongs really make a right?

not in this scenario
Re: She Broke My Heart, And Now She Is Back by Nobody: 6:56pm On Feb 17, 2015
OliverQuinny:
Dear Nairalanders, I am in a relationship with someone that hurt me when I needed her most. We met a while ago while I was still hustling on the streets of PortHarcourt. I was working in a small firm then, but I was doing all I could to make her happy. The job wasn't well paying, so I had to quit to pursue my Masters Degree and professional qualifications. The money stopped rolling in and we both started having issues. She became very difficult and eventually she left me sha, for no concrete reason. But I strongly believe its cos I quit the job.

I still loved her, and wished she wud change her mind. Some years later, I got a job in one of the multinationals and was sent abroad on an official assignment. I met her again at the airport in London and we became friends. We started chatting and she visited me on a saturday. One thing led to another, and we were intimate. The feelings started rekindling, but I just couldn't forget the way she treated me when I needed her most and I am afraid that shez back cos of my wealth.

Recently, she told me shez one month pregnant and am contemplating marrying her, but the way she hurt me when we were in Nigeria keeps taunting me. I keep having these flashbacks. Am actually scared that she will repeat the same behaviour in d nearest future even though it seems she has changed.

Please ur advice is needed here. Mature minds only.
Follow your heart, Besides who wasn't with u at ur darkest hour does Not deserve u at ur shining moments
Re: She Broke My Heart, And Now She Is Back by Nobody: 7:00pm On Feb 17, 2015
icekream:
Since u said she's pregnant already, then I think u sud marry her. U fell for her trap, and it worked on u. Twale to all d naija women... Dem get those cheat codes die... Smart geh chapsly get pregnant.
So he should tie himself to marriage Just because of that mistake?
Re: She Broke My Heart, And Now She Is Back by Nobody: 7:02pm On Feb 17, 2015
OliverQuinny:
It is real. Am actually scared she might change in the nearest future.
What exactly does she want, Marriage Or Abortion?
Re: She Broke My Heart, And Now She Is Back by shaqhead: 7:13pm On Feb 17, 2015
POETIST:
forgive and forget
Forgive? Yes but to Forget as Humans means chronic Alzheimers. My point is just coz we should and can forgive, it doesnt mean we have memory failure mr. Poet. Actually I called u out on ds cz of ur moniker! U shd kno better! Y u lukin at mmy words like dt? LOL
Re: She Broke My Heart, And Now She Is Back by donbenie(m): 7:15pm On Feb 17, 2015
@OP,marriage should never be based on pity or because you feel it is the honourable thing to do,I get that she's pregnant for you,unfortunate,but never ever make the mistake of getting married to anyone based on that,you will go true life full of regrets,marry her if you have any common basis to build the marriage,on never based on pity or honor,this is life,shi.t happens,but even i will not want my sister to marry someone who does not really want her..search yourself,you are in the best position to make decisions..

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Re: She Broke My Heart, And Now She Is Back by NAJALYN: 7:15pm On Feb 17, 2015
Seriously? Please advise yourself.
Re: She Broke My Heart, And Now She Is Back by UnimkeAk(m): 7:22pm On Feb 17, 2015
zick19:
pls, na matches i come borrow oooo.... anybody with one??
Oya carry one packet , plus one wrap of igbo take hold side
Re: She Broke My Heart, And Now She Is Back by keacy(m): 7:23pm On Feb 17, 2015
I have a strong feeling that sooner than later I will write a story like this.........but finally we are pencils in the hand of the creator..WAP.

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Re: She Broke My Heart, And Now She Is Back by kennyok(m): 8:02pm On Feb 17, 2015
have you investigated the pregnancy if its real ,and I think she dsnt deserve you again even if you still in love with her because with those flash back on the past you still having I doubt your forgiving spirit ..so @op please dont rush into what can turn a nightmare in the nearest future?
Re: She Broke My Heart, And Now She Is Back by vivalaurel(m): 8:10pm On Feb 17, 2015
you impregnated her before having a second thought? I wouldn't blame her for ditching you when u were a broke ass. just pray u won't hit the trough ever again if u eventually marry her cos history has a funny way of repeating itself.

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Re: She Broke My Heart, And Now She Is Back by icekream(m): 8:15pm On Feb 17, 2015
nma24:
So he should tie himself to marriage Just because of that mistake?
If u were the girl, would u love if he told u to abort the pregnancy or he's nt gonna marry u? Put urself in d girl's position. And, at least he loves her.
Re: She Broke My Heart, And Now She Is Back by jasmines(f): 8:23pm On Feb 17, 2015
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Re: She Broke My Heart, And Now She Is Back by UncleJudax(m): 8:55pm On Feb 17, 2015
ni
diddydiva:

And the guy as been foolish enough to fall for her pranks.
Lol. The way I see it, he is wiped...doesn't have the heart, and yea..the lady is ontop of her game. Too bad.
Re: She Broke My Heart, And Now She Is Back by Aigbehis(m): 8:58pm On Feb 17, 2015
What was your intention when sleeping with her without condom?

Bros, your mind is telling you something, pls listen to it.
Re: She Broke My Heart, And Now She Is Back by Abbey2sam(m): 9:16pm On Feb 17, 2015
OliverQuinny:
Dear Nairalanders, I am in a relationship with someone that hurt me when I needed her most. We met a while ago while I was still hustling on the streets of PortHarcourt. I was working in a small firm then, but I was doing all I could to make her happy. The job wasn't well paying, so I had to quit to pursue my Masters Degree and professional qualifications. The money stopped rolling in and we both started having issues. She became very difficult and eventually she left me sha, for no concrete reason. But I strongly believe its cos I quit the job.

I still loved her, and wished she wud change her mind. Some years later, I got a job in one of the multinationals and was sent abroad on an official assignment. I met her again at the airport in London and we became friends. We started chatting and she visited me on a saturday. One thing led to another, and we were intimate. The feelings started rekindling, but I just couldn't forget the way she treated me when I needed her most and I am afraid that shez back cos of my wealth.

Recently, she told me shez one month pregnant and am contemplating marrying her, but the way she hurt me when we were in Nigeria keeps taunting me. I keep having these flashbacks. Am actually scared that she will repeat the same behaviour in d nearest future even though it seems she has changed.

Please ur advice is needed here. Mature minds only.

You were broke, babe has got needs and she left,
now your rich, you bumped into each other then one thing led to the other


now your scared she might repeat what happened during the civil war

are you planning to go broke again

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Re: She Broke My Heart, And Now She Is Back by Nobody: 9:31pm On Feb 17, 2015
[quote author=icekream post=30826835]
If u were the girl, would u love if he told u to abort the pregnancy or he's nt gonna marry u? Put urself in d girl's position. And, at least he loves her.[/quote well, it's the op's decision and life
Re: She Broke My Heart, And Now She Is Back by Nobody: 9:35pm On Feb 17, 2015
Abbey2sam:


You were broke, babe has got needs and she left,
now your rich, you bumped into each other then one thing led to the other


now your scared she might repeat what happened during the civil war

are you planning to go broke again
What is ur advice now
Re: She Broke My Heart, And Now She Is Back by Nobody: 9:38pm On Feb 17, 2015
jasmines:
OliverQuinny you must get rid of this doubt, one may not be certain about some things due to fear of the unknown and there's actually a 6th sense God gave us to help out in these type of situations.

Think carefully, once you say I do, there's no more going back. You shouldn't have slept with her to start with IMO. U must take it as do or die

My advice: Talk to your boss or HR Manager that you are stressed out and will really appreciate it if the company gives you your leave, just do anything crazy, move out of your house to a self contain, go and park your car somewhere, open a new account so your bank alerts show 300k, look broke, actually ask her to borrow you money to start a business. Then watch her reaction. Thats the only way you can truly know her true colors. Explain you got fired and the official car and house and everything has been withdrawn plus you invested your money into a scam. You really gat to act the part, no rich friends coming around, -200 naira balance on your phone, no foodstuff in the house, no eating out. Grumble and moan of how the witches in your village won't leave you. Behave like you're still living on your past glory.

NB: This technique saved my brother..................................................................................it actually works, send me a pm if ure out of ideas
Haba all this stress Just to be sure she won't leave him high and dry again? kai
Re: She Broke My Heart, And Now She Is Back by franksam2009: 9:57pm On Feb 17, 2015
sorry to say, u are silly, you already allowed her in, you even impregnated her and you are seeking for an advice, what other advice do you wanna hear? like chase her away with your unborn child? dude you should have Shawn her away at the first meeting in London, cos she's a good digger
Re: She Broke My Heart, And Now She Is Back by mutter(f): 10:31pm On Feb 17, 2015
Op if you quit your job how did you finance your masters?

You had to take that decision to leave your job and she left you.
But you do not know the pressure that was on her. Nigeria is a country without health insurance and other amenities. Do you know the financial problems on the lady`s head then. Do you know if she had to fend for herself and the family.

Millions and millions of Nigerians are in the condition you were then. Please that woman did not abandon you in a difficult situation.
Also now you met her do you think you are the only man that is in a comfortable situation.

Why did you even start anything with her again if you felt she used you.
Please jump over this shadow and give love a chance.
Re: She Broke My Heart, And Now She Is Back by mutter(f): 10:32pm On Feb 17, 2015
jasmines:
OliverQuinny you must get rid of this doubt, one may not be certain about some things due to fear of the unknown and there's actually a 6th sense God gave us to help out in these type of situations.

Think carefully, once you say I do, there's no more going back. You shouldn't have slept with her to start with IMO. U must take it as do or die

My advice: Talk to your boss or HR Manager that you are stressed out and will really appreciate it if the company gives you your leave, just do anything crazy, move out of your house to a self contain, go and park your car somewhere, open a new account so your bank alerts show 300k, look broke, actually ask her to borrow you money to start a business. Then watch her reaction. Thats the only way you can truly know her true colors. Explain you got fired and the official car and house and everything has been withdrawn plus you invested your money into a scam. You really gat to act the part, no rich friends coming around, -200 naira balance on your phone, no foodstuff in the house, no eating out. Grumble and moan of how the witches in your village won't leave you. Behave like you're still living on your past glory.

NB: This technique saved my brother..................................................................................it actually works, send me a pm if ure out of ideas

A girl that has the decency to past this test will also leave you when she finds out how indecent you are to test her in such a way,
Re: She Broke My Heart, And Now She Is Back by NEROSKY(m): 10:36pm On Feb 17, 2015
nickusoro:
Dude, if you are responsible for the pregnancy, any need for advice at this point would be too late. Marry her and take responsibility. Hopefully, you don't get broke again enough for her to ditch you. All the best.
Now_Playing... #Hozier - Take me to church grin

#QuoteMeIfYouWanna

That song is actually trending in New York, ur location?
Re: She Broke My Heart, And Now She Is Back by NEROSKY(m): 10:41pm On Feb 17, 2015
chymystique:



well well, imo, I dont believe cause a woman got pregnant for u that u must marry her.. I think you should not propose to her YET.. wait a while and use the period to make up your mind if she's what you want in a woman.. this is your future and no one is gonna help u live it and the decisions u make today determines a lot in future. I dont wanna start casting stones @ u cause the deed has been done already cool



PS Checked your profile now and saw You just opened this account 50mins ago.. u knw wan use your old moniker? grin grin

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