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Few Reasons Why Girls Are Being Used And Dumped. by Richard6(m): 10:44am On Feb 22, 2015
Girls always complain of being used and dumped, always complain of heart breaks and so on without actually knowing that they usually contribute to that. A guy can cheat on you but will never leave you for another girl if you are actually what he wants, you have seen cases where a guy will be cheating on his girl friend but he will stil let the other girl he is messing up with know that he has a girl friend o! Its true that no matter how good your girl friend is, some guys will stil cheat on their girl friends but the main thing is...is he cheating because he wants to get another girl and dump you or is he cheating because its in guys' nature to do so and after that, he stil minds his girl friend, begs and cries if he is caught in the process? Below are some of the reasons why girls are being cheated on and get dumped at the end.

1. LOVING BECAUSE OF LOOKS:
Some girls are fond of loving and dying for the fine boys, the huge and well built guys, tall and cute with red lips without knowing how good or bad the guy is, without knowing if the guy even has 1% of likeness not to talk of love for her. One funny thing about guys is that once you come to them or throw yourself at them and open your legs, they wil enter and enjoy themselves whether they have any feelings for you or not. You the stupid girl will keep throwing yourself at the fine boy and he will keep having fun with you and be using you as his sex machine while he has someone he loves; at the end he will dump you and go to his girl friend while you start shading tears of heart break and being dumped. Love and date someone who loves you too and values you no matter the looks.

2. LOVE FOR MONEY:
Yes...once a girl sees a guy with money and good car and house, love instantly and automatically starts and develops. You obviously forget that guys are wise, you also forget that there is this girl that has been with him when he wasnt rich and you believe he will leave the girl and date you because you are beautiful, sexy, good in bed or pretend to be good and pretend not to be after his money? Its true that some guys forget about the girl and dump the girl who was with them when they were poor once they make money but 90% of guys who later make money stil dont forget. If you think its a lie, ask Dangote.

3. LOVE BECAUSE OF FAME:
Some girls can go any length to get a guy who is famous. Loving and dying for a famous guy is like a poor person who always wants to travel with a private jet..you will lie down on your bed and keep imagining until you sleep off and continue the imaginations in your dream. Sometimes, you will be lucky to get the famous guy by doing all you can, playing all your tricks and stil believe he is yours forgeting that so many desperate people like you are also doing same thing you did or same trick you used. The famous guy will stil use you and dump you at the end and go to his girl friend or you think he doesnt have a girl who loves him for whom he is. If you think its a lie, ask Tuface Idibia.

4. INSATIABLE:
I think I have exprienced this one in the past. Some girls will never get satisfied no matter what you give them. Am not talking of being satisfied in bed, I mean materially and financially. There are some girls that have been used and dumped and will stil be used and dumped tomorrow even if they meet a millionaire due to insatiable character and too demanding. You will buy a balckberry for her, she will want iphone 6. You buy iphone 6 for her, she will demand for a car, out of love you buy the car for her, she will demand for a house for her family when you havent married her yet o! Such a person will never get satisfied and trust guys, when they find out you are such a person, they will hurry to use you and dump you.

5. YOUR CHARACTER:
This is one of the major reasons why guys use and dump most girls. Some girls are so good in painting themselves outside, looking good outside and when you take them home, you will realise that she is like a breathing wood and an empty entity. She cant cook well, she cant keep her surroundings neat and clean, she is lazy, a dirty type, lousy and what have you. You will be like...God, what kind of girl is this. Guys and their cunny nature, he will stil use you and dump you and run to his girl friend that knows how to take care of things. No guy will ever dump a good girl for a bad girl unless you use charm and the charm wil one day get expired.

6. NEMESIS:
Some girls have broken so many guys' hearts that its now their turn for their hearts to get broken by guys. One girl unknownly said it one day that she believes the reason behind her numerous heart breaks is because of her past life styles. According to her; "she has broken so many guys' hearts, she has been so careless, so negligence and wicked towards some guys who truly loved her in the past, now what she did to men is what she is expriencing now"..she said. You will take advantage of the fact that this guy loves you and cant do without you and be messing up with his heart, some girls will be like am too beautiful and too pretty for his type; that I can always get any guy any time she wants and as such will be playing with every guy that comes her way especially that person she knows that loves her so much. By the time she will feel she is ready for a relationship, all the good guys must have been hooked up and those that she will get will be out to use and dump her as revenge or due to nemesis.

I rest my case!

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Re: Few Reasons Why Girls Are Being Used And Dumped. by Nobody: 10:48am On Feb 22, 2015
Like I said in a post yesterday, the only ladies that fall victim of this reasons (especially points 1- 4) stated above, are ladies that lack character and purpose, who don't have a self-designed blueprint for their life.

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Re: Few Reasons Why Girls Are Being Used And Dumped. by uncleFola(m): 10:49am On Feb 22, 2015
Tell them oooo..... I want a tall good looking guy with 6 packs....... They will be wise by the time they turn 40 without any serious man in their lives.

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Re: Few Reasons Why Girls Are Being Used And Dumped. by Trut(m): 10:49am On Feb 22, 2015
You're post is100% on point. Can I repost it in my fb timeline?

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Re: Few Reasons Why Girls Are Being Used And Dumped. by BeeBeeOoh(m): 10:51am On Feb 22, 2015
No b me u c oh, make NL babes no catch u..
Re: Few Reasons Why Girls Are Being Used And Dumped. by buygala(m): 10:57am On Feb 22, 2015
Hmmmmm


The egoistic fever is spreading like wildfire cry

ok

Even peeps with low spermm count , erectile dysfunction, broke, ugly, and jobless niggas now have a favorite pastime. ... bashing ladies... Suddenly every dude is now a hybrid of Brad Pitt, Bill Gates and Albert Einstein put together... embarassed

It's all good sha... being online cures a lot of personal deficiencies. . Online, the goat can always claim to be a lion undecided

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Re: Few Reasons Why Girls Are Being Used And Dumped. by Jaycool18(m): 10:59am On Feb 22, 2015
some guys still use nd dump ladies even if they're. nt after any of the above

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Re: Few Reasons Why Girls Are Being Used And Dumped. by Eofclub: 11:01am On Feb 22, 2015
If this ur post make fp. Mah naked bath for bathroom..

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Re: Few Reasons Why Girls Are Being Used And Dumped. by Nobody: 11:06am On Feb 22, 2015
On behalf of Romancelanders, I decree that this topic is the best for the month of February.......good job op

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Re: Few Reasons Why Girls Are Being Used And Dumped. by yinkus4u2c(f): 11:09am On Feb 22, 2015
some girls myt av d xtics listed above and still be loved by her partner....and some myt not even possess one of d listed xtics and yet get used n dumped.

one shld just be prayerful

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Re: Few Reasons Why Girls Are Being Used And Dumped. by Tallesty1(m): 11:23am On Feb 22, 2015
missjenna:
Like I said in a post yesterday, the only ladies that fall victim of this reasons stated above are ladies that lack character and purpose, who don't have a self-designed blueprint for their life.
If it was back then when the old guy was still in the game. I would have played in your field, score amazing goals and leave you wondering what the hell that happened.


We all fall victim of love once in a while, even the so called players don't always go Scot free, they get caught in the game sometimes.
Independent ladies are not left out so leave matter for mathias

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Re: Few Reasons Why Girls Are Being Used And Dumped. by Hazardd(m): 11:41am On Feb 22, 2015
missjenna:
Like I said in a post yesterday, the only ladies that fall victim of this reasons stated above are ladies that lack character and purpose, who don't have a self-designed blueprint for their life.
how does this concern with a lady character and purpose.
One should be prayerful so that person wouldnt fall a victim

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Re: Few Reasons Why Girls Are Being Used And Dumped. by Richard6(m): 11:55am On Feb 22, 2015
Trut:
You're post is100% on point. Can I repost it in my fb timeline?
Yes!

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Re: Few Reasons Why Girls Are Being Used And Dumped. by Richard6(m): 11:56am On Feb 22, 2015
2undexy:
On behalf of Romancelanders, I decree that this topic is the best for the month of February.......good job op
Thank you

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Re: Few Reasons Why Girls Are Being Used And Dumped. by Richard6(m): 11:58am On Feb 22, 2015
Jaycool18:
some guys still use nd dump ladies even if they're. nt after any of the above
Then something is following you from your village.

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Re: Few Reasons Why Girls Are Being Used And Dumped. by Franca2(f): 12:06pm On Feb 22, 2015
Another good one.
Re: Few Reasons Why Girls Are Being Used And Dumped. by Mhizizzy(f): 12:23pm On Feb 22, 2015
Abi o..guyz be feeling like Don wen bashing ladies onlyn....outsyd..dey will be begging nd prostrating undecided


buygala:
Hmmmmm


The egoistic fever is spreading like wildfire cry

ok

Even peeps with low spermm count , erectile dysfunction, broke, ugly, and jobless niggas now have a favorite pastime. ... bashing ladies... Suddenly every dude is now a hybrid of Brad Pitt, Bill Gates and Albert Einstein put together... embarassed

It's all good sha... being online cures a lot of personal deficiencies. . Online, the goat can always claim to be a lion undecided

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Re: Few Reasons Why Girls Are Being Used And Dumped. by Phikom(m): 12:25pm On Feb 22, 2015
Dis piece is insightful...so on point...

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Re: Few Reasons Why Girls Are Being Used And Dumped. by Youngzedd(m): 2:49pm On Feb 22, 2015
Observing

Re: Few Reasons Why Girls Are Being Used And Dumped. by Nobody: 2:49pm On Feb 22, 2015
Some girls are fond of loving and dying for the fine boys, the huge and well built guys, tall and cute with red lips

Red lips kwa
I never knew red lips were supposed to be attractive
Who wants a man that looks like he drinks blood

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Re: Few Reasons Why Girls Are Being Used And Dumped. by LMAyedun(m): 2:50pm On Feb 22, 2015
True!!
Re: Few Reasons Why Girls Are Being Used And Dumped. by tola9ja: 2:50pm On Feb 22, 2015
over population

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Re: Few Reasons Why Girls Are Being Used And Dumped. by yorex2011: 2:51pm On Feb 22, 2015
Huh??
Re: Few Reasons Why Girls Are Being Used And Dumped. by iluvweed(m): 2:51pm On Feb 22, 2015
grin....And that is why I luv W33D.... grin

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Re: Few Reasons Why Girls Are Being Used And Dumped. by dandydrey(m): 2:51pm On Feb 22, 2015
Hmmm
Re: Few Reasons Why Girls Are Being Used And Dumped. by ojdcool(m): 2:51pm On Feb 22, 2015
missjenna:
Like I said in a post yesterday, the only ladies that fall victim of this reasons stated above are ladies that lack character and purpose, who don't have a self-designed blueprint for their life.
GBAM
Re: Few Reasons Why Girls Are Being Used And Dumped. by dmjinc(m): 2:51pm On Feb 22, 2015
hell ye!
Re: Few Reasons Why Girls Are Being Used And Dumped. by Nobody: 2:52pm On Feb 22, 2015
God bless you my love. your husband will never pass you. better pikin kiss kiss kiss kiss kiss
missjenna:
Like I said in a post yesterday, the only ladies that fall victim of this reasons stated above are ladies that lack character and purpose, who don't have a self-designed blueprint for their life.
Re: Few Reasons Why Girls Are Being Used And Dumped. by J0nyb0y(m): 2:52pm On Feb 22, 2015
classicB:
You can never tell, some people are just not meant for each other


grin
Re: Few Reasons Why Girls Are Being Used And Dumped. by whizbee(m): 2:52pm On Feb 22, 2015
True,i go use ds one sing
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Working on my album
Re: Few Reasons Why Girls Are Being Used And Dumped. by defendedvictim(m): 2:52pm On Feb 22, 2015
Wheeew....front page. Today is good indeed.
Lemme gaan read d op's epistle. I dey come
Re: Few Reasons Why Girls Are Being Used And Dumped. by 4reigningqueen: 2:52pm On Feb 22, 2015
hmm

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