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In d first place, who dump who?
its a mutual gain in d first place...

Nemesis? Bull.shit.

I've watched 'bad' people enjoy good relationships, and 'good' people suffer bad relationships.
Shit just happens. It's neither nemesis nor Karma nor whatever else people call it.

Richard6:
Yes!

Do I have the permission to post it on my facebook timeline too, please?

yeaaa

Hey guy Just because u cheat doesn't qualify al guys as cheaters OK

Mind ur statement , I tink u shuld recompose instead sef

babyosisi:
Red lips kwa
I never knew red lips were supposed to be attractive
Who wants a man that looks like he drinks blood

U nailed it.... What's attractive in a guy DAT uses what only ladies should use? Damn irritating....

Eofclub:
If this ur post make fp. Mah naked bath for bathroom..

You clumsy oaf, the post has made FP. Nit wit.

When a man smiles after being rubbed by a thief, it means that He did steal something from the thief! 'Nobody dumps Nobody'.

Adaeze003:
You had to quote me to tell me this because

Only because you wrote a quite dumb statement and needed to give you the reality check of it.


Hey and its a public forum you know.

uncleFola:
Tell them oooo..... I want a tall good looking guy with 6 packs....... They will be wise by the time they turn 40 without any serious man in their lives.

Am tall, good-looking with six packs...

missjenna:
Like I said in a post yesterday, the only ladies that fall victim of this reasons (especially points 1- 4) stated above, are ladies that lack character and purpose, who don't have a self-designed blueprint for their life.

missjena you are a feminist....

Well in my own opinion, i think the reason could be traced to the anxiousness to get married and the hunger to get hooked, be loved by someone out there and finally just fulfilling Bibles prophecy of latter days marriage.

Nasri100:
Only because you wrote a quite dumb statement and needed to give you the reality check of it.


Hey and its a public forum you know.

"A quite dumb statement" Really dude? Sure you aint the dumb one here?

Adaeze003:
"A quite dumb statement" Really dude? Sure you aint the dumb one here?

Miss,


If you weren't so that dumb, you would have realized that this is a public forum, common sense implies that anybody has unfettered access to criticize whatever you post. Its to your discretion to ignore.

babyosisi:
Red lips kwa
I never knew red lips were supposed to be attractive
Who wants a man that looks like he drinks blood

Hahahahaha

One of the best write_ups ever on NL.
kudos.

Richard6:
Girls always complain of being used and dumped, always complain of heart breaks and so on without actually knowing that they usually contribute to that. A guy can cheat on you but will never leave you for another girl if you are actually what he wants, you have seen cases where a guy will be cheating on his girl friend but he will stil let the other girl he is messing up with know that he has a girl friend o! Its true that no matter how good your girl friend is, some guys will stil cheat on their girl friends but the main thing is...is he cheating because he wants to get another girl and dump you or is he cheating because its in guys' nature to do so and after that, he stil minds his girl friend, begs and cries if he is caught in the process? Below are some of the reasons why girls are being cheated on and get dumped at the end.

1. LOVING BECAUSE OF LOOKS:
Some girls are fond of loving and dying for the fine boys, the huge and well built guys, tall and cute with red lips without knowing how good or bad the guy is, without knowing if the guy even has 1% of likeness not to talk of love for her. One funny thing about guys is that once you come to them or throw yourself at them and open your legs, they wil enter and enjoy themselves whether they have any feelings for you or not. You the stupid girl will keep throwing yourself at the fine boy and he will keep having fun with you and be using you as his sex machine while he has someone he loves; at the end he will dump you and go to his girl friend while you start shading tears of heart break and being dumped. Love and date someone who loves you too and values you no matter the looks.

2. LOVE FOR MONEY:
Yes...once a girl sees a guy with money and good car and house, love instantly and automatically starts and develops. You obviously forget that guys are wise, you also forget that there is this girl that has been with him when he wasnt rich and you believe he will leave the girl and date you because you are beautiful, sexy, good in bed or pretend to be good and pretend not to be after his money? Its true that some guys forget about the girl and dump the girl who was with them when they were poor once they make money but 90% of guys who later make money stil dont forget. If you think its a lie, ask Dangote.

3. LOVE BECAUSE OF FAME:
Some girls can go any length to get a guy who is famous. Loving and dying for a famous guy is like a poor person who always wants to travel with a private jet..you will lie down on your bed and keep imagining until you sleep off and continue the imaginations in your dream. Sometimes, you will be lucky to get the famous guy by doing all you can, playing all your tricks and stil believe he is yours forgeting that so many desperate people like you are also doing same thing you did or same trick you used. The famous guy will stil use you and dump you at the end and go to his girl friend or you think he doesnt have a girl who loves him for whom he is. If you think its a lie, ask Tuface Idibia.

4. INSATIABLE:
I think I have exprienced this one in the past. Some girls will never get satisfied no matter what you give them. Am not talking of being satisfied in bed, I mean materially and financially. There are some girls that have been used and dumped and will stil be used and dumped tomorrow even if they meet a millionaire due to insatiable character and too demanding. You will buy a balckberry for her, she will want iphone 6. You buy iphone 6 for her, she will demand for a car, out of love you buy the car for her, she will demand for a house for her family when you havent married her yet o! Such a person will never get satisfied and trust guys, when they find out you are such a person, they will hurry to use you and dump you.

5. YOUR CHARACTER:
This is one of the major reasons why guys use and dump most girls. Some girls are so good in painting themselves outside, looking good outside and when you take them home, you will realise that she is like a breathing wood and an empty entity. She cant cook well, she cant keep her surroundings neat and clean, she is lazy, a dirty type, lousy and what have you. You will be like...God, what kind of girl is this. Guys and their cunny nature, he will stil use you and dump you and run to his girl friend that knows how to take care of things. No guy will ever dump a good girl for a bad girl unless you use charm and the charm wil one day get expired.

6. NEMESIS:
Some girls have broken so many guys' hearts that its now their turn for their hearts to get broken by guys. One girl unknownly said it one day that she believes the reason behind her numerous heart breaks is because of her past life styles. According to her; "she has broken so many guys' hearts, she has been so careless, so negligence and wicked towards some guys who truly loved her in the past, now what she did to men is what she is expriencing now"..she said. You will take advantage of the fact that this guy loves you and cant do without you and be messing up with his heart, some girls will be like am too beautiful and too pretty for his type; that I can always get any guy any time she wants and as such will be playing with every guy that comes her way especially that person she knows that loves her so much. By the time she will feel she is ready for a relationship, all the good guys must have been hooked up and those that she will get will be out to use and dump her as revenge or due to nemesis.

I rest my case!

Richard you're rich in thoughts.
Waiter!... Give him one-bo

3 bottles of orijin for you OP

plz, what does op mean?

babyosisi:
Red lips kwa
I never knew red lips were supposed to be attractive
Who wants a man that looks like he drinks blood

you!!!

michaelbiz:
Who said they don't know why they are being dumped?

THEY KNOW.
In fact, most girls saw it coming and would probably be looking for ways to prevent it.
The unfortunate thing is that the guy who has been nursing the idea of settling down will have to repeat the class.

this got me cracking

When I was Younger, I used no1 to my advantage so much

una no vezz o. but, wetin op mean abeg?

DavidHunds:
3 bottles of orijin for you OP

Hehehehehe

Toks2008:
I can't agree less.

My union of 11years broke off starting from the day I saw single on my ex cv despite the fact that we were legally married.

The questions that came to my mind was that could it be desperation for money,? Lack of self respect,? Or pure foolishness for a married lady to deny her matrimony because she is looking for a job.

I rhink some ladies are just too cheap and desperate and it boils down to the love of money because a lady with a wealthy and self awareness mentaliity will never deny her matrimony bcause she is looking for a six figure salary job let alone kobo kobo job.

Trust me,ladies are the architect of their own predicaments most times.

Are u real? If so, did she apologize or show remorse?

Eofclub:
If this ur post make fp. Mah naked bath for bathroom..

lol

@DavidHunds,
ma guy, plz Wetin b op?

Most ladies sees guys as their ATM and guys sees such ladies as badoos. And since guys can only flirt with bad ladies, the issue of used and dumped comes in.

buygala:
Hmmmmm


The egoistic fever is spreading like wildfire

ok

Even peeps with low spermm count , erectile dysfunction, broke, ugly, and jobless niggas now have a favorite pastime. ... bashing ladies... Suddenly every dude is now a hybrid of Brad Pitt, Bill Gates and Albert Einstein put together...

It's all good sha... being online cures a lot of personal deficiencies. . Online, the goat can always claim to be a lion

ladies bash the guys and the guys bash the ladies plus what has low spermm count , erectile dysfunction, broke, ugly, and jobless niggas got to do with all these..the op has made some real points and u ar here trying to form like superman for nl girls with ur face like sperm when dey form foetus...egoistic fever indeed

It's said one would have to kiss plenty frog before meeting prince charming. Just thinking out loud!

nice one op

Sarimah:
nice one op

nice signature