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Re: Babyosisi's Marital Advice To New And Intended Wives by Nobody: 7:30pm On Feb 24, 2015 |
LaRoyalHighness: Ok waiting to hear from you |
Re: Babyosisi's Marital Advice To New And Intended Wives by Idowuogbo(f): 7:50pm On Feb 24, 2015 |
chisom101:thunder fire that criminal you call pastor. Bloody animal!! Go and beg man wey dey sex-type? Tell your pastor he needs devilerance. He must fast and pray for brain renewal o cus e b like na satan dash am d brain wey he dey waka with. 1 Like |
Re: Babyosisi's Marital Advice To New And Intended Wives by Nobody: 7:55pm On Feb 24, 2015 |
Idowuogbo: Easy o You don't know if you will marry a pastor someday |
Re: Babyosisi's Marital Advice To New And Intended Wives by Nobody: 8:15pm On Feb 24, 2015 |
Lol Idowu na person wife o,@babyosisi. With pikin sef. |
Re: Babyosisi's Marital Advice To New And Intended Wives by Idowuogbo(f): 8:17pm On Feb 24, 2015 |
babyosisi:That one is a Capital NO!!! I don't want to share my husband with every cat and dog all in the name of mentoring/counselling. Just imagine, make oga dey strike my arena and me sef gbadunfully dey receive holy cane , then one demonic sister will now call in the middle of the night for prayer session cus her spiritual husband wan give am belle. Mba! not my portion o.... I have accepted the church goer baba God dashed me. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Babyosisi's Marital Advice To New And Intended Wives by Idowuogbo(f): 8:19pm On Feb 24, 2015 |
moca:Back to sender!!!!! 2 Likes |
Re: Babyosisi's Marital Advice To New And Intended Wives by Nobody: 8:22pm On Feb 24, 2015 |
@laloyalHighness, forgiveness comes from within and it gives peace and transquility. U can choose not to be her friend but do forgive her. I hv been told worst things in life by those I consider veru close yet I have to learn d doctrine of forgiveness so I can be at peace with myself. A good friend of mine made me cut of female friendship till tomorrow. I can't proudly say I hv so so and so as a friend. Even at what she did,i still summoned courage to go and met her and extend olive branch. But d incident made me wiser Pls do forgive her 2 Likes |
Re: Babyosisi's Marital Advice To New And Intended Wives by Nobody: 8:27pm On Feb 24, 2015 |
Idowuogbo:Idowu,cray cray woman,how far now? U no like pikin? Babyosisi,dont mind her o! She get twin. 1 Like |
Re: Babyosisi's Marital Advice To New And Intended Wives by Nobody: 10:40pm On Feb 24, 2015 |
moca: See how she is saying tufia for pastor Soon she will be wearing matching skirt and blouse, plus hat seated on the front row beside her MOG husband Na so one former co worker dey talk and now she is First Lady at her baptist church going on speaking engagements with her man |
Re: Babyosisi's Marital Advice To New And Intended Wives by Nobody: 10:43pm On Feb 24, 2015 |
Idowuogbo: There are some real sexy MOGs out there o I met one that pastors a Church in Chicago recently A Yoruba man, and I was like Jesus is my Lord, this man is fine!!! |
Re: Babyosisi's Marital Advice To New And Intended Wives by Idowuogbo(f): 10:51pm On Feb 24, 2015 |
babyosisi:Lmaooo!! Let Mr Azubuike catch you dere.Jokes aside, these new generation pastors are fioooooone!! As in eh, the swaggs too much. 1 Like |
Re: Babyosisi's Marital Advice To New And Intended Wives by Nobody: 10:52pm On Feb 24, 2015 |
Idowuogbo: The funny thing is that I don't remember a thing he preached about Very anointed o all I remember is his fineness Men of God are not like they used to be Let me find his picture online |
Re: Babyosisi's Marital Advice To New And Intended Wives by Idowuogbo(f): 10:54pm On Feb 24, 2015 |
babyosisi:Lmao! May God deliver you 2 Likes |
Re: Babyosisi's Marital Advice To New And Intended Wives by Idowuogbo(f): 11:02pm On Feb 24, 2015 |
babyosisi:I'm telling you....the temptations are real mehn...you wonder why some women spend hours in their Pastor's office?They all go in for lookery and if satan use them they'll dive in for touchery. 2 Likes |
Re: Babyosisi's Marital Advice To New And Intended Wives by Nobody: 11:03pm On Feb 24, 2015 |
Lol So we don't derail this thread In case anyone is interested in appreciating our fine MOGs Here @ iduwuogbo https://www.nairaland.com/2165494/mogs-swag#31053783 1 Like |
Re: Babyosisi's Marital Advice To New And Intended Wives by Nobody: 11:05pm On Feb 24, 2015 |
Idowuogbo: Bwahahahahahahahaha Hours going on endless deliverance The man will deliver them and they will keep acquiring demons just to go back and get delivered again and again 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Babyosisi's Marital Advice To New And Intended Wives by cococandy(f): 11:20pm On Feb 24, 2015 |
babyosisi: Lol @juju. When they can't get your hubby to turn against you, instead of admitting that he's obviously in love with you or that their manipulations aren't working they resign it to juju If na so juju dey work many women for don use their so called mystical juju powers to win loads of money in the lotto 2 Likes |
Re: Babyosisi's Marital Advice To New And Intended Wives by Idowuogbo(f): 11:27pm On Feb 24, 2015 |
cococandy:U dey mind them? If na so juju dey work, persin no suppose apply for visa na....odechi suppose dey carry man pikin go Europe. yeye people! Make man wash pant wey he dey comot, na juju! may hin load washing machine, you have jazzed him with houseboy-ism. 3 Likes |
Re: Babyosisi's Marital Advice To New And Intended Wives by cococandy(f): 11:30pm On Feb 24, 2015 |
Idowuogbo: Abi o. Lol@ pant wey he dey comot. You're crazy |
Re: Babyosisi's Marital Advice To New And Intended Wives by emeraldoe(f): 6:51am On Feb 25, 2015 |
MIL and their wahala. My MIL and FIL are in my place at d moment(FIL is sick and hubby brought him over for treatment). Few days back, hubby decided to cook and MIL got to know about it. Ehn, nor be small talk. MIL was like, why will I leave my hubby to cook dat she doesn't understand dat one oh. I told my hubby and he said I shud jst stay in d kitchen with him and close d door. Since dat day, hubby is restricted to helpin me out around d house |
Re: Babyosisi's Marital Advice To New And Intended Wives by FOREXMARTS: 8:48am On Feb 25, 2015 |
emeraldoe: Quite unfortunate, well most parents are from am archaic generation so I try not to blame em, good a thing they won't be at ur house for long right? 1 Like |
Re: Babyosisi's Marital Advice To New And Intended Wives by Nobody: 9:06am On Feb 25, 2015 |
emeraldoe: Hahahahaha close door and be peeping when mama go show. 1 Like |
Re: Babyosisi's Marital Advice To New And Intended Wives by bukatyne(f): 10:12am On Feb 25, 2015 |
emeraldoe: What I can not wrap round is that 'won't the same MIL be happy if her daughter's husband help around the house' 11 Likes |
Re: Babyosisi's Marital Advice To New And Intended Wives by emeraldoe(f): 11:05am On Feb 25, 2015 |
softysparky:I tell u |
Re: Babyosisi's Marital Advice To New And Intended Wives by emeraldoe(f): 11:06am On Feb 25, 2015 |
bukatyne:exactly |
Re: Babyosisi's Marital Advice To New And Intended Wives by emeraldoe(f): 11:07am On Feb 25, 2015 |
FOREXMARTS:they wont 1 Like |
Re: Babyosisi's Marital Advice To New And Intended Wives by Nobody: 11:29am On Feb 25, 2015 |
emeraldoe:It's your husband's house, he should speak to his mum... He can just tell her he actually likes cooking and doing those chores.. Just explain to her how it makes the marriage stronger and how he finds fun in doing them, very simple.. Your husband shouldn't just succumb like that except there are other reasons behind that... 5 Likes |
Re: Babyosisi's Marital Advice To New And Intended Wives by Nobody: 11:46am On Feb 25, 2015 |
emeraldoe: You husband didn't handle this well There will be another occasion and another,what will he do,keep hiding and pretending in his own house to please his mother? For how long? This is the time to nip this in the bud Like the poster above advised,he should have politely responded,"mama I actually enjoy cooking sometimes" Let her raise hell that one time if she wants to ,then she'll get used to it The son is the best person to keep his mother in check because if he doesn't,I promise you ,one day she will say something provoking to you and you'll be forced to respond and as soon as you respond in the measure you have been treated,son and mother will bind together on one side and you become the enemy. 4 Likes |
Re: Babyosisi's Marital Advice To New And Intended Wives by harveyspec: 11:52am On Feb 25, 2015 |
emeraldoe: I'm not married o, but I keep telling my mum that this present generation's mentality is different from theirs so wisdom should be used when dealing with the youth, likewise the youth when dealing with elders So if your FIL/MIL is above 60, then they will definitely have issues with hubby working around the house cos in their time it wasn't the norm excerpt in few homes( which was considered an anomaly) Most elders will have an issue with hubby working in the house, they will view him as a "wussy". So for the few days they will be around, just manage & when they leave, hubby should return back to the way things were My two cents!! I stand to be corrected 1 Like |
Re: Babyosisi's Marital Advice To New And Intended Wives by Nobody: 11:53am On Feb 25, 2015 |
bukatyne: The same MIL will call him the best son in law in the world 1 Like |
Re: Babyosisi's Marital Advice To New And Intended Wives by Nobody: 11:54am On Feb 25, 2015 |
harveyspec: And keep doing that whenever she comes around abi? What if the days turn to months nko? |
Re: Babyosisi's Marital Advice To New And Intended Wives by harveyspec: 12:32pm On Feb 25, 2015 |
babyosisi: Ok, I have a family friend, the mum stays with them, the guy wakes up in the morning to sweep the house, bath the kids, I nor know wetin madam dey do. It was a very big issue, the mom had to calm down but trust me, she ain't happy with the wife Abroad that might not count but here in Nigeria, it does count, you are suppose to be receiving prayers from your elders & not curses or insult imagine this guy will be removing cobwebs from the house, washing curtains etc not that madam is sick o or has a hectic schedule o if its about education, the guy is a lecturer but I nor know whether him case still normal No elder will feel comfortable with such reversal of role(cos that's how they see it), just jejely pretend till they go, but if its an elongated stay, so help you God 1 Like |
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