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CharlesNneji1:
I understand your point and I agree with them.

However, I do not preach promiscuity. As a matter of fact; I have a super awesome pretty girl I'm dating right now and I don't cheat on her.

What I teach is basic psychology. Even if you find that special girl, if you don't know how to go about making her see that you are the special guy for her, she will not realise it.

Most times when we find that girl, in the heat of passion, we do things that set them off.

Go through this thread, it has been read by hundreds of girls on nairaland but NO girl has commented to say that these things I have said is a lie.

Doesn't that strike you? A website where people feed on bashing others. Doesn't that strike you that I have probably just said the truth.

Think about that.

Weah96:
Bands will make her dance. With money all things are possible, the girl will overlook your obsession if you keep pulling up in different types of big body vehicles. Trust me.

InZA:
Yeah ofcourse, I reason with you.... I guess the hope is that, instead of being promiscuous with the information you've shared, guys would rather use it maturely to get that special person.

hisawesomeness:
blah blah blah. girls girls girls. everyday on nairaland. guys are so damn idle these days. girls this girls that.how to get a girl, how to bathe a girl, how to feed a girl. soon we'll see threads like how to wipe a girl's butt, steps to look at a girl. ha

Antanananovic:
You have done a good job..OP..no doubt..I just wanna advise you to sell ORIGINAL INTELLECTUAL IDEAS. A lot of the information you have here are not your idea. I have come across these bulk of information before and I can confidently accuse you of plagiarism. Sell your own IDEAS so that guys out there can test it and modify it. For the guys on this thread that may want to object my opinion, kindly visit pualib.com and you will find a repertoire of seduction techniques and dating advice. A whole lot of information is waiting for you. And guess what..it is DAMN FREE. Cheers!!

Antanananovic:
You have done a good job..OP..no doubt..I just wanna advise you to sell ORIGINAL INTELLECTUAL IDEAS. A lot of the information you have here are not your idea. I have come across these bulk of information before and I can confidently accuse you of plagiarism. Sell your own IDEAS so that guys out there can test it and modify it. For the guys on this thread that may want to object my opinion, kindly visit pualib.com and you will find a repertoire of seduction techniques and dating advice. A whole lot of information is waiting for you. And guess what..it is DAMN FREE. Cheers!!

Adesiji77:
Ishilove, Trendiitee

Tell me, are the OP's assertions true?

CharlesNneji1:
Alright, i am going to get a bit personal here.

I know; my articles are a bit controversial. I know that most things i say are not the usual conventional dating advice you hear all the time. I know that some of the things i reveal here gets a lot of people angry.

*smiles*

But the bottom line is this; they work: hundreds of guys who already use them can attest to this - Before you fight these articles, go out, practice them, then if they don't work - come back and tell me they didn't work and i will fully apologize for feeding you wrong information.

With that out of the way; lets begin.

GIVING A GIRL ATTENTION - DOES IT WORK OR NOT?

First; what do i mean by "attention" here:

here are some examples:

- Calling a girl all the time
- Paying her compliments anytime the opportunity arises
- Sending her love texts like your father owns telecom companies in six countries.
- Doing things for her and running errands for her (some guys do this, trust me)
- Buying her loads and loads of gifts (Father Christmas)

Now the thing is this; girls love all these things - as a matter of fact, when you are in a relationship all the above can spice up the relationship.

But when you are still trying to get a girl these very same things i just listed up there can backfire when you do them in a wrong way.

Stay with me; i will make this clearer. showing a girl attention is like kerosine - when you pour in a little at a time into a burning firewood - it is fine. BUT when you get a full cup of kerosine and empty it on that same firewood; you have a problem.

When you shower loads and loads of attention on a girl; it is not romantic bro - it is a sign that tells her: "babe, i am obsessed with you"

Have you ever heard a girl say: "I can't stop thinking of this guy, he calls me 20 times a day". See, there is a reason why the people you like never like you back: it is not coincidence; this is pure basic psychology 101

A GIRL CAN NEVER BE INTO A GUY THAT IS OBSESSED WITH HER and when you shower her with all those praises, calls, attention, gifts you are making her see you as a Mr. obsessed of Africa. Most girls will tell you they like it, but everybody knows that they will say they like a girl to treat them in some ways but when you treat them in that same way they say they want to be treated - they still joke with you.

Most times when a guy showers a girl with all these kind of attention what they (the guys) think is:

- She is so fine, if i don''t shower her with attention another guy will take her from me
- She likes it, i will keep showing her how crazy i am about her.
- It's by money; if i keep buying her things she will like me.
- This is how to get a girl, that is what most girls say - so let me shower her with attention

Guy, this is real life. What happens in movies rarely happen in real life, bro.

Funny thing is that while you are bombarding a girl with all these attention she is also wondering why she doesn't like you "in that way". When a girl meets a sensitive, caring, attention giving guy they think things like:

- He is such a nice, caring sweet guy - why don't i like him enough to date him.
- He is always there whenever i want him, why don't i feel like dating him.
- Let me keep him around, maybe with time i will start to like him.
- I don't want to hurt him, let me just be nice with him. But the thing is i just don't feel "it" for him.
- He is just a friend, he is nice but i can't date him - i can't bring myself to like him that way.

True enough, girls end up dating this type of guys but the fact is this; it is very RARE and most times when they do date the guy it is usually out of pity and not because they really like him as a boyfriend.

Here is psychology 101: "We don't like anything that is easy to have. When we get something we loose interest in that thing"

Showing a girl too much attention sends her the signal that "she already has you".

I know; it is not easy to hold back - the more you don't know how she feels about you, the more you chase her, the more she acts cold around - and the more you want her.

BUT HERE IS THE HARD PROVEN TRUTH: If you keep showering her with loads of attention, she will run away from you and go and find a more challenging guy. A guy who knows "whats up". A guy who is not as easy as you. A real Man who is in control.

Study all the girl you have been showering attention and chasing in the past one year: Can't you see how they keep giving you signals that they like you, that you are a sweet guy BUT they just don't feel it for you. You are a nice guy but they can't date you 9i'm sure a girl has told you this even)

Can't you see how very pretty girls keep complaining that the guys they like don't give them attention BUT you, fine boy like you, gives her the same attention she is making noise about and STILL she doesn't want you. Have you ever asked yourself Why almost EVERY girl complains that the guys they like don't give them enough attention. Have you ever wondered why they keep sticking to the guy even though he is not giving them enough attention that they want. Have you ever wondered if this is just coincidence or the way their brains are wired

Think, bro

PLAIN SIMPLE PSYCHOLOGY: human beings like what they don't have.

I know, a lot of people will come in here and say i have generalized but, the fact is this, this is simple plain proven science that i use myself to get classy pretty rich girls to take interest in me, this is the same science that over a hundred guys who read my articles use and still achieve massive success with the girls they like.

So since giving a girl too much attention doesn't work, what then works - little attention?

Nah, that too can backfire if you don't know how to trigger interest in girls. Have you wondered why players get more girls than other guys? it is because they know how to press a girls button and make her crazy for them.

In my e-book: "The Bang Rule...Ultimate Guild Of Seduction For Nigerian Guys", i went into details to explain this and the exact step by step secrets to use and get the girl you are interested in to be interested in you. In the book you will learn scientific psychology secrets you can use to turn the table around and make a girl like you for who you are and not because she likes your pocket (See my profile by clicking my name to see numbers to contact if you want to get the e-book).

For those who have been asking: Here are the e-book's contents:


-How to manipulate a girl’s emotions, irrespective of how tough she is and make her go crazy about you.



The four mistakes ruining your chances with girls now and how you can eliminate these mistakes, turn them to your advantage and use those same mistakes to your advantage in order to effortlessly make girls see you as boyfriend material.



The particular mindsets girls have that you can use right now to trigger massive lust in them. You can use these secrets to make any girl want to have sex with you without you even raising a finger.



The one powerful secret you can use in order to make sure that a girl never cheats on you. This secret will make sure any girl will be willingly to stick with you no matter what. This same secret is the one players use to keep a girl coming back to them even when they maltreat such girls.



The 3 steps that you can use this very moment to get into any girl’s heart.



How to make sure that a girl doesn’t see you as just a friend. This step by step secret will make sure she doesn’t friend-zone you or see you as someone she can’t date.

That is not all; I will also show you:

The 3 rules of seducing and getting pretty girls to like you like crazy.



The 3 exact moves to use on a girl and make her lower her defenses. These “moves” will ensure that even a girl who was heart-broken yesterday will see you as someone she can allow into her life now.



One particular thing you can start doing right now to appear more confident in front of girls. It doesn’t just stop there, this particular secret will totally eliminate the fears you feel about approaching a girl you like.



What to do in order to make a girl see you as some she must have. This is the exact same secret players use in order to make girls fight shamelessly over them.



How to make a girl love you even if you are broke



The exact thing to say in order to make her comfortable with you in an instant even if you two had just met.



How to make pretty and classy girls work hard just to please you.


See my profile for numbers to contact in order to get the e-book.

PS: i will keep writing more article, stay posted (Hehehe, this will vex some people like mad sha *winks* Your hateful words can stop from freeing guys from the bondage of girls who treat them badly )

Have an awesome day.

Peace..

Ishilove:
Egbon, izza lie. Izza a big fat lie. If you give me attention I will make you my king

Burger01!! Alawin Ijebu-site. Common rose you never buy

Burger01:
My Cinderella, I have more than rose to buy for you. A blazing morning kiss on top of Eiffel tower, lunch in Monaco, dinner in Sambisa forest... what else could be more than rose? I will do for you, just whisper to my ears..

Ishilove:
*whispers*

A brand new EOD, 2010

linkin8k:
OP I have a testimony o!!

I just visited your blog and read a tip on how to get a chic like you. Immediately I tried it on this chic i've been trying to chat up and she just laughed and sent her pin. Sharp sharp.

I've added to chicking skills lol.

Cheers

Burger01:
You this girl! You go kii me!?

Ishilove:
Kee you, my one and only Burger? Any other burger is a counterfeit. Even Eyop is jealous of you. I can never kee you, my darling

Oya should I come to your showroom tomorrow to select?

Burger01:
I go pm you the address to pick up the keys to the ML 06

major466:
This thread makes sense. It reminds me of one dude who can starve himself for days just to run errands just to impress ladies. I think they're call women wrappers.

Lala247:
In what country ? Do girls fall for ^^^

Weah96:
If you pull up in a Range on Monday, a Lexus truck on Tuesday, an AUDI on Wednesday, by Thursday the girl will have molested you. This is how things dey now, for Atlanta.

LewisO:
Why quote him at the first place?

MissOke:
my friend abeg help me ask d mugu "@allureoftheseas". U quoted the OP 1st, now dis person quote u and u are angry. Nairalanders pls don't mind d he-diot I'm very sure he's high on shit, or he's probably feeling depressed because he has never been able to get a girl. mtchewwww goat.








OP, though I'm a lady, but I must tell d truth, everything u wrote is TRUE. "
Over attention" is always boring.