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Re: The Secret Why Giving Girls Too Much Attention Never Makes Them Fall In Love by Weah96: 2:49pm On Mar 03, 2015 |
Bands will make her dance. With money all things are possible, the girl will overlook your obsession if you keep pulling up in different types of big body vehicles. Trust me. 1 Like |
Re: The Secret Why Giving Girls Too Much Attention Never Makes Them Fall In Love by CharlesNneji1: 2:49pm On Mar 03, 2015 |
Emmyxclusive: The reason why something like this happens is because you have become less interesting to her; by showing her you just "can't breathe" without her you killed her attraction for you. What you have to do is this; Give her more space, make her a bit jealous from time to time, charge up the way you talk to her (click my name and on my profile click on my article on "how to talk to girls". If you do all these three things WELL and they don't work to bring her back to you, whenever i post an article on nairaland - stone me *winks* 1 Like |
Re: The Secret Why Giving Girls Too Much Attention Never Makes Them Fall In Love by denny(m): 2:53pm On Mar 03, 2015 |
MimeeTee:Nice 1 bro.. |
Re: The Secret Why Giving Girls Too Much Attention Never Makes Them Fall In Love by Curvinus(m): 2:55pm On Mar 03, 2015 |
Girls aren't really as dumb as some people might want to believe. Just like guys, they have their own preferences of who they date. If you aren't very good looking as a guy, you need to find your level and leave the classier ladies alone. That way, you can avoid all of these heart aches that folks complain about in relationships. But if you insist on dating a cutey even though you are not much of a looker yourself, then get ready to spend some owo to at least buy her affection. Its that simple. The above scenario could be slightly altered though if the lady in question is approaching her twilight. To the OP, isn't this some of these David D's nonsense or some other manipulative stuffs by these so called pick up artists? Rather than paying for e-books that have no relevance with your unique situation as an individual, I say you go out there, see things for yourself and make your own judgment. Imagine someone telling you how to get any girl you like, regardless of your looks and financial muscles. No be scam be that? 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: The Secret Why Giving Girls Too Much Attention Never Makes Them Fall In Love by major466(m): 3:01pm On Mar 03, 2015 |
This thread makes sense. It reminds me of one dude who can starve himself for days just to run errands just to impress ladies. I think they're call women wrappers. |
Re: The Secret Why Giving Girls Too Much Attention Never Makes Them Fall In Love by sheunflexy(m): 3:07pm On Mar 03, 2015 |
CharlesNneji1: |
Re: The Secret Why Giving Girls Too Much Attention Never Makes Them Fall In Love by mrkings84(m): 3:09pm On Mar 03, 2015 |
that means u have bewitched all the girls in ur area. it's tym they take to their heels. |
Re: The Secret Why Giving Girls Too Much Attention Never Makes Them Fall In Love by CharlesNneji1: 3:12pm On Mar 03, 2015 |
Well, the way you see yourself matters - if you believe a girl's class is above yours and because of that you can't get her to like you then that's what it will be. The problem with a lot of guys is low self esteem, nobody will value anyone who doesn't value himself. 2 Likes |
Re: The Secret Why Giving Girls Too Much Attention Never Makes Them Fall In Love by obosirow: 3:14pm On Mar 03, 2015 |
CharlesNneji1: Nice write-up bro! The end is, what shall it profit a man if he gets any fine babe he desires, sleeps with her/them, and loose his own soul? If you exert this energy in propagating the gospel of Jesus Christ, can you imagine how many souls you'll convert from going to hell by the help of the HolySpirit; and the number of stars your crown in heaven will wear. Consider it bro! 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: The Secret Why Giving Girls Too Much Attention Never Makes Them Fall In Love by Antanananovic: 3:14pm On Mar 03, 2015 |
CharlesNneji1: Of course, you are Damn right.. I have nothing against you as a person. Whenever you use terminologies like SHIT TESTS, LMR, HB, AFC, ALPHA MALE and the likes, probably in subsequent posts, i will so much appreciate it if you acknowledge the originators of the words just like your biology teacher who made appropriate references where possible..and I wanna add that the website I added in an earlier post is not mine.. have a beautiful afternoon bro! |
Re: The Secret Why Giving Girls Too Much Attention Never Makes Them Fall In Love by Nobody: 3:20pm On Mar 03, 2015 |
CharlesNneji1: Ok |
Re: The Secret Why Giving Girls Too Much Attention Never Makes Them Fall In Love by Mavor: 3:24pm On Mar 03, 2015 |
Don't chase her. When you talk to her again, make sure you don't communicate that you need anything, especially attention or approval. Lose the need to have every woman like you. One big weakness that most men have is a woman who won't call back. But remember: Women are the same way. You always have options. When you know how to meet women anytime you want, then it doesn't matter what happens in a particular situation. And if it doesn't matter, women can sense it. This is a very attractive quality. When a guy can't seem to hold on to a woman, the problem is almost always one of the following: He turns into a clingy, needy wuss at some point during the relationship. He becomes predictable and boring at some point during the relationship. So stop doing those things. Instead, learn how to keep the attraction building and growing. The problem with most men is they think that in order to make sure their catch doesn't get away, they must constantly give women attention. Wrong! The reason that most women get bored in a relationship, or turned off by a new acquaintance, is that they get too much attention at once. Bottom Line: Don't Give Women Attention - That's all they want....and when they have all they want, they become bored and start looking for something else they feel you can't offer. How to Get Her To Chase You? Stage One: bait her; Pick the woman that you are interested in, wherever you may be. May I suggest that you choose your lady early and concentrate only on her the whole time you are there. If you start looking around too much, you will give her the impression that you are looking for anyone to sleep with.After you find her, begin by looking for body language signs, such as eye contact, a smile, hair touching, etc.If you get these signs from her, you must move quickly. Stage Two: be attentive Okay, now you made your move. You initiated the conversation. Now how do you make sure you keep the conversation going, and ensure she remains interested? Spoil her with attention by asking her all types of questions regarding her life. No sex-related questions please . Instead, talk about her likes (music, food, drinks, restaurants), her education, movies, even the current awkward situation.The important thing is to not mention anything (no matter how tempting) about yourself, unless of course she asks you to. If she does, (this usually means she's interested) please remember to be brief and move the topic back to focus to her. Once the conversation deepens, it is okay to mention that you'd like to keep in contact with her, and ask for a phone number. The first phone call should only be at least two days after the encounter. The conversation should revolve around how much fun you had with her, and how impressed you were with her personality.In other words, compliment her like crazy. Make sure that the first phone call does not last more than twenty minutes. It is crucial that you end the first phone call first. The conversation should end with you inviting her out for a date. On the first date, don't initiate a conversation about sexual topics, unless of course she does. The first date is a time to explore and find out a little more about each other. Do everything for her, but you don't necessarily have to agree with everything that she has to say. When she disagrees with your stance, accept it, and don't offer excuses either. Excuses make you look weak. stage three: the earthquake Now that the little princess is comfortable, it's time to make the ground shake under her feet. The fact that we want to be accepted, liked, and needed is human nature. Once this need is fulfilled, we turn our attention towards stabilizing it. It is time to take away all that attention from the little sweet princess . How? Simple........ Caveat Emptor: When you become involved with a good woman, please treat her very nicely, not like a rag. Good women are like jewels in a desert, very rare and to be cherished. 2 Likes |
Re: The Secret Why Giving Girls Too Much Attention Never Makes Them Fall In Love by madenigga2dcore(m): 3:45pm On Mar 03, 2015 |
gosh! anoda David de Angelo.. see dem PUAs |
Re: The Secret Why Giving Girls Too Much Attention Never Makes Them Fall In Love by LewisO: 3:46pm On Mar 03, 2015 |
buoye1:Thanks bro! Am honored! |
Re: The Secret Why Giving Girls Too Much Attention Never Makes Them Fall In Love by sylve11: 4:09pm On Mar 03, 2015 |
Nice one @ op |
Re: The Secret Why Giving Girls Too Much Attention Never Makes Them Fall In Love by chiderao: 4:15pm On Mar 03, 2015 |
Op thanks a lot..this one is directed to me ooh..just gv a girl I just met 200k to pay her house rent last night...and today she never say hey to me.....still waiting to hear from her thou... Guess it gna be a tough one to shegg her....bt gna keep mute as well...coz I know them she still gna call n I will strategize ma game to nail her well well.. Never n never again shld I fall mugu for babe.... |
Re: The Secret Why Giving Girls Too Much Attention Never Makes Them Fall In Love by Mavor: 4:17pm On Mar 03, 2015 |
chiderao: I'm not gonna insult you bro, even if you deserve it. I feel your pain. Experience is a very good teacher. Except she's your wifey man, dont do this kind of $hit again!!! 1 Like |
Re: The Secret Why Giving Girls Too Much Attention Never Makes Them Fall In Love by Weah96: 4:18pm On Mar 03, 2015 |
In my area, the girls pay for the upkeep of the guys. It's totally reverse. Girls work and bring money home, men stay at home, spend the money, and play video games. |
Re: The Secret Why Giving Girls Too Much Attention Never Makes Them Fall In Love by Mavor: 4:19pm On Mar 03, 2015 |
Weah96: You mean boys stay at home, spend the money, and play video games.....right? 1 Like |
Re: The Secret Why Giving Girls Too Much Attention Never Makes Them Fall In Love by InZA: 4:19pm On Mar 03, 2015 |
The moderator that put this on the front page must be a prospective client. As much as I subscribe to the essence of your post@OP....I can't still help but have a coloured opinion about it, the reason being that, your posts/articles and even your book(from the hints and excerpts you've drawn from it) somewhat encourages duplicity and infidelity. I stand to be corrected but your articles don't focus on getting that "special girl" that means the world to you, whom you would possibly want to "take home to mama" or whoever dey house in case mama don travel..... Instead it focuses on getting and stirring the attention of different girls...and this notion breeds psychological inconsistencies or complexities and ultimately limits the habit of commitment. It is my personal belief, that a relationship should be between one man and one woman who come together to commitedly nuture that relationship. But when a guy is, largely driven and motivated by the suggestions/opinions in your articles or the submissions in your book, that he can/or has the "legal" right to "bang" any girl that tickles his fancy, simply because he has "the know how", then ofcourse, no matter how you see it, your articles would only serve to further populate the already growing number of irresponsible men we have in Nigeria. Like I said initially, I subscribe to the essence of your post, which is being selectively attentive to a girl, but very few guys would see this in a "singular sense".... After all, what is the use of a knowledge gained if it is not lavishly practised. This is just my personal opinion and I know it hardly represents the ideals of other people. 3 Likes |
Re: The Secret Why Giving Girls Too Much Attention Never Makes Them Fall In Love by Mavor: 4:21pm On Mar 03, 2015 |
InZA:I think the more important question is how to recognize a good woman and win her. Most 9ja girls these days are not worth the drama they cause! 2 Likes |
Re: The Secret Why Giving Girls Too Much Attention Never Makes Them Fall In Love by CharlesNneji1: 4:24pm On Mar 03, 2015 |
chiderao: Money doesn't buy love; don't forget that bro (just in case she finally calls). |
Re: The Secret Why Giving Girls Too Much Attention Never Makes Them Fall In Love by CharlesNneji1: 4:32pm On Mar 03, 2015 |
InZA: I understand your point and I agree with them. However, I do not preach promiscuity. As a matter of fact; I have a super awesome pretty girl I'm dating right now and I don't cheat on her. What I teach is basic psychology. Even if you find that special girl, if you don't know how to go about making her see that you are the special guy for her, she will not realise it. Most times when we find that girl, in the heat of passion, we do things that set them off. Go through this thread, it has been read by hundreds of girls on nairaland but NO girl has commented to say that these things I have said is a lie. Doesn't that strike you? A website where people feed on bashing others. Doesn't that strike you that I have probably just said the truth. Think about that. 2 Likes |
Re: The Secret Why Giving Girls Too Much Attention Never Makes Them Fall In Love by Mavor: 4:38pm On Mar 03, 2015 |
CharlesNneji1:Wait, dem dey come for you. |
Re: The Secret Why Giving Girls Too Much Attention Never Makes Them Fall In Love by CharlesNneji1: 4:41pm On Mar 03, 2015 |
Mavor: Lol. Now I said it, I know they will come |
Re: The Secret Why Giving Girls Too Much Attention Never Makes Them Fall In Love by Weah96: 4:44pm On Mar 03, 2015 |
Mavor: Someone with 4 or 8 children cannot be a boy. |
Re: The Secret Why Giving Girls Too Much Attention Never Makes Them Fall In Love by nkemdi89(f): 4:59pm On Mar 03, 2015 |
That's so true, personally I hate it when a guy treats me like a trophy he is about to win, the regular calls gets me choked up especially when you don't any feelings for him or trying to lure you with money and gifts just to get my attention is a no no. The implication of his behaviour is that you may end up accepting him out of sympathy cos you feel he has tried,thereby the respect and genuine love isn't going to be there also after winning you like a trophy the love may degenarate cos you don't feed a fish with worm after being caught, due to chronic obssession he may endanger your life because he feels if he doesn't deserve you no one should, also I see those type of people as if they are acting to gallery immediately the curtain is closed the show is over. A healthy relationship isn't base on obssesion don't choke me its suppose to be mutual. 7 Likes |
Re: The Secret Why Giving Girls Too Much Attention Never Makes Them Fall In Love by Weah96: 5:05pm On Mar 03, 2015 |
nkemdi89: You must be one in a million. Bands don't make you dance, heh? 1 Like
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Re: The Secret Why Giving Girls Too Much Attention Never Makes Them Fall In Love by nkemdi89(f): 5:27pm On Mar 03, 2015 |
Weah96:Thanks dear,but truth be told there is a leveel in which you have reached in life and being blessed by the lord all these little gift will not catch your attention and with time to avoid insult you have to start rejecting the gift cos there maybe a sinister motives behind those gifts also, I believe a gift should carry an equal appreciation not accepting it for the sake explioting him,that where conscience comes to play. 2 Likes |
Re: The Secret Why Giving Girls Too Much Attention Never Makes Them Fall In Love by hisawesomeness(m): 5:28pm On Mar 03, 2015 |
blah blah blah. girls girls girls. everyday on nairaland. guys are so damn idle these days. girls this girls that.how to get a girl, how to bathe a girl, how to feed a girl. soon we'll see threads like how to wipe a girl's butt, steps to look at a girl. ha |
Re: The Secret Why Giving Girls Too Much Attention Never Makes Them Fall In Love by CharlesNneji1: 5:41pm On Mar 03, 2015 |
nkemdi89: And a lady speaks... 1 Like |
Re: The Secret Why Giving Girls Too Much Attention Never Makes Them Fall In Love by Nobody: 5:42pm On Mar 03, 2015 |
InZA: On point! |
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