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Re: The Secret Why Giving Girls Too Much Attention Never Makes Them Fall In Love by linusmark: 1:56am On Mar 04, 2015
just wasted my time reading this undecided
Re: The Secret Why Giving Girls Too Much Attention Never Makes Them Fall In Love by Nobody: 4:08am On Mar 04, 2015
sholly007:
@CharlesNneji1

Could some1 send such msg like dis to ex-gf for reconcile??

Sup (name), how has your day been?
Compliment of the new season
(eventhough u neva wish me dat).
Trust u've printed ur jamb slip,coz
i heard u guys was sent a msg 2
go reprint ur slip. Wishing u best
of luck in ya exam. My regards to
name sake, Sleep like a
baby. Bye.

Thanks in advance.
Ur Ibon fit scatter person brain ooo...Thank God for Anti-Ibon...Lool
Re: The Secret Why Giving Girls Too Much Attention Never Makes Them Fall In Love by samx4real(m): 5:47am On Mar 04, 2015
Fatalveli:
People now worship girls more than God these days. SMH!

Na wa oh
Re: The Secret Why Giving Girls Too Much Attention Never Makes Them Fall In Love by miracle4(m): 5:49am On Mar 04, 2015
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Re: The Secret Why Giving Girls Too Much Attention Never Makes Them Fall In Love by Ruttashobolwa(m): 6:48am On Mar 04, 2015
I concur with....
Re: The Secret Why Giving Girls Too Much Attention Never Makes Them Fall In Love by Youngpo413: 7:22am On Mar 04, 2015
1bkaye:
Giving ANYONE too much attention gives them the power to take advantage of you
you are very correct!
Re: The Secret Why Giving Girls Too Much Attention Never Makes Them Fall In Love by hisawesomeness(m): 10:00am On Mar 04, 2015
MimeeTee:
Then you have no place here!...abi, na wetin u dey find here?..were you forced to comment?..
listen to ursef make something meaningful out of ur already miserable life.
Re: The Secret Why Giving Girls Too Much Attention Never Makes Them Fall In Love by Nobody: 10:08am On Mar 04, 2015
hisawesomeness:
listen to ursef make something meaningful out of ur already miserable life.
Guy,Bobo,Male...we aint fighting naaw...Haba!..This one u just start toh dey insult...all I asked was "were u forced to comment"?...shikena
Re: The Secret Why Giving Girls Too Much Attention Never Makes Them Fall In Love by sholly007: 10:35am On Mar 04, 2015
MimeeTee:
Ur Ibon fit scatter person brain ooo...Thank God for Anti-Ibon...Lool
Am i reffering to u??
Why are just blabbing?
Re: The Secret Why Giving Girls Too Much Attention Never Makes Them Fall In Love by hisawesomeness(m): 10:47am On Mar 04, 2015
MimeeTee:
Guy,Bobo,Male...we aint fighting naaw...Haba!..This one u just start toh dey insult...all I asked was "were u forced to comment"?...shikena
were u forced to quote? undecided
Re: The Secret Why Giving Girls Too Much Attention Never Makes Them Fall In Love by Nobody: 10:53am On Mar 04, 2015
sholly007:

Am i reffering to u??
Why are just blabbing?
Loool...see as you tabon again!..Lmao..Oya put "you"in between are and just....
Re: The Secret Why Giving Girls Too Much Attention Never Makes Them Fall In Love by sholly007: 12:38pm On Mar 04, 2015
MimeeTee:
Loool...see as you tabon again!..Lmao..Oya put "you"in between are and just....
listen to ursef. Odee
Re: The Secret Why Giving Girls Too Much Attention Never Makes Them Fall In Love by Glocal1: 6:09pm On Mar 04, 2015
True talk man, der was dis lady my friend once dated, she was his first love. He gave her all d attention, call her as if he owns a call centre, buys her gift, sends money into her account, n begs her to come visit him in his apartment. Eventually d lady agreed to date her n dey were both doing fine. Suddenly after some time, d lady started misbehaving n was always telling d guy about other guys dat made love advances @ her, even while d lady was with my guy in his apartment, she would be receiving calls n chatting with her other toasters. I warned my friend abt d lady dat she was only a player but my friend declined all pleas n advice. All thru dis period der was nothing between dem, even when d lady sleeps in my friend's house. Suddenly, d lady started misbehaving n was always talking n chatting with her ex even in my friend's presence. The guy eventually got heart-broken n eventually sent her off. It took my guy few months to get over d lady n he almost failed one of his papers at d time. It took days of consolation by me n other colleagues to help him assuage d effect of d heartbreak on my guy. I was just laughing at him now n telling him dat ladies r not supposed to be taken too seriously. This was a guy who never dated any lady thruout undergraduate days in d uni.

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Re: The Secret Why Giving Girls Too Much Attention Never Makes Them Fall In Love by moneymagnet(m): 8:30pm On Mar 04, 2015
@Charles Kuddos to you bro, read thru a few of your articles and i must say there's much to learn from you. Thanks for the eye opener bt i hav a question " will it be out of place to get a ladies phone number from a friend of hers?" i ask because there's this gal i'm really interested in bt the only time i get to see her is on sundays and immediately after service she's off. this makes it truly diffficult 4 me to approach her and also get her number. please if i were to approach her given the condition i jst stated how do i begin a conversation with her pleassssssse help me with a few tips (i mean what to say to her) and how to go abt getting her number as i will probably hav less than 10mins to talk to her. please help a fellow guy, do hope to get a reply from you. thanks in anticipation
Re: The Secret Why Giving Girls Too Much Attention Never Makes Them Fall In Love by CharlesNneji1: 4:05pm On Mar 05, 2015
moneymagnet:
@Charles Kuddos to you bro, read thru a few of your articles and i must say there's much to learn from you. Thanks for the eye opener bt i hav a question " will it be out of place to get a ladies phone number from a friend of hers?" i ask because there's this gal i'm really interested in bt the only time i get to see her is on sundays and immediately after service she's off. this makes it truly diffficult 4 me to approach her and also get her number. please if i were to approach her given the condition i jst stated how do i begin a conversation with her pleassssssse help me with a few tips (i mean what to say to her) and how to go abt getting her number as i will probably hav less than 10mins to talk to her. please help a fellow guy, do hope to get a reply from you. thanks in anticipation

Hi, bro. Sorry this is coming late.

Asking for her number from her friend is not a nice move, if you have to get her number you have to get it from her. Getting it from her friend will send an "I dey overtrip" signal to the girl you like (and that will make her raise her defence).

The only way to get the number is to GET IT FROM HER.

Therefore, you need to find a way to get to her before she runs off after church.
However, when you make your move be cool about it - don't make her know you have been thinking of approaching her all these while.

Read this: www.nairaland.com/2163678/how-stop-girl-like-talk then use it to craft an approach that fits your personality.

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Re: The Secret Why Giving Girls Too Much Attention Never Makes Them Fall In Love by malele(m): 12:19pm On Jul 09, 2015
CharlesNneji1:
Alright, i am going to get a bit personal here.

I know; my articles are a bit controversial. I know that most things i say are not the usual conventional dating advice you hear all the time. I know that some of the things i reveal here gets a lot of people angry.

*smiles*

But the bottom line is this; they work: hundreds of guys who already use them can attest to this - Before you fight these articles, go out, practice them, then if they don't work - come back and tell me they didn't work and i will fully apologize for feeding you wrong information.

With that out of the way; lets begin.

GIVING A GIRL ATTENTION - DOES IT WORK OR NOT?

First; what do i mean by "attention" here:

here are some examples:

- Calling a girl all the time
- Paying her compliments anytime the opportunity arises
- Sending her love texts like your father owns telecom companies in six countries.
- Doing things for her and running errands for her (some guys do this, trust me)
- Buying her loads and loads of gifts (Father Christmas)

Now the thing is this; girls love all these things - as a matter of fact, when you are in a relationship all the above can spice up the relationship.

But when you are still trying to get a girl these very same things i just listed up there can backfire when you do them in a wrong way.

Stay with me; i will make this clearer. showing a girl attention is like kerosine - when you pour in a little at a time into a burning firewood - it is fine. BUT when you get a full cup of kerosine and empty it on that same firewood; you have a problem.

When you shower loads and loads of attention on a girl; it is not romantic bro - it is a sign that tells her: "babe, i am obsessed with you"

Have you ever heard a girl say: "I can't stop thinking of this guy, he calls me 20 times a day". See, there is a reason why the people you like never like you back: it is not coincidence; this is pure basic psychology 101

A GIRL CAN NEVER BE INTO A GUY THAT IS OBSESSED WITH HER and when you shower her with all those praises, calls, attention, gifts you are making her see you as a Mr. obsessed of Africa. Most girls will tell you they like it, but everybody knows that they will say they like a girl to treat them in some ways but when you treat them in that same way they say they want to be treated - they still joke with you.

Most times when a guy showers a girl with all these kind of attention what they (the guys) think is:

- She is so fine, if i don''t shower her with attention another guy will take her from me
- She likes it, i will keep showing her how crazy i am about her.
- It's by money; if i keep buying her things she will like me.
- This is how to get a girl, that is what most girls say - so let me shower her with attention

Guy, this is real life. What happens in movies rarely happen in real life, bro.

Funny thing is that while you are bombarding a girl with all these attention she is also wondering why she doesn't like you "in that way". When a girl meets a sensitive, caring, attention giving guy they think things like:

- He is such a nice, caring sweet guy - why don't i like him enough to date him.
- He is always there whenever i want him, why don't i feel like dating him.
- Let me keep him around, maybe with time i will start to like him.
- I don't want to hurt him, let me just be nice with him. But the thing is i just don't feel "it" for him.
- He is just a friend, he is nice but i can't date him - i can't bring myself to like him that way.

True enough, girls end up dating this type of guys but the fact is this; it is very RARE and most times when they do date the guy it is usually out of pity and not because they really like him as a boyfriend.

Here is psychology 101: "We don't like anything that is easy to have. When we get something we loose interest in that thing"

Showing a girl too much attention sends her the signal that "she already has you".

I know; it is not easy to hold back - the more you don't know how she feels about you, the more you chase her, the more she acts cold around - and the more you want her.

BUT HERE IS THE HARD PROVEN TRUTH: If you keep showering her with loads of attention, she will run away from you and go and find a more challenging guy. A guy who knows "whats up". A guy who is not as easy as you. A real Man who is in control.

Study all the girl you have been showering attention and chasing in the past one year: Can't you see how they keep giving you signals that they like you, that you are a sweet guy BUT they just don't feel it for you. You are a nice guy but they can't date you 9i'm sure a girl has told you this even)

Can't you see how very pretty girls keep complaining that the guys they like don't give them attention BUT you, fine boy like you, gives her the same attention she is making noise about and STILL she doesn't want you. Have you ever asked yourself Why almost EVERY girl complains that the guys they like don't give them enough attention. Have you ever wondered why they keep sticking to the guy even though he is not giving them enough attention that they want. Have you ever wondered if this is just coincidence or the way their brains are wired

Think, bro

PLAIN SIMPLE PSYCHOLOGY: human beings like what they don't have.

I know, a lot of people will come in here and say i have generalized but, the fact is this, this is simple plain proven science that i use myself to get classy pretty rich girls to take interest in me, this is the same science that over a hundred guys who read my articles use and still achieve massive success with the girls they like.

So since giving a girl too much attention doesn't work, what then works - little attention?

Nah, that too can backfire if you don't know how to trigger interest in girls. Have you wondered why players get more girls than other guys? it is because they know how to press a girls button and make her crazy for them.

In my e-book: "The Bang Rule...Ultimate Guild Of Seduction For Nigerian Guys", i went into details to explain this and the exact step by step secrets to use and get the girl you are interested in to be interested in you. In the book you will learn scientific psychology secrets you can use to turn the table around and make a girl like you for who you are and not because she likes your pocket (See my profile by clicking my name to see numbers to contact if you want to get the e-book).

For those who have been asking: Here are the e-book's contents:


-How to manipulate a girl’s emotions, irrespective of how tough she is and make her go crazy about you.



The four mistakes ruining your chances with girls now and how you can eliminate these mistakes, turn them to your advantage and use those same mistakes to your advantage in order to effortlessly make girls see you as boyfriend material.



The particular mindsets girls have that you can use right now to trigger massive lust in them. You can use these secrets to make any girl want to have sex with you without you even raising a finger.



The one powerful secret you can use in order to make sure that a girl never cheats on you. This secret will make sure any girl will be willingly to stick with you no matter what. This same secret is the one players use to keep a girl coming back to them even when they maltreat such girls.



The 3 steps that you can use this very moment to get into any girl’s heart.



How to make sure that a girl doesn’t see you as just a friend. This step by step secret will make sure she doesn’t friend-zone you or see you as someone she can’t date.

That is not all; I will also show you:

The 3 rules of seducing and getting pretty girls to like you like crazy.



The 3 exact moves to use on a girl and make her lower her defenses. These “moves” will ensure that even a girl who was heart-broken yesterday will see you as someone she can allow into her life now.



One particular thing you can start doing right now to appear more confident in front of girls. It doesn’t just stop there, this particular secret will totally eliminate the fears you feel about approaching a girl you like.



What to do in order to make a girl see you as some she must have. This is the exact same secret players use in order to make girls fight shamelessly over them.



How to make a girl love you even if you are broke



The exact thing to say in order to make her comfortable with you in an instant even if you two had just met.



How to make pretty and classy girls work hard just to please you.


See my profile for numbers to contact in order to get the e-book.

PS: i will keep writing more article, stay posted (Hehehe, this will vex some people like mad sha *winks* Your hateful words can stop from freeing guys from the bondage of girls who treat them badly grin)

Have an awesome day.

Peace..



What u wrote is quite real. I lost a girl I love so much because of much attention I gave her.

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Re: The Secret Why Giving Girls Too Much Attention Never Makes Them Fall In Love by malele(m): 12:53pm On Jul 09, 2015
If there is still a way to get her back, I will appreciate
Re: The Secret Why Giving Girls Too Much Attention Never Makes Them Fall In Love by Slimmos(m): 2:29pm On Jul 09, 2015
CharlesNneji1:


*smiles*

Have a great day, bro.
are u even taking dat fool serious? he is a poor idiot dat lyk forming rich boy. Infact, he is just a boy of not more than 18 years of age..
Baba, some of ur rule dey work lyk magic mehn.

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Re: The Secret Why Giving Girls Too Much Attention Never Makes Them Fall In Love by mrarranger: 12:11pm On Oct 29, 2016
Op hope this your rule doesn't apply to a lady you are already dating.... I believe its only for catching new ones.
Re: The Secret Why Giving Girls Too Much Attention Never Makes Them Fall In Love by malele(m): 4:11am On May 01, 2017
mrarranger:
Op hope this your rule doesn't apply to a lady you are already dating.... I believe its only for catching new ones.

It does
Re: The Secret Why Giving Girls Too Much Attention Never Makes Them Fall In Love by Nobody: 3:33am On Sep 07, 2017
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Re: The Secret Why Giving Girls Too Much Attention Never Makes Them Fall In Love by charles1104: 4:17pm On Nov 04, 2017
I fully agree with you that nothing will turn off a woman more than paying her too much fawning attention. But there is a balance to be struck. I had a sweet Nigerian girlfriend who loved me and who I loved enormously. However, I always found the idea of calling and texting her a bit of a chore sometimes. When we were together it was a different story. I felt an indescribable happiness in her company - but when we were apart, my head was always too full of other things to remember to call her - even though she was always there in the back of my mind. Worse, when I was busy, I used to keep my phone on silent or out of reach - so often I would miss her calls - only returning them a day or two later.

I guess women will put up with this for only so long before something cracks. Needless to say, I found out she has become involved with another guy. She still claims to love me - and maybe I can win her back - but the flame we had burning has died right down.

In summary - too little attention can be as bad as too much of it. It's all about balance I think.
Re: The Secret Why Giving Girls Too Much Attention Never Makes Them Fall In Love by samseymidast: 6:04pm On May 22, 2019
CharlesNneji1:
Alright, i am going to get a bit personal here.

I know; my articles are a bit controversial. I know that most things i say are not the usual conventional dating advice you hear all the time. I know that some of the things i reveal here gets a lot of people angry.

*smiles*

But the bottom line is this; they work: hundreds of guys who already use them can attest to this - Before you fight these articles, go out, practice them, then if they don't work - come back and tell me they didn't work and i will fully apologize for feeding you wrong information.

With that out of the way; lets begin.

GIVING A GIRL ATTENTION - DOES IT WORK OR NOT?

First; what do i mean by "attention" here:

here are some examples:

- Calling a girl all the time
- Paying her compliments anytime the opportunity arises
- Sending her love texts like your father owns telecom companies in six countries.
- Doing things for her and running errands for her (some guys do this, trust me)
- Buying her loads and loads of gifts (Father Christmas)

Now the thing is this; girls love all these things - as a matter of fact, when you are in a relationship all the above can spice up the relationship.

But when you are still trying to get a girl these very same things i just listed up there can backfire when you do them in a wrong way.

Stay with me; i will make this clearer. showing a girl attention is like kerosine - when you pour in a little at a time into a burning firewood - it is fine. BUT when you get a full cup of kerosine and empty it on that same firewood; you have a problem.

When you shower loads and loads of attention on a girl; it is not romantic bro - it is a sign that tells her: "babe, i am obsessed with you"

Have you ever heard a girl say: "I can't stop thinking of this guy, he calls me 20 times a day". See, there is a reason why the people you like never like you back: it is not coincidence; this is pure basic psychology 101

A GIRL CAN NEVER BE INTO A GUY THAT IS OBSESSED WITH HER and when you shower her with all those praises, calls, attention, gifts you are making her see you as a Mr. obsessed of Africa. Most girls will tell you they like it, but everybody knows that they will say they like a girl to treat them in some ways but when you treat them in that same way they say they want to be treated - they still joke with you.

Most times when a guy showers a girl with all these kind of attention what they (the guys) think is:

- She is so fine, if i don''t shower her with attention another guy will take her from me
- She likes it, i will keep showing her how crazy i am about her.
- It's by money; if i keep buying her things she will like me.
- This is how to get a girl, that is what most girls say - so let me shower her with attention

Guy, this is real life. What happens in movies rarely happen in real life, bro.

Funny thing is that while you are bombarding a girl with all these attention she is also wondering why she doesn't like you "in that way". When a girl meets a sensitive, caring, attention giving guy they think things like:

- He is such a nice, caring sweet guy - why don't i like him enough to date him.
- He is always there whenever i want him, why don't i feel like dating him.
- Let me keep him around, maybe with time i will start to like him.
- I don't want to hurt him, let me just be nice with him. But the thing is i just don't feel "it" for him.
- He is just a friend, he is nice but i can't date him - i can't bring myself to like him that way.

True enough, girls end up dating this type of guys but the fact is this; it is very RARE and most times when they do date the guy it is usually out of pity and not because they really like him as a boyfriend.

Here is psychology 101: "We don't like anything that is easy to have. When we get something we loose interest in that thing"

Showing a girl too much attention sends her the signal that "she already has you".

I know; it is not easy to hold back - the more you don't know how she feels about you, the more you chase her, the more she acts cold around - and the more you want her.

BUT HERE IS THE HARD PROVEN TRUTH: If you keep showering her with loads of attention, she will run away from you and go and find a more challenging guy. A guy who knows "whats up". A guy who is not as easy as you. A real Man who is in control.

Study all the girl you have been showering attention and chasing in the past one year: Can't you see how they keep giving you signals that they like you, that you are a sweet guy BUT they just don't feel it for you. You are a nice guy but they can't date you 9i'm sure a girl has told you this even)

Can't you see how very pretty girls keep complaining that the guys they like don't give them attention BUT you, fine boy like you, gives her the same attention she is making noise about and STILL she doesn't want you. Have you ever asked yourself Why almost EVERY girl complains that the guys they like don't give them enough attention. Have you ever wondered why they keep sticking to the guy even though he is not giving them enough attention that they want. Have you ever wondered if this is just coincidence or the way their brains are wired

Think, bro

PLAIN SIMPLE PSYCHOLOGY: human beings like what they don't have.

I know, a lot of people will come in here and say i have generalized but, the fact is this, this is simple plain proven science that i use myself to get classy pretty rich girls to take interest in me, this is the same science that over a hundred guys who read my articles use and still achieve massive success with the girls they like.

So since giving a girl too much attention doesn't work, what then works - little attention?

Nah, that too can backfire if you don't know how to trigger interest in girls. Have you wondered why players get more girls than other guys? it is because they know how to press a girls button and make her crazy for them.

In my e-book: "The Bang Rule...Ultimate Guild Of Seduction For Nigerian Guys", i went into details to explain this and the exact step by step secrets to use and get the girl you are interested in to be interested in you. In the book you will learn scientific psychology secrets you can use to turn the table around and make a girl like you for who you are and not because she likes your pocket (See my profile by clicking my name to see numbers to contact if you want to get the e-book).

For those who have been asking: Here are the e-book's contents:


-How to manipulate a girl’s emotions, irrespective of how tough she is and make her go crazy about you.



The four mistakes ruining your chances with girls now and how you can eliminate these mistakes, turn them to your advantage and use those same mistakes to your advantage in order to effortlessly make girls see you as boyfriend material.



The particular mindsets girls have that you can use right now to trigger massive lust in them. You can use these secrets to make any girl want to have sex with you without you even raising a finger.



The one powerful secret you can use in order to make sure that a girl never cheats on you. This secret will make sure any girl will be willingly to stick with you no matter what. This same secret is the one players use to keep a girl coming back to them even when they maltreat such girls.



The 3 steps that you can use this very moment to get into any girl’s heart.



How to make sure that a girl doesn’t see you as just a friend. This step by step secret will make sure she doesn’t friend-zone you or see you as someone she can’t date.

That is not all; I will also show you:

The 3 rules of seducing and getting pretty girls to like you like crazy.



The 3 exact moves to use on a girl and make her lower her defenses. These “moves” will ensure that even a girl who was heart-broken yesterday will see you as someone she can allow into her life now.



One particular thing you can start doing right now to appear more confident in front of girls. It doesn’t just stop there, this particular secret will totally eliminate the fears you feel about approaching a girl you like.



What to do in order to make a girl see you as some she must have. This is the exact same secret players use in order to make girls fight shamelessly over them.



How to make a girl love you even if you are broke



The exact thing to say in order to make her comfortable with you in an instant even if you two had just met.



How to make pretty and classy girls work hard just to please you.


See my profile for numbers to contact in order to get the e-book.

PS: i will keep writing more article, stay posted (Hehehe, this will vex some people like mad sha *winks* Your hateful words can stop from freeing guys from the bondage of girls who treat them badly grin)

Have an awesome day.

Peace..
I need this book... Mronisamuel@gmail.com! Who can help me out!
Re: The Secret Why Giving Girls Too Much Attention Never Makes Them Fall In Love by Nobody: 8:44am On May 27, 2019
Overly strong!
Re: The Secret Why Giving Girls Too Much Attention Never Makes Them Fall In Love by jbblues24(m): 12:21am On May 31, 2019
If I could I would. Whether or not I should, I still would. lipsrsealed
Re: The Secret Why Giving Girls Too Much Attention Never Makes Them Fall In Love by Adiat12: 5:32pm On Jun 18, 2020
Pls I need the eBook written by CharlesNnji1.
Re: The Secret Why Giving Girls Too Much Attention Never Makes Them Fall In Love by Spiff20(m): 7:25pm On Jun 18, 2020
CharlesNneji1:
Alright, i am going to get a bit personal here.

I know; my articles are a bit controversial. I know that most things i say are not the usual conventional dating advice you hear all the time. I know that some of the things i reveal here gets a lot of people angry.

*smiles*

But the bottom line is this; they work: hundreds of guys who already use them can attest to this - Before you fight these articles, go out, practice them, then if they don't work - come back and tell me they didn't work and i will fully apologize for feeding you wrong information.

With that out of the way; lets begin.

GIVING A GIRL ATTENTION - DOES IT WORK OR NOT?

First; what do i mean by "attention" here:

here are some examples:

- Calling a girl all the time
- Paying her compliments anytime the opportunity arises
- Sending her love texts like your father owns telecom companies in six countries.
- Doing things for her and running errands for her (some guys do this, trust me)
- Buying her loads and loads of gifts (Father Christmas)

Now the thing is this; girls love all these things - as a matter of fact, when you are in a relationship all the above can spice up the relationship.

But when you are still trying to get a girl these very same things i just listed up there can backfire when you do them in a wrong way.

Stay with me; i will make this clearer. showing a girl attention is like kerosine - when you pour in a little at a time into a burning firewood - it is fine. BUT when you get a full cup of kerosine and empty it on that same firewood; you have a problem.

When you shower loads and loads of attention on a girl; it is not romantic bro - it is a sign that tells her: "babe, i am obsessed with you"

Have you ever heard a girl say: "I can't stop thinking of this guy, he calls me 20 times a day". See, there is a reason why the people you like never like you back: it is not coincidence; this is pure basic psychology 101

A GIRL CAN NEVER BE INTO A GUY THAT IS OBSESSED WITH HER and when you shower her with all those praises, calls, attention, gifts you are making her see you as a Mr. obsessed of Africa. Most girls will tell you they like it, but everybody knows that they will say they like a girl to treat them in some ways but when you treat them in that same way they say they want to be treated - they still joke with you.

Most times when a guy showers a girl with all these kind of attention what they (the guys) think is:

- She is so fine, if i don''t shower her with attention another guy will take her from me
- She likes it, i will keep showing her how crazy i am about her.
- It's by money; if i keep buying her things she will like me.
- This is how to get a girl, that is what most girls say - so let me shower her with attention

Guy, this is real life. What happens in movies rarely happen in real life, bro.

Funny thing is that while you are bombarding a girl with all these attention she is also wondering why she doesn't like you "in that way". When a girl meets a sensitive, caring, attention giving guy they think things like:

- He is such a nice, caring sweet guy - why don't i like him enough to date him.
- He is always there whenever i want him, why don't i feel like dating him.
- Let me keep him around, maybe with time i will start to like him.
- I don't want to hurt him, let me just be nice with him. But the thing is i just don't feel "it" for him.
- He is just a friend, he is nice but i can't date him - i can't bring myself to like him that way.

True enough, girls end up dating this type of guys but the fact is this; it is very RARE and most times when they do date the guy it is usually out of pity and not because they really like him as a boyfriend.

Here is psychology 101: "We don't like anything that is easy to have. When we get something we loose interest in that thing"

Showing a girl too much attention sends her the signal that "she already has you".

I know; it is not easy to hold back - the more you don't know how she feels about you, the more you chase her, the more she acts cold around - and the more you want her.

BUT HERE IS THE HARD PROVEN TRUTH: If you keep showering her with loads of attention, she will run away from you and go and find a more challenging guy. A guy who knows "whats up". A guy who is not as easy as you. A real Man who is in control.

Study all the girl you have been showering attention and chasing in the past one year: Can't you see how they keep giving you signals that they like you, that you are a sweet guy BUT they just don't feel it for you. You are a nice guy but they can't date you 9i'm sure a girl has told you this even)

Can't you see how very pretty girls keep complaining that the guys they like don't give them attention BUT you, fine boy like you, gives her the same attention she is making noise about and STILL she doesn't want you. Have you ever asked yourself Why almost EVERY girl complains that the guys they like don't give them enough attention. Have you ever wondered why they keep sticking to the guy even though he is not giving them enough attention that they want. Have you ever wondered if this is just coincidence or the way their brains are wired

Think, bro

PLAIN SIMPLE PSYCHOLOGY: human beings like what they don't have.

I know, a lot of people will come in here and say i have generalized but, the fact is this, this is simple plain proven science that i use myself to get classy pretty rich girls to take interest in me, this is the same science that over a hundred guys who read my articles use and still achieve massive success with the girls they like.

So since giving a girl too much attention doesn't work, what then works - little attention?

Nah, that too can backfire if you don't know how to trigger interest in girls. Have you wondered why players get more girls than other guys? it is because they know how to press a girls button and make her crazy for them.

In my e-book: "The Bang Rule...Ultimate Guild Of Seduction For Nigerian Guys", i went into details to explain this and the exact step by step secrets to use and get the girl you are interested in to be interested in you. In the book you will learn scientific psychology secrets you can use to turn the table around and make a girl like you for who you are and not because she likes your pocket (See my profile by clicking my name to see numbers to contact if you want to get the e-book).

For those who have been asking: Here are the e-book's contents:


-How to manipulate a girl’s emotions, irrespective of how tough she is and make her go crazy about you.



The four mistakes ruining your chances with girls now and how you can eliminate these mistakes, turn them to your advantage and use those same mistakes to your advantage in order to effortlessly make girls see you as boyfriend material.



The particular mindsets girls have that you can use right now to trigger massive lust in them. You can use these secrets to make any girl want to have sex with you without you even raising a finger.



The one powerful secret you can use in order to make sure that a girl never cheats on you. This secret will make sure any girl will be willingly to stick with you no matter what. This same secret is the one players use to keep a girl coming back to them even when they maltreat such girls.



The 3 steps that you can use this very moment to get into any girl’s heart.



How to make sure that a girl doesn’t see you as just a friend. This step by step secret will make sure she doesn’t friend-zone you or see you as someone she can’t date.

That is not all; I will also show you:

The 3 rules of seducing and getting pretty girls to like you like crazy.



The 3 exact moves to use on a girl and make her lower her defenses. These “moves” will ensure that even a girl who was heart-broken yesterday will see you as someone she can allow into her life now.



One particular thing you can start doing right now to appear more confident in front of girls. It doesn’t just stop there, this particular secret will totally eliminate the fears you feel about approaching a girl you like.



What to do in order to make a girl see you as some she must have. This is the exact same secret players use in order to make girls fight shamelessly over them.



How to make a girl love you even if you are broke



The exact thing to say in order to make her comfortable with you in an instant even if you two had just met.



How to make pretty and classy girls work hard just to please you.


See my profile for numbers to contact in order to get the e-book.

PS: i will keep writing more article, stay posted (Hehehe, this will vex some people like mad sha *winks* Your hateful words can stop from freeing guys from the bondage of girls who treat them badly grin)

Have an awesome day.

Peace..
All lies....
Re: The Secret Why Giving Girls Too Much Attention Never Makes Them Fall In Love by Phenomenal16(f): 9:26pm On Jun 18, 2020
I wonder if this works for. A guy
Re: The Secret Why Giving Girls Too Much Attention Never Makes Them Fall In Love by EmmaNuella77(f): 9:37pm On Jun 18, 2020
In tiwa savage voice "If you no give me quality attention, I might get it from somebody else" grin



Meanwhile, you can get paid to watch videos

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Re: The Secret Why Giving Girls Too Much Attention Never Makes Them Fall In Love by Abokicaleb: 10:32am On Nov 14, 2020
Abeg hu has Mr Charles album snd�
Re: The Secret Why Giving Girls Too Much Attention Never Makes Them Fall In Love by Oluwaseun2020(m): 10:59am On Nov 14, 2020
Fatalveli:
People now worship girls more than God these days. SMH!
they are worshing problems my bro
And milking liabilities.

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