42n8dzydoo:
Come to do what? It's truly a slap on the husband's face. Shows they are still much in contact.

VivJohn:
My friend told me she's asked her fiance if her ex 'aristo' married lover can attend their wedding coming up next month (April). She says her fiance is quite upset and indeed disgusted at the brazen nature of this request and sees it as a slap in the face.

My question is, if he accepted her baggage at the onset of their relationship, why get agitated by this request?

VivJohn:
Thanks for the kind words @donKonji.
Quite difficult getting non holier than thou advice nowadays.
those who unleash venom at the slightest opportunity end up doing worse things sometimes.
Just wanted to correct another impression, my friend previously worked with the man in question hence the reason why they still communicate. Nothing more!

pbs4real:
cn u imagine?so u mean 2 say they stil work 2geda?as mch as dis mite sound. . Dt man is stil strafing ur fwend. . She's nt telling u d truth cos she knws u wnt support her.

VivJohn:
My friend told me she's asked her fiance if her ex 'aristo' married lover can attend their wedding coming up next month (April). She says her fiance is quite upset and indeed disgusted at the brazen nature of this request and sees it as a slap in the face.

My question is, if he accepted her baggage at the onset of their relationship, why get agitated by this request?

jaydude:



Is she so d.umb? Sorry 2 say! Some ladies sha! Dat man wuld def use d aristo matter against her some day and wtf asking her fiance to invite him for deir wedding was way too far!

VivJohn:
My friend told me she's asked her fiance if her ex 'aristo' married lover can attend their wedding coming up next month (April). She says her fiance is quite upset and indeed disgusted at the brazen nature of this request and sees it as a slap in the face.

My question is, if he accepted her baggage at the onset of their relationship, why get agitated by this request?

MrDoGood:
This wedding no go last at all.......
No be juju oh but na the truth i just yearn so.

The both of them na confuse people.

I wish them well sha

VivJohn:
My friend told me she's asked her fiance if her ex 'aristo' married lover can attend their wedding coming up next month (April). She says her fiance is quite upset and indeed disgusted at the brazen nature of this request and sees it as a slap in the face.

My question is, if he accepted her baggage at the onset of their relationship, why get agitated by this request?

VivJohn:
My friend told me she's asked her fiance if her ex 'aristo' married lover can attend their wedding coming up next month (April). She says her fiance is quite upset and indeed disgusted at the brazen nature of this request and sees it as a slap in the face.

My question is, if he accepted her baggage at the onset of their relationship, why get agitated by this request?

VivJohn:
Thanks for the kind words @donKonji.
Quite difficult getting non holier than thou advice nowadays.
those who unleash venom at the slightest opportunity end up doing worse things sometimes.
Just wanted to correct another impression, my friend previously worked with the man in question hence the reason why they still communicate. Nothing more!

chipmunkey:

[size=15pt]Maybe he is funding the wedding [/size]

Tallesty1:
I ain't marrying again if nah me.

ivyT:


Exactly maybe na him dey pay for everything

MrDoGood:

Op is the person in question
She's the one in the mirror

VivJohn:
My friend told me she's asked her fiance if her ex 'aristo' married lover can attend their wedding coming up next month (April). She says her fiance is quite upset and indeed disgusted at the brazen nature of this request and sees it as a slap in the face.

My question is, if he accepted her baggage at the onset of their relationship, why get agitated by this request?

donKonji:
She probably is still in love with the sugarman. Seriously, if I were the fiance, I would have an in-depth heart2heart with my lady to determine why she feels extending an invite to her ex 'aristo' is required under this circumstances.
My fellow nairalanders, if u love someone it isn't so easy discarding the person just because of such silly request. Consider the brighter side, at least she was honest enough to seek his permission. What if she went ahead to invite all men from her previous relationships without his knowledge. And then on the d-day they all appear splashing cash on the couple while the groom ignorantly dances his life away believing his wife is honest.
Not that I endorse her move to solicit her fiance's consent. No not at all. But at times we should step aside and attempt assessing a situation unbiasedly while providing non-sentimental counsel.
OP please convey this to your friend.

VivJohn:
My friend told me she's asked her fiance if her ex 'aristo' married lover can attend their wedding coming up next month (April). She says her fiance is quite upset and indeed disgusted at the brazen nature of this request and sees it as a slap in the face.

My question is, if he accepted her baggage at the onset of their relationship, why get agitated by this request?

Tallesty1:
I ain't marrying again if nah me.