chipmunkey:

[size=15pt]Maybe he is funding the wedding [/size]

akpumping7720:
I thought they said no more Ebola in Nigeria? From all indications, ebola is still residing in dat lady's left part of d brain. Aristos kan do wetin for d wedding? I even dey pity d husband sef, he is getting married to an over-used cargo!

mechanics:
Hmm, nawa o, and people say aristoles make gud wife, she just want to start her marriage on a faulty foundation, she shud av carried her man along nt her taking decision by herself.

donKonji:
She probably is still in love with the sugarman. Seriously, if I were the fiance, I would have an in-depth heart2heart with my lady to determine why she feels extending an invite to her ex 'aristo' is required under this circumstances.
My fellow nairalanders, if u love someone it isn't so easy discarding the person just because of such silly request. Consider the brighter side, at least she was honest enough to seek his permission. What if she went ahead to invite all men from her previous relationships without his knowledge. And then on the d-day they all appear splashing cash on the couple while the groom ignorantly dances his life away believing his wife is honest.
Not that I endorse her move to solicit her fiance's consent. No not at all. But at times we should step aside and attempt assessing a situation unbiasedly while providing non-sentimental counsel.
OP please convey this to your friend.

VivJohn:
My friend told me she's asked her fiance if her ex 'aristo' married lover can attend their wedding coming up next month (April). She says her fiance is quite upset and indeed disgusted at the brazen nature of this request and sees it as a slap in the face.

My question is, if he accepted her baggage at the onset of their relationship, why get agitated by this request?

VivJohn:
My friend told me she's asked her fiance if her ex 'aristo' married lover can attend their wedding coming up next month (April). She says her fiance is quite upset and indeed disgusted at the brazen nature of this request and sees it as a slap in the face.

My question is, if he accepted her baggage at the onset of their relationship, why get agitated by this request?

Idowuogbo:



This moniker sef

LydayBobo:
Y not. They met at the club I guess. My girlfriend can not even dare pick a guy call in my presence not to talk of my fiance. Orisirisi

chipmunkey:

[size=15pt]Maybe he is funding the wedding [/size]

Amybijou:


"Mechanics" e be like say u dey under car bonnet dey read ur own. No one has taken a decision here
Wife-to-be only asked her hubby if...

VivJohn:
My friend told me she's asked her fiance if her ex 'aristo' married lover can attend their wedding coming up next month (April). She says her fiance is quite upset and indeed disgusted at the brazen nature of this request and sees it as a slap in the face.

My question is, if he accepted her baggage at the onset of their relationship, why get agitated by this request?

VivJohn:
My friend told me she's asked her fiance if her ex 'aristo' married lover can attend their wedding coming up next month (April). She says her fiance is quite upset and indeed disgusted at the brazen nature of this request and sees it as a slap in the face.

My question is, if he accepted her baggage at the onset of their relationship, why get agitated by this request?

VivJohn:
My friend told me she's asked her fiance if her ex 'aristo' married lover can attend their wedding coming up next month (April). She says her fiance is quite upset and indeed disgusted at the brazen nature of this request and sees it as a slap in the face.

My question is, if he accepted her baggage at the onset of their relationship, why get agitated by this request?

donKonji:
She probably is still in love with the sugarman. Seriously, if I were the fiance, I would have an in-depth heart2heart with my lady to determine why she feels extending an invite to her ex 'aristo' is required under this circumstances.
My fellow nairalanders, if u love someone it isn't so easy discarding the person just because of such silly request. Consider the brighter side, at least she was honest enough to seek his permission. What if she went ahead to invite all men from her previous relationships without his knowledge. And then on the d-day they all appear splashing cash on the couple while the groom ignorantly dances his life away believing his wife is honest.
Not that I endorse her move to solicit her fiance's consent. No not at all. But at times we should step aside and attempt assessing a situation unbiasedly while providing non-sentimental counsel. God bless you

OP please convey this to your friend.

Idowuogbo:
Op you and your friend dey craze! As in e b like say dem rubber band una brain inside calabash con store am for the shrine wey dey una village. See queshun kwa? abi na aristo buy the babe wedding dress? Wa can fa gbogbo oshi yen?