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Re: Marrying A Guy That Is Short.. by Nobody: 4:11pm On Mar 25, 2015
MoonCares:


Thanks so much sweetie.. I appreciate!! He loves me and I do love him too. Is just my kids that am been afraid of and nothing else. God bless you and please don't mind @Dyt been disappointed, she's free to be.. A
if you love him short , you can love your kids short too. if he could provide for you short , your kids are gonna provide for someone who will love them too regardless heighy. YOU DONT FUCKING LOVE THE MAN , YOU LOVE WHAT YOU STAND TO GAIN MATERIALLY.

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Re: Marrying A Guy That Is Short.. by mrbillz(m): 4:11pm On Mar 25, 2015
At you did biology in sch. You should know more about Genetics,Hereditory and Mendel's laws undecided
Re: Marrying A Guy That Is Short.. by Fawklicant: 4:11pm On Mar 25, 2015
MoonCares:


Thanks so much sweetie.. I appreciate!! He loves me and I do love him too. Is just my kids that am been afraid of and nothing else. God bless you and please don't mind @Dyt been disappointed, she's free to be.. A


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Just kidding. If both of you are compatible, then the height shouldn't be so much of an issue. If both of you have tall people in your family, then there is a likelihood of having average to tall kids. My parents are no more than 5ft6 inches each but the shortest amongst us is 5ft 9inches and the tallest 6ft.2 inches.

Besides give those kids beans especially ewa agonyin twice a day for months and see wonders. I have seen this one work on a set of kids with 4ft. Plus parents. grin let the kids grow till their teenage years and then innundate them with ewa, chei! cheesy

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Re: Marrying A Guy That Is Short.. by ikombe: 4:13pm On Mar 25, 2015
now heights matters grin. Some gals eh, there are people who are praying for kids and u are here asking if it will affect height. Mtchew undecided
Re: Marrying A Guy That Is Short.. by JeffreyJamez(m): 4:13pm On Mar 25, 2015
DollyParton1:

lolz..... grin grin grin

Somethings are better left imagined lol
Re: Marrying A Guy That Is Short.. by Eberex(m): 4:14pm On Mar 25, 2015
The real problem is not what she thinks about his height or how it would affect the height of their children. The major worry is HOW PEOPLE WILL SEE HER WALKING SIDE BY SIDE WITH HER SHORT HUSBAND . The way people will STARE at her and whispers '' look how short he is''. or ''chai ! love is indeed blind''


Tell me i'm wrong OP.

You better do what your heart tells you and stop thinking about what people will say.
Re: Marrying A Guy That Is Short.. by jaybee3(m): 4:15pm On Mar 25, 2015
MoonCares:


My dear, they are something we can't control, you meant not want to date someone but naturally is will come and you won't be able to control it.

Thanks

Laughable excuse which is somewhat convenient for you to hide under

You can certainly control the power of attraction (physical) except you've had to allow the suspected benefits he brought to the table cloud your judgement.


Atraction is different from personality

You can grow to like someone's personality and that's something you have no contol over if as expected you decide to spend a lot of time with them

It's not unusual to relegate the question mark attached to the attraction if and when you've grown to be fond of the other person.

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Re: Marrying A Guy That Is Short.. by Nobody: 4:16pm On Mar 25, 2015
johnny1980:
Can you imagine?

So if your rightful husband is shorter by a mere inches, you wouldn't marry him?

Does height play any role in who turns out to be a good or bad person?

Shuu

Are we not allowed to have preferences and insecurities again undecided

Who is your ideal woman? tongue

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Re: Marrying A Guy That Is Short.. by jsayor(m): 4:17pm On Mar 25, 2015
chidekings:
running faster than ur shadow,the guy may not even wan marry u,maybe na eat the koko

Lol.

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Re: Marrying A Guy That Is Short.. by Ishilove: 4:17pm On Mar 25, 2015
xynerise:
Does the height of your kids determine how successful they will be in future?
cheesy cheesy cheesy

Aki and Paw Paw are living testimonies smiley
Re: Marrying A Guy That Is Short.. by LuckyLadolce(m): 4:17pm On Mar 25, 2015
MoonCares:


Thanks so much sweetie.. I appreciate!! He loves me and I do love him too. Is just my kids that am been afraid of and nothing else. God bless you and please don't mind @Dyt been disappointed, she's free to be.. A
DONT BE AFRAID OF UR KIDS... THEY ARE GOING TO BE GREAT KIDS. AND THATS WHAT MATTERS IN LIFE... WHAT IF UR KIDS ARE TALL AND THEY R NO WHERE TO BE PROUD OF? SWTS.. GO FOR SOMEONE U LOVE AND WHO LOVES U BACK. DONT MIND THOSE GIRLS WHO MIGHT WANT TO BE INTIMIDATING U WITH THEIR EMPTY TALL GUYS... MOST OF THEM ARE NOT HAPPY!!!!! THEY R JUST PRETENDING TO BE!!!! ALL THE BEST!!

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Re: Marrying A Guy That Is Short.. by Evina(f): 4:20pm On Mar 25, 2015
pickabeau1:
Op

choi.. see mouthedness

I pity the fiancé that will take u home to mama


Was that necessary?
Re: Marrying A Guy That Is Short.. by Hamatrony(m): 4:21pm On Mar 25, 2015
Ur pix den I giv an advice or no pix no advice undecided

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Re: Marrying A Guy That Is Short.. by pickabeau1: 4:21pm On Mar 25, 2015
Evina:


Was that necessary?

You tell me
I guess you can allow your brother marry such a rude lady
Re: Marrying A Guy That Is Short.. by happyzed0(f): 4:23pm On Mar 25, 2015
My dear is God dat gives height. growth mainly depend on wat u eat 4 d 1st 3yrs bt sometym gene play a role in it's own.it is better 2 live wif a short man happily dan 2 live wif a tall man n regret y u were created wat matters is luv do u luv him if yes pls invite me 4 d weddin

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Re: Marrying A Guy That Is Short.. by zubby29(m): 4:23pm On Mar 25, 2015
FACT IS DAT UR KIDS WILL B TALLER DAN BOTH OF U WCH IN MY OPINION IS NOT BAD,WITH TECHNOLOGY AND GOOD FOOD DEY CAN ATTAIN EVEN A BETTER HEIGHT,SO GO AHEAD MY DEAR,its no crime to b short bt i can gauranty u dat ur kids will b ok
Re: Marrying A Guy That Is Short.. by englishmart(m): 4:24pm On Mar 25, 2015
firstEVA:
what is there to be disappointed about, advise her and clear road for another person to advise. Mtshewwwww


Op, I understand you are considering your future children, 5 feet for a girl is not really average in my opinion, for him to be shorter, I feel your pain, but girl, character matters most, if he loves you big time and you love him too, pls marry him.
are suggesting that 5ft for a lady is a tall height?
Re: Marrying A Guy That Is Short.. by Ewuro4: 4:25pm On Mar 25, 2015
What is wrong with a short guy, Are your parents (both of you) short, why did you wait this long to finally ponder your decision, why do you think your problem will be solved on NL ? undecided


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Re: Marrying A Guy That Is Short.. by LuckyLadolce(m): 4:25pm On Mar 25, 2015
My rule is: I won't date the man I can't marry.[/quote] i feel u babe
Re: Marrying A Guy That Is Short.. by Bright2(m): 4:26pm On Mar 25, 2015
Op, yes they will be shot but must be taller than both of you at least that is considerate.
Re: Marrying A Guy That Is Short.. by akejison: 4:26pm On Mar 25, 2015
Stop listenning to ur friends becox I know they started telling u things. Just go ahead and marry him is all about love and caring not height. Are u God to say what become of ur kids tommorrow. What if u marry a man who is taller than u and u both hv no kids. If u believe he loves u go for it. Let people talk what they like.
Re: Marrying A Guy That Is Short.. by eagleeyez: 4:27pm On Mar 25, 2015
Dyt:
So its all abt height now?
U didn't see him short when u guys started?
Nothing person no go see/read for this NL life

Can u imagine ur utterance/writing?
I am disappointed
angry


You are terrible in giving advise and quite rude.

She asked for advise or are u stating u don't have qualities u want in a partner or even fears?
Please. Unless you have good things to state, simply just keep your cynical sadistic opinions to your depressed ignorant self

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Re: Marrying A Guy That Is Short.. by sayso: 4:27pm On Mar 25, 2015
I am responding late,@op your fears are real. Most of the people commenting are not married. I am and I know it will matter later in life. Do not give your kids a disadvantage position,your love for each other will fade with time and reality will set in,you will attend church,birthday,vacation etc together in 10 to 15 years time then you will know what you have done, i speak frankly because I know,you may now know how you became short? It was the decision two lovely lovers made years ago,do not make the same mistake rather pray with faith for a better and taller man. May God grant you the grace to carry on.

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Re: Marrying A Guy That Is Short.. by Evina(f): 4:28pm On Mar 25, 2015
pickabeau1:


You tell me
I guess you can allow your brother marry such a rude lady


First off, her fiance does not need your pity. I would assume that there are people around you deserving of your pity.

Secondly, my brother(s) have a mind of their own. They are men enough to choose their own wives and live with the consequences of their choice. In my family, we don't do the allow/disallow choice of partner by any member.

Lastly, you were quick to attack her but conveniently turned a blind eye to those hurling insults at her! Did she start insulting anyone? Or gave them back a taste of their own medicine?

I never knew you were this biased!

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Re: Marrying A Guy That Is Short.. by GodMode: 4:28pm On Mar 25, 2015
happyzed0:
My dear is God dat gives height. growth mainly depend on wat u eat 4 d 1st 3yrs bt sometym gene play a role in it's own.it is better 2 live wif a short man happily dan 2 live wif a tall man n regret y u were created wat matters is luv do u luv him if yes pls invite me 4 d weddin

Lies...

If she's 5ft and her man is shorter the kids will be at most 5.4ft...

Unless they have the height in them which the parents don't have.
Re: Marrying A Guy That Is Short.. by Temmytea70(m): 4:29pm On Mar 25, 2015
MoonCares:
Please I need advice from matured people.

There's this guy that am dating, he's so caring, lovely and humble. He is planning to marry me but he is short, though I have not gathered the courage to tell him my fears. Am average 5ft, but am taller than him. So am afraid that our kids will be short.

Please my fellow NL, I need your advice, I don't want to make mistakes in marriage. Though I have been praying to God for the right man.

BIO 101..follow my tutorial

If X=tall and Y=short

Husband=XX
Wife=YY
Husband + wife = XX + YY
Children= XY,XY,XY,XY,XY
Or


BIO 102..
Husband=XY
Wife=XY
Husband + wife = XX + YY
Children= XX,XY,XY,XY,YY


Hope it helps you
Re: Marrying A Guy That Is Short.. by delors(m): 4:29pm On Mar 25, 2015
So what exactly do u need from us? To tell you to dump him because of his height and then look for a tall guy or give him beans to eat so he can add at least 2inches?
Did you see his height when.you started dating him or was he tall before but now growing short? I wonder how tall Jay Jay Okocha, Obafemi Martins, MI, etc are...
Advice, height is not a determinant sis...Besides, don't worry about your kids' height that much, abi u fight ur parents for giving birth to u short? You'd be surprised how proud they ll be with their height...Ask Tyrion Lannister
Re: Marrying A Guy That Is Short.. by IamOpemipo(m): 4:30pm On Mar 25, 2015
majekdom2:
if you love him short , you can love your kids short too. if he could provide for you short , your kids are gonna provide for someone who will love them too regardless heighy. YOU DONT FUCKING LOVE THE MAN , YOU LOVE WHAT YOU STAND TO GAIN MATERIALLY.

Been goin tru d comments, I feel u pass..
I'm sure she's goin hate d kids if she marru and born for d guy..i cnt even imagin d guy been broke...
Re: Marrying A Guy That Is Short.. by Evina(f): 4:30pm On Mar 25, 2015
eagleeyez:



You are terrible in giving advise and quite rude.

She asked for advise or are u stating u don't have qualities u want in a partner or even fears?
Please. Unless you have good things to state, simply just keep your cynical sadistic opinions to your depressed ignorant self

She likes to think of her posts as funny.

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Re: Marrying A Guy That Is Short.. by Totfulguy: 4:31pm On Mar 25, 2015
MoonCares:
Please I need advice from matured people.

There's this guy that am dating, he's so caring, lovely and humble. He is planning to marry me but he is short, though I have not gathered the courage to tell him my fears. Am average 5ft, but am taller than him. So am afraid that our kids will be short.

Please my fellow NL, I need your advice, I don't want to make mistakes in marriage. Though I have been praying to God for the right man.

Just let me know which of the children you want tall or short...Let me know if you want the girls taller or the boys. You no serious...you no even confam whether the guy REALLY dey "humble, loving and caring" you dey worry about height. Anyway "use ur tongue and count your teeth".

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