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Re: Getting Married Next Month And Nothing Interest Me About My Hubby To Be! by adbokus(m): 3:40pm On Apr 03, 2015

ellabooz:
Women are evil and source of pain.

Be careful who you adopt into your live as wife.

Imagine the unthinkable by this evil minded lady capable of crippling her hubby's wheels of progress.

Please see your pastor for real deliverance.

Then, there is hope yet...

Re: Getting Married Next Month And Nothing Interest Me About My Hubby To Be! by IdJack(m): 3:40pm On Apr 03, 2015

Your boyfriend of 4 years..?

Hmmmmm, Something is wrong with you...why didn't you refuse him when he proposed to you..

I am suspecting you are already cheating on him

sprinkles14:
As I write you this letter, I'm not happy and not fulfilled. I'm getting married in less than one month to my boyfriend of 4years, but I must confess that nothing and I mean absolutely nothing interest and excites me about this guy. I don't feel complete with this guy at all..
I've been turning deaf ears to this inner voice but I kept pretending and forcing it on myself hoping I will get along sooner or later.
I must confess, this guy is a complete gentle man with a good paying job, full of ideas, loving and caring and everything about me is his priority. He's loved by all my family members and everybody around me. Calling of the wedding ceremony will be an outrageous thing to do because of the embarrassment to our families, friends and the guy in particular.
Have made a conclusion within me...after getting married, I will convince my the guy to allow me travel out of the country, maybe if I'm away, I can start a new life out of Nigeria chore and if this doesn't work, I will either file for a divorce after one year or cheat on my husband to make me happy.
Please a very constructive critics and advice will be highly appreciated.
Thank you.

unfulfilled bride to be.

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Re: Getting Married Next Month And Nothing Interest Me About My Hubby To Be! by Nobody: 3:42pm On Apr 03, 2015

phetty:
So Adam and Eve invented marriage

According to the ancient book, Adam and Eve were NEVER married. In fact, Adam impregnated 4 of his daughters also.

Re: Getting Married Next Month And Nothing Interest Me About My Hubby To Be! by donbenie(m): 3:43pm On Apr 03, 2015

Everybody relax!take a chill pill and calm down..this na Tales by Moonlight..ENJOY!

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Re: Getting Married Next Month And Nothing Interest Me About My Hubby To Be! by Luckyomon(m): 3:44pm On Apr 03, 2015

it will be very unfair on ur part... A guy's love cannot be bought. I believe some other guy is taking ur attention

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Re: Getting Married Next Month And Nothing Interest Me About My Hubby To Be! by adbokus(m): 3:45pm On Apr 03, 2015

Hazardd:
what are you doing with him since 4years if you are not interested in him. I wonder for some girls.

For the sake of that innocent young man, you can quit the wedding so that you wouldnt cheat on him in the future and give him heartbreak

so the earlier the better. . Smh

some girls like you dont deserve to be treated 'nice' if i may say

Abi oo..dn't even knw what comment to post. Look at her forming victim...

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Re: Getting Married Next Month And Nothing Interest Me About My Hubby To Be! by Defcon1(m): 3:46pm On Apr 03, 2015

sprinkles14:
Seriously, have tried all I could to spice up this relationship..not just working out...

l wonder why you accepted his proposal when you knew he was not the one for you, and you had 4 good years to decide whether he was the one or not.

Don't tie your self to perpetual unhappiness and regrets

Marriage is to be enjoyed not endured.

A broken engagement is better than a broken marriage.

Call it quits if you are 100% sure you don't want to marry him

People won't talk forever.
How many people still remember that the likes of lni Edo, Funke Akindele,Oge Okoye et al, all had serious marital problems, and these are popular celebrities

Try and find out what you truly want, and seek counsel if possible.
All the best.

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Re: Getting Married Next Month And Nothing Interest Me About My Hubby To Be! by Fourwinds: 3:48pm On Apr 03, 2015

sprinkles14:
I'm a victim of the overrated marriage in our society.

its a lie u. are cheat and u want to remain on dat lane. 4years u dated dis guy why didn't u quit.? u have someone else dat give u happiness but not as resourceful as dis ur guy. d truth is dat if u don't respect urself and do d needful God will not respect u

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Re: Getting Married Next Month And Nothing Interest Me About My Hubby To Be! by HoodameG(m): 3:51pm On Apr 03, 2015

sprinkles14:
As I write you this letter, I'm not happy and not fulfilled. I'm getting married in less than one month to my boyfriend of 4years, but I must confess that nothing and I mean absolutely nothing interest and excites me about this guy. I don't feel complete with this guy at all..
I've been turning deaf ears to this inner voice but I kept pretending and forcing it on myself hoping I will get along sooner or later.
I must confess, this guy is a complete gentle man with a good paying job, full of ideas, loving and caring and everything about me is his priority. He's loved by all my family members and everybody around me. Calling of the wedding ceremony will be an outrageous thing to do because of the embarrassment to our families, friends and the guy in particular.
Have made a conclusion within me...after getting married, I will convince my the guy to allow me travel out of the country, maybe if I'm away, I can start a new life out of Nigeria chore and if this doesn't work, I will either file for a divorce after one year or cheat on my husband to make me happy.
Please a very constructive critics and advice will be highly appreciated.
Thank you.

unfulfilled bride to be.

Pls and pls, don't marry him, or else you will never enjoy ur marriage. Deny him now and one day you will be glad you did.

Re: Getting Married Next Month And Nothing Interest Me About My Hubby To Be! by Mekzmoney(m): 3:52pm On Apr 03, 2015

Did u just say 99%? 99.9% of women do not know wat they really want.....
If u ask a woman she wud say dt she needs a love,caring,rich,Godfearing and handsome or presentable man 4 marriage or dat would swip up her feet. Now she has one and she says there's no connection... And wen she's getin old she wud be goin 4rm chrch to chrch to luk 4 any how husband or probably blame d witches n wizard in her village.
U said ur planning to get married n abandon him or chet on him. Would any reasonable human being tink of such abominable tin?
Who knws, maybe she has been cheating on dis innocent man wen d were courting.
In fact, ur fired huh

alobam1:
Make it 99% my dear..99 % of them don't know what they want..

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Re: Getting Married Next Month And Nothing Interest Me About My Hubby To Be! by guente02(m): 3:53pm On Apr 03, 2015

Girls/Ladies Women are BAAAD.
Source of Pain most of the time.

Re: Getting Married Next Month And Nothing Interest Me About My Hubby To Be! by skyenitan04(m): 3:54pm On Apr 03, 2015

this is crazy..u must be a fool..dis life sef..eni lori oni fila...i pity ur life..shameless fool, u ve bin dating someone for four years till u choose date for marraige nofin entice u,,u need serious deliverance ..mtcheww for u..

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Re: Getting Married Next Month And Nothing Interest Me About My Hubby To Be! by Nobody: 3:57pm On Apr 03, 2015

SagePerv:
[color=maroon]What heap of rubbish is this?
If you are not interested, then simply walk away.[/color]

Abi o

Re: Getting Married Next Month And Nothing Interest Me About My Hubby To Be! by castruccio(m): 3:59pm On Apr 03, 2015

HARDDON:
At the end of it all, u got all ur money stacked in Ghana must go, yet no one to share life with....

Ain't no other lonely men worse than this

I understand you sha.. but put yourself in dat guyz shoes would not it be better to be lonely than to discover you were not loved all this while and you end up divorced... I am entitled to my opinion so do you... My faith forbids divorce and it is a personal opinion that it is better for me to be single and rich with many friends and adopted childeren than to get married to a sick bitch who will make my life miserable both here on earth and in enternity... I rest my case cool

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Re: Getting Married Next Month And Nothing Interest Me About My Hubby To Be! by rhames(m): 4:00pm On Apr 03, 2015

were you a product of match making?

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Re: Getting Married Next Month And Nothing Interest Me About My Hubby To Be! by enyioma10000(f): 4:03pm On Apr 03, 2015

I think you need a very serious deliverance, what's happening to you now may not be ordinary, maybe you have a spiritual husband who doesn't want you to marry or some enemies of progress within you.

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Re: Getting Married Next Month And Nothing Interest Me About My Hubby To Be! by Icekyng: 4:04pm On Apr 03, 2015

Lexusgs430:
Sharp Babe !!!! Pesin wey get cap, no get head !!!!!

Naso my broda

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Re: Getting Married Next Month And Nothing Interest Me About My Hubby To Be! by fellory: 4:04pm On Apr 03, 2015

Vivly:
Hmmm. Truly, Marriage is the main cause of divorce.

Wow i thought it was dating

Re: Getting Married Next Month And Nothing Interest Me About My Hubby To Be! by INDUSTRIALFAN(m): 4:05pm On Apr 03, 2015

sprinkles14:
As I write you this letter, I'm not happy and not fulfilled. I'm getting married in less than one month to my boyfriend of 4years, but I must confess that nothing and I mean absolutely nothing interest and excites me about this guy. I don't feel complete with this guy at all..
I've been turning deaf ears to this inner voice but I kept pretending and forcing it on myself hoping I will get along sooner or later.
I must confess, this guy is a complete gentle man with a good paying job, full of ideas, loving and caring and everything about me is his priority. He's loved by all my family members and everybody around me. Calling of the wedding ceremony will be an outrageous thing to do because of the embarrassment to our families, friends and the guy in particular.
Have made a conclusion within me...after getting married, I will convince my the guy to allow me travel out of the country, maybe if I'm away, I can start a new life out of Nigeria chore and if this doesn't work, I will either file for a divorce after one year or cheat on my husband to make me happy.
Please a very constructive critics and advice will be highly appreciated.
Thank you.

unfulfilled bride to be.

Do you realise what you are about to do? What you are thinking of doing is what makes most men treat women like trash.... Imagine dating a guy and fooling him for FOUR YEARS and making him fall deeper in love with you. You even went ahead to accept his proposal and you choose to repay his kind, loving and selfless(according to you, he makes everything bout U his top priority) gestures with this kind of betrayal and heart break.... I am not saying you MUST marry him but think about how you have purposely wasted his time, resources, and energy and how you will crumble his world... Some people might even get suicidal and take their lives... My dear, if you have no change of heart, you should atleast, slow him down and explain everything to him. Tell him it will not work with you as your heart isnt there... Please, we all ought to be human cos to me, this is another version of man's inhumanity to man....

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Re: Getting Married Next Month And Nothing Interest Me About My Hubby To Be! by Mekzmoney(m): 4:05pm On Apr 03, 2015

loomer:
Things fall apart, season 2.

Can't wait to watch d movie.
I just read d novel grin

Re: Getting Married Next Month And Nothing Interest Me About My Hubby To Be! by Lexusgs430: 4:06pm On Apr 03, 2015

joelenesleek:
she think say we come this world to come hear plenty talk. Good men are going extinct.

True Talk my sister. So are good ladies, also seems to be going extinct !!!!

Re: Getting Married Next Month And Nothing Interest Me About My Hubby To Be! by temifisayo(f): 4:09pm On Apr 03, 2015

Honey, u might be having coldfeet. Think twice. U might be scared of spending the rest of ur life with some1 u think u dont love. But my best friend told me....... Dont marry the man u love, marry the man who loves you.

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Re: Getting Married Next Month And Nothing Interest Me About My Hubby To Be! by redsun(m): 4:11pm On Apr 03, 2015

Billyonaire:
According to the ancient book, Adam and Eve were NEVER married. In fact, Adam impregnated 4 of his daughters also.

Adam and eve are the creation of the early after it has been inculcated into the Roman imperial order. Fabooo.

Re: Getting Married Next Month And Nothing Interest Me About My Hubby To Be! by GodMode: 4:16pm On Apr 03, 2015

temifisayo:
Honey, u might be having coldfeet. Think twice. U might be scared of spending the rest of ur life with some1 u think u dont love. But my best friend told me....... Dont marry the man u love, marry the man who loves you.

What happens when u meet the man you love huh

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Re: Getting Married Next Month And Nothing Interest Me About My Hubby To Be! by olareed(m): 4:16pm On Apr 03, 2015

sprinkles14:
As I write you this letter, I'm not happy and not fulfilled. I'm getting married in less than one month to my boyfriend of 4years, but I must confess that nothing and I mean absolutely nothing interest and excites me about this guy. I don't feel complete with this guy at all..
I've been turning deaf ears to this inner voice but I kept pretending and forcing it on myself hoping I will get along sooner or later.
I must confess, this guy is a complete gentle man with a good paying job, full of ideas, loving and caring and everything about me is his priority. He's loved by all my family members and everybody around me. Calling of the wedding ceremony will be an outrageous thing to do because of the embarrassment to our families, friends and the guy in particular.
Have made a conclusion within me...after getting married, I will convince my the guy to allow me travel out of the country, maybe if I'm away, I can start a new life out of Nigeria chore and if this doesn't work, I will either file for a divorce after one year or cheat on my husband to make me happy.
Please a very constructive critics and advice will be highly appreciated.
Thank you.

unfulfilled bride to be.

so your planning to divorce me after marriage?...c'mon why?..afterall I was the same guy u were dying for sometimes back...so temme what was killing u so I restore them...

Re: Getting Married Next Month And Nothing Interest Me About My Hubby To Be! by Nobody: 4:17pm On Apr 03, 2015

sprinkles14:
As I write you this letter, I'm not happy and not fulfilled. I'm getting married in less than one month to my boyfriend of 4years, but I must confess that nothing and I mean absolutely nothing interest and excites me about this guy. I don't feel complete with this guy at all..
I've been turning deaf ears to this inner voice but I kept pretending and forcing it on myself hoping I will get along sooner or later.
I must confess, this guy is a complete gentle man with a good paying job, full of ideas, loving and caring and everything about me is his priority. He's loved by all my family members and everybody around me. Calling of the wedding ceremony will be an outrageous thing to do because of the embarrassment to our families, friends and the guy in particular.
Have made a conclusion within me...after getting married, I will convince my the guy to allow me travel out of the country, maybe if I'm away, I can start a new life out of Nigeria chore and if this doesn't work, I will either file for a divorce after one year or cheat on my husband to make me happy.
Please a very constructive critics and advice will be highly appreciated.
Thank you.

unfulfilled bride to be.

if i were your hubby to be, i would prefer it if you tell me your mind and let us quit the relationship.

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Re: Getting Married Next Month And Nothing Interest Me About My Hubby To Be! by notformealone: 4:23pm On Apr 03, 2015

sprinkles14:
As I write you this letter, I'm not happy and not fulfilled. I'm getting married in less than one month to my boyfriend of 4years, but I must confess that nothing and I mean absolutely nothing interest and excites me about this guy. I don't feel complete with this guy at all..
I've been turning deaf ears to this inner voice but I kept pretending and forcing it on myself hoping I will get along sooner or later.
I must confess, this guy is a complete gentle man with a good paying job, full of ideas, loving and caring and everything about me is his priority. He's loved by all my family members and everybody around me. Calling of the wedding ceremony will be an outrageous thing to do because of the embarrassment to our families, friends and the guy in particular.
Have made a conclusion within me...after getting married, I will convince my the guy to allow me travel out of the country, maybe if I'm away, I can start a new life out of Nigeria chore and if this doesn't work, I will either file for a divorce after one year or cheat on my husband to make me happy.
Please a very constructive critics and advice will be highly appreciated.
Thank you.

unfulfilled bride to be.

To me you don't know what you want. if someone should ask you now what are characteristics you want in a man. you will definitely mention all this characteristics. you see now. your problem is that you have not gone thru hell in the hands of men .... you are kind of lucky , you got this guy on a plater of gold... no hussle no stress. ... so you don't appreciate him

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Re: Getting Married Next Month And Nothing Interest Me About My Hubby To Be! by Nobody: 4:23pm On Apr 03, 2015

sprinkles14:
As I write you this letter, I'm not happy and not fulfilled. I'm getting married in less than one month to my boyfriend of 4years, but I must confess that nothing and I mean absolutely nothing interest and excites me about this guy. I don't feel complete with this guy at all..
I've been turning deaf ears to this inner voice but I kept pretending and forcing it on myself hoping I will get along sooner or later.
I must confess, this guy is a complete gentle man with a good paying job, full of ideas, loving and caring and everything about me is his priority. He's loved by all my family members and everybody around me. Calling of the wedding ceremony will be an outrageous thing to do because of the embarrassment to our families, friends and the guy in particular.
Have made a conclusion within me...after getting married, I will convince my the guy to allow me travel out of the country, maybe if I'm away, I can start a new life out of Nigeria chore and if this doesn't work, I will either file for a divorce after one year or cheat on my husband to make me happy.
Please a very constructive critics and advice will be highly appreciated.
Thank you.

unfulfilled bride to be.

Then a U-turn is not only necessary but imminent before spend the rest of your life pouting and brooding

Re: Getting Married Next Month And Nothing Interest Me About My Hubby To Be! by Sunjos: 4:24pm On Apr 03, 2015

Have made a conclusion within me...after getting
married, I will convince my the guy to allow me
travel out of the country, maybe if I'm away, I
can start a new life out of Nigeria chore and if
this doesn't work, I will either file for a divorce
after one year or cheat on my husband to make
me happy.

Wrong mindset..... You need Jesus. That's where your solution lies. Walk away, and walk into Jesus.
I wish you the best

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Re: Getting Married Next Month And Nothing Interest Me About My Hubby To Be! by seangy4konji: 4:25pm On Apr 03, 2015

how it take concern me huh

Re: Getting Married Next Month And Nothing Interest Me About My Hubby To Be! by Nobody: 4:26pm On Apr 03, 2015

So . . . women are actually capable of thinking like this . . .poo man. This sucks.

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