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| Re: Getting Married Next Month And Nothing Interest Me About My Hubby To Be! by yollychika(f): 8:54pm On Apr 03, 2015 |
Ironically u won't meet a better n sincere man dan him. |
| Re: Getting Married Next Month And Nothing Interest Me About My Hubby To Be! by bosun11(m): 8:58pm On Apr 03, 2015 |
misshoree:wonderful smile |
| Re: Getting Married Next Month And Nothing Interest Me About My Hubby To Be! by bosun11(m): 8:58pm On Apr 03, 2015 |
yollychika:  |
| Re: Getting Married Next Month And Nothing Interest Me About My Hubby To Be! by eOrdinaire: 9:00pm On Apr 03, 2015 |
Hello Unhappy Bride, What are those things you want in a man that He does not have? As a man, when I was getting married, I had two checklists. 1. Things that can Change 2. Things that cannot Change For the things that can change. I was willing to accept them the way they are now. Sometimes they include dress sense etc. For those things that cannot change like attitude, character etc. These things are show stoppers and we need to have robust discussion. As a woman, you will disappoint your man in words and deeds and vice versa. In all love must conquer all things. Expectations also kill. Please limit them as the dude is only human and bound to make mistakes. Are you seeing someone else? Have you met someone you think is better? Has he offended you? Is it that you want to explore? Are you bitter about some things? In sincerity, there will some one taller, smarter, cooler, sexier etc. Think these things through. Whatever made you dedicate 4 years of your life to him is still there. Please reach for it. As a woman, you need to know how to help your man. Men are naturally not romantic and could be clueless most times. They need help. They get better with time. There are several societal stigma on a man which you need to look beyond. Give love a chance! 2 Likes |
| Re: Getting Married Next Month And Nothing Interest Me About My Hubby To Be! by misshoree(f): 9:02pm On Apr 03, 2015 |
bosun11:thanks |
| Re: Getting Married Next Month And Nothing Interest Me About My Hubby To Be! by bosun11(m): 9:13pm On Apr 03, 2015 |
misshoree:You welcome.cheers |
| Re: Getting Married Next Month And Nothing Interest Me About My Hubby To Be! by goodmorning40: 9:15pm On Apr 03, 2015 |
treny:What is this one saying. Do u have problems understanding sentences then u should have asked for help instead of displaying ur ignorance here |
| Re: Getting Married Next Month And Nothing Interest Me About My Hubby To Be! by Achiles: 9:21pm On Apr 03, 2015 |
This OP disgust me. How dare you toy with a man's life with reckless wickedness? You have the guts to announce to the. World. |
| Re: Getting Married Next Month And Nothing Interest Me About My Hubby To Be! by Sagamite(m): 9:37pm On Apr 03, 2015*. Modified: 10:23pm On Apr 03, 2015 |
sprinkles14:Don't worry. You are not the first. That is virtually the norm for many marriages. Actually, when the bride-to-be is 28+ years old plus, it is actually the norm for a vast majority of the marriage. They find a good guy, flatter him a bit and a falls like a mumu because he has never had game in his life before. They are basically compromising to get married. I have always said that will never be my portion in life. I can tell by a woman's behaviour, statements and body language. https://www.nairaland.com/1911041/why-nigerian-girls-should-not/6#26463351 A woman has to feel extremely lucky to be with me to have a chance for me to marry her. If I don't see any signs of infatuation at her first sight of me or, worst, after our first 3 meets, then I am DEFINITELY not the man for her. I go fuuk though. 2 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: Getting Married Next Month And Nothing Interest Me About My Hubby To Be! by Sagamite(m): 9:39pm On Apr 03, 2015 |
MzNelly:Spice ko, pray ni. Attraction is not a choice people make nor a set of planned activities. |
| Re: Getting Married Next Month And Nothing Interest Me About My Hubby To Be! by Sagamite(m): 9:44pm On Apr 03, 2015 |
ellabooz:RUBBISH! Nothing is evil about what she is doing. He is dumb. More of his fault than hers. I don't know why some men are so mugufied. If he is a mugu then that is more of his wahala. There are many mugu men out there and very few eligible guys. Who are you to tel her not to appease her best interest. 1 Like |
| Re: Getting Married Next Month And Nothing Interest Me About My Hubby To Be! by Teespice(f): 9:48pm On Apr 03, 2015 |
Sagamite:hohohohoho God's gift to women. indeed  |
| Re: Getting Married Next Month And Nothing Interest Me About My Hubby To Be! by Sagamite(m): 9:49pm On Apr 03, 2015 |
Teespice:I am not God's gift to women o. What is between my legs is what is God's gift to women.  1 Like |
| Re: Getting Married Next Month And Nothing Interest Me About My Hubby To Be! by Sagamite(m): 9:54pm On Apr 03, 2015 |
Ilekeh:Is this Ileke of Florida? |
| Re: Getting Married Next Month And Nothing Interest Me About My Hubby To Be! by Teespice(f): 9:55pm On Apr 03, 2015 |
Sagamite:choi sagamite. I don't know why I chose you to pick on this night sha. anyways, what's between your legs? |
| Re: Getting Married Next Month And Nothing Interest Me About My Hubby To Be! by Sagamite(m): 9:59pm On Apr 03, 2015 |
Teespice:What is between my legs? "Danger, danger".  https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2a4gyJsY0mc |
| Re: Getting Married Next Month And Nothing Interest Me About My Hubby To Be! by Juzzybabe(f): 10:02pm On Apr 03, 2015 |
Witches are not only the ones flying at night ooo...well,if this tale is real,I pray that God will use holy ghost caterpillar to clear you off that guys way before you ruin his life. Why do you want to ruin this man's life  May you not succeed in this.Amen. 1 Like |
| Re: Getting Married Next Month And Nothing Interest Me About My Hubby To Be! by Teespice(f): 10:02pm On Apr 03, 2015 |
Sagamite:hohoho sagamite. you won't be the one to spoil me nanite. |
| Re: Getting Married Next Month And Nothing Interest Me About My Hubby To Be! by Sagamite(m): 10:02pm On Apr 03, 2015 |
Incredibledjay:I am sure a lot of pastors have chopped this ones money while he continues failing. 1 Like |
| Re: Getting Married Next Month And Nothing Interest Me About My Hubby To Be! by Sagamite(m): 10:21pm On Apr 03, 2015 |
babyosisi:have you ever heard the axiom: A fool and his money are soon parted. 1 Like |
| Re: Getting Married Next Month And Nothing Interest Me About My Hubby To Be! by Nobody: 10:41pm On Apr 03, 2015 |
Hmmmn |
| Re: Getting Married Next Month And Nothing Interest Me About My Hubby To Be! by tosyne2much(m): 10:56pm On Apr 03, 2015 |
bosun11:He gave him false hope to the extent that she even accepted his marriage proposal I doubt if God Himself understand ladies 1 Like |
| Re: Getting Married Next Month And Nothing Interest Me About My Hubby To Be! by anibestlala(m): 11:05pm On Apr 03, 2015 |
sprinkles14:love is a commitment not just a feeling .if you don't feel him,do those things you know a person who loves another should do.keep doing them until the feelings return.love him |
| Re: Getting Married Next Month And Nothing Interest Me About My Hubby To Be! by bosun11(m): 11:16pm On Apr 03, 2015 |
tosyne2much: I feel she was just holding on to see if she would feel something but the p here is , she should have called it quits after 2 years when she discovered...it was working for her and the feeling wasn't mutual. All the time i have spent with ladies, i have never understood them bro.Ladies too don't understand themselves, that is why they always quarrel.Just love and cherish them....that's all 1 Like |
| Re: Getting Married Next Month And Nothing Interest Me About My Hubby To Be! by lighternote: 11:27pm On Apr 03, 2015 |
Chronic lesbianism. |
| Re: Getting Married Next Month And Nothing Interest Me About My Hubby To Be! by tosyne2much(m): 11:28pm On Apr 03, 2015 |
bosun11:That's true bro.. May God increase them in wisdom and knowledge |
| Re: Getting Married Next Month And Nothing Interest Me About My Hubby To Be! by pomsky: 11:30pm On Apr 03, 2015 |
sprinkles14:[size=20pt] .......my dear, don't plan to fail. You already have a plan to fail in marriage. It's your escape plan, but it's actually a plan to fail. Don't let him say in the future, "why didn't you tell me?" Pls, call him and tell him what you have told us, don't hide it from him. Don't let him say in the future, "why didn't you tell me?" He will be bitter and may hate you in the future if you carry out your plans as stated. You're already planning to destroy his marriage, but can prevent it today by telling him exactly how you feel. Have the strength of character enough to pull out. If you're finding it difficult, get across to his best friend and tell him what you have told us. Then let him help in breaking the news. Don't walk in with eyes wide opened with the awareness you already have. You have seen the future from the beginning, but he has not. If you break it now, he will hurt, but will heal, but if you do as you have said, you will destroy him. It's better he's hurt than destroyed. You owe him that! If you marry him, you will certainly be irritable in the marriage, and he will not understand why. He will then put in much more to please you, which will irritate you even more. You will be choking with irritation cos your heart neva accepted him in the first place. If you think it will be easier to divorce him, you are greatly wrong! You will feel trapped in misery, "oh, had i known. I should have told him!" I feel sorry for you cos you will eventually meet someone you will be attracted to and will feel imprisoned, then you will reason,: "don't i also have the right to be happy?". There will be stress and pain beyond anything you can imagine now. It's better not to tread that lane! Your husband will hate you in the future for destroying his joy and life. But you can prevent it now. Pls tell him and maintain your stand. May God help you![/size]! 2 Likes |
| Re: Getting Married Next Month And Nothing Interest Me About My Hubby To Be! by sprinkles14(op): 11:37pm On Apr 03, 2015 |
femi4:There's no man anywhere...I'm reconsidering this option. Thank you |
| Re: Getting Married Next Month And Nothing Interest Me About My Hubby To Be! by blackbeau1(f): 12:26am On Apr 04, 2015 |
If you are planning to divorce him in a year, then you shouldn't marry him @ all. |
| Re: Getting Married Next Month And Nothing Interest Me About My Hubby To Be! by Nobody: 1:06am On Apr 04, 2015 |
@ Op. Happiness is key to a successful marriage Break it up with him, instead of stringing him along .. What if tables where turned n he did those things to you ? Imagine how u will feel. Explain it to him n then end . Its better to be honest than living a lie 2 Likes |
| Re: Getting Married Next Month And Nothing Interest Me About My Hubby To Be! by Ilekeh(f): 3:23am On Apr 04, 2015 |
Sagamite: |
| Re: Getting Married Next Month And Nothing Interest Me About My Hubby To Be! by luuvee(m): 3:38am On Apr 04, 2015 |
After four years? Yet he proposed and you said yes. U better tell him your mind now that there is time because if u wait till you get married to him and you hurt him in d way ur planning dat won't be fair atall a thing to do to someone who has done nothing but shown u care and love all d way. Because if you hurt him and he goes out of the way to place a curse on you? Dats on you so help this guy by telling him now you won't know how much good you will be doin to him by doin that. Its never adviceable for whatso ever reason to get into marriage with someone u don't love because it will never work because all u feel for d person is sympathy and not love. Tank me later |
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