speak2leo:
He probably is tired of the girl and wants to shift blames and make d break up easy by saying his brother slept wt his fiance, so the marriage can't work. guess He has seen som1 else. my thought though

Oh u beat me to this.

His broda s high on fiju milk

I guess d guy did not trust his fiance. Dats d only reason I can detect. Y wud a guy suggest such to his future wife. Wot abt d after effects of d sexual activities. Do u tink both of dem wud like to stop if dey enjoy each oda xo well.

Abeg u knw beta ursef cos I guess u re mature. I can give u 100 resons y its bad.

Moreova as a nigerian, I don't tink he needs any advise on dis issue because he will still follow his mind.

eminentme:
I'm confused even as I'm writing this now. a friend of mine just confided in me that his broda abroad wants him to sleep with his fiancé here in Nigeria instead of her to get from some guy ourstide. pls advice me on this so I can pass the msg across. mature opinion pls.

I think it's a trap. May be the brother abroad is suspecting him already and wants to make an inference from your friend's response to this evil suggestion.

There is a hidden agenda from this suggestion. Your friend must not fall into it. Let him prove to his brother abroad that he respects him to the extent he cannot afford to think of such a act, not to talk of doing it.

olusolapeter:
thirded...

fourthed

Y d mumu broda no fit kum naija com bleep d fiance n go bak. After d bros wey dey naija f*ck d fiance finish nw n weda she take in or not bt kum dey like am wetin d mumu abroad broda go say n do. Wat if d broda continue dey sleep wit d girl evn wen d mumu marry her? Him no dey reason. Guy abeg for ur own good, for d good of d relatnshp u ve wit ur broda, for d good of d fmly, to kp d fiance name clean n for ur conscience to b at peace dnt attempt wat ur foolish n muulistic broda tell u. I don talk o. D rest is up to ya. D best

eminentme:
I'm confused even as I'm writing this now. a friend of mine just confided in me that his broda abroad wants him to sleep with his fiancé here in Nigeria instead of her to get from some guy ourstide. pls advice me on this so I can pass the msg across. mature opinion pls.

hmm say the truth

Can't believe ds in ds modern age.

Is his fiance that cheap?

For real? With the extent of civilization. The supposed fiancee is really trying then!

Story story. #vegatalks

Insanity of the highest order.

RomanceLander:


Hmmmmmm
Does your Nairaland app notify you on romance section update

I don't use nairaland app

Bro i no fit.. NO VEX.. I be CHRISTIAN
I no suppose FVCK or even
touch woman until I marry..
Hope you understand..?
Yours brother
#Abramkelvin Adoyii

zyzxx:
seconded

Thirded

Drkul:

Thirded

Y U dey vex?

vizkiz:
tell your friends bro that I am a good samarithan and I love helping people in difficult situations like this. Though its not easy but it is a burden I choose to accept...

So can I have her digits?

Bad Pikin

jmoore:
How can we advise a mad man?

chai!! Diaris Gorduooooooooo

suwailad:


No problem about it
Only if the sex is strictly CASUAL and nothing more

yes, nothing's gonna be attached. Just casual

Maamin:
@Op, That his brother must have watched way too many Nollywood Igbo setting movies. Where by a man dies then his brother have to start sleeping with the widow wife.

Solution: Tell that your friend to tell his brother to stop watching such movies or taking them serious.

What u said about Igbo setting movies, is actually a long time out-dated tradition that existed in a very few Igbo communities. But then it was based on agreement binding on the widow, the brother-in-law and the entire community. No agreement, no such act.

And for the guy who wants us to advice a friend of his, one thing might sound funny. If the guy in question has taken over his brothe's fiancee before his brother asked him to do so, he will simply take it that it has justified his action as is the case with some people today even when the husband is around. Who knows what the case is?

olusolapeter:
thirded...

crazy man.funny though....

eminentme:
I'm confused even as I'm writing this now. a friend of mine just confided in me that his broda abroad wants him to sleep with his fiancé here in Nigeria instead of her to get from some guy ourstide. pls advice me on this so I can pass the msg across. mature opinion pls.

When last did fuccking a pussy become a problem? Fucck that bittch asap!

ShineuEye:

Bros I'd like to test the potency of your magun or maga
Bring your wife.

which one of them

your Senior or Junior sis?

A friend of urs confided in you and u decided to confide in about 1000000 people..ok

eminentme:
I'm confused even as I'm writing this now. a friend of mine just confided in me that his broda abroad wants him to sleep with his fiancé here in Nigeria instead of her to get from some guy ourstide. pls advice me on this so I can pass the msg across. mature opinion pls.

This is funny...I was just developing a story along this lines. I guess truth is stranger than fiction.

The guy don hammer be that

Same thing my bros suppose to tell me but instead force me to swear if I will do that

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AreaFada2:
Well, it doesn't surprise me anymore. Apparently, it's quite acceptable in a certain 9ja culture, at least in some areas of that broad cultural group.

A colleague's brother who had been abroad for about 3 years once called us to celebrate the birth of his child in 9ja. Most of us knew he was NOT settled enough yet to be able to travel back home. In fact nobody remembers him been a way from that city for straight 3 days let alone out of the country. He was still processing documents.

One indiscreet bubbly guy asked why he didn't tell us he was travelling home 9 months ago.

We had to quickly nudge him to seal his loud mouth! .

We were later informed that as long as he paid the dowry/bride price and did traditional rights, all kids from the woman are his irrespective of biological dad.

this isn't clear enough. Try explain well. From what my Igbo friend told me. When a couple quarrel and the wife left the house, whatever children she bore outside belongs to the husband. What I didn't understand in your case is what went wrong?

[quote author=golddust6000 post=32337732][/quote] Thank u for the correction.

eminentme:
I'm confused even as I'm writing this now. a friend of mine just confided in me that his broda abroad wants him to sleep with his fiancé here in Nigeria instead of her to get from some guy ourstide. pls advice me on this so I can pass the msg across. mature opinion pls.

The truth is that he wants to dump her but don't know how, with this now he can accuse her of sleeping with his brother

dis is my number 08056479875,

No be small tin o