vizkiz:
tell your friends bro that I am a good samarithan and I love helping people in difficult situations like this. Though its not easy but it is a burden I choose to accept...

So can I have her digits?

shellliver:


Yes o, he shd have just done whatever tha is on his mind

eminentme:
I'm confused even as I'm writing this now. a friend of mine just confided in me that his broda abroad wants him to sleep with his fiancé here in Nigeria instead of her to get from some guy ourstide. pls advice me on this so I can pass the msg across. mature opinion pls.

NobleG1:


His brother in Nigeria (I call BN) and the brother abroad ( I call BA).w

Is BA impotent? Or does he want his brother to start having sex with his fiancee instead of her getting it outside?

You were not clear. For this reasom, I will talk about my two questions.

If BA is importent and wants BN his to help him have kids. There's absolutely nothing wrong with it but how BA wants it done is totally wrong. Science provided a better means for BN to contribute his sperm without actually sleeping with his brother's wife.

If BA only wants his brother to satisfy his fiancee sexually while he is away, it's abomininably wrong. Why would he encourage his fiancee to cheat on him? Cheating is cheating no matter who do it with her. And for his own brother to do it, is one of the worst thing a brother could to his own brother. Nothing good will come out of it.

If you are worried that your woman you left at home will sleep with another man if you don't let your brother f*uck her, then yoo're indicating you don't trust her. Then why would you have someone who don't trust as your fiancee?

It is true that every womam do have s*exual urges whether you are around to satisfy her not or not. If you have a woman whether girlfriend or fiancee or wife and you know you are going away for a very long time-- many months or years, buy her a good intimacy gadget. It will help her relieve some sexual tensions while waiting for you to come home. It helps a lot.

There are genuine reasons why it is wrong for BN to start sleeping with his brother's woman;

1. A woman's body is her man's respect and diginity. When he loses it, it becomes worthless to him in most cases.

2. When a man and woman starts having regular sex, there's the possibilty that love could grow from it. And when your woman falls in love with another man, your relationship is doomed.

3. When a man falls in love with a woman he's have sex with, he claims her as his. And there's nothing you can do about it, especially, if the woman likes the man.

4. Even when you are home, your woman will not stop sleeping with your brother if she enjoys sex better with him.

5. Society will torment you with bad words when it becomes publicly known.

I could go on and on. In summary, it is recommended and accepted for your brother to contribute his sperm if you are importent or weak sparm. But it's unjust and totally wrong for your brother to sleep with your woman.

moreeni:


Try arranging to give it to your sister too so she doesn't get it outside. Awon Iran ki ran. The mo...ron even claims he's confused about the situation awon oniranu!

Re-quoting me will confirm my suspicion about you and your folks further. Assss...hhhhole!

netmillionaires:

this isn't clear enough. Try explain well. From what my Igbo friend told me. When a couple quarrel and the wife left the house, whatever children she bore outside belongs to the husband. What I didn't understand in your case is what went wrong?

falconey:
OK now I get it, he should tell his brother this is nigeria we don't do that.


Whatever nonsense they do abroad can not be practice here.

eminentme:
I'm confused even as I'm writing this now. a friend of mine just confided in me that his broda abroad wants him to sleep with his fiancé here in Nigeria instead of her to get from some guy ourstide. pls advice me on this so I can pass the msg across. mature opinion pls.

eminentme:
dnt always show ur stupidity everywhere u go, ur nt MTN.

AreaFada2:
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Ok.
A man lives abroad. He has not visited his wife in 9ja in 3 years. But one day he invites his friends in his diaspora base to celebrate the birth of his new baby in 9ja. Good 3 years after he left her behind.

IVF was still not common then in 9ja. So how did she conceive?

eminentme:
dnt always show ur stupidity everywhere u go, ur nt MTN.