Kay17:


You sound like you closely associate women with items for sale, at worst a goat in the market. The worth of a human -- a woman seems directly proportionate to her bride price. Such primitive thinking.

Cry me a river.

Uniben is jst d height....70% of uniben girls cohabit

SeverusSnape:

Truths...

Another set of LIES

Rapmoney:
I don't post topics randomly on NL except it is something someone else wrote that I want to share with others.

If you go through my threads, you will see a thread I created in the Education section. The thread highlights the faults of young men cohabiting with girls! You will see it is a two-way thing

Many folks in here think I am being critical of women but that's wrong. In as much as none of us is a saint, it doesn't mean we shouldn't point out a societal ill when we see one which is doing no good to our cultural system!

Looks like we agree on most points. My argument is specifically on the conclusion you reached and it's bias against women.

If a guy has kept Himself clean he has every right to refuse a girl as wife who has not kept herself clean.

Conversely , if a guy has not kept himself clean but insists on finding a girl who has kept herself pure, he is a hypocrite par excellence and deserves what he gets.

Optimall:



Another set of LIES

I give up!

frosbel:


Looks like we agree on most points. My argument is specifically on the conclusion you reached and it's bias against women.

If a guy has kept Himself clean he has every right to refuse a girl as wife who has not kept herself clean.

Conversely , if a guy has not kept himself clean but insists on finding a girl who has kept herself pure, he is a hypocrite par excellence and deserves what he gets.

Seconded!

SeverusSnape:

I give up!

Naah. I still live with my parents. Never cohabitated, not interested in doing such.

U90INDIVERSIT:




I hereby put it to u that u have done it and maybe still doing it.....u can't deceive some of us....smh

lol

shadowgwalker:
Yoruba Girl!you nor dey tire ni?!

To me o, any girl that has been bleeped more than 5 times outside wedlock don't deserve any bride price.

Rapmoney:
I often wonder where Nigerian youths copied this nonsense from because even students in universities in America, Asia and Europe do not engage in this trashy act as we do over here!!! Yet, we still call them agents of immorality?

I just feel, deep within my heart, that girls who cohabit or cohabited in the university do not desrve any dime as bride price paid on them! They should just follow their would-be husband to his house, free of charge and continue where they stopped in school!

A girl cohabits with a guy for 4 to 5 years in school; this means the dude would bleep her through out those years (free of charge o!), she would perform wifely duties for him...cooking, cleaning, washing, providing emotional wifely support, etc (free of charge too o!). Now, what's still left in such a body? If she can bleep a dude for years without any dime paid on her, coupled with the numerous wifely duties, then what's the need of paying a dime on her as diary or bride price? If that bloke that bleeped her for years didn't pay a dime on her where families would meet, eat and drink and pray, why should I pay a dime on her head? Worse of it is that this dude enjoyed all what he enjoyed free of charge! Now, why should I be requested to pay for same? Common, that's not fair! What's sauce for the goose is also sauce for the gander!!!

From Delsu to Lasu, from Uniben to OOU, from Uniport to Unical, from UniAbuja to Esut...it is the same story! Any girl who cohabits with a dude in school who has never paid a dime on her has lost her feminine value! She doesn't deserve anything paid on her!!!

As I read some people's comment here....especially ladies... I just weep for my generation....gone are the days wen people value their body....no wonder marriages this days are in plenty shambles compared to the years back.

How many undergraduate ladies/guys will be proud to tell or show their parents that cohabiting is the kind of life they live?....

if as a single lady/guy you spend years living with different guys/ladies with high percentage of no marriage....why should the guy/lady you eventually marry respect you? is trust which is the bedrock of marriage magical? is this not one of the major reason for cheats in marriage? after all the years of constant practice with different guys/ladies.....you think one person will automatically satisfy you? won't you be consciously/unconsciously be comparing the present with the past in bed?

Well...as long as the earth remains.....Seed time n harvest will never ceased. you reap wot you sow!

As a side note: nobody should refers to my sisters oooo.....the ones I have never cohabited. Train up a child in the way he should go.....wen he's grown....he will never depart. Nothing beats good home training and personal moral values.

to the ladies: LADIES RESPECT YOUR BODY! ABEG , THINK OF THE MAN YOU WILL EVENTUALLY MARRY! PITY HIM biko.....

OP implies that such babes who cohabited with their guy and still got married to same, deserves a bride price. Same applies to the babe marrying such kind of a guy who has done same to another girl before (black pot marry black kettle); bride price is allowed. But such babe marrying an innocent guy doesn't deserve bride price.

swaggzo:


YOU SHOULDN'T EVEN BE POSTING SUCH A THING AT THIS STAGE OF YOUR LIFE.

POINT ME ONE OF YOUR FAM MEMBER OR SIBLING WHO'S A SAINT. . AND I POINT OUT 50 ANIMALS THAT ARE.


SOME LADIES COHABIT WITH THEIR GUY UNTIL THEY EVEN GET MARRIED.

ITS THEIR BUSINESS. NOBODY SHOULD BE BOTHERED WHERE ITS TAKING THEM TO AS LONG AS THEY ARE ADULTS AND ARE OLD ENOUGH TO DECIDE WHAT THEY WANT WITH THEIR LIVES!

SeverusSnape:

Bros, It's very frightening.
Some guys are even scared of getting married.
If the time comes for me eh... I'LL EMPLOY THE SERVICES OF A PRIVATE INVESTIGATOR TO ARCERTAIN HER PAST LIFE. I'm serious o

why even get married in the first place?

swaggzo:





IF MY DAUGHTER IS OF AGE I WILL NOT EVEN ATTEMPT TO MAKE DECISIONS FOR HER.

SHE'LL HAVE HER LIFE TO LIVE, I'LL BE JUST THERE TO GUILD HER THROUGH. . AND JUST PLAY MY PART.

I WILL NOT TELL HER TO NOT HAVE A BOYFRIEND OR TO NOT FCCK WHO SHE LIKES. .

I'LL LET HER DO HER THING HER WAY, AS A GROWN UP.

WoW! You ll make an Excellent DaDdY of the century.. Too bad the innocent girl already has a DICK for a father. With what I saw hear, you are not going to play any good part in the poor girls life so WTF are you guiding

Nicklaus:
WoW! You ll make an Excellent DaDdY of the century.. Too bad the innocent girl already has a DICK for a father. With what I saw hear, you are not going to play any good part in the poor girls life so WTF are you guiding

YOU CANNOT EVEN SPELL.
GO HOME. . YOU'RE DRUNK.

swaggzo:




YOU CANNOT EVEN SPELL.
GO HOME. . YOU'RE DRUNK.

lols I'm an abstainer. I made a mistake at hear InSTDF (here) big deal ?

Nicklaus:
lols I'm an abstainer. I made a mistake at hear InSTDF (here) big deal ?

YOU CAN AS WELL ABSTAIN FROM QUOTING ME A NEXT TIME.

Is this OP a learner??

swaggzo:




YOU CAN AS WELL ABSTAIN FROM QUOTING ME A NEXT TIME.

just as u ve made ur own blunder "A"


Post more of those $hit

And u ll get more of mine

I QUOTE !

I agree

Well said op

I have no Prob with your post cuz if most girls(or all) had made their ways along Christ n ethical values this would not be a topic.
I agree dat cohabitation with a guy/gal dat z not Ur husband/wife z a SIN n not morally right.
But pple will say we r judging others but d truth z dat DZ ain't judging but helping to return our lost values.
If d society had frown @ dis act 4RM d onset it wud prolly had curb it.
Yea a WOMAN looses Her value as a VIRTOUS woman when she let's herself bkum a plaything in a guys hands, But what can I say the Western Elites r telling US dat we r stupid n dumb 4 thinking so n its so painful dat so many persons r just foolishly n blindly following d ways d devil wants us to go.
I WOULD RATHER remain DUMB TO UPHOLD THE TEACHINGS of the BIBLE(not by my powers tho but by HIS grace) than b WISE in d sight of this world.
For d Wisdom of man z foolishness to d Almighty

swaggzo:


YOU SHOULDN'T EVEN BE POSTING SUCH A THING AT THIS STAGE OF YOUR LIFE.

POINT ME ONE OF YOUR FAM MEMBER OR SIBLING WHO'S A SAINT. . AND I POINT OUT 50 ANIMALS THAT ARE.


SOME LADIES COHABIT WITH THEIR GUY UNTIL THEY EVEN GET MARRIED.

ITS THEIR BUSINESS. NOBODY SHOULD BE BOTHERED WHERE ITS TAKING THEM TO AS LONG AS THEY ARE ADULTS AND ARE OLD ENOUGH TO DECIDE WHAT THEY WANT WITH THEIR LIVES!

My brother, the fact that everyone is behaving in a certain way or doing a particular thing doesn't make it right if the act is a wrong one.


No matter the number of people doing a particular thing, a wrong act remains same. The sad fact is that most of those guys don't end up marrying them so another man takes the load.


Op has a point. Don't crucify him if you're affected. You may say the boys lure the girls into it but the girls have the right to resist it. There's a saying which goes thus, 'when the animal runs a bad run, the hunter shoots a bad gun'.

Rapmoney:
Are u sure u still have those grey materials working in ur head?

I doubt it!!!!

Blebleswag:
Same they wil do to ur sisters, cos she's bn jumpin 4rm peter2james, fryingpan2pot etc.
Or if u dnt hav sisters, then to ur girl child/children

guilt z eatin u up?

That is totally not acceptable... I won't be happy to hear that my own child is engaged in such...

Norenal:
I have no Prob with your post cuz if most girls(or all) had made their ways along Christ n ethical values this would not be a topic.
I agree dat cohabitation with a guy/gal dat z not Ur husband/wife z a SIN n not morally right.
But pple will say we r judging others but d truth z dat DZ ain't judging but helping to return our lost values.
If d society had frown @ dis act 4RM d onset it wud prolly had curb it.
Yea a WOMAN looses Her value as a VIRTOUS woman when she let's herself bkum a plaything in a guys hands, But what can I say the Western Elites r telling US dat we r stupid n dumb 4 thinking so n its so painful dat so many persons r just foolishly n blindly following d ways d devil wants us to go.
I WOULD RATHER remain DUMB TO [/b]UPHOLD THE TEACHINGS of the BIBLE[b](not by my powers tho but by HIS grace) than b WISE in d sight of this world.
For d Wisdom of man z foolishness to d Almighty

Lol..sounds like a Jehovah's witness.

nationwide1:
My brother, the fact that everyone is behaving in a certain way or doing a particular thing doesn't make it right if the act is a wrong one.


No matter the number of people doing a particular thing, a wrong act remains same. The sad fact is that most of those guys don't end up marrying them so another man takes the load.


Op has a point. [/b]Don't crucify him if you're affected.[b] You may say the boys lure the girls into it but the girls have [/b]the right to resist it[b]. There's a saying which goes thus, 'when the animal runs a bad run, the hunter shoots a bad gun'.

Correct!

Optimall:


Lol..sounds like a Jehovah's witness.

Well U wrong. Any Prob with dat?

pretty050:
Why should the woman take all the blame. They are both living a sin. "Wall mongers and adulterous (fornicators in this case)God will judge "

Lol,,,you forget that the said dude might not get married to her afta varies f bleeping styles for year's.....anyway ladies can be funny with or without cohabitation

Gracyel:

Those 'fellow females' are not to be compared to me. Not all of us are the same, they probably dont know their value as 'A woman', and thats why they swallow and accept every nonsense the 'immature guys' say to them.....plus I see guys like u, most esp most NL guys as the type who dont see women beyond whats btw their legs..and see no value whatsoever in d female folk. But then, I really dont give a damn cos I know wat I carry.....Good night! Now, lemme wait for one slowpoke to come and misquote me

First off, no one is comparing anyone to u. 2ndly u don't knw me dat well to say I don't see women beyond wats btw their legs. If u must know I have a very wonderful girlfriend whom I intend to propose to very soon and I have four sisters, hence I naturally value the "female folk". But u shld stop decieving urself in thinking dat men and women are d same wen it comes to dese tins. The number of men who won't date a girl becos she has had so many men in her life is much more than the number of girls who would say they won't date a man who has had so many women in his life. Dis is fact, but u can either ask ur fellow "female folks" or remain in ur self deceit. Good morning

swaggzo:
WELL SAID RAPMONEY, WELL SAID.


BUT LIFE IS ALWAYS BETTER WHEN WE MIND OUR OWN BUSINESS.

WE WILL MAKE MORE PROFIT IF WE DO, INSTEAD OF POKING AROUND, INTO OTHER PEOPLE'S MATTERS.

no we wont make any profit by minding our own business, why do u tink pastors preach 2 the masses when they have their own lives to worry about, motivation speakers talk and write books tellin people how to set their lives. The world will be a better place if friends wud 'stop minding their businesses' and talk friends engaging in such acts. Minding our own businesses make us selfish, not dat we shld always poke nose into every matter, bt sometimes in order not to promote such acts, its necessary

Norenal:


Well U wrong. Any Prob with dat?

I don't think there's,do you?
I think you made a great point.