Mandu94:


Note. You don't speak on behalf of all men. You are minuscule dust. Too much ignorance. You are the epitome of irony, Mr pretentious pretending to be civilized. You are a barbarian, why are you so angry. Simply because I don't take your nonsense. And never ever want to see you or come close to your bike and wagon.

all4naija:

You see, you take irrelevant things seriously. There is nothing wrong in rejecting a front seat with me in my super car and seating in a super car in a forum is not possible. Learn to differentiate realities from jokes. I've got a super hottie already! Please, stop being delusional and make sense for once as a feminist-by-heart that you are. I don't expect cheap jabs from you.

Mandu94:


This is a ground for All4naija to prove something to himself personally. He is a broken character, a pathetic helpless little boy in his heart. He hates his colour, tries to put women down, wouldn't be surprised if he was bullied. He uses his plastic super car to catch prostitutes. 'Hey I date Latina models', he probably lives with 100 cats. People that say all these things Seriously LACK in life.

Its okay, All4naja, I feel ever so sorry for you and many do too. So in essence he is loser from the moment he typed.

For your information, I love women, treat them with warm arms and I don't look down on them in any way. I am color blind meaning I don't care about the colors of people skin and poking fun at dark skin in this forum is meant as a joke. Seriously, I don't know what the anger is for. Jeez!

You just hate to hear that I love my life. For that I still can't understand the reason why you are so much against affluence. It is time you do something good with your life and enjoy it to the fullest. You need to feel sorry for yourself in your miserable feminism not me! I am not going to be a part of that primitive life you choose to live.

Go all4naija with your swag!

Mandu94:


I AM A FEMINIST BY HEART. Cant you understand.

all4naija:

For your information, I love women, treat them with warm arms and I don't look down on them in any way. I am color blind meaning I don't care about the colors of people skin and poking fun at dark skin in this forum is meant as a joke. Seriously, I don't know what the anger is for. Jeez!

You just hate to hear that I love my life. For that I still can't understand the reason why you are so much against affluence. It is time you do something good with you life and enjoy it to the fullest. You need to feel sorry for yourself in your miserable feminism not me! I am not going to be a part of that primitive life you choose to live.

Go all4naija with your swag!

Mandu94:


Funnily you know nothing about me and my interests. But that is not important. The only thing you will ever know, simply is that you learn more about yourself the more you debate with me.

You are interested in my personal life, I don't give a damn about yours. You always stray from the topics I've noticed. Because you take everything so personal.
Be relevant.

Back to the matter of feminism.

Mandu94:
Lool, a "joke" about skin colour, you kidding me

Time and time again, I say I am happy for you. I think you love these talks because you always get personal. And I want to debate. You say you are a "man" and older than me for that matter, lol, so man up Mr super car and lets debate. Why you crying all the time with epic insult failures directed at me.

I want strictly debate, can you handle that?

all4naija:
Now you intentionally deviate from the discussion on feminism you blame me for. It is clear you can't debate based on your cry over little disagreements. Bwahaha...

Mandu94:


??, are you alright, seriously.

all4naija:

Yes, I am! There is nothing serious about that though. Feminists usually take the wrong ways and forget that men are not actually their problems but they are their own problems. I like those who fight for the 'gender equality' not those who want to twist things and think they are superior. What is so hard for you to understand it is wrong to reason that way? Oh! I almost forgot you are feminist by heart!

Mandu94:


Feminist by heart xx.

You feel inferior because I have elucidated truth about you. Therefore you assume feminism is about superiority. This isn't about me personally, can you comprehend that.

Feminism emphasises on women's struggles and liberation as I've explained to you a billion times. When the problems that Feminism addresses are resolved then gender equality will be be achieved.

Lol, you think you are an ambassador for all men. You are just one person. I am debating with you, not being against men. Don't ever get confused.

all4naija:

That heart of yours must be very firm.

The inferior part is not necessary as you have quite seen here that I don't show any sign of it at all. I am ever confidence as any president of United states can be. There is this believe by feminists(feminists by heart to be precise) that liberation of women has to be about ideological masquerading of ladies showing egos to look something special as the only way out in finding solution is misleading on struggles for equality. It has never achieved anything positive. Those who come up with solution are usually different groups of women who have common goals to address issues properly, like the society against domestic violence, the United Nation program on women trafficking,etc and those are not completely about gender equality which you fail to understand.

Finding solution to the gender disparity in working places, home and other areas of life is not going to come through feminism but through other group of people who believe in the good of progressing humanity not on discrimination.

You don't even know that feminism is discriminatory in a nutshell!

ronald4lif:
I think it is because women don't easily get in the mood like men. They need men to treat them special and all nice to get that sexual attraction/urge. Another reason could be because most men have made it appears as if sex is like hitting some huge jackpot. Like our lives depends on it. So women have capitalise on this vulnerability of men to achieving their aim; attention, pampering and their want. Maybe men should stop their madness for sex, as women enjoys it as much anyways.

Though this act is sort of annoying, the one that irks me most is after a break up you hear a girl saying "after all I did for him". And you just reflect back to see what value they added to your life. But no, nothing.

A lot of women encourages, support and give men that extra push to becoming a better person. But some just think once they open their legs for him, that's enough. And these are the ones who are quick to play victim with after all I did for him bunkum.

Mandu94:


You cant be as confident as any US president can be. Lol they would simply research your background and you will be headline news for all the wrong reasons.

You claim you are influential, however you are the worse type of leader anyone can look up to. Typical hypocrite and pretentious malicious barbarian especially towards women and Africans.

Its ironic how you offer advice with how to approach uniting people for a cause, when you deterred anyone from taking you seriously about 'Africa's primitiveness'.
When we talk about action, the way one goes about is complex. Empowerment to women and change come in different forms, such as charities, magazine articles, educational workshops, all contributing unknowingly to the feminist efforts.

all4naija:

Why not? It is like a figure speech though. Researching my background doesn't mean they would make me lose my confidence.

I have always given good advice on the right path to achieving the best and moving humanity forward by involving both sexes equally(the differences are opened for debate). I can strongly say there is nothing ironic about that. Saying the truth about the primitiveness of Africa is true and it is palpable you hate to hear the truth. How can we move the continent forward without facing the truth?

Women empowerment is not discriminatory but feminism is. To empower women to know their potentials and contribute to humanity in almost all areas of life is nothing bad at all. I completely agree with that not with some who are masquerading to be special than their male counterparts and be seen as superior in their annoying views on gender equality, which I think, they are doing wrong by trying to intimidate men in most cases.

Mandu94:


Now I know you have epically lost the debate. Because you have no substance regarding your justifications for why I am and feminism is about female superiority. I have never indicated this at all, so no idea where your sources are coming from.

You are simply manipulating in order to have a comeback. You are pathetic. Waste of my time.

That is not correct. It means you have no idea of what feminism is all about before becoming one by heart - the feminist by heart. That is funny!

You need to do your research properly and understand feminism completely.

Thank you.

all4naija:

That is not correct. It means you have no idea of what feminism is all about before becoming one by heart - the feminist by heart. That is funny!

You need to do your research properly and understand feminism completely.

Thank you.

all4naija:

Yes, I am! There is nothing serious about that though. Feminists usually take the wrong ways and forget that men are not actually their problems but they are their own problems. I like those women who fight for the 'gender equality' not those who want to twist things and think they are superior. What is so hard for you to understand it is wrong to reason that way? Oh! I almost forgot you are feminist by heart!

Mandu94:


Haha, have you done yours? Because I want to know what type of feminism you have been looking at.

ChappyChase:

My bro you've said it all...
But, come to think of it we are the one do the ladies a favour after we crack our brain in making them feel appreciated(toasting), and we pour our lives(sperm) inside them and at the end they grow fatter(boobs and butt) while we go skinny and longer(body and neck)! So tell me who dey do who favour?! Abi we go talk of our money way go vanish(shawama, ice cream, air time etc...) Just to get her to open that bottomless hole even though say the thing dey hungry them but them just dey improvise(using their small finger,carrot, tooth brush etc to do them self)..
Abegi make them park well we(men) are the one doing them a favour!!!!!!

all4naija:
Ha!!! I gat ya! Now you are talking about types of feminism. Why must there be different types of it?

ChappyChase:

My bro you've said it all...
But, come to think of it we are the one do the ladies a favour after we crack our brain in making them feel appreciated(toasting), and we pour our lives(sperm) inside them and at the end they grow fatter(boobs and butt) while we go skinny and longer(body and neck)! So tell me who dey do who favour?! Abi we go talk of our money way go vanish(shawama, ice cream, air time etc...) Just to get her to open that bottomless hole even though say the thing dey hungry them but them just dey improvise(using their small finger,carrot, tooth brush etc to do them self)..
Abegi make them park well we(men) are the one doing them a favour!!!!!!

MrsChima:


Actualy, you are right! Men is not the only issue feminists having to deal with..they also have to deal with other shallow women!

People who are against equality has some perception that if the change in how society were in the past will alter the change in cultures that caters to men.
Feminism has been around for decades and yet men acts though their true existence has been demolished when we yet to have women in world positions.

I can understand why women who are against Feminism because they will lose traditional stability. Many girls were taught and raised to believe that your whole purpose is to be a help meet to a man. If you do not have a husband you are better off dead.

I am not against traditional marriage, I am against the theory of what it represents. In Nigeria..men have all the power while the women are content with being cumulative buckets and breeders. Do you think that is fair? Do you think your daughters 10 years from now will be happy with that position. Be honest.

yes, Women Don Know It All And Neither Does men. There is a huge needs for balance and harmony. Men and women should voice their minds and the best ideas should be accepted not a competition on.who gender is better!

Some of the collaborations in the world is when men and women work together collectively for the same cause and respect each other's value!

There is another movement that is primarily for women dominance and that is womanism. Feminism is not for sole gender dominance but womanism is! You have NOT seen myself or Mandu spoke about women dominance but women empowerment. Two different movements and theories.

It is not good to soak in ignorance when knowledge is easily accesible.

Mandu94:


Said it all really.

MrsChima:


Actualy, you are right! Men is not the only issue feminists having to deal with..they also have to deal with other shallow women!

People who are against equality has some perception that if the change in how society were in the past will alter the change in cultures that caters to men.
Feminism has been around for decades and yet men acts though their true existence has been demolished when we yet to have women in world positions.

I can understand why women who are against Feminism because they will lose traditional stability. Many girls were taught and raised to believe that your whole purpose is to be a help meet to a man. If you do not have a husband you are better off dead.

I am not against traditional marriage, I am against the theory of what it represents. In Nigeria..men have all the power while the women are content with being cumulative buckets and breeders. Do you think that is fair? Do you think your daughters 10 years from now will be happy with that position. Be honest.

yes, Women Don Know It All And Neither Does men. There is a huge needs for balance and harmony. Men and women should voice their minds and the best ideas should be accepted not a competition on.who gender is better!

Some of the collaborations in the world is when men and women work together collectively for the same cause and respect each other's value!

There is another movement that is primarily for women dominance and that is womanism. Feminism is not for sole gender dominance but womanism is! You have seen myself or Mandu spoke about women dominance but women empowerment. Two different movements and theories.

It is not good to soak in ignorance when knowledge is easily accesible.

Mandu94:


What do you think of this ALL4NAJA

Mandu94:


There was my catch, you have no idea. Feminism has evolved over the years. There were different waves of feminism.

MrsChima:
Allnaj

It is obvious you didn't get the gist of my post and I didn't expect you to get it.

Shallow is a much polite word that I have chosen to used and I stand on my comment about shallow women.

It is interesting that after I spoke about women and men should work together and respect each other's value that A MALE fixed his fingers to say I tried to make it relevant.

It is clear that if you agree or come to a compromise....SOME mumus will STILL argue that the sky is red instead of blue even with pictures.

People are afraid of change.

MrsChima:
Some people needs not to change definition of words to support their rambles.

Dictionary was designed for that purpose.