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ronald4lif:
Hahaha

My own be say so far say I trace your parish non of my female relatives go worship there.

I no trust you lai lai

Chiam55:
Ok hun you've made your point please stop now. The op said at the beginning of her post that she was having a hard time after the loss of a very special man in her life. This back and forth you and Ronald4life are having is not fun and it's not making the op feel any better. I plead with you guys to stop now because you don't understand the power of words.

all4naija:
Seriously, dude, you are begging the question. You can not take the truth of the matter that single mothers are usually sad. Go ask those receiving counselling and in the neighborhood with their single kids what their sorry are often like. I quote my post that gets you infuriated below:

''Single mothers are usually sad. I don't admire them as potential dates. Sorry Cherry, I am not saying that because of you! Those getting into relationship should think well and use their mental faculty than their feelings before settling down. ''


I don't see any that is demeaning in talking about reality. I can't wrap my head around what you want me to believe when it is obviously it's the wrong thing to do.

Oh, please... The thread topic is about dating status and anything that has to do with relationship is likely applicable during discussion. All you expect me to say is to go by the list and nothing else. If we must look at it from that very perspective then you and I are already guilty of the crime.

They are sad because they aren't involved in any relationship yet and have to deal with raising their kids all alone. Single mothers are often those not in a relationship but once were with kids from it. I am not saying they can not get involved with guys in new relationships to find happiness but I am making it clear they aren't usually happy. What is wrong in pointing that out?

ronald4lif:
There's nothing wrong in pointing that out and I'm not infuriated like you put it. This is just a debate where there are conflicting views and opinion. And we can always agree to disagree and pick one or two things from it. What struck me first was that the statement was placing every single mum as sad. Which I know can't be true.

Not every woman needs a man or be in relationship to be happy or not sad like you put it. If you are having such believe it will do well you dismiss it.

Like I said earlier there are many single mum who aren't sad and some don't even want a man or a relationship in their lives. There are lesbians with babies, which they got either by adoption or via artificial insemination and we both know these set of people don't need men or heterosexual relationship. They are also far from sad. Some single mum lives happier lives than those in a relationship and not every woman, be it single mum or not, need a man to live a happy and fulfilled life.

Chiam55:
Ronald4life please dnt quote and reply him. He is very insensitive although not intentionally so let's not feed that insensitivity.

cherryice:
n I wont
my friend go n sit down or beta stl chase more women.. dts ur call
youve bn marked on nl

Chiam55:
Ronald4life please dnt quote and reply him. He is very insensitive although not intentionally so let's not feed that insensitivity.

Did you have to say that?Always showing that African nature.

all4naija:
Did you have to say that?Always showing that African nature.

harrysterol:
make i add 1 of my online gf for u na? Oya take chimkaire

all4naija:
Did you have to say that?Always showing that African nature.

Tashaamania:
Bushmeat don carry hunter


Now who is supposed to be saying - "I no wan die before my time"? Me, I guess

chimkaire:

missclasssy:

Chiam55:
Well I did because I found it insensitive. I am sorry if that statement comes across as an offense. So what was status again. You said single but you don't want kids?

Now we can get along. . I think you are an intelligent person I can chat with.

Yes! I am dating but don't want kids. I think the population of the world is getting to a disastrous state where drastic actions need to be taken to find solutions. Some people have to stop having kids to compensate for the mistake of the increase of the human population that's putting pressure on resources. It is not going to have much effect as it would be from effective policies by government of different nations around the world.

mirexxx:
single

Ipledge:
Dont get me wrong oo,i wish to be single,because my criteria in choosing gf is out of this world

all4naija:
Now we can get along. . I think you are an intelligent person I can chat with.

Yes! I am dating but don't want kids. I think the population of the world is getting to a disastrous state where drastic action need to be taken to find solution. Some people have to stop having kids to compensate for the mistake of the increase of the human population that putting pressure on resources. It is not going to have much effect as it from effective policies by government of different nations around the world.

Truckpusher:
Why you no go dey single when your forehead be like palm wine tapper bicycle seat.


Who wan carry black eye come out say na romance level ?

mirexxx:
and you quoted me 2 say?

kinglekan:
Snatch ko, catch nii!!

Tashaamania:
At 21?? . I'm jealous I always loved early marriages


Truckpusher, come and propose now!!!!!
Or are you waiting for me to hit menopause before you do?

Truckpusher:
Why are you always bending your mouth?

You get mouth ulcer?

PunkyOh:
It's nothing to be jealous about to be honest, because as a person you change a lot. You start to think that if maybe I should have waited a little longer, because marriage is not a stroll in the park & at a young age, most often, you're not equipped with the right tools emotionally to deal with the stress that comes with it so you may have regrets here & there. Plus let's not forget about "suspended childhood", because you decided to grow up too fast lol. It makes you feel like you've LIVED but not really lived if that makes sense lol.

harrysterol:
my runaway luv hv u seen stinggy?

missclasssy:

Chiam55:
Wow! You said my mind! That's exactly how I feel about babies. I want to adopt and one god willing I will own an orphanage. We are clocking 7billion people in the world and we're not taking care of them so it's selfish to just keep adding.

Chiam55:
Wow! You said my mind! That's exactly how I feel about babies. I want to adopt and one god willing I will own an orphanage. We are clocking 7billion people in the world and we're not taking care of them so it's selfish to just keep adding.

harrysterol:
my runaway luv hv u seen stinggy?