How bad have u been embarassed by the opposite sex. A date, or any other form. This may be lenghty! But as usual here, Its not for lazy readers.

I remember my 1st year in the university. Me n my bestie as at then, not bad girls and not like we too holy. We were just there. Alwaiz there for each other. We were more like sisters. Let's call her "Hibiscus".

Hibiscus stayed off campus at one of the "biggest" female hostels. I was always in her room, though I stayed on campus. We got back from school after lectures and she told me of one guy at our faculty that wanted to take her out
on a date. She said she knew the guy but they've never really talked, just "hi hi"and not sure if she wanted to go with him. I just said if she dint want to, she shouldn't.

The next day, she told me the guy came to meet her again. He showed her his white bold 5 (bold 5 was the in thing then) and disturbed her all through that day. He kept saying "he has money and anywhere in Lagos that she would like to go he would take her and blah blah". She said she was shocked and dint know what to do because he followed her round the faculty. So she gave him her number after much persuasion to call her and she'd let him know if her mind was made up. When she was with me, he cald again. So I was like ok na "ask him if you can come with your friend". He agreed and kept saying " no problem, I'd take you anywhere, spend money". Hian! She sef fear. Told her not to worry since we were two, make we just see where dis guy mouth go end. So we agreed to go with him the next day. We planned taking our Atm cards and extra cash incase of any "f*ck up"

The D-day came, me wey no like make up, my friend dressed me up, made me up, I wore an outfit I wouldn't wear normally. When I was done, me sef knw say I fine n hot. Two of our freinds were in the room that day. So they all "dressed us up" (ladies you knw na). Hibiscus loves to delay guys and make them wait even for an hour. She just loved it. She stil dey make up, the guy stil dey hostel compound dey wait. Finally, hibiscus finished her wahala. We went to where Cars were packed, located the guy and we sat in the car. I recognised the guy as a known face in the faculty, but we've never talked before, he came with a friend. Hibiscus did proper introductions. But the guy was just complaning about how we wasted much time and how he's been waiting. I had to apologise to him. Let's call him "Mr X"

He asked if we wanted to take "chicken n chips" cos he had ordered for a pack for himself while he was waiting for us,(they used to sell junks and all in the compund) i noticed my friend wanted to say yes. But somehow, I tapped her and told the guy "no" that we should go out first. So he went to get the pack but told us to decide where to go. So we waited and we were confused on were to go. Our tinking be say, if the guy money no reach nko, make we no go wash plate. So I later suggested shoprite, pick a few things like ice cream, food, buy other things maybe and come back.

The guy came back and my friend got down from the car to tell him where we chose to go. It wasn't up to 2 mins, I started hearing loud voices and arguments. But I couldn't hear the guys voice. All I could hear was hibiscus voice. She made statements like "its not fair", "why would I do that" "pls don't say it". I got uncomfortable. Meanwhile he's friend was just shouting "let's go, I want to withdraw money from the bank before they close". So hibiscus came to where his friend sat, and told him to com down from the car while Mr X got back to the car and sat down eating the chicken like person wey neva chop. I asked him wat was wrong, he said "don't worry, your friend will explain. His friend got back to the car and Mr X got down again to meet Hibiscus outside again. I asked the friend about the issue. He said, "don't worry, your friend will handle it". Hian! The matter kon tyre me. After about 10minutes,before I knew what was happning. Mr X came to were I sat, looked at me and said (I can never forget this words)

YOU, YOU CANNOT COME WITH Us, GET DOWN FROM THE CAR....

What!!!!

Na so I jus dey look the guy, I wan talk, I no fit. I just got down quietly and started walking towards the main building, it was quite a long walk from the garage to the main building. So I heard hibiscus' footsteps behind me, the car driving towards us. He stopped @ where Hibiscus was, and told her ... "ARE YOU GOING WITH HER OR ME. Choose". She dint reply, so he drove out of the gate.

She was so pissed, when we got to the room, our friends were surprised and were laffing asking what happend. Hibiscus dint speak, till much later she told me the guy said ...

"Dis your friend, I don't like her, is she not in our faculty, tell her to go back, that she can't come with us".

She asked if we've met before. Told her I see him at the faculty but we've never talked. I was even surprised that he had seen me before.
I was so sad throughout that day. Was so embarassed. Imagine all the girls in the hostel who must have been watching from their windows. Chai! I thought Hibiscus dint want to tell me the truth. Anyway, she made him apologise the next day. He said it casually. I was too angry to listen. I just walked out. fast forward to 300L, we were just gisting and we remembered that incident. I asked her what the guy said, and told her to say the truth. But she repeated the same thing.

But Omo! The last time I saw this guy ehn! Chai! He looked terrible. I no let am see me sef. But e be me like say make I give am food chop! Hibiscus also saw him. She said the same thing, that she couldn't greet him.

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OP I for enjoy ur story more if to say nah plate you later washed

@solang3, you need to be a guy to know how it feels to have an unwanted friend of your date tag along. Unless you were invited as the other half of a double date.
Anyway maybe you didn't give the friend much of a green light, so they had to cut their losses and go for broke.
Can't say I blame them. Going on a date with girls who aint feeling you is such a hassle.

machinegundammy:
OP I for enjoy ur story more if to say nah plate you later washed

Whatever ! Who cares?

BoboYekini:
@solang3, you need to be a guy to know how it feels to have an unwanted friend of your date tag along. Unless you were invited as the other half of a double date.
Anyway maybe you didn't give the friend much of a green light, so they had to cut their losses and go for broke.
Can't say I blame them. Going on a date with girls who aint feeling you is such a hassle.

Which green light I wan give. We had not even left the hostel. Besides, both guys were not all that.

Solange3:
How bad have u been embarassed by the opposite sex. A date, or any other form. This may be lenghty! But as usual here, Its not for lazy readers.

I remember my 1st year in the university. Me n my bestie as at then, not bad girls and not like we too holy. We were just there. Alwaiz there for each other. We were more like sisters. Let's call her "Hibiscus".

Hibiscus stayed off campus at one of the "biggest" female hostels. I was always in her room, though I stayed on campus. We got back from school after lectures and she told me of one guy at our faculty that wanted to take her out
on a date. She said she knew the guy but they've never really talked, just "hi hi"and not sure if she wanted to go with him. I just said if she dint want to, she shouldn't.

The next day, she told me the guy came to meet her again. He showed her his white bold 5 (bold 5 was the in thing then) and disturbed her all through that day. He kept saying "he has money and anywhere in Lagos that she would like to go he would take her and blah blah". She said she was shocked and dint know what to do because he followed her round the faculty. So she gave him her number after much persuasion to call her and she'd let him know if her mind was made up. When she was with me, he cald again. So I was like ok na "ask him if you can come with your friend". He agreed and kept saying " no problem, I'd take you anywhere, spend money". Hian! She sef fear. Told her not to worry since we were two, make we just see where dis guy mouth go end. So we agreed to go with him the next day. We planned taking our Atm cards and extra cash incase of any "f*ck up"

The D-day came, me wey no like make up, my friend dressed me up, made me up, I wore an outfit I wouldn't wear normally. When I was done, me sef knw say I fine n hot. Two of our freinds were in the room that day. So they all "dressed us up" (ladies you knw na). Hibiscus loves to delay guys and make them wait even for an hour. She just loved it. She stil dey make up, the guy stil dey hostel compound dey wait. Finally, hibiscus finished her wahala. We went to where Cars were packed, located the guy and we sat in the car. I recognised the guy as a known face in the faculty, but we've never talked before, he came with a friend. Hibiscus did proper introductions. But the guy was just complaning about how we wasted much time and how he's been waiting. I had to apologise to him. Let's call him "Mr X"

He asked if we wanted to take "chicken n chips" cos he had ordered for a pack for himself while he was waiting for us,(they used to sell junks and all in the compund) i noticed my friend wanted to say yes. But somehow, I tapped her and told the guy "no" that we should go out first. So he went to get the pack but told us to decide where to go. So we waited and we were confused on were to go. Our tinking be say, if the guy money no reach nko, make we no go wash plate. So I later suggested shoprite, pick a few things like ice cream, food, buy other things maybe and come back.

The guy came back and my friend got down from the car to tell him where we chose to go. It wasn't up to 2 mins, I started hearing loud voices and arguments. But I couldn't hear the guys voice. All I could hear was hibiscus voice. She made statements like "its not fair", "why would I do that" "pls don't say it". I got uncomfortable. Meanwhile he's friend was just shouting "let's go, I want to withdraw money from the bank before they close". So hibiscus came to where his friend sat, and told him to com down from the car while Mr X got back to the car and sat down eating the chicken like person wey neva chop. I asked him wat was wrong, he said "don't worry, your friend will explain. His friend got back to the car and Mr X got down again to meet Hibiscus outside again. I asked the friend about the issue. He said, "don't worry, your friend will handle it". Hian! The matter kon tyre me. After about 10minutes,before I knew what was happning. Mr X came to were I sat, looked at me and said (I can never forget this words)

YOU, YOU CANNOT COME WITH Us, GET DOWN FROM THE CAR....

What!!!!

Na so I jus dey look the guy, I wan talk, I no fit. I just got down quietly and started walking towards the main building, it was quite a long walk from the garage to the main building. So I heard hibiscus' footsteps behind me, the car driving towards us. He stopped @ where Hibiscus was, and told her ... "ARE YOU GOING WITH HER OR ME. Choose". She dint reply, so he drove out of the gate.

She was so pissed, when we got to the room, our friends were surprised and were laffing asking what happend. Hibiscus dint speak, till much later she told me the guy said ...

"Dis your friend, I don't like her, is she not in our faculty, tell her to go back, that she can't come with us".

She asked if we've met before. Told her I see him at the faculty but we've never talked. I was even surprised that he had seen me before.
I was so sad throughout that day. Was so embarassed. Imagine all the girls in the hostel who must have been watching from their windows. Chai! I thought Hibiscus dint want to tell me the truth. Anyway, she made him apologise the next day. He said it casually. I was too angry to listen. I just walked out. fast forward to 300L, we were just gisting and we remembered that incident. I asked her what the guy said, and told her to say the truth. But she repeated the same thing.

But Omo! The last time I saw this guy ehn! Chai! He looked terrible. I no let am see me sef. But e be me like say make I give am food chop! Hibiscus also saw him. She said the same thing, that she couldn't greet him.

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BoboYekini:
@solang3, you need to be a guy to know how it feels to have an unwanted friend of your date tag along. Unless you were invited as the other half of a double date.
Anyway maybe you didn't give the friend much of a green light, so they had to cut their losses and go for broke.
Can't say I blame them. Going on a date with girls who aint feeling you is such a hassle.

but she wasn't unwanted,the guy agreed for d friend to come along. Ah well, shit happens .

Solange3:


Whatever ! Who cares?

I don verify say nah TLS as the thing pain u no be small

machinegundammy:

I don verify say nah TLS as the thing pain u no be small

Yea ryt... Tell that to the birds

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Solange3:



Yea ryt... Tell that to the birds

I ll, when u promise me that u ve learnt ur lessons and you re never going to do such a childish thing as going with a friend of urs on a first date with her bf

Solange3:
How bad have u been embarassed by the opposite sex. A date, or any other form. This may be lenghty! But as usual here, Its not for lazy readers.

I remember my 1st year in the university. Me n my bestie as at then, not bad girls and not like we too holy. We were just there. Alwaiz there for each other. We were more like sisters. Let's call her "Hibiscus".

Hibiscus stayed off campus at one of the "biggest" female hostels. I was always in her room, though I stayed on campus. We got back from school after lectures and she told me of one guy at our faculty that wanted to take her out
on a date. She said she knew the guy but they've never really talked, just "hi hi"and not sure if she wanted to go with him. I just said if she dint want to, she shouldn't.

The next day, she told me the guy came to meet her again. He showed her his white bold 5 (bold 5 was the in thing then) and disturbed her all through that day. He kept saying "he has money and anywhere in Lagos that she would like to go he would take her and blah blah". She said she was shocked and dint know what to do because he followed her round the faculty. So she gave him her number after much persuasion to call her and she'd let him know if her mind was made up. When she was with me, he cald again. So I was like ok na "ask him if you can come with your friend". He agreed and kept saying " no problem, I'd take you anywhere, spend money". Hian! She sef fear. Told her not to worry since we were two, make we just see where dis guy mouth go end. So we agreed to go with him the next day. We planned taking our Atm cards and extra cash incase of any "f*ck up"

The D-day came, me wey no like make up, my friend dressed me up, made me up, I wore an outfit I wouldn't wear normally. When I was done, me sef knw say I fine n hot. Two of our freinds were in the room that day. So they all "dressed us up" (ladies you knw na). Hibiscus loves to delay guys and make them wait even for an hour. She just loved it. She stil dey make up, the guy stil dey hostel compound dey wait. Finally, hibiscus finished her wahala. We went to where Cars were packed, located the guy and we sat in the car. I recognised the guy as a known face in the faculty, but we've never talked before, he came with a friend. Hibiscus did proper introductions. But the guy was just complaning about how we wasted much time and how he's been waiting. I had to apologise to him. Let's call him "Mr X"

He asked if we wanted to take "chicken n chips" cos he had ordered for a pack for himself while he was waiting for us,(they used to sell junks and all in the compund) i noticed my friend wanted to say yes. But somehow, I tapped her and told the guy "no" that we should go out first. So he went to get the pack but told us to decide where to go. So we waited and we were confused on were to go. Our tinking be say, if the guy money no reach nko, make we no go wash plate. So I later suggested shoprite, pick a few things like ice cream, food, buy other things maybe and come back.

The guy came back and my friend got down from the car to tell him where we chose to go. It wasn't up to 2 mins, I started hearing loud voices and arguments. But I couldn't hear the guys voice. All I could hear was hibiscus voice. She made statements like "its not fair", "why would I do that" "pls don't say it". I got uncomfortable. Meanwhile he's friend was just shouting "let's go, I want to withdraw money from the bank before they close". So hibiscus came to where his friend sat, and told him to com down from the car while Mr X got back to the car and sat down eating the chicken like person wey neva chop. I asked him wat was wrong, he said "don't worry, your friend will explain. His friend got back to the car and Mr X got down again to meet Hibiscus outside again. I asked the friend about the issue. He said, "don't worry, your friend will handle it". Hian! The matter kon tyre me. After about 10minutes,before I knew what was happning. Mr X came to were I sat, looked at me and said (I can never forget this words)

YOU, YOU CANNOT COME WITH Us, GET DOWN FROM THE CAR....

What!!!!

Na so I jus dey look the guy, I wan talk, I no fit. I just got down quietly and started walking towards the main building, it was quite a long walk from the garage to the main building. So I heard hibiscus' footsteps behind me, the car driving towards us. He stopped @ where Hibiscus was, and told her ... "ARE YOU GOING WITH HER OR ME. Choose". She dint reply, so he drove out of the gate.

She was so pissed, when we got to the room, our friends were surprised and were laffing asking what happend. Hibiscus dint speak, till much later she told me the guy said ...

"Dis your friend, I don't like her, is she not in our faculty, tell her to go back, that she can't come with us".

She asked if we've met before. Told her I see him at the faculty but we've never talked. I was even surprised that he had seen me before.
I was so sad throughout that day. Was so embarassed. Imagine all the girls in the hostel who must have been watching from their windows. Chai! I thought Hibiscus dint want to tell me the truth. Anyway, she made him apologise the next day. He said it casually. I was too angry to listen. I just walked out. fast forward to 300L, we were just gisting and we remembered that incident. I asked her what the guy said, and told her to say the truth. But she repeated the same thing.

But Omo! The last time I saw this guy ehn! Chai! He looked terrible. I no let am see me sef. But e be me like say make I give am food chop! Hibiscus also saw him. She said the same thing, that she couldn't greet him.

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That's life. Never despise anyone or look down on them... nobody knows tomorrow. Please if you can help him with money or anything, please do it. It will go greater length to teach him a good lesson.

iwatch:
That's life. Never despise anyone or look down on them... nobody knows tomorrow. Please if you can help him with money or anything, please do it. It will go greater length to teach him a good lesson.

Well... Not bothered. I wish him well still