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Re: Should He Go On With The Wedding??? by Nobody: 8:52am On May 07, 2015
sinizia:
Point of correction, the lady ain't his wife yet. If she claimed it ended the moment she got serious with him, then she should forgive her if ONLY he won't use it to judge her for every little thing she does. If he knows he won't be able to forgive and forget, he'd end the wedding plans fast.
my dear I can bet 6 zeros that you are a female, how can you advise him to go on with such marriage?!?! he can forgive yes but forgetting is impossible because this is someone he will be seeing everyday and would be talking or be seeing his father at least once a month, during the wedding how would it be being with a lady that you know your dad have fked the shii out of?!? the guy's psych will subliminally drown him. what if when you are making love to your wife don't u know that the image of his father doing the same thing will be fukin his mind up. The guy Will definitely lose his mind the best is for him to lash the girl a discharging lashing then forgive her and forget her. Ladies should be careful, she wouldn't believe that such situation will arise in her life where an aristo she fked would turn out to be a potential father in-law.

Personally I would just fuk her for the last time(easing my psych) and discharge her.
Re: Should He Go On With The Wedding??? by funlord(m): 8:58am On May 07, 2015
Mzflexydeeva:
Like many guys he had seen the wicked side of love but it never stopped him from giving it his all. 2 months to his wedding he found out she wasn't the girl he always thought she was. I won't bore you with the details but advice is needed.

2 moths to his wedding he found out his wife to be had been sleeping with his father even before he met her and though she claims it ended the minute they got serious but he doesn't know if continuing with the wedding would be a good idea..
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Mzflexydeeva:
Like many guys he had seen the wicked side of love but it never stopped him from giving it his all. 2 months to his wedding he found out she wasn't the girl he always thought she was. I won't bore you with the details but advice is needed.

2 moths to his wedding he found out his wife to be had been sleeping with his father even before he met her and though she claims it ended the minute they got serious but he doesn't know if continuing with the wedding would be a good idea..
even though this your thread tori be like film op, I go tell popsie and the girl say na only 3sum wit the 2 of us go settle the matter! After me and my popsie don lash her life finish na her papa and mama I go send her sack letter 2! Aint no fun if my daddy and I can't get sum!
Re: Should He Go On With The Wedding??? by sinizia: 9:03am On May 07, 2015
icedbeatz:
my dear I can bet 6 zeros that you are a female, how can you advise him to go on with such marriage?!?! he can forgive yes but forgetting is impossible because this is someone he will be seeing everyday and would be talking or be seeing his father at least once a month, during the wedding how would it be being with a lady that you know your dad have fked the shii out of?!? the guy's psych will subliminally drown him. what if when you are making love to your wife don't u know that the image of his father doing the same thing will be fukin his mind up. The guy Will definitely lose his mind the best is for him to lash the girl a discharging lashing then forgive her and forget her. Ladies should be careful, she wouldn't believe that such situation will arise in her life where an aristo she fked would turn out to be a potential father in-law.

Personally I would just fuk her for the last time(easing my psych) and discharge her.
1. I'm not a female. I'm a male. Judge my post devoid of any gender bias inclinations.

2. I don't know if you lack comprehension abilities, no offense intended. Didn't you see the clause "if ONLY" in that my post? I asked him to go ahead and marry her IF ONLY he can forgive and forget, and won't use the past act to judge her for every single mistake she will do. What's wrong in what i said? If he can't forgive and forget, he should end it. That's what i said. And just because you can't forgive and forget, doesn't mean others can't. We all are different. If it's me, i will forgive but I'm not sure i can't forget, so i'll end the wedding plans. But another person can forgive and forget, so i had to make that option available in my posts.

I wonder why women forgive men more easily when they cheat, but men will have none of it when the women cheat.
Re: Should He Go On With The Wedding??? by funlord(m): 9:20am On May 07, 2015
sinizia:
1. I'm not a female. I'm a male. Judge my post devoid of any gender bias inclinations.

2. I don't know if you lack comprehension abilities, no offense intended. Didn't you see the clause "if ONLY" in that my post? I asked him to go ahead and marry her IF ONLY he can forgive and forget, and won't use the past act to judge her for every single mistake she will do. What's wrong in what i said? If he can't forgive and forget, he should end it. That's what i said. And just because you can't forgive and forget, doesn't mean others can't. We all are different. If it's me, i will forgive but I'm not sure i can't forget, so i'll end the wedding plans. But another person can forgive and forget, so i had to make that option available in my posts.

I wonder why women forgive men more easily when they cheat, but men will have none of it when the women cheat.
Answer = "Because we MEN don't do tins as stupid as 2 go dey lash their mamas! That is disrespecting the family! Better 2 lash members of her crew or gbovos!"
Re: Should He Go On With The Wedding??? by Nobody: 9:22am On May 07, 2015
sinizia:
1. I'm not a female. I'm a male. Judge my post devoid of any gender bias inclinations.

2. I don't know if you lack comprehension abilities, no offense intended. Didn't you see the clause "if ONLY" in that my post? I asked him to go ahead and marry her IF ONLY he can forgive and forget, and won't use the past act to judge her for every single mistake she will do. What's wrong in what i said? If he can't forgive and forget, he should end it. That's what i said. And just because you can't forgive and forget, doesn't mean others can't. We all are different. If it's me, i will forgive but I'm not sure i can't forget, so i'll end the wedding plans. But another person can forgive and forget, so i had to make that option available in my posts.

I wonder why women forgive men more easily when they cheat, but men will have none of it when the women cheat.
I stand corrected and would have lost some money Hahahahahaha my bad, your last paragraph I think maybe they got bigger hearts than us but men do forgive too but we 99percent of the time won't lash their mothers though.
Re: Should He Go On With The Wedding??? by Mariojane(f): 11:41am On May 07, 2015
he should not try it. not because the girl slept with an older man but because the older man is her to-be father-in-law and there is high probability that they continue wht they started after the wedding.

so men are just useless. how can u imagine your children age mate on the same bed with u and sleeping with u without you thinking what you are doing for som1 child another man can do the same for your daughters.

the same goes to ladies that date men old enough to be their father. it is a shameless act. now she will lose a wonderful man all cos of how much.
Re: Should He Go On With The Wedding??? by Nobody: 12:45pm On May 07, 2015
lolzz... the only thing am thinking right now is who made her cum more often the father or the son grin grin grin
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