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[quote author=yusaze post=33591715]Here are the eight situational texts you should certainly be mindful of and how to go about them properly.
1. The “good morning” text
You’re going to want to get a bit creative, here. Dive into your bag of tricks, as it’s the first thing she’s going to be waking up to in the morning. Make sure to stay away from generic sh*t like “good morning.”
Do you know how many dudes have probably texted her “good morning”? Exactly. You’re going to want to separate yourself from the pack, so to speak – and how are we going to do that? Bam, we’re gonna throw in a pet name.

2. The “I had a good time” text
If you genuinely had a good time with a girl – whether it was on a date or after just meeting her for the first time somewhere – it’s super crucial to be vocal about it. Don’t be shy, big guy. We’re going to have to use our words.
Remember, if you don’t say anything, how will she know? Having said that, we all don’t have to be wordsmiths like Hank Moody in order to express ourselves.
Keep it short and sweet and straight to the point. If you had fun with her, just say, “Hey, I really had fun with you last night.”
It shouldn’t really matter how specifically you choose to articulate it – as long as you’re clear-cut about your feelings. The ability to vocalize your emotions will show confidence, and girls will eat that sh*t up.

3. The “I’m just thinking about you” text
You’ll have to be wary of how liberal you are with this type of text. If you overuse it, you’ll risk making yourself sound a little bit creepy.
I mean, think about it; If her feelings aren’t 100 percent matched, it might make her a little bit uncomfortable knowing you’re “thinking about her” with any great frequency.
Then again, if she’s into you – the same way you’re into her – this type of text will pay off in spades. It’ll tell show her she’s truly making an impact on your day-to-day, and you’re sensitive enough to recognize and appreciate it.

4. The “this is what makes you special to me” text
If there’s one thing women will always love – aside from diamonds and surprise-Beyoncé albums – it’s a compliment. Along these lines, if there are certain aspects about your girl you’re specifically into, don’t be afraid to let her know.
If anything, you should be more afraid of what you don’t say. A lot of times, men will try and play it cool, and women will mistake that for apathy.
A random text letting her know you think she’s pretty or like the way she dresses can go a long way in letting her know you’re interested.

5. The “I miss you” text
I wouldn’t necessarily recommend this text if you’re in the early stages of the dating ball game, however, if you’ve been in a relationship with someone for a long period of time – it’s natural to miss her a little when you’re gone (cue Drake voice).
And if you do miss your significant other, it can’t hurt to let her know. Your girl will always love hearing you’re yearning for her, wherever you might be, and it will always make her feel special. You want your girl to feel special, don’t you?

6. The “I love you” text
Once you and your girl are on firm “I love you” terms, be generous with your application of the phrase.
I can’t really think of a time of the day when a lady wouldn’t enjoy being told she’s loved, especially by someone who she’s expected to love, in return.

7. The “how was your day” text
Usually, this text is tossed around in casual conversation with people you don’t really care about.
You know, you might see someone on the train (who you’d honestly rather not speak to), and you ask how his or her day went – solely to avoid any awkward silence for the remainder of your journey together.
When you send this text to a girl you like – and your intentions are genuinely to find out how her day went – suddenly this text takes new shape.
When you ask how her day went, it’s one of the realest methods of showing a girl you actually care. After all, if you didn’t, I’m sure you wouldn’t care to know how her day went.

8. The “I’m sorry” text
When you’re invested in a relationship with someone, disputes are bound to arise. Hey, we’re humans, and humans are entitled to their own opinions – it’s just the nature of the business.
Once conflict arises, however, it’s important to extinguish it properly, so to speak.
If you have feelings for a woman, it’s best to try and take control over these conflicts yourself, as to not leave anything to chance.
If you’re feeling uncomfortable about an argument the two of you might’ve had earlier, just take the initiative and apologize – even if there’s been some awkward silence for the past few hours.
This will show her you’re mature enough to swallow your pride for the good o your relationship, and she’ll alway appreciate that.

Source: http://www.9janewsarena.com/2015/05/8-texts-messages-gil-actually-wants-to.html[/quo

White ladies= it will work like magic

Other african ladies= it will work like magic

Nigerian ladies= you have to back the text up with bank alert and then your name is written as mugu in their phone.

Sad but 90% true.

The "All the text put together in one day, called STALKING!!!! Text"

Good morning text should be...
GTB alert from him

Thinking about you text from him should be...
754488679875 (MTN 1500)
134337589076555 (Airtel 1000)
Baby, find these digits useful on ur phone


The above turns me on... More Dan any oda text message

I feel like yawning over this post. All those texting craps don't work nowadays

what bout send ur acct number....u shld av included that

This is like "the law"...it's made for the poor.

When you don't have money, you have time to read and think about these sh*t. But when you make it, you don't have to go this far. You don't even have that time. Just sit back and relax, they'll come to you.

Seek you the fountain of wealth and it's massiveness, and everything other thing shall be added unto you (except for salvation of course).

Op, why should any right thinking guy constitute such a nuisance to his girl? This is how some relationships fail because you are simply bugging then some crazy fight will spring up due to lame suspicions. For example, one is multi-tasking for a horrible boss and you are busy asking: how are you?, what did you eat?... For crying out low! Quit the Chit-Chat before there's a transfer of aggressiveness.

I dont get it. Why must we always idolize these ---- Ladies/women? I mean,why must every thread adore these mortals like we guys?

FYI, i dont do all these shii.t, yet my GF loves me like mad(i call to tell her I LOVE HER & make her laugh though). C'mon,niggas behave like your normal self.

All romantic messages i send to my Gf(on VERY SPECIAL[/b]occasions) i type them while sitting, cos i love her, i dont need to look for what to type. My brother is one of those niggas that do the above shii.t. [b]Some go as far as buying BUYING AND DOWNLODING ROMANTIC TEXTS & APPS RESPECTIVELY dafuq??


All niggas do for pvssies

Stelvin101:
I could bet my entire savings that your 22 likes and 2 shares are from gals

hahahaha

kkoncept:
Good morning text should be...
GTB alert from him

Thinking about you text from him should be...
754488679875 (MTN 1500)
134337589076555 (Airtel 1000)
Baby, find these digits useful on ur phone


The above turns me on... More Dan any oda text message

SMH

turns you on more than any text. . .

Isnt it safe/correct to call you A GOLD DIGGER IN THIS CONTEXT?

Aunty me, you self you be human being.

What about SEND ME YOUR ACCOUNT NUMBER

Gbaghan:
Aside from no.6, everything else on that list makes you a fool before her! yes, i just said a fool! you cannot get a girl you love by displaying all that shit you wrote up there... believe me, it is going to be a show of shame! To tell her i love you is okay, but you've got to prove it by going beyond just texting her 'good morning' 'good night' etc... let your body language do the job! talk less, act more. simple

hian nawa for you oo.. you've been moving with the wrong girls.. or maybe it doesn't work that way with every body tho.. Personally i love when guys tell me these things..it makes me happy and feel loved. Ironically i've never dated a guy like that..and it breaks my heart that they don't deem it fit to say these little nice complimentary words...and funny enough that is when a guy would look like a fool b4 me, not the other way round as you've said. But well, pple are different..

Gbaghan:
Aside from no.6, everything else on that list makes you a fool before her! yes, i just said a fool! you cannot get a girl you love by displaying all that shit you wrote up there... believe me, it is going to be a show of shame! To tell her i love you is okay, but you've got to prove it by going beyond just texting her 'good morning' 'good night' etc... let your body language do the job! talk less, act more. simple

hian nawa for you oo.. you've been moving with the wrong girls.. or maybe it doesn't work that way with every body tho.. Personally i love when guys tell me these things, occassionally tho (too often would make you too boring and predictable)..it makes me happy and feel loved. Ironically i've never dated a guy like that..and it breaks my heart that they don't deem it fit to say these little nice complimentary words...and funny enough that is when a guy would look like a fool b4 me, not the other way round as you've said. But well, pple are different..

ellechrystal:
What a wack version of thinking u got there.

Are you kidding me? both you and i knows that any guy that shows too much care is seen as a 'mugu' and ladies find it really hard to love such a guy. React to this:
1, instead of paying the bills, he goes about loading your phone with bulk of messages almost saying thesame thing everyday,
2, You wake up everyday with thousands of missed calls and some times leaves your battery dead,
3, Cares too much and doesn't know when to visit or leave you,
4, Violates your privacy by visiting at the wrong time
5, Goes through your messages and over reacts when he sees something looking like love message without minding who the sender is,
5, He always expects almost equal amount of care from you instantly
6, finds it hard to tell you your wrongs and geather them in mind awaiting the raining day etc...
babe i swear e go shock you like shoki

booqee:
hian nawa for you oo.. you've been moving with the wrong girls.. or maybe it doesn't work that way with every body tho.. Personally i love when guys tell me these things, occassionally tho (too often would make you too boring and predictable)..it makes me happy and feel loved. Ironically i've never dated a guy like that..and it breaks my heart that they don't deem it fit to say these little nice complimentary words...and funny enough that is when a guy would look like a fool b4 me, not the other way round as you've said. But well, pple are different..

I would like you to react to the above too

constance500:
And the main yarn which is the "[size=30pt]Send me your account number text[/size]

My guy you correct, you just spoke my mind.... I dont even know y its missing in the list.

Making Money n Monday hustles should be on my mind not dis stuff. SMH

too much msg makes u become woman rapper, saying 'i lv u' wt ur mouth is more convincing than txtin it

Pls include the "SEND ME UR ACCOUNT DETAILS" text too

The Most essential of all

yusaze:
Here are the eight situational texts you should certainly be mindful of and how to go about them properly.
1. The “good morning” text
You’re going to want to get a bit creative, here. Dive into your bag of tricks, as it’s the first thing she’s going to be waking up to in the morning. Make sure to stay away from generic sh*t like “good morning.”
Do you know how many dudes have probably texted her “good morning”? Exactly. You’re going to want to separate yourself from the pack, so to speak – and how are we going to do that? Bam, we’re gonna throw in a pet name.

2. The “I had a good time” text
If you genuinely had a good time with a girl – whether it was on a date or after just meeting her for the first time somewhere – it’s super crucial to be vocal about it. Don’t be shy, big guy. We’re going to have to use our words.
Remember, if you don’t say anything, how will she know? Having said that, we all don’t have to be wordsmiths like Hank Moody in order to express ourselves.
Keep it short and sweet and straight to the point. If you had fun with her, just say, “Hey, I really had fun with you last night.”
It shouldn’t really matter how specifically you choose to articulate it – as long as you’re clear-cut about your feelings. The ability to vocalize your emotions will show confidence, and girls will eat that sh*t up.

3. The “I’m just thinking about you” text
You’ll have to be wary of how liberal you are with this type of text. If you overuse it, you’ll risk making yourself sound a little bit creepy.
I mean, think about it; If her feelings aren’t 100 percent matched, it might make her a little bit uncomfortable knowing you’re “thinking about her” with any great frequency.
Then again, if she’s into you – the same way you’re into her – this type of text will pay off in spades. It’ll tell show her she’s truly making an impact on your day-to-day, and you’re sensitive enough to recognize and appreciate it.

4. The “this is what makes you special to me” text
If there’s one thing women will always love – aside from diamonds and surprise-Beyoncé albums – it’s a compliment. Along these lines, if there are certain aspects about your girl you’re specifically into, don’t be afraid to let her know.
If anything, you should be more afraid of what you don’t say. A lot of times, men will try and play it cool, and women will mistake that for apathy.
A random text letting her know you think she’s pretty or like the way she dresses can go a long way in letting her know you’re interested.

5. The “I miss you” text
I wouldn’t necessarily recommend this text if you’re in the early stages of the dating ball game, however, if you’ve been in a relationship with someone for a long period of time – it’s natural to miss her a little when you’re gone (cue Drake voice).
And if you do miss your significant other, it can’t hurt to let her know. Your girl will always love hearing you’re yearning for her, wherever you might be, and it will always make her feel special. You want your girl to feel special, don’t you?

6. The “I love you” text
Once you and your girl are on firm “I love you” terms, be generous with your application of the phrase.
I can’t really think of a time of the day when a lady wouldn’t enjoy being told she’s loved, especially by someone who she’s expected to love, in return.

7. The “how was your day” text
Usually, this text is tossed around in casual conversation with people you don’t really care about.
You know, you might see someone on the train (who you’d honestly rather not speak to), and you ask how his or her day went – solely to avoid any awkward silence for the remainder of your journey together.
When you send this text to a girl you like – and your intentions are genuinely to find out how her day went – suddenly this text takes new shape.
When you ask how her day went, it’s one of the realest methods of showing a girl you actually care. After all, if you didn’t, I’m sure you wouldn’t care to know how her day went.

8. The “I’m sorry” text
When you’re invested in a relationship with someone, disputes are bound to arise. Hey, we’re humans, and humans are entitled to their own opinions – it’s just the nature of the business.
Once conflict arises, however, it’s important to extinguish it properly, so to speak.
If you have feelings for a woman, it’s best to try and take control over these conflicts yourself, as to not leave anything to chance.
If you’re feeling uncomfortable about an argument the two of you might’ve had earlier, just take the initiative and apologize – even if there’s been some awkward silence for the past few hours.
This will show her you’re mature enough to swallow your pride for the good of your relationship, and she’ll always appreciate that.

Source: http://www.9janewsarena.com/2015/05/8-texts-messages-girl-actually-wants-to.html

Cutehector:
Mehn text messages hav been a thing of the past.. Nobody wants dat anymore..

You are Wrong.
I love text messages it kill it for me.











I see u are unbanned. Welcome back.

MuhdG:
huh nice

too bad i dont have a girlfriend

What! U mean u don't hav a girlfriend Ha! Abeg ooo! Make I keep and tie my girlfriend to my body before u go kon snatch her from me.

Why do majority of nairaland guys hate women/girls..cheii...

kheart:
Guy if u exhibit telling ur gf d no 3, 5 and 6 u re wrong. U just ve to be more like Mystery for her and above all unpredictable.
This re common tings ll guys do

Wrong , romance does not exist in Nigerian men at all, most guys have just been maga-nized into thinking buying her things and spending money is the trick.

If you are dating a lady seriously you need to from time to time say things that would ease her soul and asure her of your love and commitment .

Ask a gigolo and they'll tell you simply it's an affair of the heart, your pocket can always take a chill pill

Great Post...... Yer all this test should be send to a girl by a Boy...

Gbaghan:
I would like you to react to the above too

Well if you read my post, i used the word 'occasionally', and clearly stating that doing it too often would make you come off as boring and predictable. Doing it once in a while wouldn't hurt you know. A woman naturally needs to feel loved.. its not just about saying "i love you" alone.

d less u love a gal d mre she love u(vice verza)

booqee:
Well if you read my post, i used the word 'occasionally', and clearly stating that doing it too often would make you come off as boring and predictable. Doing it once in a while wouldn't hurt you know. A woman naturally needs to feel loved.. its not just about saying "i love you" alone.

That means you partially disagree with the op. but i still maintain same stance... i'd rather act a single day than a whole year of awesome text messaging weather or weather not occasionally

doing all those nonsense above will lead you to the dreaded friendzone....

9. The "this relationship is a lot of work" text

AINT WORK ONLY PAPERS DOES!!

StephenJoseph:
What! U mean u don't hav a girlfriend Ha! Abeg ooo! Make I keep and tie my girlfriend to my body before u go kon snatch her from me.

hhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh