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Re: Help My Marriage Am Depressed by dBard: 4:58am On May 16, 2015 |
There are several trying periods in the life of a married man (my observations); *6 months, wen d euphoria of 'being married' is settling down and d 'routine' of marriage is setting in, and* 4-6 yrs, wen he starts wondering 'do I still got it?'. Not taking anything away from your sex life, but ppl are right wen dey say men luv variety. Not necessarily variety in the sense of multiple sexual partners, but variety in something new to the mix once in a while, cos let's face it , as a friend would say, it's still the normal up & down he'll get out dre, without d emotional factor I may add, while d fact is 'sex only gets beta d longer you're with the same individual'. @post...I kinda agree wit babyosisi on this one but one tin tho...the focus here seems to be on d 3some chat but I understand there were several more chats than that one and of similar degree of gravity. If so, he's been remorseful doesn't really count. Remorse is remorse but the motivation behind d remorse is wats more important. U need t make him understand that u Will Not stand f such anymore. advices given on the assumption of 'all men cheat' is unfair. He disrespected u by wat he did and that's fornication by Biblical standards. Have a sincere and open talk with him, lay your boundaries again (which seems t have gotten blurred with time) and more importantly, let the process of forgiveness (both of yourself and him) begin in your heart by God's Grace All the best. sorry f d epistle. sleeplessness is t blame. 1 Like |
Re: Help My Marriage Am Depressed by Nobody: 8:31am On May 16, 2015 |
G tearoses: Chaircover , how u dey, welcome back, we missed you |
Re: Help My Marriage Am Depressed by mystiqueDZ(f): 8:35am On May 16, 2015 |
KashyBaby:Having a great sex life does not mean the guy don't desire some kinky styles.... |
Re: Help My Marriage Am Depressed by dinachi(m): 8:43am On May 16, 2015 |
Your husband is a good man. Love him, hold him and open up that man is dying of konji! You have not been performing, that is why. Another thing make sure your pussy is very neat. Dirty stinking pussy is one of the greatest turn offs for men. The fact that you just had a baby is no excuse. Be creative in your bedroom. Don't allow another woman to take over your home because you can't perform. |
Re: Help My Marriage Am Depressed by Nobody: 9:15am On May 16, 2015 |
dinachi: Your case is beyond redemption. Kudos to your step-mother . She did a very good job on you 7 Likes |
Re: Help My Marriage Am Depressed by cold(m): 9:17am On May 16, 2015 |
babyosisi:Of course you know i wasn't referring to the menage trois thingy. By the way have you noticed that three quarters of the people who post their marital issues on here especially issues bordering on infidelity are supposedly 'good Christians' who for all intents and puporses should be enjoying their married lives? Why is that the case? Methinks the church,pastors and religious fanatics are stifling the marriage institution with too many frivolous rules. Anyhoo,to each their own. |
Re: Help My Marriage Am Depressed by curtains: 11:34am On May 16, 2015 |
tearoses: wow I didn't know u changed ur user name n av bin looking out for u. Thanks a lot. I luv u |
Re: Help My Marriage Am Depressed by Nobody: 3:20pm On May 16, 2015 |
Op sorry ooooh, see as our men are saying you should up your bedroom game. No one is preaching leave his sorry ass. SMH |
Re: Help My Marriage Am Depressed by bukatyne(f): 8:33pm On May 16, 2015 |
chibic: And cheating husbands are not deadly? |
Re: Help My Marriage Am Depressed by bukatyne(f): 8:36pm On May 16, 2015 |
Mrs0J: Lols! I hope they get past This. This is the first time. |
Re: Help My Marriage Am Depressed by KanwuliaJara: 8:41pm On May 16, 2015 |
OPEEEE!!!! See ya life? |
Re: Help My Marriage Am Depressed by Nobody: 8:45pm On May 16, 2015 |
bukatyne: Lol, I weep for us(women). A man's infidelity is not enough for his wife to divorce him, but it's enough for the man to divorce her. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Help My Marriage Am Depressed by SAMBARRY: 8:55pm On May 16, 2015 |
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Re: Help My Marriage Am Depressed by SAMBARRY: 8:57pm On May 16, 2015 |
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Re: Help My Marriage Am Depressed by SAMBARRY: 8:59pm On May 16, 2015 |
Mrs0J:welcome to nigerian hypocrisy
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Re: Help My Marriage Am Depressed by Nobody: 9:00pm On May 16, 2015 |
SAMBARRY: Lol, Nice pic 1 Like |
Re: Help My Marriage Am Depressed by bukatyne(f): 9:15pm On May 16, 2015 |
Mrs0J: Please don't weep Everyone has the power of choice. What they choose to do with it is their prerogative and they should be ready to take full responsibility for it. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Help My Marriage Am Depressed by dinachi(m): 7:03am On May 18, 2015 |
SAMBARRY:Short she-Cow 1 Like |
Re: Help My Marriage Am Depressed by SAMBARRY: 8:55am On May 18, 2015 |
dinachi:troll you have been noticed now scram |
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