ellabooz:
Thank you my dear. It's a longer distance affair.

According to my brother ,she not getting married to the guy now buy she wants the guy to remain in picture until she is ready thereby giving her power to choose between my brother and the guy.

ellabooz:
Please no time for word construction and long story.
A sister needs your opinion on this to redress her action where it's dim necessary.


My cousine met a very pretty girl sometime ago and luckily for him,she was single and my cousin was ready to mingle so they both agreed on a relationship.

Last month he told me about travelling to visit her and we advise her to get alot of goodies for her since he is so much I love with her and willing to marry her.
He later traveled as planed and things went well.
According to him, he gave her large sum of money for her up keep and to get few things for herself.
Not that he is rich but at least he has a good job.
Despite all this,he still sends airtime to her on weekly basis making sure she has nothing to complain about. They even discussed marriage but she claimed she isn't ready at moment until she finishes school.

Fastward to last week, she started acting up . Dropping his call unnecessary and even asked him for a break on the pretence that her final year exam was at hand and she need to concentrate.
My brother told me he knew there was something wrong but unable to fathom it.
Yesterday she told my brother that a guy is asking for her hand in marriage and as it is now that she confuse.
She told my brother that she met him long before dating my brother but d guy wasn't serious then .Now he is serious and d guy Is planning to see her people today. She claimed she told the guy that she is already in a relationship but the guy wouldn't listen.
Meaning all this time she has been forming busy the guy was always around .
which she confirmed to be true.
While my brother was asked to hold on?

My brother was so worried that he couldn't do anything throughout day so I advise him to sleep in our house.
He sought for my opinion, I told him to stop the girl from seeing that guy because from my own findings she only told my brother so that he will approve of their meetings. Since he is aware ,it's no longer cheating.
He told girl that he is not comfortable with her hanging with the guy but she told my brother that she will continue to see him pointing out to the fact that they are mere friends . Someone asking for your hand in marriage?

He is heartbroken


I advised him to quit the girl since she is not willing to put a stop with other guy

To my amazement, I saw him deleting her pictures and text messages. He even told me that its over between them.
He even block her all the social network.

Am now locked out with the thought of my advice.
Was my advice wrong or right.

Please am only protecting my beloved brother.

your constructive criticisms are welcome.
Please no comic assertions here,abeg.

Thanks

Fastward to last week, she started acting up .
Dropping his call unnecessary and even asked him
for a break on the pretence that her final year
exam was at hand and she need to concentrate.
My brother told me he knew there was something
wrong but unable to fathom it.
Yesterday she told my brother that a guy is asking
for her hand in marriage and as it is now that she
confuse.
She told my brother that she met him long before
dating my brother but d guy wasn't serious then
.Now he is serious and d guy Is planning to see her
people today. She claimed she told the guy that
she is already in a relationship but the guy wouldn't
listen.
Meaning all this time she has been forming busy
the guy was always around .
which she confirmed to be true.

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Any girl who does this,is a sniitch and a hoe.

she is not worth spending a second with,she betrayed his trust and still have the affront to spit the shiit on him.
Hoping he will get the massag and leave.

My own zeez on the matter.

If your bro know wats gud for him,he shouldn't even give her a chance for a come back,not to talk of considering convincin her to dump that guy for him.
Such people will cheat on you leta in marriage.

Not speakin out of emition,but from experience.

My own kuli kuli on the matter

TUPOUT [/size]

ellabooz:
Thank you my dear. It's a longer distance affair.

According to my brother ,she not getting married to the guy now buy she wants the guy to remain in picture until she is ready thereby giving her power to choose between my brother and the guy.

ellabooz:
My elder sister is attacking me for advising him like that.
That my bro has been so shattered since morning.
She is even persuading him to give her second chance.
It seems she contacted the said girl friend on phone maybe they had a conversation.

Ok naaa. Let's see how it goes shaaa

Vikky014:
your brother shld nt giv dt girl any chance again. she is double dating forget those lies she tld him. do you knw wht she is telln d oda guy abt ur bros

pretydiva:
Ur cousin should forget abt her. She's not worth fighting 4

ellabooz:



My sister thank you so much.
Am now a spectator, no more input from me again on this matter but I will keep you (concerned ones) updated