All my exes are stories of yesterday except for my immediate Ex, she will be the first girl to breakup with me and it really broke my heart(yea, guys too dey get heartbreak) ive never loved anyone as much as i did love her which brings me to the question.
After the breakup nov last year, she acted as if nothing really happened,like we were still dating till i was like 'babe, whats going on here", she then backed out a lil
But still she wants to be close friend with me, i kn dating can never workout btw us again
im very very faraway from where she is and she still calls me very often, not minding the cost
maybe im overthinking things, but can friendship really work btw us without complications?


matured replies pls, even if u wanna be factual be sensitive abt it pls, we all have hearts

Very much

yes! if you are ready to cope with the new development cos you cant expect her to give you sex or expect you guys to do normal stuff u guys are doing when dating BUT if she doesn't care, u guys might reconcile if the issue that broke u guys up is just a minor issue.

No! if what broke u guys up is a very strong issue that made your life miserable because I blv "we should be careful of what didn't kill us but took off your cap from your head"

"my" opinion

If ure still in contact with ur ex means u never loved the person or ure still in love with the person#

for d fact dat he/she is ur ex doesnt mean u shud bcom worst enemies, you guys can still be good friends

sonikstargirl:
for d fact dat he/she is ur ex doesnt mean u shud bcom worst enemies, you guys can still be good friends

its not enmity for me, things just get all tangled up and i dont feel comfortable abt it sometimes
i wanna be her friend but it just feels somehow sometimes
i ve gat this white friend here and shes a selfie freak, so whenever i post a picture of us on bbm DP, my ex will be mute for 2 day or go official with me and i dont have issues with her posting guy pictures, infact, im always like "is that my replacement" "oh, hes hot"
part of the reasons i left bbm

boynigeria:

its not enmity for me, things just get all tangled up and i dont feel comfortable abt it sometimes
i wanna be her friend but it just feels somehow sometimes
i ve gat this white friend here and shes a selfie freak, so whenever i post a picture of us on bbm DP, my ex will be mute for 2 day or go official with me and i dont have issues with her posting guy pictures, infact, im always like "is that my replacement" "oh, hes hot"
part of the reasons i left bbm

It is your choice. If you'll feel hurt seeing her with other guys, distant yourself from such emotional pains, try thinking or do something positive with yourself and time,..I'm sure after a while that feeling will eventually subside...but if you kind of enjoy still hearing or seeing her then you learn to live with it,..the ball is in your court.

It's not really advisable, it doesn't mean you guys should be enemies tho

Yeah, you may need her help or vice versa some day.

Pay less attention to wever she does on bbm just have it in mind dat u guys are just friends except u still havin feelings foR her. Its qiite difficult to get over someone u love so much but life has to go on so be a man and stop payin attention to wat ever she does. Don't look at her posts or d pics she puts on her dp..act like she s not tjer and don't b d first to say hi am sure wen she notice dat ur not givin her any attention she will get tired and stop disturbing .

oh yes! both of u can still be friend bt there needs to be limitation

I wil advise u keep away frm her at least for the time being. She wil only draw you back. Since u both decided to break up i see no reason why u wil contact her again. At least to avoid emotional truama. Just keep away frm her and move on. She is just using u until she found a new guy.

Yes it can. If you both define your relationship.

boynigeria:
All my exes are stories of yesterday except for my immediate Ex, she will be the first girl to breakup with me and it really broke my heart(yea, guys too dey get heartbreak) ive never loved anyone as much as i did love her which brings me to the question.
After the breakup nov last year, she acted as if nothing really happened,like we were still dating till i was like 'babe, whats going on here", she then backed out a lil
But still she wants to be close friend with me, i kn dating can never workout btw us again
im very very faraway from where she is and she still calls me very often, not minding the cost
maybe im overthinking things, but can friendship really work btw us without complications?


matured replies pls, even if u wanna be factual be sensitive abt it pls, we all have hearts

Dugozpweeti:
Yes it can. If you both define your relationship.

tryna do that now

I'd say NO!!!!!



You gonna hurt for all time.....especially if you loved her.

Why not do the experiments yourself and help "us" your kind with the result?



It's really heart breaking...

Houseofglam7:
I'd say NO!!!!!



You gonna hurt for all time.....especially if you loved her.

That's exactly my point, it gonna hurt to hear her voice or see her face knowing fully well that she's no longer yours like she used to be...


But it's still good thing though to hear or see the same creature that makes you whole -requires a strong and enduring heart though!.

boynigeria:

tryna do that now

Goodluck and no Jonathan

Dugozpweeti:
Goodluck and no Jonathan

where have u been for a while now?

boynigeria:
where have u been for a while now?

I've been around searching 4 my daily bread o

No it not pls cos too much getting in contact may lead to sometin else.But dat doesnt mean u will be enemies wit ur ex, atleast u shud be able to c him or her on the road and say hi, dats all no calls no text O.Remember he or she is ur ex,dats ur past.