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Re: Long Distant Relationships...how Safe Are They? by MzzTega(f): 6:29pm On May 30, 2015
My sis is in one,and in two months time it will be 2 years they are into this LDR.

Think positive.

Always communicate.

Make time to visit to each other.

It only succeeds among people that trust themselves.
Re: Long Distant Relationships...how Safe Are They? by presh247(op): 11:02pm On May 30, 2015
MzzTega:
My sis is in one,and in two months time it will be 2 years they are into this LDR.

Think positive.

Always communicate.

Make time to visit to each other.

It only succeeds among people that trust themselves.
hmm...that's nice...would you advice anyone to go into a LDR?
Re: Long Distant Relationships...how Safe Are They? by komek(m): 11:18pm On May 30, 2015
teeghurl:
which of d teegurl r u talking about brov? my hand no dey o. Lmao
Oh my love, I am professing my love to u anytime I get the opportunity... I love u Teegurl
Re: Long Distant Relationships...how Safe Are They? by teeghurl(f): 11:30pm On May 30, 2015
komek:
Oh my love, I am professing my love to u anytime I get the opportunity... I love u Teegurl
Haa, my brother brother ds one serious o. No let ya wife cash me abeg
Re: Long Distant Relationships...how Safe Are They? by opribo(m): 5:03am On May 31, 2015
Long distance relationship is a ticket to infidelity. You cannot rule out cheating. The only way to survive it is to live and let live.

Don't even think of it because surely and truly its there. It may be from one partner or from both sides but its manageable if only one partner is the cheating one.

It has it good side too as both parties can concentrate on their dreams but the disadvantages far outweighs the benefits.

If partners must stay apart then let it be much later in the relationship. I don't think when a man or woman is truly in love with their spouses they can afford to stay apart.

Its only when one is secretly not too comfortable with their partners that they won't mind long distance relationship or when they are targeting to get something from the other then they won't mind.
Re: Long Distant Relationships...how Safe Are They? by Nobody:
Nothing is impossible
Re: Long Distant Relationships...how Safe Are They? by TerpeOjorobaby: 8:50am On May 31, 2015
I agree wit u I m in this situation and he hasn't spent a penny but dats not my problem we communicate everyday I m gud wit that .I get 99persent attention so dats cool for me.
elipheleh:
No brother. A lady that likes you won't mind. She will sacrifice her own for your future together. I am a witness on several occasions.

At first aim only to woo her with your conversation skills and the rest will be easy without spending. Except your call credits. And that one too should be reciprocated , say 60 : 40 ratio calls for you : her
Re: Long Distant Relationships...how Safe Are They? by komek(m):
Hmmm
Re: Long Distant Relationships...how Safe Are They? by presh247(op): 11:29am On May 31, 2015
komek:
Wife kwa, y do u like pretending online about our love. U shud be proud of our love like I am proud of it. I love u dear.
hmmm...#clears throat
Re: Long Distant Relationships...how Safe Are They? by presh247(op): 11:30am On May 31, 2015
TerpeOjorobaby:
I agree wit u I m in this situation and he hasn't spent a penny but dats not my problem we communicate everyday I m gud wit that .I get 99persent attention so dats cool for me.
am happy for u
Re: Long Distant Relationships...how Safe Are They? by MzzTega(f): 11:39am On May 31, 2015
presh247:
hmm...that's nice...would you advice anyone to go into a LDR?
It depends on you. Can you take it? Can you stand it?
If yes then cool
Re: Long Distant Relationships...how Safe Are They? by presh247(op): 11:57am On May 31, 2015
MzzTega:
It depends on you. Can you take it? Can you stand it?
If yes then cool
It takes much effort to make it work.
Re: Long Distant Relationships...how Safe Are They? by mrbillz(m): 12:40pm On May 31, 2015
Long distance relationship is not healthy expecially for a beginer. Its a flagrant decision and you will keep having premonition at the expense of your wishful imagination. What works for me might not work for others, but as a victim of distance relationships i would not advice you to indulge in one. ¤From experience¤
Re: Long Distant Relationships...how Safe Are They? by MzzTega(f): 12:40pm On May 31, 2015
presh247:
It takes much effort to make it work.
Yeah. That's why it depends you.
Re: Long Distant Relationships...how Safe Are They? by MzzTega(f): 12:41pm On May 31, 2015
presh247:
It takes much effort to make it work.
Yeah. That's why it depends you.
Re: Long Distant Relationships...how Safe Are They? by teeghurl(f): 1:51pm On May 31, 2015
komek:
Wife kwa, y do u like pretending online about our love. U shud be proud of our love like I am proud of it. I love u dear.
Lord have mercy, abeg dnt implicate me o. My bf is seeing all ds uno
Re: Long Distant Relationships...how Safe Are They? by udmydearest(f): 2:54pm On May 31, 2015
Its all about determination. When the feeling u hav for each other is mutual, anything is possible. Mine is a long distance relationship and its been like that for years now... We only get to meet thrice in a year.
Re: Long Distant Relationships...how Safe Are They? by komek(m): 4:37pm On May 31, 2015
teeghurl:
Lord have mercy, abeg dnt implicate me o. My bf is seeing all ds uno
Aunty na play I dey o. Choi. Ur bf get hot temper o.

But as a guy man, I know he will be smilling somewhere saying so "my babe is very attractive that this stupid Komek is disturbing her"

Tell him we r yoking o abeg. I don't want someone to block me at Ojuelegba and start beating unnecessarily. I no get body wey person dey beat o.
Re: Long Distant Relationships...how Safe Are They? by teeghurl(f): 4:40pm On May 31, 2015
komek:
Aunty na play I dey o. Choi. Ur bf get hot temper o.

But as a guy man, I know he will be smilling somewhere saying so "my babe is very attractive that this stupid Komek is disturbing her"

Tell him we r yoking o abeg. I don't want someone to block me at Ojuelegba and start beating unnecessarily. I no get body wey person dey beat o.
hehehehe, u dey fear? grin
Re: Long Distant Relationships...how Safe Are They? by presh247(op): 4:52pm On May 31, 2015
udmydearest:
Its all about determination. When the feeling u hav for each other is mutual, anything is possible. Mine is a long distance relationship and its been like that for years now... We only get to meet thrice in a year.
whoah! thrice a year? and no friction at all?
Re: Long Distant Relationships...how Safe Are They? by presh247(op): 4:55pm On May 31, 2015
komek:
Aunty na play I dey o. Choi. Ur bf get hot temper o.

But as a guy man, I know he will be smilling somewhere saying so "my babe is very attractive that this stupid Komek is disturbing her"

Tell him we r yoking o abeg. I don't want someone to block me at Ojuelegba and start beating unnecessarily. I no get body wey person dey beat o.
bros no fear...u dey body wen dem go beat well well...na u start am na her bf go finish am...lol
Re: Long Distant Relationships...how Safe Are They? by MznAirA(f): 5:10pm On May 31, 2015
All my life except when I was in school, I have always found myself in dis long distance ish and really it's nt just cool with me. Presently, m dating a guy nd we saw last two months ago... dats like d relationship ve been in dat we only talk on phone nd chats. So presently I feel like am single. So to me I dnt advise such bt it's just sad that I find myself in such
Re: Long Distant Relationships...how Safe Are They? by komek(m): 5:40pm On May 31, 2015
presh247:
bros no fear...u dey body wen dem go beat well well...na u start am na her bf go finish am...lol
Bros , na play I been dey o. Boiz dey vex o. Na beg I dey o
Re: Long Distant Relationships...how Safe Are They? by annawhite(f): 6:14pm On May 31, 2015
Long relationship is cool but can only last with matured individuals.... cool
Re: Long Distant Relationships...how Safe Are They? by Nobody: 6:55pm On May 31, 2015
mecussey:
E no dey work and that is simple. If by any means any of you have to depart, just say bye to the relationship and continue with another person.
abeg I no follow ds ur idea jare, even if u are both in d same skul nd same state, deres gonna be a point in tym where u av to be away from each oda.
take my case as an example, we stay in d same place, same skul, she's still in skul, I got posted to far away kebbi state from Osun state.....we r in love nd av to cope wt d fact dt we won't see for many months at tyms....Kebbi is too far, roads are bad, u can't just be flying up nd down unnecessarily.
Camp has finished now, I came home to see her, we make sure we trust ourselves, chat everyday, calls are once in a yl, show ur love by not stopping wah u did yl wooing her....reassure each other of ur love.

The craziest tin I agreed to do was taking an oath of not cheating at all, with better curse for whoever cheats, we both agreed, wanted it nd gonna stand by it....
I enter camp, started crushing on a girl, once I remembered d oath I took nd my lovely gf back home, I had to delete d girls no nd started avoiding her...told my gf, she laughed nd was happy I deleted d girls no.
staying faithful in a rel isn't so hard buh guys no dey fit hold body, na we useless nd wicked pass,only few ladies wud mess up wen she knows her man loves her silly nd ready to be faithful.

Any serious-minded couple should be able to take an oath of nt cheating....its no big deal buh most guys will keep chasing different pvssies like say e different pass anoda one, one fit just tyt nd better pass, pvssy na pvssy, once u av a sweet girl, y fvck around nd break hearts.??
Re: Long Distant Relationships...how Safe Are They? by MrTeymee(m): 8:43pm On May 31, 2015
komek:
@ OP,If u are a busy person like mysef what u need is a very long distance relationship. I am here in Naija Teegurl my lover is in the UK this gives us ample opportunity to do whatever we want.

I don't like this every weekend thing that one gurl will carry her nylon bag to come visit me. Or call to ask me who was the gurl she saw me with today. As if she did not hear that I belong to everybody and not anybody.
I actually love that nylon bag part cry
Re: Long Distant Relationships...how Safe Are They? by presh247(op): 12:32am On Jun 01, 2015
MrTeymee:
I actually love that nylon bag part cry
lol...that's naija girls for u
Re: Long Distant Relationships...how Safe Are They? by presh247(op): 12:32am On Jun 01, 2015
MrTeymee:
I actually love that nylon bag part cry
lol...that's naija girls for u
Re: Long Distant Relationships...how Safe Are They? by mecussey(m): 12:51am On Jun 01, 2015
jimmy4x:
abeg I no follow ds ur idea jare, even if u are both in d same skul nd same state, deres gonna be a point in tym where u av to be away from each oda.
take my case as an example, we stay in d same place, same skul, she's still in skul, I got posted to far away kebbi state from Osun state.....we r in love nd av to cope wt d fact dt we won't see for many months at tyms....Kebbi is too far, roads are bad, u can't just be flying up nd down unnecessarily.
Camp has finished now, I came home to see her, we make sure we trust ourselves, chat everyday, calls are once in a yl, show ur love by not stopping wah u did yl wooing her....reassure each other of ur love.

The craziest tin I agreed to do was taking an oath of not cheating at all, with better curse for whoever cheats, we both agreed, wanted it nd gonna stand by it....
I enter camp, started crushing on a girl, once I remembered d oath I took nd my lovely gf back home, I had to delete d girls no nd started avoiding her...told my gf, she laughed nd was happy I deleted d girls no.
staying faithful in a rel isn't so hard buh guys no dey fit hold body, na we useless nd wicked pass,only few ladies wud mess up wen she knows her man loves her silly nd ready to be faithful.

Any serious-minded couple should be able to take an oath of nt cheating....its no big deal buh most guys will keep chasing different pvssies like say e different pass anoda one, one fit just tyt nd better pass, pvssy na pvssy, once u av a sweet girl, y fvck around nd break hearts.??
Bros you don enter one chance...dont let a woman rule you your world and lead your life. You are limiting yourself by takin the so called oath. Life is unlimited and if you are really in love, why not get married instead of oath. Well, thats ur own cup, the truth is some guys might have dealt with ur babe. You dont trust anybody apart from God but if you believe in the oath then good for you.
Re: Long Distant Relationships...how Safe Are They? by presh247(op): 1:15am On Jun 01, 2015
mecussey:
Bros you don enter one chance...dont let a woman rule you your world and lead your life. You are limiting yourself by takin the so called oath. Life is unlimited and if you are really in love, why not get married instead of oath. Well, thats ur own cup, the truth is some guys might have dealt with ur babe. You dont trust anybody apart from God but if you believe in the oath then good for you.
very true my brother...we are humans and even oaths could be broken atimes...only trust ursef after God
Re: Long Distant Relationships...how Safe Are They? by Kingsasian(m): 1:32am On Jun 01, 2015
Hmmmm. I was into one. Its not all that safe, as a matter of fact no kind of relationship is safe. It won't be safe If both parties involved lack trust and constant communication.
Re: Long Distant Relationships...how Safe Are They? by presh247(op): 2:08am On Jun 01, 2015
Kingsasian:
Hmmmm. I was into one. Its not all that safe, as a matter of fact no kind of relationship is safe. It won't be safe If both parties involved lack trust and constant communication.
hmm...no safe relationship? so no more marriages then...lol
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