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Everyone wants to leave an amazing first impression and most people tend to lie in order to impress the person they are in a conversation with. However, there are some things you have to be upfront about if you have any intention on building a relationship with the person you are trying to impress.
A relationship foundation based on simple lies will always crumble and leave you feeling horrible at the end of the day.

Interestingly, I would say guys are usually more guilty of most of these points below.

1. Age: It’s too difficult to keep track. And eventually the truth comes out.
2. Your Job: Not your dream job. Not the one you just applied for. The one that is currently sending you a paycheck.
3. Your True Relationship Status: Divorce means papers are signed. It doesn’t mean we are living together but have been talking about separating.
4. Height: Unless you plan on dating him via the Internet forever, don’t bother to lie about this one, especially if you prefer heels to flats.
5. Interests: Please don’t pretend you are okay camping when in reality your idea of roughing it is the Ritz-Carlton.
6. Whether Or Not You Smoke: Unless you have been wearing the patch for two years, please don’t pretend you don’t smoke. Lying about it is more of a turnoff for nonsmokers than doing it.
7. Whether You Have Roommates: I know things can be tough financially, but you need to ’fess up to this one. He will know in time if it’s a one-way street to his house only.
8. What You Are Looking For: If you are looking to date, don’t tell him you would be fine with a casual fling. It’s not him who will suffer in this; it’s you. Focus on what you want — don’t conform constantly in order to try and get it.
9. Pets: He could have allergies.

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LaurelP:
10. Virginity: He will eventually find out when he begins to nyash you.

Very True...but you have to fear ladies sha...now that there is what they call tightening pill or na cream...

assets........... Ladies dont lie be urself dont use fake booby

ghost1718:
assets........... Ladies dont lie be urself dont use fake booby

Guys...be yourself, don't lie about your job...Ebute metta sec school teacher not an engineer in chevron...

lolaxavier:
Guys...be yourself, don't lie about your job...Ebute metta sec school teacher not an engineer in chevron...

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I used to be guilty of no 1 but not anymore. Now when I tell people abt no 3 they are like e no possible as if something is bad in being single..

And the things yhu can lie about?

lomodele:
I used to be guilty of no 1 but not anymore. Now when I tell people abt no 3 they are like e no possible as if something is bad in being single..

No 3 is not uncommon. Just that naija girls no go believe u...e dey inside their 'rules of dating' book.

No 3 is not uncommon. Just that naija girls no go believe u...e dey inside their 'rules of dating' book.[/quote]And na dem go ask d question and if u tell dem d truth dey will be like it's a lie I don't believe u, and I will be like y do u den bother asking since u av already concluded in ur mind..

guilty of "age" i lie about it all the time!

lomodele:
No 3 is not uncommon. Just that naija girls no go believe u...e dey inside their 'rules of dating' book.
And na dem go ask d question and if u tell dem d truth dey will be like it's a lie I don't believe u, and I will be like y do u den bother asking since u av already concluded in ur mind..

Exactly...how u take know...

youngds:
guilty of "age" i lie about it all the time!

No need to lie about your age. It changes nothing...

lolaxavier:
No need to lie about your age. It changes nothing...

I can't possibly date most of my course mate if i actually told them my real age!! too young for my level of edu

youngds:
I can't possibly date most of my course mate if i actually told them my real age!! too young for my level of edu

lolaxavier:
Exactly...how u take know...

Speaking from experience bro..

lomodele:
Speaking from experience bro..

hmmm...I hail ooo..

Your school, you claim covenant and we see your Matric at Ofa Poly.

Ruq:
Your school, you claim covenant and we see your Matric at Ofa Poly.

HAHAHAHAHHAHAHA...very funny...

can you count the amount of black dots?? let's see u try,type the amount u counted.