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Re: Long Distant Relationships...how Safe Are They? by Nobody: 6:20am On Jun 01, 2015
mecussey:
Bros you don enter one chance...dont let a woman rule you your world and lead your life. You are limiting yourself by takin the so called oath. Life is unlimited and if you are really in love, why not get married instead of oath. Well, thats ur own cup, the truth is some guys might have dealt with ur babe. You dont trust anybody apart from God but if you believe in the oath then good for you.
so, are u insinuating I have limited myself by not fvcking around?? wow!!!
If that's what u really mean, I'd rather stick to that, I love to limit myself.
Tell me, after the sexcapades, what do u get, long life and prosperityhuh
Re: Long Distant Relationships...how Safe Are They? by Kingsasian(m): 7:47am On Jun 01, 2015
presh247:
hmm...no safe relationship? so no more marriages then...lol
it depends on what you meant by the word "safe"
Re: Long Distant Relationships...how Safe Are They? by Kingsasian(m): 7:49am On Jun 01, 2015
jimmy4x:
so, are u insinuating I have limited myself by not fvcking around?? wow!!!
If that's what u really mean, I'd rather stick to that, I love to limit myself.
Tell me, after the sexcapades, what do u get, long life and prosperityhuh
bro, you just asked him the right question. The way some guys take sex like they are given trophies for sleeping with the most number of ladies baffles me.
Re: Long Distant Relationships...how Safe Are They? by Kingsasian(m): 7:51am On Jun 01, 2015
MzzTega:
My sis is in one,and in two months time it will be 2 years they are into this LDR.

Think positive.

Always communicate.

Make time to visit to each other.

It only succeeds among people that trust themselves.
well said
Re: Long Distant Relationships...how Safe Are They? by yilly(f): 8:57am On Jun 01, 2015
I can say its risky & filled with uncertainty. I had two distant r/ships bt all end up getting married n engaged. D issue of trust n faithful is d big thng.
Re: Long Distant Relationships...how Safe Are They? by Nobody: 11:25am On Jun 01, 2015
Kingsasian:
bro, you just asked him the right question. The way some guys take sex like they are given trophies for sleeping with the most number of ladies baffles me.
It's just stupidity nd lack of self control, number 1, most of us disobey Gods commandment by engaging in pre-marital sex, to now make matters worse, y'all deceive most of these girls just to fvck dem nd eventually dump dem without any sense of remorse.
This is not to sound as a saint, fvcking different girls for whatever reasons shoudnt be celebrated, I ask again nd I hope he'll come reply me, does it make me more prosperous, give me long life, y'all keep sticking ur dicks into different pvssies, kissing different mouths, until u eventually contract life-threatening venereal diseases, na den u go see dem dey patronise TB Joshua, nd oda men of God for healing.
Bunch of silly rettards
Re: Long Distant Relationships...how Safe Are They? by Kingsasian(m): 2:40pm On Jun 01, 2015
jimmy4x:
It's just stupidity nd lack of self control, number 1, most of us disobey Gods commandment by engaging in pre-marital sex, to now make matters worse, y'all deceive most of these girls just to fvck dem nd eventually dump dem without any sense of remorse.
This is not to sound as a saint, fvcking different girls for whatever reasons shoudnt be celebrated, I ask again nd I hope he'll come reply me, does it make me more prosperous, give me long life, y'all keep sticking ur dicks into different pvssies, kissing different mouths, until u eventually contract life-threatening venereal diseases, na den u go see dem dey patronise TB Joshua, nd oda men of God for healing.
Bunch of silly rettards
I just tire. Their mates in other countries are thinking of better ways of making life better. Theirs is to sit, discuss and brag about the number of girls they have slept with. That is the reason why most of them are unproductive in the society and at the end they start blaming the govt for their own stupidity.
Re: Long Distant Relationships...how Safe Are They? by komek(m): 4:56pm On Jun 01, 2015
jimmy4x:
abeg I no follow ds ur idea jare, even if u are both in d same skul nd same state, deres gonna be a point in tym where u av to be away from each oda.
take my case as an example, we stay in d same place, same skul, she's still in skul, I got posted to far away kebbi state from Osun state.....we r in love nd av to cope wt d fact dt we won't see for many months at tyms....Kebbi is too far, roads are bad, u can't just be flying up nd down unnecessarily.
Camp has finished now, I came home to see her, we make sure we trust ourselves, chat everyday, calls are once in a yl, show ur love by not stopping wah u did yl wooing her....reassure each other of ur love.

The craziest tin I agreed to do was taking an oath of not cheating at all, with better curse for whoever cheats, we both agreed, wanted it nd gonna stand by it....
I enter camp, started crushing on a girl, once I remembered d oath I took nd my lovely gf back home, I had to delete d girls no nd started avoiding her...told my gf, she laughed nd was happy I deleted d girls no.
staying faithful in a rel isn't so hard buh guys no dey fit hold body, na we useless nd wicked pass,only few ladies wud mess up wen she knows her man loves her silly nd ready to be faithful.

Any serious-minded couple should be able to take an oath of nt cheating....its no big deal buh most guys will keep chasing different pvssies like say e different pass anoda one, one fit just tyt nd better pass, pvssy na pvssy, once u av a sweet girl, y fvck around nd break hearts.??
They have hypnotized this one. I pity ur ignorance. Taking an oat in this present age. Na which school u go self
Re: Long Distant Relationships...how Safe Are They? by Nobody: 6:18pm On Jun 01, 2015
komek:
They have hypnotized this one. I pity ur ignorance. Taking an oat in this present age. Na which school u go self
Ogbeni calm ur balls, ask urself which skul u sef go wey u no fit read nd understand simple English, I didn't take an oath of not breaking up, I took an oath of not cheating, shud cheating be celebrated?? read again nd see what d oath is abouthuh
Oath or no oath, I'm not ready to cheat.
what the oath is about shud be ur concern nd not the word 'oath' itself.
Don't be too quick to read without understanding.
Re: Long Distant Relationships...how Safe Are They? by Nobody: 6:21pm On Jun 01, 2015
Kingsasian:
I just tire. Their mates in other countries are thinking of better ways of making life better. Theirs is to sit, discuss and brag about the number of girls they have slept with. That is the reason why most of them are unproductive in the society and at the end they start blaming the govt for their own stupidity.
Rather than being productive, a good number of dem wud resort to YY, Scamming fellow humans, nd recently Rituals....most of d girls dey sleep with these days eventually get used for rituals.
such a pathetic world we live in.
Re: Long Distant Relationships...how Safe Are They? by komek(m): 10:56pm On Jun 01, 2015
jimmy4x:
Ogbeni calm ur balls, ask urself which skul u sef go wey u no fit read nd understand simple English, I didn't take an oath of not breaking up, I took an oath of not cheating, shud cheating be celebrated?? read again nd see what d oath is abouthuh
Oath or no oath, I'm not ready to cheat.
what the oath is about shud be ur concern nd not the word 'oath' itself.
Don't be too quick to read without understanding.
Oath of not cheating u said? I guess u r among these pple that read the bible upside down. Whether u wanna cheat or not, ur yes is supposed to be yes and ur no is supposed to be no. Not involving ursefs in one archaic life style.
Re: Long Distant Relationships...how Safe Are They? by presh247(op): 11:54pm On Jun 01, 2015
komek:
Oath of not cheating u said? I guess u r among these pple that read the bible upside down. Whether u wanna cheat or not, ur yes is supposed to be yes and ur no is supposed to be no. Not involving ursefs in one archaic life style.
yes oh...u are right...the oath thing isn't good at all
Re: Long Distant Relationships...how Safe Are They? by Nobody: 7:19am On Jun 02, 2015
komek:
Oath of not cheating u said? I guess u r among these pple that read the bible upside down. Whether u wanna cheat or not, ur yes is supposed to be yes and ur no is supposed to be no. Not involving ursefs in one archaic life style.
it is not archaic when u take oath to be of good behaviour at nysc camp, it is also not archaic when govt officials take oath during Inauguration nd swearing in, I know myself nd I chose what I think is best for me, u don't know me, neither do u av a say about how I run my life for me, taking the oath was for a good reason rather than the bad intentions most of you guys have towards the girls....later y'all hypocrites will go about shouting no Nigerian girl is decent, dey are all gold-diggers nd no longer virgins, tell me, who made dem like that, were they all deflowered by the Holy Ghost, no be una dey use nd dump them, isn't that what most of u guys derive joy in??
Re: Long Distant Relationships...how Safe Are They? by Nobody: 7:23am On Jun 02, 2015
presh247:
yes oh...u are right...the oath thing isn't good at all
Mr supporters club, how many gfs nd side chicks do u have, can u ever stick to a girl, u no fit take oath of not cheating cos Bible no support am or whatever ur reasons are, buh u fit sleep around wt different girls, other pples future wives, na dt one ur own Bible support abi??
Re: Long Distant Relationships...how Safe Are They? by komek(m): 8:23am On Jun 02, 2015
jimmy4x:
it is not archaic when u take oath to be of good behaviour at nysc camp, it is also not archaic when govt officials take oath during Inauguration nd swearing in, I know myself nd I chose what I think is best for me, u don't know me, neither do u av a say about how I run my life for me, taking the oath was for a good reason rather than the bad intentions most of you guys have towards the girls....later y'all hypocrites will go about shouting no Nigerian girl is decent, dey are all gold-diggers nd no longer virgins, tell me, who made dem like that, were they all deflowered by the Holy Ghost, no be una dey use nd dump them, isn't that what most of u guys derive joy in??
Bros I hear u
Re: Long Distant Relationships...how Safe Are They? by mecussey(m): 7:54pm On Jun 04, 2015
jimmy4x:
so, are u insinuating I have limited myself by not fvcking around?? wow!!!
If that's what u really mean, I'd rather stick to that, I love to limit myself.
Tell me, after the sexcapades, what do u get, long life and prosperityhuh
Have you noticed that the woman is still ruling your world. Your question is, how safe is LDR? I advised you that it is not safe at all bc it makes you limit yourself. Now, bc I said "limit" and you digressed it to se*x, well you are on your own. I will not talk further
Re: Long Distant Relationships...how Safe Are They? by Nobody: 7:57pm On Jun 04, 2015
mecussey:
Have you noticed that the woman is still ruling your world. Your question is, how safe is LDR? I advised you that it is not safe at all bc it makes you limit yourself. Now, bc I said "limit" and you digressed it to se*x, well you are on your own. I will not talk further
If u weren't talking about Sex or double dating, how I'm i limiting myself by being in a LDR.....school me, I'm ready to learn.
Re: Long Distant Relationships...how Safe Are They? by presh247(op): 12:54am On Jun 08, 2015
it takes grace and understanding to make LDR work. when there is effective communication and trust and regularly visit each other it could work. you just need an extra effort and spicing up the relationship abit will do the magic.
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