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Re: Right Age To Get Married As A Guy! by tablu: 11:51pm On Jun 07, 2015
I understand ur plight my brother we are almost on the same page. The fact is there is no ideal age to get married in this part of the world.The very unstable economy makes it difficult to pin point its direction and as a man I believe you want to be a provider and not a consumer like how many men have abandoned there responsiblities to become house wives.Tk ur time to get more work experience and more educational qualifications to seek greener pastures jst so that the unpredictability of the staggering economy will not take you unawares, its kind of like an investment for a better future.

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Re: Right Age To Get Married As A Guy! by manuroq(m): 12:00am On Jun 08, 2015
The right time to get married is when u see a lady that's very attracted, u love and and u feel holds ur happiness. And she should be supportive. U can discuss child raising after.

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Re: Right Age To Get Married As A Guy! by corpROYAL(m): 12:03am On Jun 08, 2015
tosinmania:
Well I can see our men are still boys, marriage is an institution that you collect your certificate before doing the exam. It is nt sometin to delibrate much on because this time u barely find a God fearing lady who will marry you for who you are, but mind u if u are not lazy,selfish,aggressive but u God wisdom, a little finance to start with, a shelter to stay, and mostly the fear of God, also a woman who can be wit u forever don't tink about anytin just go ahead and marry. Only d grace of God can see u tru even d marriage of d rich crash.

l like your comment. l guess you are a lady?
Re: Right Age To Get Married As A Guy! by Chyjoey(m): 12:06am On Jun 08, 2015
Freemanan:
Depends...

If you are from a well to do home - 26
You had to struggle (male) - 32
Wanna marry as an average Christian brother/sister -27
People like me - Flow with the wind
Poor couples who wanna make a home by force - 29
Lucky Beautiful undergraduate (female) - 21
Undergraduate (male) - Nor think am.....
Players - 41
BROTHER Simeon who has been praying - 43
Sister Theresa who has been praying -44

Generally. - 26...


So folks, pitch your tent...
choi...lwkm grin grin
Re: Right Age To Get Married As A Guy! by Nobody: 12:10am On Jun 08, 2015
Chyjoey:
choi...lwkm grin grin

Someone gotta say it boss
Re: Right Age To Get Married As A Guy! by ohenhen1: 12:13am On Jun 08, 2015
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Re: Right Age To Get Married As A Guy! by bosun11(m): 12:13am On Jun 08, 2015
misssclassy:
There is no right age to get married. But rather, there is a right time to get married.
What you should ask yourself is if this is the right time for you to get married.

In my opinion, the right time for a man to get married is when he is stable in every or most areas of his life.
There are certain criteria that has to be met before any man dabbles into marriage.

Such criteria include:
Financial stability
Emotional stability
Being able to make good decisions and judgments
Being mature enough to be in a relationship.
Being able to understand what marriage and being a husband and a father entails.
Being able to be a father figure to your children. Both financially and other wise
Having the desire to get married.

When these criteria are met, then are man is ready for marriage.



well said...thanks
Re: Right Age To Get Married As A Guy! by bosun11(m): 12:18am On Jun 08, 2015
hopefully be 31/32 i will get married.............psychologically am not ready at all
Re: Right Age To Get Married As A Guy! by tellwisdom: 12:19am On Jun 08, 2015
obitee69:


Oga how did you cope? Did you plan it that way?

He give person belle undecided
Re: Right Age To Get Married As A Guy! by nkemdi89(f): 12:28am On Jun 08, 2015
Freemanan:


FREEMAN DAVID COURT OF APPEAL
Lol

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Re: Right Age To Get Married As A Guy! by Nobody: 12:43am On Jun 08, 2015
misssclassy:
There is no right age to get married. But rather, there is a right time to get married.
What you should ask yourself is if this is the right time for you to get married.

In my opinion, the right time for a man to get married is when he is stable in every or most areas of his life.
There are certain criteria that has to be met before any man dabbles into marriage.

Such criteria include:
Financial stability
Emotional stability
Being able to make good decisions and judgments
Being mature enough to be in a relationship.
Being able to understand what marriage and being a husband and a father entails.
Being able to be a father figure to your children. Both financially and other wise
Having the desire to get married.

When these criteria are met, then are man is ready for marriage.
What is financial or emotional stability? A 30 year old broad street bank assistant manager who makes 7 million a year and lives in a well furnished two bedroom in lekki phase one but is a closet jerk? A clear eyed, focused and well raised 25 year old unilag pharmacy masters student who lives in festac with his mum to save on rent and is in love with this girl of his dreams and is hoping to walk down the aisle with her in a year or two? If most men went by your vague and unrealistic criteria most would be unmarried. You are never mature enough or emotionally stable enough or ready enough to be a father or to get into a marriage.You are both rookies in the process and a ton of mistakes would be made along the way; and it will forever remain a learning process for him as much as it is for the woman. The most important thing is to marry the person that makes you want to get and stay married and not because you're trying to check off somebody's hyper unrealistic list.

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Re: Right Age To Get Married As A Guy! by Nobody: 1:06am On Jun 08, 2015
I know of a guy who married at [size=15pt]21[/size] this year.
Re: Right Age To Get Married As A Guy! by Nobody: 1:11am On Jun 08, 2015
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Re: Right Age To Get Married As A Guy! by NobleG1(m): 1:22am On Jun 08, 2015
obitee69:
I'v been pondering what the right age is for a guy to get married. I'm 27 and my parents say I'm getting old lol. I stay alone in a small apartment(1 bedroom), drives a good car and i'm a bit stable financially but anytime I reason the bills that comes with marriage and the numerous responsibility, I go just tire. E.g. Moving out from my 1bed to a 3bed in my area will need I cough out 1.5M for rent. Chei. I can see why many men are not ready. angry. What ur take on this guys?

Your parents are right, you're not getting any younger. It's always a good idea to start a family when you're young, so that you'll live to see your grandchildren.

According to your post, you're 27 years old and financially stable. So what stops you from starting a family now you're still young?

Marraige is not easy but it's fulfiling and enjoyable when you have a good wife. You can marry a woman who's also financially stable enough to contribute in the family.

Time has gone when husbands do every financial stuff in the family. Women's welfare in the soceity has greatly improved. Women are gradually becoming more educated than men.
Good education guarantees a good job. So more than half of the women population are very litetate and many of them are working in big corporations or business owners and financially stable.

If you don't already have a financially stable girlfriend you could marry, getting a financially stable woman or a woman who has potential to be financially within a short time, is somewhat easy.

- Start from where you work. There may be some single women at your workplace who are either in the same level with you or above. Don't be intimidated by a woman who earns more than you, it's not a bad thing.

- If where you work is a big company, it may have branch locations. Such company may host once a year general meeting. During such big meetings, you'll meet many single women who occupy good positions in the company.

- Go to business seminars. There you'll meet women who're in good company positions or business owners.

- You may have a friend or relative who knows a good financially stable single woman you can check out.

- Go commando. Chase as many women as possible at places like a friend's or relative's or co-worker's ceremony or party and other places or joints where responsible people visit. While at it, make sure you find out the lady's profession.

I'm not saying you should sleep with every woman you meet. If you meet a woman who doesn't possess the qualities you want, move on.

So my friend, it's time to go find your woman. She's somewhere, hoping to meet someone like you. Goodluck!

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Re: Right Age To Get Married As A Guy! by ufelove(m): 1:23am On Jun 08, 2015
obitee69:
I'v been pondering what the right age is for a guy to get married. I'm 27 and my parents say I'm getting old lol. I stay alone in a small apartment(1 bedroom), drives a good car and i'm a bit stable financially but anytime I reason the bills that comes with marriage and the numerous responsibility, I go just tire. E.g. Moving out from my 1bed to a 3bed in my area will need I cough out 1.5M for rent. Chei. I can see why many men are not ready. angry. What ur take on this guys?



Dude!!.. Just created this Topic only to come and see yours on FP.. No fair**sobs. Anyways, I'll get my answer from here
Re: Right Age To Get Married As A Guy! by 1stola: 1:23am On Jun 08, 2015
obitee69:
I'v been pondering what the right age is for a guy to get married. I'm 27 and my parents say I'm getting old lol. I stay alone in a small apartment(1 bedroom), drives a good car and i'm a bit stable financially but anytime I reason the bills that comes with marriage and the numerous responsibility, I go just tire. E.g. Moving out from my 1bed to a 3bed in my area will need I cough out 1.5M for rent . Chei. I can see why many men are not ready. angry. What ur take on this guys?
Msteeewu!
Are you paying for 4 years?
Re: Right Age To Get Married As A Guy! by MellisaBrown1: 1:44am On Jun 08, 2015
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Re: Right Age To Get Married As A Guy! by Nobody: 3:43am On Jun 08, 2015
Was thinking bout this yesterday morning.
I'm still 22, finished school..... undecided
Re: Right Age To Get Married As A Guy! by fagbohun4j(m): 5:02am On Jun 08, 2015
Mutuwa:
I got married at 26..
No regrets...

Maybe na last year u get married.
Re: Right Age To Get Married As A Guy! by jamela(f): 5:15am On Jun 08, 2015
My brother would be 28 this year and he is thinking of settling down, he said he wants to get married before he is 30, however he has been studying for his PhD abroad and would be done when he's 30-31. Would you advice him to get married now while studying or should he wait till he is done? Please sensible advice only.
Re: Right Age To Get Married As A Guy! by Nobody: 5:18am On Jun 08, 2015
obitee69:
I'v been pondering what the right age is for a guy to get married. I'm 27 and my parents say I'm getting old lol. I stay alone in a small apartment(1 bedroom), drives a good car and i'm a bit stable financially but anytime I reason the bills that comes with marriage and the numerous responsibility, I go just tire. E.g. Moving out from my 1bed to a 3bed in my area will need I cough out 1.5M for rent. Chei. I can see why many men are not ready. angry. What ur take on this guys?

Asking this question shows you are far from being ready
Give it another 3-6 years

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Re: Right Age To Get Married As A Guy! by Nobody: 5:34am On Jun 08, 2015
jamela:
My brother would be 28 this year and he is thinking of settling down, he said he wants to get married before he is 30, however he has been studying for his PhD abroad and would be done when he's 30-31. Would you advice him to get married now while studying or should he wait till he is done? Please sensible advice only.
He shud just wait nd get his PhD done nd dusted.
Re: Right Age To Get Married As A Guy! by Laredojohn(m): 5:57am On Jun 08, 2015
misssclassy:
There is no right age to get married. But rather, there is a right time to get married.
What you should ask yourself is if this is the right time for you to get married.

In my opinion, the right time for a man to get married is when he is stable in every or most areas of his life.
There are certain criteria that has to be met before any man dabbles into marriage.

Such criteria include:
Financial stability
Emotional stability
Being able to make good decisions and judgments
Being mature enough to be in a relationship.
Being able to understand what marriage and being a husband and a father entails.
Being able to be a father figure to your children. Both financially and other wise
Having the desire to get married.

When these criteria are met, then are man is ready for marriage.
Rightly communicated, u mentioned the important points
Re: Right Age To Get Married As A Guy! by Laredojohn(m): 6:00am On Jun 08, 2015
jamela:
My brother would be 28 this year and he is thinking of settling down, he said he wants to get married before he is 30, however he has been studying for his PhD abroad and would be done when he's 30-31. Would you advice him to get married now while studying or should he wait till he is done? Please sensible advice only.
Hello he can if he feels he can merge both comfortably and most importantly if he has a understanding wife to be, if nt he should conclude his academics b4 marriage,
Re: Right Age To Get Married As A Guy! by KingAdeOluomo1(m): 6:03am On Jun 08, 2015
Ayoolajumoke:



Lol @ you haven't found the one...

Best wishes in your searching journey.
just tell him u are available period .
Re: Right Age To Get Married As A Guy! by ben1daEbiri(m): 6:04am On Jun 08, 2015
Op i just want to remind you that marriage is not a WORD,it's a SENTENCE so choose wisely
Re: Right Age To Get Married As A Guy! by cyril83(m): 6:13am On Jun 08, 2015
Rolly83:
Wow,very lovely analysis.... I like this...@Op,please take note!
Lovely pic, you look much younger than your age.
Re: Right Age To Get Married As A Guy! by Mutuwa(m): 6:30am On Jun 08, 2015
fagbohun4j:


Maybe na last year u get married.

Who knows..
Re: Right Age To Get Married As A Guy! by Nobody: 6:32am On Jun 08, 2015
cyril83:

Lovely pic, you look much younger than your age.
Really??Thanks for the compliment...
Re: Right Age To Get Married As A Guy! by cyril83(m): 6:37am On Jun 08, 2015
Rolly83:


Really??Thanks for the compliment...


You are welcome. Your ring finger still vacant ??
Re: Right Age To Get Married As A Guy! by chiibekee(f): 6:38am On Jun 08, 2015
All of u talking about finance to sponsor ur wedding. MIND U! The quality of ur wedding does not determine the quality of ur marriage. The main thing is being able to stand as a man and decide wisely.

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Re: Right Age To Get Married As A Guy! by Rightchuks(m): 6:43am On Jun 08, 2015
misssclassy:
There is no right age to get married. But rather, there is a right time to get married.
What you should ask yourself is if this is the right time for you to get married.

In my opinion, the right time for a man to get married is when he is stable in every or most areas of his life.
There are certain criteria that has to be met before any man dabbles into marriage.

Such criteria include:
Financial stability
Emotional stability
Being able to make good decisions and judgments
Being mature enough to be in a relationship.
Being able to understand what marriage and being a husband and a father entails.
Being able to be a father figure to your children. Both financially and other wise
Having the desire to get married.

When these criteria are met, then are man is ready for marriage.

And NEVER THAT YOU NEED SPIRITUAL STRENGTH CARRY A HOME AND BE IN CHARGE. JESUS IS NEEDED.

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