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MrsChima:
No! I can't cheat on Chima! I was talking to some friends and some of us have home based Naija men and Abroad based Naija men....with different experiences. I have dated both and noticed differences because to me Naija men are Naija men regardless of their home location but I was mistaken.

I was told by a Nigerian American that there are differences in thinking and attitudes. The culture is slightly different as well. I was curious to see opinions and see if others think there are any differences.

What do you think as an Abroadbaser?

oh okay... i almost had an heart attack for a minute ya know... You are not allowed to leave ma broda

Environment does influence our actions hence it's expected to see abroad based brothers embrace liberal stance as far as relationships are concerned.

MrsChima:
No! I can't cheat on Chima! I was talking to some friends and some of us have home based Naija men and Abroad based Naija men....with different experiences. I have dated both and noticed differences because to me Naija men are Naija men regardless of their home location but I was mistaken.

I was told by a Nigerian American that there are differences in thinking and attitudes. The culture is slightly different as well. I was curious to see opinions and see if others think there are any differences.

What do you think as an Abroadbaser?

I am really surprise that you couldn't answer your question base on your personal life experience
There are few factors to consider
1. Number of Year abroad
2 The first person u lived with--
3. Type of friends ( did u just keep Nigerian Friend)
4. Did u date all type of people with different culture
5 Your age at the time you arrived abroad
All the above factors
Yes, I am 70% different from the time I left home to today
I still have some of my Nigerian values

GoodFaith:
I still have some of my Nigerian values

Mind sharing some of your Nigerian Values?

jaybee3:
Mind sharing some of your Nigerian Values?

Nigeria---Have respect for Nigerian old than me
Nigeria--Education is still the key
Abroad-- hold door for ppl coming behind me
Abroad-- doing more chore
Abroad-- call non Nigerian old than me by their first name----
Abroad-- Can tell u to go the F

Truckpusher:
Do I like your average boy in here?

Yes fool.

jaybee3:
oh okay... i almost had an heart attack for a minute ya know... You are not allowed to leave ma broda

Environment does influence our actions hence it's expected to see abroad based brothers embrace liberal stance as far as relationships are concerned.

Naw... we are still happily married! My newest born is shy of fee months. He looks like you.

MrsChima:
You mean with hard and pounding thrusts in the name of good sex?

Lol no comment. If you were a single woman I would have told you to give it a go. You'll be pleasantly surprised

GoodFaith:
I am really surprise that you couldn't answer your question base on your personal life experience
There are few factors to consider
1. Number of Year abroad
2 The first person u lived with--
3. Type of friends ( did u just keep Nigerian Friend)
4. Did u date all type of people with different culture
5 Your age at the time you arrived abroad
All the above factors
Yes, I am 70% different from the time I left home to today
I still have some of my Nigerian values

I am only asking because I was told Abroad based Naima men are different than home based Naima men...I was saying there are some differences but at the end of the day...they are still Naima men.

I was just curious of the opinions that may differ or share similarities. Just a topic..no vexing bro!

jaybee3:
Even though majority of them are probably going to have first, second ,third, nth option to satisfy thereby making it less likely for any of the option to be satisfied since the attention will be divided….

Lol an oyibo guy won't be interested in any of it ( where there's badoo and pof?) Why work to hard for the V.

Back home the V is priceless. . Some will jump in the lagoon for it lol

queensmith:
Lol no comment. If you were a single woman I would have told you to give it a go. You'll be pleasantly surprised

I had it both from two different tyoes..one is more open while the other is traditional.

They both think hard and pounding thrusts is "African men duty".

MrsChima:
Yes fool.

What again ? Are you on heat again?

What is this one saying?

Home base ko, home logarithm ni.

Mcheww

queensmith:
Lol an oyibo guy won't be interested in any of it ( where there's badoo and pof?) Why work to hard for the V.

Back home the V is priceless. . Some will jump in the lagoon for it lol

I see. But aren't the girls In Naija give to to away like government cheese for a purse and Brazilian weave?

Teempakguy:
What is this one saying?

Home base ko, home logarithm ni.

Mcheww

This one be pained homebaser.

Truckpusher:


What again ? Are you on heat again?

Chima already gave me konji. I am good for 3 hours.

MrsChima:
Chima already gave me konji. I am good for 3 hours.

Three hours won't solve ya problem , bring that tiny ass here Lemme spank it hard.

MrsChima, please are you still selling plantain chips

I wanna buy!

GoodFaith:
Nigeria---Have respect for Nigerian old than me
Nigeria--Education is still the key
Abroad-- hold door for ppl coming behind me
Abroad-- doing more chore
Abroad-- call non Nigerian old than me by their first name----
Abroad-- Can tell u to go the F

My in laws are fine with me calling them by their first name but are you Yoruba because my ex told me we call them Madam or Sir whatever their surname.

MrsChima:
I had it both from two different tyoes..one is more open while the other is traditional.

They both think hard and pounding thrusts is "African men duty".

Lol it's nothing to do with tradition we have no tradition teaching us how to have sex lol
It's more to do with exposure. Nigerian men are very open and it seems surprisingly learned on how to please a woman. And they often take pride in it. (Not all let's not forget women are 2nd rate citizens to these people) but from what I'm getting from movies and just talking to guys back home they know how to please and aren't all about thrusting and hopping off.

NoMoreTrolling:
MrsChima, please are you still selling plantain chips

I wanna buy!

N500.

Truckpusher:
Three hours won't solve ya problem , bring that tiny ass here Lemme spank it hard.

I bet you think hard and pounding thrusts is romantic and good sex huh?

MrsChima:
I bet you think hard and pounding thrusts is romantic and good sex huh?

It's all part of it. That thing deserved to be pounded silly especially when it's all wet and dripping like a cloth soaked in the rain.

You can't be romantic and not pounding it shege too .From my experience there are times when you ladies want it pounded like a sex monster just got unchained.

GoodFaith:
Nigeria---Have respect for Nigerian old than me
Nigeria--Education is still the key
Abroad-- hold door for ppl coming behind me
Abroad-- doing more chore
Abroad-- call non Nigerian old than me by their first name----

1)The difference is the way the respect is delivered so it ain't a Nigerian thing bro
2)Education is key everywhere. There is a wide disparity gap in pay for skilled and unskilled employment so young people are encouraged to embrace education so as to secure their future
3)Holding the door for people is not an abroad thing. It has something to do with your values as a person.
4)Again doing more chores is simply because labour is expensive. Absolutely nothing to do with culture except you are referring to it with respect to relationships.
5)This is a tribe thing and it’s prevalent within the Yoruba community

Are you Home Based?

MrsChima:
N500.

N200 last

queensmith:
Lol it's nothing to do with tradition we have no tradition teaching us how to have sex lol
It's more to do with exposure. Nigerian men are very open and it seems surprisingly learned on how to please a woman. And they often take pride in it. (Not all let's not forget women are 2nd rate citizens to these people) but from what I'm getting from movies and just talking to guys back home they know how to please and aren't all about thrusting and hopping off.

I agree. I have to admit the Oyinbo ones want to get the nut and hop off while the home based men will ask you are good? Give it let me do more rounds! . My ex used to killed me with laughter when he was like why you no moan? You dey trying me girl? .

Never dare a homebaser! Ooo! They will never turned down toto!

NoMoreTrolling:
N200 last

These plantain fresh from Jamaica.

queensmith:
Lol an oyibo guy won't be interested in any of it ( where there's badoo and pof?) Why work to hard for the V.

Back home the V is priceless. . Some will jump in the lagoon for it lol

You kidding me right?

If V was priceless then surely we would have had a reduction in the rate of yahoo yahoo bois

MrsChima:
I see. But aren't the girls In Naija give to to away like government cheese for a purse and Brazilian weave?

I think there's a price on sex back home where here that isn't the case. So I will call naija girls everything but easy in comparison anyways.

In fact with that mentality I often shock my friends when I ask them why they've slept with a particular person.

Truckpusher:
It's all part of it. That thing deserved to be pounded silly especially when it's all wet and dripping like a cloth soaked in the rain.

You can't be romantic and not pounding it shege too .From my experience there are times when you ladies want it pounded like a sex monster just got unchained.

You have been with some girls. Grown women don't like rabbit sex.

MrsChima:
My in laws are fine with me calling them by their first name but are you Yoruba because my ex told me we call them Madam or Sir whatever their surname.

No mama
If your in-law are Nigerian
They have lived in abroad for over 30 or 40 year

MrsChima:
You have been with some girls. Grown women don't like rabbit sex.

Lmao......whatever.

jaybee3:
You kidding me right?

If V was priceless then surely we would have had a reduction in the rate of yahoo yahoo bois

You know what priceless means right??