ronald4lif:
The guy might not know what is amiss and that he isn't satisfying in the bedroom. She has to be vocal about it and tell him. A 34years old guy should know better than just jump on sex without proper for*play. He might feel down when she tells him but she still has to inform him, nonetheless.

Sex is very vital in sustaining a relationship and it's better she talk a walk now before it ends up in marriage, thats's if at the end of the day he doesn't improve on his skills.

Etetejake:


how about the dick? she siad she couldn't feel a thing when he was down there because it was so small. what do u think she do?

Etetejake:


how about the dick? she siad she couldn't feel a thing when he was down there because it was so small. what do u think she do?

Jollyjoy:
she need advice you are throwing questions at her.

Etetejake:
A close female friend of mine called me this afternoon to tell me her ordeal yesterday been sunday.
Plsss, matured advice only. I myself don't know what to advise her on, so I promised her tomorrow that I will give her advice base on the help of my nairaland family.

She said she went to her boyfriend's place yesterday. They have been dating for two months now. One thing led to the other and everything ended up in sex. But she got the shocker of her life which she didn't disclose to her boyfriend. The guy doesn't know nothing about sex. instead of arousing her, he went straight to satisfy himself and left her still boiling with desire. She would have teach him how to satisfy a woman if that was the only problem. But that wasnt. the main problem is that the guys joystick is so little that she didn't feel nothing inside her when he was pumping her with all his strength.
She said she loves the guy and doesnt want to hurt him bkx he is very kind and loves her with his whole heart. But she is the type that loves quality sex so much. She vowed never to cheat on her future husband but if she end up with this guy that vow will be but a mere word. She is 25 and the guy is 34.
She wants to know if she should continue or quit the relationship? If u support any, give also the reason she should.

ronald4lif:


One doesn't necessarily need to have a huge d1ck to be dominating and gratifying in the bedroom. He just need to improve on his skills and should experiment different styles with her until he knows when he's doing it right from her reaction and moaning. Women body and reaction to sex differs but once he hit it right he would know. Not dismissing the importance of the size but the situation is redeemable once the skills is there.

MrsChima:
If he has a small dick...yeah only skills he need to develop is manual masturbation and MouthAction. If he isn't willing to do those things then she should walk away. There is no need to be with someone you ate not sexually compatible with!

MrsChima:


All women don't moan and moaning is not a definitive measurement of pleasure.

ronald4lif:


Well, I also added reaction. I don't pay attention to moaning but rather to their reaction. Moaning can be misleading, as most women employ it to make the man feel good. But reaction is veracious.

jrerico1:
He need to use toys on her if his dick is too small. But How wide is her hole?

tosyne2much:
Still looking forward to the day a female nairaland will narrate her ordeal and will seek advice, rather than saying it actually happened to their friends

MrsChima:


Speaking from personal experience, I have employed the ability to Guage my reaction well its often leave Chima pondering if I was pleased or not.

The best way to know if the girl honestly tells you so.

jrerico1:
He need to use toys on her if his dick is too small. But How wide is her hole?

Etetejake:


she showed me her middle finger trying to describe the size. she also said it is thing just like the finger. can such size satisfy even the tiniest hole? Am serious about this ooo. if u ar the type that get close to women u will learn by force.

ronald4lif:


Once one pay attention to a woman's reaction during sex they would know when they hit her g-sp*t. It could be tricky during the first sexual encounter but with subsequent sexual romps they would family with her body and when they're doing it right, unless they are not paying attention. Can reaction also be manipulated when she climax?.

Etetejake:


she showed me her middle finger trying to describe the size. she also said it is thing just like the finger. can such size satisfy even the tiniest hole? Am serious about this ooo. if u ar the type that get close to women u will learn by force.

ronald4lif:


Well, I also added reaction. I don't pay attention to moaning but rather to their reaction. Moaning can be misleading, as most women employ it to make the man feel good. But reaction is veracious.

MrsChima:


Yes. There are different levels of female climaxation if you will and each women experience falls on various spectrum. If she has a severe climax then her body will react differently however if she isn't sexually open you won't know. You can also misread her reactions as pleasure when in fact she is in pain.

Yea yea in pain. In pain and beseeching on the man to hit it hard baby, hard hard lol.

Anyways, what do I know, still a virgin remember?.

ronald4lif:


Yea yea in pain. In pain and beseeching on the man to hit it hard baby, hard hard lol.

Anyways, what do I know, still a virgin remember?.

ronald4lif:


Sexual compatibility is essential in marriage and before one say I do to their partner they must ensure they meet each other's sexual expectation. But what do one make of overzealous religious fanatics who keep undermining that fact with their no to premarital sex rhetorics?.

Etetejake:


she showed me her middle finger trying to describe the size. she also said it is thing just like the finger. can such size satisfy even the tiniest hole? Am serious about this ooo. if u ar the type that get close to women u will learn by force.

jsunex:


Giv Example of the reaction

MrsChima:
If he has a small dick...yeah only skills he need to develop is manual masturbation and MouthAction. If he isn't willing to do those things then she should walk away. There is no need to be with someone you ate not sexually compatible with!

MrsChima:


Sexual compatibility changes daily and even in marriages where the couple were best lover prior to marriage and then long into marriage...sex suvks!

It is about being willing to learn new styles and fund out what pleases your mate 5th at is realistic for both. You can have a point star before marriage and 5th inge happens in life...shot change and so you have to change what once worked before. It is what us mental health professionals called growth mindset vs fixed mindset.