Why are people like this?

I got back home last night and made straight for the shower. I was so exhausted after a long day hustle. I was hungry and had to go get some noodles from one of the shops on the street. I had got the noodles and while strolling back to my place, one of the young guys on the street walked up to me and said " bros good evening, please can I talk to you?"


I stopped to listen to him and he said: How things dey go? And I answered " fine" with a smile. And he started blowing me story oh!

Bros I like your way, you no just get anybody time for this area. In my mind I am like " why will I have anybody's time"... only if they understand how unhappy I am staying around that place. I just wanted to keep a low key, focus and get back on my feet again!

So he continued, I like you bros that's why I want tell you this thing, I just like how you dey do your things.

E get some chics around here wey been dey gossip you when you pass. Them just dey scatter yarn shaaa. One talk say e be like say you be homo say she don dey see you for over one year now, no babe and na only one guy she dey always see you with. I just stood there looking at him....


You see, after my last relationship, I decided to just be on my own. I had gotten out of paid employment and started a business which didn't go down well and I ended up wound in debt. My girlfriend started acting funny and all... adding to my wahala which I was just not in the mood for. She was obviously tired and was seeing someone else.... I just couldn't give her that " Rihanna wanna be lifestyle" that she needed.


I mean I had to tell myself the truth that it wasn't working after talking to her severally about her attitude and how she cared less. The relationship finally fizzled and we had to go out separate ways. So I am here thinking about how to get back on my feet again and stay focus while some idiots are busy calling me gay oh!


The only person who visits me in this area is my best friend from childhood and that's about the only person that I can allow to come to my house. I have been trying so hard to discipline myself by staying off chics; it's not like I can't do when I want to do... I mean am not bad looking " light skin, broad shoulders, big build, 5ft"9 inches and a bald head" lol. But I just don't want to be that guy again... That guy who goes around with different girls.


How does that make me gay? Even the landlady sent a message through my Sister " that your brother him never reach to marry... make we find wife for am?" ... Nna eh... Right now I don't think am stable to go through that relationship stress because I am trying to settle myself. I had tried to date earlier on but I just found out that I was spending money carelessly...


You see these girls when I try to date and tell them how things are and all that... my looks, appearance and dressing always betray me... And why do most of these girls always ask for " Cold Stone Ice Cream and Pizza"? Like I always had to spend money whenever we see. Come to the house, she refused... mehn I just had to steer clear.


Right now I just want to be... Until I find someone reasonable... But do I even need a girl right now? It's cool being this single because I don't have to think about pleasing any girl.... Does that make me gay? Hell NO!


So those chics on the street... They can kiss my hairy " A**"

Ermm but they have a point o...am not saying that ur gay m just saying that this ur time of crises is the right time to find a good wife...just saying o

One year no chic?like no Doking? how you take do am? i would have said you are doing the right thing, but i mean your stuff gets up in the morning right?How can you not want a woman in ONE YEAR?

Even Catholic Priests that are CELIBATES, usually get busted doing it with their parish boys once or twice in a Year. The Truth of the matter is that you should check your GAY-O-METER because no normal man don't want a female everyday, let alone ONE YEAR sex Vacation.

Maybe you just do a lot of SOAPY, but that too is not normal. BROS get a woman, as being in a relationship does not distract you from making headway in your business.

Who cares what people think.

The truth is that people will say what they want to. We cannot control people's thoughts, words and actions.

As long as you are happy, keep doing what you're doing.

raayah:
Who cares what people think.

The truth is that people will say what they want to. We cannot control people's thoughts, words and actions.

As long as you are happy, keep doing what you're doing.

Exactly... Thanks bro!

I feel U
Ute in survival mode. Away with the excess luggage

BUTCHCASSIDY:
I feel U
Ute in survival mode. Away with the excess luggage

Yeah bro... Wetin man go do?

I feel s*x is overrated,and its ok for the op to feel that way..It doesnt mean he isnt normal.....Its a phase,I have been dere...Enjoy being U jare.

Lol girls hate wen u don't notice them... Especially the ones dat r trippin for u..., and I loove d feeling.

Onozztins:
I feel s*x is overrated,and its ok for the op to feel that way..It doesnt mean he isnt normal.....Its a phase,I have been dere...Enjoy being U jare.

True talk Sister. THanks

i knew someone that always visit a friend of his in my place. The friend is a chronic womanizer but he (first guy) doesnt do dating at all. Through with his nysc but still jobless, he told us he wasnt ready that he need to fix his life to make his future a better one.

But people eavesdrop saying he was dickless, impotent some assumed he was a pro in psaedophiles because he plays with children very well, bought things like biscuits, sweets, books and dash it out randomly to both male and female children in the streets without a hidden agenda.

My brother dont mind them, do things that will make you happy, try and focus on making yourself a better person. If it is as a result of having little money, use it to better urself or business or to transport urself to that interview venue.


Money go woman go....money come woman come.

People are just so annoying when it comes to their dirty thoughts. A real man thats what you're if really does reasons you mentioned are genuine and you are not gay. Now is not the time to flirt with women get on your feet again so you can satisfy the lustful desires of ladies (they all seem to be the same) and shut your ears to what people are saying. Anytime someone comes up to you to tell you that same trash give then a well structured insultive answer.

keypad1:
i knew someone that always visit a friend of his in my place. The friend is a chronic womanizer but he (first guy) doesnt do dating at all. Through with his nysc but still jobless, he told us he wasnt ready that he need to fix his life to make his future a better one.

But people eavesdrop saying he was dickless, impotent some assumed he was a pro in psaedophiles because he plays with children very well, bought things like biscuits, sweets, books and dash it out randomly to both male and female children in the streets without a hidden agenda.

My brother dont mind them, do things that will make you happy, try and focus on making yourself a better person. If it is as a result of having little money, use it to better urself or business or to transport urself to that interview venue.


Money go woman go....money come woman come.

Thanks a lot bro

Olamitisoji:
People are just so annoying when it comes to their dirty thoughts. A real man thats what you're if really does reasons you mentioned are genuine and you are not gay. Now is not the time to flirt with women get on your feet again so you can satisfy the lustful desires of ladies (they all seem to be the same) and shut your ears to what people are saying. Anytime someone comes up to you to tell you that same trash give then a well structured insultive answer.

Thanks bro... I am very straight. I don't want to imagine the stress of a relationship now.

HungerBAD:
One year no chic?like no Doking? how you take do am? i would have said you are doing the right thing, but i mean your stuff gets up in the morning right?How can you not want a woman in ONE YEAR?

Even Catholic Priests that are CELIBATES, usually get busted doing it with their parish boys once or twice in a Year. The Truth of the matter is that you should check your GAY-O-METER because no normal man don't want a female everyday, let alone ONE YEAR sex Vacation.

Maybe you just do a lot ofY, but that too is not normal. BROS get a woman, as being in a relationship does not distract you from making headway in your business.

wat is dis one saying...DAT u can't control urself doesn't mean he can't..OP relax and plan ur life jare...and if d ryt girl comes and? Take d initiative

Vasline and lux soap go don hear am be that.

HungerBAD:
One year no chic?like no Doking? how you take do am? i would have said you are doing the right thing, but i mean your stuff gets up in the morning right?How can you not want a woman in ONE YEAR?

Even Catholic Priests that are CELIBATES, usually get busted doing it with their parish boys once or twice in a Year. The Truth of the matter is that you should check your GAY-O-METER because no normal man don't want a female everyday, let alone ONE YEAR sex Vacation.

Maybe you just do a lot of SOAPY, but that too is not normal. BROS get a woman, as being in a relationship does not distract you from making headway in your business.

Op.Pls dont take to this advice,u can do without sex for a whole year.

People have done it b4 u nd r still doing it.as far as u dont get depressed of nt having sum1 to love nd care physically for u.

HungerBAD:
One year no chic?like no Doking? how you take do am? i would have said you are doing the right thing, but i mean your stuff gets up in the morning right?How can you not want a woman in ONE YEAR?

Even Catholic Priests that are CELIBATES, usually get busted doing it with their parish boys once or twice in a Year. The Truth of the matter is that you should check your GAY-O-METER because no normal man don't want a female everyday, let alone ONE YEAR sex Vacation.

Maybe you just do a lot of SOAPY, but that too is not normal. BROS get a woman, as being in a relationship does not distract you from making headway in your business.

It's shallow for you to think in that way. People like you will never understand. And who says a man cannot stay a year without sex or using soap?

ivyT:


Op.Pls dont take to this advice,u can do without sex for a whole year.

People have done it b4 u nd r still doing it.as far as u dont get depressed of nt having sum1 to love nd care physically for u.

Thanks a lot