₦airaland Forum

By Bunmi Sofola


Dear Bunmi,
I will be celebrating my 18th birthday soon. I have been going out with my boyfriend for some time now and I am still a virgin.


However, I have promised to have sex with him after my 18th birthday and have told him to buy some condoms as I don’t want to be saddled with an unwanted pregnancy.


I am still a student and my parents are old-fashioned, so I can’t ask my mum about contraception. My boyfriend said I shouldn’t worry as I couldn’t possibly get pregnant the first time I have sex.
Is he right?

Blanca, by e-mail.

Dear Blanca,
There is absolutely nothing stopping you from getting pregnant when you have sex, be it your first or your 100th.


When puberty begins, your ovaries start producing eggs. The result? Your first period. Apart from the odd occasion, everyone who has a period produces an egg, and so there’s always a chance of getting pregnant.


So until you make a solid arrangement with your boyfriend as to the best form of contraception to adopt, I would put sex on hold for now if I were you. 18 is a bit too young to be anxious about sex.


If your boyfriend keeps on putting on the pressure, dump him and look for a more patient man.

Source:http://www.vanguardngr.com/2015/07/relationship-i-want-to-have-sex-on-my-18th-birthday-will-i-get-pregnant/



What's your opinion about the letter and the reply?

No you won't!

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FTC. . .I dedicate this land to the Duaradinho that wears no 72 jersey for APC United!

story for the gods... This guy don thief my FTC... Anyway 2nd To comment


This thread no suppose reach FP ooooo?

go ahead and dooooooooooooo itttttttttttttttt

50/50

Proof u r a virgin 1st

Wise reply..

Stupid question.

Keep your virginity cos it's ur pride
Fornication is a sin before God lil Angel
Sex is overrated! Dnt let them decieve you

Virginity is purity and it make you clean before God
"Every sin committed is outside the body but he that commit fornication sin against his own body" APOSTLE PAUL

i hope that help to an extent

No, you won't. Go ahead

The response is adequate for the inquiry.

Lol . your parents w'd soon be "new fashioned" when you get gang raped , an STD , or even pregnant

stewpid chewdrain

keep ur virginity & remain useful or loss it & become useless. NONSENSE

You ho get belle, and the person wey give you go deny am.

No, having sex will make your hymen thicker.
Spoilt little brat.

What kinda stvpid question is this? If u have sex,wether birthday or nt u wil get pregnant. Condoms can break,pills can fail,if u are nt ready for the reality associated with sex then backoff. Abstainance is the best.

K

No babe

Wish I could turn all these comments to money.

You know,These people here Bring the most Pathetic nd' Infuriatin' Questions here on Nairaland...I feel Repulsed at times when I read this kinda Things...Dumb nd' Dumber

Y tell us All dis pple sef

This Nigeria, the 21st century anything is possible

Such a pity many girs don't even understand how conception comes about.

I could have sex with my gf or wife a billion times without knocking her up. All I need to know is when she starts menstruating.

Bring That puss.y here lemme bleep you won't get pregnant but might leave with HIV

This world....

Anyway, it is not your fault cos it is almost becoming a norm in our generation but i will advise you that you should focus on your life and career for now and leave sex. You will have sex and get tired of it very soon....

You don't agree? Not your fault!

Mumu question

Na who I go ask