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Re: The Daily Pains Of A Handsome Or Good Looking Guy. by Vado(m): 4:49pm On Jul 02, 2015
Spot on Op. Some of us can relate.
Re: The Daily Pains Of A Handsome Or Good Looking Guy. by deolumike(m): 4:50pm On Jul 02, 2015
glimpse33:
OP, you should be greatful you are handsome!

let the ugly guys tell you their pains first, then you would be thankful to your creator!

note* ugly guys shouldn't quote me tongue

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Re: The Daily Pains Of A Handsome Or Good Looking Guy. by topemirates(m): 4:52pm On Jul 02, 2015
flinton:
Even when u are single nobody believes u

My oga, u sef dey here??lol
Re: The Daily Pains Of A Handsome Or Good Looking Guy. by abbey621(m): 4:53pm On Jul 02, 2015
Where do you guys come up with this crap? Most of the factors listed can also be attributed to average looking guys or some ugly ones. Personally speaking, I think I rank among the good looking guys in the world both facially and body wise yet I've never experienced any problem getting a girl or maintaining one. I'm mostly an introvert except when we talking about money or business grin grin grin. I see no reason why any good looking guy would have problems being intimidated or lonely. I think this has to do with personality more than physical attributes, if you are a dullard or don't know how to express yourself then I can see where some of your points might be critical but for someone with high confidence, good looks is a major bonus!
Re: The Daily Pains Of A Handsome Or Good Looking Guy. by Emmaville(m): 4:55pm On Jul 02, 2015
Rubbish in HD

undecided undecided
Re: The Daily Pains Of A Handsome Or Good Looking Guy. by aymoded(m): 4:56pm On Jul 02, 2015
As in shey na crime.. True talk by the way..nice writeup. All in all (handsome or ugly) d koko is ur bank account nd b4 u knw ure a kiewt guy to numerous girls(kiewt or ugly).
Re: The Daily Pains Of A Handsome Or Good Looking Guy. by naijaboiy: 4:57pm On Jul 02, 2015
prettythicksme:
cheesy Any sane lady wont depend on a guy's pocket these days cheesy in tiwa's voice if u check my bank acct odikwa large cheesy
Ok.
Re: The Daily Pains Of A Handsome Or Good Looking Guy. by naijaboiy: 4:58pm On Jul 02, 2015
abbey621:
Where do you guys come up with this crap? Most of the factors listed can also be attributed to average looking guys or some ugly ones. Personally speaking, I think I rank among the good looking guys in the world both facially and body wise yet I've never experienced any problem getting a girl or maintaining one. I'm mostly an introvert except when we talking about money or business grin grin grin. I see no reason why any good looking guy would have problems being intimidated or lonely. I think this has to do with personality more than physical attributes, if you are a dullard or don't know how to express yourself then I can see where some of your points might be critical but for someone with high confidence, good looks is a major bonus!
Your opinion doesn't make it crap. smiley

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Re: The Daily Pains Of A Handsome Or Good Looking Guy. by naijaboiy: 4:59pm On Jul 02, 2015
Emmaville:
Rubbish in HD

undecided undecided
Humour us cheesycheesy
Re: The Daily Pains Of A Handsome Or Good Looking Guy. by IceDude(m): 4:59pm On Jul 02, 2015
drlawizle:
What annoys me d most is d fact dat Women just frown immediately they see me, den when I frown back dem go come dey say "he's proud!" Nonsense!

I really dunno why dat is d case cos it seems pretty Women are attracted an feel comfortable with Average looking guys dan Cute guys...I think it has to do with d Women probably seeing d handsome man as a challenge to dr beauty or something.
Lol. U just made me remembered what happened ysday when i visited my aunty...as i entered the compound i saw an average looking gal on her way out. She started looking at me 4rm head to toe, her gaze was mainly on my face and the wicked timberland i was wearing....She squeezed her face all of a sudden and gave me a disdainful look, i didnt even bother to say hi again. I walked straight to my aunty's flat
Re: The Daily Pains Of A Handsome Or Good Looking Guy. by abbey621(m): 5:05pm On Jul 02, 2015
naijaboiy:

Your opinion doesn't make it crap. smiley

Sure it does, I was expecting some kind of research but all I saw was opinionated statements generalizing all good looking guys into one category.
Re: The Daily Pains Of A Handsome Or Good Looking Guy. by Nobody: 5:05pm On Jul 02, 2015
naijaboiy:

Well done sir. cool

True Word, My bro!

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Re: The Daily Pains Of A Handsome Or Good Looking Guy. by czarr(m): 5:06pm On Jul 02, 2015
marieolae:
The op must think he is fine
undecided angry
.....naijaboiy here's another hater,hu thinks undermining a fine boy is gonna make him any less attractive... grin grin angry
Re: The Daily Pains Of A Handsome Or Good Looking Guy. by topemirates(m): 5:06pm On Jul 02, 2015
What can I say o?

@ op, shey I'm free to open profile pisshurs?
Re: The Daily Pains Of A Handsome Or Good Looking Guy. by morganist99(m): 5:08pm On Jul 02, 2015
misspicy:

you are yet to ansa my qntn sir.
Are men's d1ck diff frm that of boys?
OK lemme ansa this fool types of dicks 1 long dicks
2 short dicks 3 curved dicks 4 straight dicks
Re: The Daily Pains Of A Handsome Or Good Looking Guy. by Beface(m): 5:08pm On Jul 02, 2015
The part whereby pretty ladies play hard to get is what i don't understand about ladies!
Re: The Daily Pains Of A Handsome Or Good Looking Guy. by czarr(m): 5:10pm On Jul 02, 2015
naijaboiy:

I can't take it.

Because it's a myopic view.

I'm a handsome guy and most of my male friends are handsome too.

We are no way under the category of what you just stated.

It's just like calling every beautiful girl a who're. I'm sure you wouldn't agree with that too. undecided
I admire you confidence!!
Tell'em bro grin

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Re: The Daily Pains Of A Handsome Or Good Looking Guy. by Uten9z(m): 5:12pm On Jul 02, 2015
Discrediting ur ability: some ppl will just find a way to ground u in society 'office , school, or any place they earn ppl audience, especially when they discover a weakness abt you or in the slightest erring they can find, they capitalise till they up large the error to a make believe (even to ur self) in order to subdue u.

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Re: The Daily Pains Of A Handsome Or Good Looking Guy. by Nobody: 5:12pm On Jul 02, 2015
Teempakguy:
Chai! This will be difficult. grin
In the same vein, being a mentally gifted person, is a gift of nature, which, by the way is quite desirable and exquisite. People often think that people with advanced cognitive abilities are able to do anything they want just because of their gifts. However, people often forget that intelligence does not make you a God. You are also a weak, frail person with your own setbacks and problems.
We will not analyze these setbacks together.

people tend to objectify brainiacs, grin. They tend to define you only by your intelligence. They usually do not care about other characteristics you have, whether you are a very romantic person, or kind, pfft. Who cares, you will start hearing, hey! What is 13 squared? Or, hey, I have a date with my boyfriend tonight and I haven't done my homework. Could you do it for me? And oh, make sure about three are wrong, so the teacher doesn't know you had anything to do with it.
Imagine. angry

yeah . . . in this case, it would be the opposite. Nobody cares about you. Nobody therefore talks about you. They only know you exist when their math textbook starts displaying Greek.

yeah, in this case, the envy comes from other less intelligent academics. They cannot believe you are so smart. Without reading, you top the class. While they . . . spend an eternity with their legs in the water bowl. Only to get behind you. Eventually, envy must come. They will also feel insecure around you. They will also shun you.

if you are intelligent and you are not lonely . . . . angry angry
Hardly anyone understands you, the ones that do are green with envy. And usually, brainiacs embarrass themselves in public every time! It's inevitable. No one gets their jokes, or even their grammar sef. grin they are also clumsy at times.

I remember one time like this when my mom said, "you can even cure cancer!" And I was like . . . ehn
They also expect you to perform at peak levels every time. Whether you are sick or not, whether you are depressed or whatever, they don't care. If you lack behind, they will say . . . he has started moving with those olodos. embarassed

one word . . . FRIENDZONE. cool

this also happens to intelligent guys . . . any girl that gets attracted to you becomes overly possessive and clingy. They are also usually bad mannered and not-that-hot. One is happening to me right now even. She calls me day and night and always wants to know my position and momentum at every point in time. angry

some peeps are incredibly witty! Myself included. People like this are considered arrogant because they cannot be beaten in an argument. They cannot be corrected, they cannot be coerced. Simply because they have the reply to every statement. Hence they are considered stubborn, ungentlemanly, and arrogant. Even among the girls, no one will want to hold a conversation with you because they know you will eventually embarrass them and make them look like fools. Their excuse? "He is an arrogant sonofab*tch"

some people embrace their gifts squarely. They begin to believe that they are the normal human specimen. However, in the process, they begin to look down on lesser brained peeps. Forgetting that every human has their part in the greater scheme of things. Becoming too confident in one's mental prowess can lead him to view others as objects and animals.

you know, I think that every gift has its own share of problems. Whether aesthetic beauty, mental agility, or sense of humor. It is these strengths and weaknesses that define who we are, smiley

cc yourmain wink

Lol I am ridiculously flattered to be "cc'd"

Well in my opinion intelligent guys are forever winning even before good-looking guys. Good-looking guys are just meh. All them girls will completely regret making you do their homework.

Lol the constant topic of discussion I have is about intelligent guys. Who doesn't want a nerd. Jeez. Except when they're like all snotty with braces.

Well. Haters are motivators. Who cares If they're hating. That is a good thing.

Intelligent people are usually happy not being around people I'd think. My best friend is like a genius. Not them book smart people. But yknow you speak to her and you're like. Woah. Mind. Blown. Anyways she'd never ever ever want to hang out when we ask her. And she's like I don't associate with idiots grin grin. She's only joking. I hope.

Haha Awh moms think their kids can do anything. I understand. My mum's the same lol.

Ehm. These girls need to wisen up. Smart guys are the way to go. Then again those types of females usually aren't very intelligent themselves.

Would ya blame them for being clingy. Now they know that intelligence is the way into the future and they've to stay hanging lol. I would anyways grin. Ehm I think that's cause smart people ( I feel really bad for saying smart people, kinda like I'm assuming everyone else isn't..) sometimes settle for less. Maybe cause of those girls friendzoning them. sad

Who doesn't like a bit of wit ? Well my friends and I love it. You should just leave them people and come chill with us grin

Well I'd personally rather have problems being smart than being good-looking... or maybe even both grin grin
Re: The Daily Pains Of A Handsome Or Good Looking Guy. by pasol4real(m): 5:13pm On Jul 02, 2015
Well as for me the problem i usuallly encounter is the fact that most girls wud not want u for a one night stand ,they immediately seek for commitment there by denying u of sex n pleasure .girls tend to be too serious n pretentious around u cos they want to giv me the impression that they are gud girls.This usually pisses me off cos sometimes u Just wanna hav fun n notin serious.but tis Same girls wud agree to the Same things they deny me for a guy not handsome or gudluking .Just because they want to tie me down .
Menh sometimes it cud really be frustrating.

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Re: The Daily Pains Of A Handsome Or Good Looking Guy. by naijaboiy: 5:15pm On Jul 02, 2015
Defcon1:
Being handsome and introverted is a lethal combination - a curse!

When you have these two opposing attributes, life becomes full of fear and anxiety.

The reason is people have high expectations of you, but you hardly deliver, making them label you " handsome for nothing"
You will hear things like, " that one? Forget, na only fine him fine, him no sabi anything!"

Even the ladies would be like, " that one? Na handsome face l go chop? Person wey no sabi how to groove & chop life. Abegi!!

Good looks is only a blessing when you are extroverted.
Yes, I am talking from experience.
So sad but true grin
Re: The Daily Pains Of A Handsome Or Good Looking Guy. by naijaboiy: 5:15pm On Jul 02, 2015
pasol4real:
Well as for me the problem i usuallly encounter is the fact that most girls wud not want u for a one night stand ,they immediately seek for commitment there by denying u of sex n pleasure .girls tend to be too serious n pretentious around u cos they want to giv me the impression that they are gud girls.This usually pisses me off cos sometimes u Just wanna hav fun n notin serious.but tis Same girls wud agree to the Same things they deny me for a guy not handsome or gudluking .Just because they want to tie me down .
Menh sometimes it cud really be frustrating.
Very good point.

I've experienced this too. cheesy
Re: The Daily Pains Of A Handsome Or Good Looking Guy. by naijaboiy: 5:18pm On Jul 02, 2015
czarr:
I admire you confidence!!
Tell'em bro grin
Lol,,bro...some facts are very visible to the blind and audible to the deaf.

So what people like that poster "prettythicksme" say is not going to change it.

They only want to try and frustrate you to agree with their myopic way of reasoning. smiley

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Re: The Daily Pains Of A Handsome Or Good Looking Guy. by Pamelayoung: 5:20pm On Jul 02, 2015
90% of the so called handsome dude a players
Re: The Daily Pains Of A Handsome Or Good Looking Guy. by czarr(m): 5:21pm On Jul 02, 2015
naijaboiy:

Lol,,bro...some facts are very visible to the blind and audible to the deaf.

So what people like that poster "prettythicksme" say is not going to change it.

They only want to try and frustrate you to agree with their myopic way of reasoning. smiley
true
Re: The Daily Pains Of A Handsome Or Good Looking Guy. by Nobody: 5:22pm On Jul 02, 2015
naijaboiy:

Lol,,bro...some facts are very visible to the blind and audible to the deaf.

So what people like that poster "prettythicksme" say is not going to change it.

They only want to try and frustrate you to agree with their myopic way of reasoning. smiley
wtf cheesy
Re: The Daily Pains Of A Handsome Or Good Looking Guy. by haiti007(m): 5:23pm On Jul 02, 2015
not too cute tho
but what the op said is very true,
most especially when tryin to woo a pretty gal, they ll have the mindset that all handsome guys are cheat
Re: The Daily Pains Of A Handsome Or Good Looking Guy. by naijaboiy: 5:24pm On Jul 02, 2015
abbey621:


Sure it does, I was expecting some kind of research but all I saw was opinionated statements generalizing all good looking guys into one category.
Okay if you say so. cool
Re: The Daily Pains Of A Handsome Or Good Looking Guy. by misspicy(f): 5:30pm On Jul 02, 2015
[s]
morganist99:
OK lemme ansa [b]this fool/b] types of dicks 1 long dicks
2 short dicks 3 curved dicks 4 straight dicks
[/s]
today aint d day for dis shii...so amma let u go scot free....you wunt be dis lucky nxt tym niggur
Re: The Daily Pains Of A Handsome Or Good Looking Guy. by chudidonas(m): 5:31pm On Jul 02, 2015
prettyJoy22:
abi...seems like ure talking from experience wink
No... I learnt from nollywood grin

And you're not bad either, with the best skin tone.

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Re: The Daily Pains Of A Handsome Or Good Looking Guy. by wordbank(m): 5:34pm On Jul 02, 2015
Phc niggur
Re: The Daily Pains Of A Handsome Or Good Looking Guy. by NiRfreak(m): 5:34pm On Jul 02, 2015
Teempakguy:
Chai! This will be difficult. grin
In the same vein, being a mentally gifted person, is a gift of nature, which, by the way is quite desirable and exquisite. People often think that people with advanced cognitive abilities are able to do anything they want just because of their gifts. However, people often forget that intelligence does not make you a God. You are also a weak, frail person with your own setbacks and problems.
We will not analyze these setbacks together.

people tend to objectify brainiacs, grin. They tend to define you only by your intelligence. They usually do not care about other characteristics you have, whether you are a very romantic person, or kind, pfft. Who cares, you will start hearing, hey! What is 13 squared? Or, hey, I have a date with my boyfriend tonight and I haven't done my homework. Could you do it for me? And oh, make sure about three are wrong, so the teacher doesn't know you had anything to do with it.
Imagine. angry

yeah . . . in this case, it would be the opposite. Nobody cares about you. Nobody therefore talks about you. They only know you exist when their math textbook starts displaying Greek.

yeah, in this case, the envy comes from other less intelligent academics. They cannot believe you are so smart. Without reading, you top the class. While they . . . spend an eternity with their legs in the water bowl. Only to get behind you. Eventually, envy must come. They will also feel insecure around you. They will also shun you.

if you are intelligent and you are not lonely . . . . angry angry
Hardly anyone understands you, the ones that do are green with envy. And usually, brainiacs embarrass themselves in public every time! It's inevitable. No one gets their jokes, or even their grammar sef. grin they are also clumsy at times.

I remember one time like this when my mom said, "you can even cure cancer!" And I was like . . . ehn
They also expect you to perform at peak levels every time. Whether you are sick or not, whether you are depressed or whatever, they don't care. If you lack behind, they will say . . . he has started moving with those olodos. embarassed

one word . . . FRIENDZONE. cool

this also happens to intelligent guys . . . any girl that gets attracted to you becomes overly possessive and clingy. They are also usually bad mannered and not-that-hot. One is happening to me right now even. She calls me day and night and always wants to know my position and momentum at every point in time. angry

some peeps are incredibly witty! Myself included. People like this are considered arrogant because they cannot be beaten in an argument. They cannot be corrected, they cannot be coerced. Simply because they have the reply to every statement. Hence they are considered stubborn, ungentlemanly, and arrogant. Even among the girls, no one will want to hold a conversation with you because they know you will eventually embarrass them and make them look like fools. Their excuse? "He is an arrogant sonofab*tch"

some people embrace their gifts squarely. They begin to believe that they are the normal human specimen. However, in the process, they begin to look down on lesser brained peeps. Forgetting that every human has their part in the greater scheme of things. Becoming too confident in one's mental prowess can lead him to view others as objects and animals.

you know, I think that every gift has its own share of problems. Whether aesthetic beauty, mental agility, or sense of humor. It is these strengths and weaknesses that define who we are, smiley

cc yourmain wink
brilliant analogy,logical analysis .from your post u appear intelligent

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