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Good day, My people. I am in serious need of good advise. I am set to wed next month. For some reason, I'm not happy, excited or trilled. In fact I'm confused and I am not sure if I am making the right decision. I met my (husband to be) last year while I was in Nigeria on a business trip. I am not based in Nigeria;However I'm home 3x a year on business. While I'm home we always keep in contact with each other, in fact I received two contracts because of him. A few months ago, he asked my hand in marriage. I accepted. I've met his family(great people) and they have met my family. The only thing his mother asked me was to relocate back to Nigeria since his son has a great job with the oil company. Again I accept since I have a flourishing business in P.H. Since last week, I have being contemplating if I have made the right choice. To be honest, A part of me is not ready to settle down despite the fact I am 30 years old. The truth is that I have not being with any man in thepast 10 years. In fact I prefer to have sex with women,I only date women. I don't really care for men, I am not attracted to men in anyway.
The big question is, should I call off the wedding and bear the shame or go ahead with the marriage and learn to love him. Is it possible that I will grow to love him/ be attracted to him.
Your advise is greatest appreciated


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Continue with your women. Don't deceive yourself. If you and your woman need three...some....contact tsdarkside or dickrider. They are both she...male.

mtcheeeee....spiritually possessed. Yhu nid APC. Kant advice yhu on dz shit cos it wont change de fact dah fuel z abouch to rise again

Better call off d engagement

Pls jst call d weddin off, n dont be a nuisance to ur partner. N pls visit a rehab, to correct ur sexual deformity.

ConfessionsNgr:
Good day, My people. I am in serious need of good advise. I am set to wed next month. For some reason, I'm not happy, excited or trilled. In fact I'm confused and I am not sure if I am making the right decision. I met my (husband to be) last year while I was in Nigeria on a business trip. I am not based in Nigeria;However I'm home 3x a year on business. While I'm home we always keep in contact with each other, in fact I received two contracts because of him. A few months ago, he asked my hand in marriage. I accepted. I've met his family(great people) and they have met my family. The only thing his mother asked me was to relocate back to Nigeria since his son has a great job with the oil company. Again I accept since I have a flourishing business in P.H. Since last week, I have being contemplating if I have made the right choice. To be honest, A part of me is not ready to settle down despite the fact I am 30 years old. The truth is that I have not being with any man in thepast 10 years. In fact I prefer to have sex with women,I only date women. I don't really care for men, I am not attracted to men in anyway.
The big question is, should I call off the wedding and bear the shame or go ahead with the marriage and learn to love him. Is it possible that I will grow to love him/ be attracted to him.
Your advise is greatest appreciated


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Are you okay? Lesbianism wont take you any where. You are 30 and you are not worried rather you wanna useless your life. You better be happy fast fast. You are doing the right thing by committing your life in holy matrimony. If you like dont marry him and by the time you know it, another sharp girl will snatch him away from you. You should be lucky for finding a man like him at your young old age.

Marriage is not a holiday, it is till forever, and u are still looking forward to see whether you'll love him after marriage - if the love isn't there before marriage u'll never see it there after marriage, though it might for the people that believe which I don't think you're one of those people.

Follow Mugabe's advice " Even Satan wasn't Gay, he chose to approach naked Eve instead of naked Adam."
Change the gay to lesbian,so it would give u a clear understanding of what I mean.
The hole beneath you was created for the male so that a socket can be created for the sake of children, don't re create yourself and sin against God.

Have fun

Silly attention seeker.....
Whole story is fake.....
Next!!!

iranu

hmmmmm!!!

#Shoroniyen

Pls dnt stay in naija koz it 14yrs in prison oooo. By d way dnt try using cucumber it not safe just a piece of advice #ACE

Goodyshoes:
Silly attention seeker.....
Whole story is fake.....
Next!!!

Someone is in need of serious advise. There is a source there to verify if it is fake. You really do not need to comment.

ConfessionsNgr:
Someone is in need of serious advise. There is a source there to verify if it is fake. You really do not need to comment.

Why does the person need advice all of a sudden??
For the past ten years, did she not feel the need to change?? She should get one thing straight..... Everyone is responsible for his or her actions, i strongly believe in the cause and effect theory.... She chose to joke around for the past ten years, without giving a thought to what grave implications come with her actions....??
Sorry to say, but she is in for a lot.... A lot more than she can chew....
If i may ask, why does she wanna get married
Is it necessary
She proudly said she was into same sex relationship for TEN years....., why the need for a man now??
Did she suddenly discover the need and importance of a man
Simply put, she chose this path..... She should bear whatever comes with it.....
She should get a life....