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Pchidexy:
I met this girl when I was a teacher in a private school five years ago. She was a teacher as well. She was a hell of beauty. We both had feelings for each other but there wasn't anything serious. We lost contact when I left the school to pursue business. Five years later, in 2015, we met again. This time, we got really acquainted to each other. We were rolling!

The Test:
I purposely gave her number and details to my friend who is a real player. He scooped her and she fell. She was money conscious as she demanded Samsung galaxy and some money from my friend. He never gave her any of those things. Just by promising her marriage she willingly opened her legs for him. All these while, I was updated by my friend. She never knew I knew about her escapades.

If you were in my shoes what would you do?

As for me I see her as worthless and only use her to quench konji.

Now you know a woman today doesn't wanna hear "I love you", all she wants is "I will marry you"

Pchidexy:
I met this girl when I was a teacher in a private school five years ago. She was a teacher as well. She was a hell of beauty. We both had feelings for each other but there wasn't anything serious. We lost contact when I left the school to pursue business. Five years later, in 2015, we met again. This time, we got really acquainted to each other. We were rolling!

The Test:
I purposely gave her number and details to my friend who is a real player. He scooped her and she fell. She was money conscious as she demanded Samsung galaxy and some money from my friend. He never gave her any of those things. Just by promising her marriage she willingly opened her legs for him. All these while, I was updated by my friend. She never knew I knew about her escapades.

If you were in my shoes what would you do?

As for me I see her as worthless and only use her to quench konji.

Many girls will blast you today op and I believe its because many of them have been played like this at some point in their lives(even though they don't say) so they relate with your girlfriends story a lot

But I don't really believe "testing" is too much of a bad idea, many ppl here at some point or the other have tested (albeit subconsciously or consciously) their spouses or lovers to see if they truly love them.....

....girls do it a lot...that much I know

But I think you carried it to far
1) you said your friend is a player...meaning he's well versed in breaking down womens emotional defence , sleeping with them and throwing them aside
2) shes a human being she can fall, you also can fall ... imagine this scenario
A woman wants to tests her husbands faithfulness, her husband is sexually active and she has denied him sex for 4 months....
..then after the fourth month she brings her friend that looks like omotola have naked into the house to seduce him and is waiting at the corner to see if he'll fall..........Isn't that too much!!!!!
She probably loves you but if you had shown her that you're capable of anything your player friend is capable of, who knows the story might ha e been different

I feel you aren't telling us the true story..during the time of the test, I'm sure you weren't giving her your full attention, or loving up the way you're supposed to...a very small part of you probably wanted her to fail ..hence making it all the more difficult for her

Of course she wouldn't pass

Guys should stop love testing their ladies' fidelity because the guys will always be disappointed.

bigiyaro:
trust me, d op will die from high BP

lolx

hope say him gallant

you only see her as a means to satify yr r konji abi, you see why women better pass una .if na woman she go forgive n forget . remember say wetin dey sweet person nan dey kill person.

jamex93:
tell your friend to invite her to his place and call u on phone in her presence inviting u over to come see his wife to b

then u will go meet dem den d remain story will open up den

no need to hide anything from ha again

she go want die


that's wat we call red handed catching


I wish I go fit watch am live

u sef u no well

why would he send her to his friend.

una dey use women play abi?

guys like u both always end up with wrongest women.

my gal did the exact same thing to me 2weeks ago I failed d test. I told her it was a desperate move and call it quit but now we are back better and stronger. I was on ma way to me her friend wen I saw her miss calls..........,immediately I knew something was wrong. guys beware o

Pchidexy:
I met this girl when I was a teacher in a private school five years ago. She was a teacher as well. She was a hell of beauty. We both had feelings for each other but there wasn't anything serious. We lost contact when I left the school to pursue business. Five years later, in 2015, we met again. This time, we got really acquainted to each other. We were rolling!

The Test:
I purposely gave her number and details to my friend who is a real player. He scooped her and she fell. She was money conscious as she demanded Samsung galaxy and some money from my friend. He never gave her any of those things. Just by promising her marriage she willingly opened her legs for him. All these while, I was updated by my friend. She never knew I knew about her escapades.

If you were in my shoes what would you do?

As for me I see her as worthless and only use her to quench konji.

Small boys looking into life and starting it with mistakes. So what of ur friend 4ked her. So what if u now 4k her too. For all u know that girl could have being ur better half. All u needed to do was mold her. Small boy see, girls are like raw soft metal, u mold them into any form. Ur case is a sad one and I pity u not the girl.

Pchidexy:
You are just assuming. So, because the guy promised her marriage she must bleep him without any consideration. I tire for your reasoning.

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I don't assume, I work with facts and procedures.
Read d article very well without sentiments, be neutral and be open minded. there has been alot that has gone wrong with the OP.
Women is the most fragile material God created while at the same time, the toughest.
by d way, have u ever try to understand a woman? be it your gf, mother, sister or friend?
if not try to do, you will realise more than 1000000000 ways to try to understand them.
Meanwhile, any woman of this generation will jump at anything to get married. there has been alot of over 25 years old babes out there seeking a man's hand.
besides, the OP messed up big time

Op, ur stupidity no be here oooo, I'm sure you are a failure as well only looking for someone that you can share ur failure with..
I'm sure you are happy now that you have a partner.

As if you won't fail if you are put on a test.

oseod:
Many girls will blast you today op and I believe its because many of them have been played like this at some point in their lives(even though they don't say) so they relate with your girlfriends story a lot

But I don't really believe "testing" is too much of a bad idea, many ppl here at some point or the other have tested (albeit subconsciously or consciously) their spouses or lovers to see if they truly love them.....

....girls do it a lot...that much I know

But I think you carried it to far
1) you said your friend is a player...meaning he's well versed in breaking down womens emotional defence , sleeping with them and throwing them aside
2) shes a human being she can fall, you also can fall ... imagine this scenario
A woman wants to tests her husbands faithfulness, her husband is sexually active and she has denied him sex for 4 months....
..then after the fourth month she brings her friend that looks like omotola have naked into the house to seduce him and is waiting at the corner to see if he'll fall..........Isn't that too much!!!!!
She probably loves you but if you had shown her that you're capable of anything your player friend is capable of, who knows the story might ha e been different

I feel you aren't telling us the true story..during the time of the test, I'm sure you weren't giving her your full attention, or loving up the way you're supposed to...a very small part of you probably wanted her to fail ..hence making it all the more difficult for her

Of course she wouldn't pass

Pls tell that small boy

Many people here sounds hypocritical as if its natural for her to fall for d test. Nonsense. If she really loved d guy, she should have informed d guy B4 she end up spreading that wayward legs. Some ladies like spreading it up n down B4 realising that, that particular guy they left is actually better. O boiiii go one n Bleep d hell out of that slimy pussy n never tell her a thing untill she realises that uve really changed your attitude n she call it quit n by then, u wolud have gotten another. Bt above all b carefull

400billionman:
Is Fidelity bank recruiting ?

Hence this topic.

Hahahhahahhahahahahahahahahahaha...jisosooo

tivta:
Says who? The OP obviously loves this girl and is hurtful, didn't you read how he wanted to make her his wife hence the test? Let me give you a real life story of what I read in the news, a married woman willingly slept with a fake PA of Mike Adenuga in hopes of getting a contract or one on one meeting with Adenuga. Of course she found out he was just a driver and the husband divorced her. The girl is just greedy, we all have power over temptation.

. I give up oooooooo.honestly I didn't see where he said he had already Proposed.

Pchidexy:
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How sure are you that your friend slept with her? He might just have lied to you to uphold his own rep.

ginawest:
u c ha as worthless n only use ha to quench konji,so y r u asking us wot u shud do?

_ shuu!!_ dix bea dun provoke

ginawest:
sexual urge

_ u get tym

Let me comment before reading post.. from the topic am going to ask just one question


Is Fidelity bank recruiting

kayalla:
u sef u no well

why would he send her to his friend.

una dey use women play abi?

guys like u both always end up with wrongest women.

olojukokoro women


and na d same tin dey worry u

jamex93:
olojukokoro women


and na d same tin dey worry u

shebi u go like fine gey, how she wan use baf come fine. ori e on fokasibe!

Pchidexy:
I met this girl when I was a teacher in a private school five years ago. She was a teacher as well. She was a hell of beauty. We both had feelings for each other but there wasn't anything serious. We lost contact when I left the school to pursue business. Five years later, in 2015, we met again. This time, we got really acquainted to each other. We were rolling!

The Test:
I purposely gave her number and details to my friend who is a real player. He scooped her and she fell. She was money conscious as she demanded Samsung galaxy and some money from my friend. He never gave her any of those things. Just by promising her marriage she willingly opened her legs for him. All these while, I was updated by my friend. She never knew I knew about her escapades.

If you were in my shoes what would you do?

As for me I see her as worthless and only use her to quench konji.

You're a big fool.

Get. A. Life!!

noblegrex:
Many people here sounds hypocritical as if its natural for her to fall for d test. Nonsense. If she really loved d guy, she should have informed d guy B4 she end up spreading that wayward legs. Some ladies like spreading it up n down B4 realising that, that particular guy they left is actually better. O boiiii go one n Bleep d hell out of that slimy pussy n never tell her a thing untill she realises that uve really changed your attitude n she call it quit n by then, u wolud have gotten another. Bt above all b carefull

I feel you my man! Truth is always bitter. Naija people and hypocrisy.

Pchidexy:
Use your brains next time n not your penis.

And you're the one who's using his brains? "I just want to enjoy her poohsie", are you not thinking through your joystick. Get out of here jor

drnoel:
Small boys looking into life and starting it with mistakes. So what of ur friend 4ked her. So what if u now 4k her too. For all u know that girl could have being ur better half. All u needed to do was mold her. Small boy see, girls are like raw soft metal, u mold them into any form. Ur case is a sad one and I pity u not the girl.

Bro,
I earnestly pray you do not fall victim of a girl that'll make you regret this statement you just made.

NEVER BE FOOLED BY A WOMAN'S WORDS NOR BE SWAYEd BY THEIR TEARS, they re her greatest weapons.

Most of the girls commenting here are in the active business of cheating their man. That's why the OP's (howbeit a bit extreme) methods grind their gears.

texazzpete:
Honest question:

if your GF had secretly tested you with a beautiful friend and you 'chopped', would you have fallen? and would that have made you 'worthless'?

This guy no dey miss the spot.
Nice one

Pchidexy:
I need to enjoy her p__sy for sometime before letting her know her game is up. I don't want to have any emotional vacuum.

Rubbish!!!!! Ur pic says it all. Continue collecting n go get tested

noblegrex:
Many people here sounds hypocritical as if its natural for her to fall for d test. Nonsense. If she really loved d guy, she should have informed d guy B4 she end up spreading that wayward legs. Some ladies like spreading it up n down B4 realising that, that particular guy they left is actually better. O boiiii go one n Bleep d hell out of that slimy pussy n never tell her a thing untill she realises that uve really changed your attitude n she call it quit n by then, u wolud have gotten another. Bt above all b carefull

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Wow! I really like your sentiments. But can I ask you a question?
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What is the gender of the first sinner? how did d sinner sinned?
well, let me help you,
The first sinner is a FEMALE
She sinned by TEMPTATION
To cap it all, it is natural for any one to fall into such trap. it can happen to a man too.

oochi123:
. I give up oooooooo.honestly I didn't see where he said he had already Proposed.

No problem, at least you now know the type of test men give women they love so don't fall victim.

Best comment thus far!!!!! Well analysed...op better learn and wisen up because whether you accept it or not, you still have some growing up to do...shikena!

aparo:
First of all,
Only a fool tests the depth of the water with both feet. Do you know that what you say is worthless could actually be something great. You put her to an unfair test that if she probably put you to, you would fail!
Second,
Why would you say he promised her "Ordinary marriage?" What is ordinary in Marriage? She was wrong to trust? What did you promise her? Did you even promise her anything. That is the problem with our society. Too much lies. Marriage is something now to be taken flippantly to bed a girl? She was trusting... So sad that her trust was betrayed
Third and final,
Show me your friend and I would show you who you are. A friend willing to go all the way to sleep with her is not testing for you. He didnt stop. What if you really like her to continue. He should not (never) have crossed that line. He is a bad friend and he has untrustworthy character and poor moral. I feel sorry for you (And the girl). We never hear the girl story sef. Maybe She likes your friend better, afterall, she wasnt married to you yet.

oseod:
Many girls will blast you today op and I believe its because many of them have been played like this at some point in their lives(even though they don't say) so they relate with your girlfriends story a lot

But I don't really believe "testing" is too much of a bad idea, many ppl here at some point or the other have tested (albeit subconsciously or consciously) their spouses or lovers to see if they truly love them.....

....girls do it a lot...that much I know

But I think you carried it to far
1) you said your friend is a player...meaning he's well versed in breaking down womens emotional defence , sleeping with them and throwing them aside
2) shes a human being she can fall, you also can fall ... imagine this scenario
A woman wants to tests her husbands faithfulness, her husband is sexually active and she has denied him sex for 4 months....
..then after the fourth month she brings her friend that looks like omotola have naked into the house to seduce him and is waiting at the corner to see if he'll fall..........Isn't that too much!!!!!
She probably loves you but if you had shown her that you're capable of anything your player friend is capable of, who knows the story might ha e been different

I feel you aren't telling us the true story..during the time of the test, I'm sure you weren't giving her your full attention, or loving up the way you're supposed to...a very small part of you probably wanted her to fail ..hence making it all the more difficult for her

Of course she wouldn't pass

Excellently analyzed!

V