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Re: US: We’ll Compel Nigeria To Accept Same-sex Marriage by persius555(m): 4:43pm On Jul 15, 2015
Since america has decided to turn their country into a gay haven, i think its hi time they allow gays and lesbians migrate from every nation into the USA.
Re: US: We’ll Compel Nigeria To Accept Same-sex Marriage by Nobody: 4:44pm On Jul 15, 2015
VULCAN:
@aaronson. It is you that is displaying ignorance for all to behold. Same Sex legislation ALWAYS carries penalties against straight people who refuse to provide services to gays.

Pastors are being arrested for refusing to wed gays. Bakers are being fined heavily for refusing to bake cake for gay wedding. That is manifestation of official intolerance.

Freedom of speech, association and religion is being destroyed by gay rights groups world over. In US if your an actor and you say you don't like Homosexuality, your career is over. That is not right.

If they have a right to exist, we that detest it have a right to air our own views. That is only fair.

After Islamic fundamentalists, gay rights campaigners are the most intolerant group in the world. If you don't agree with them you must be hounded out of your job or your business.

The silly guy who posted earlier about live and let live is sympathetic to them. Most likely he has a loved one who is gay but he doesn't wanna tell us.



how come you wilding out without answering simple question,I asked...Will the law(if enacted) makes you turn gay? You couldn't answer but speaking about the side attractions prior to its aftermath which I don't think it would have an aftermath if you learn to accept and respect the gay for whom they are and not what they are.
Re: US: We’ll Compel Nigeria To Accept Same-sex Marriage by pansophist(m): 4:45pm On Jul 15, 2015
xdos:
And ofcourse everyone wont commit incest.... Afterall people who commit incest can equally decide to play safe. So if you strongly believe that incest should not be legalized, I dont know why you would want homosexuality to be legalized.....

Homosexualism should be illegal if it poses risk equivalent to inbreeding.
Re: US: We’ll Compel Nigeria To Accept Same-sex Marriage by anigbajumo(m): 4:46pm On Jul 15, 2015
pansophist:


Lol, why cant you be explicit>?



Coz m'avng exam nxt wk,no tyme to check tyme.
Re: US: We’ll Compel Nigeria To Accept Same-sex Marriage by Marriott1980(m): 4:46pm On Jul 15, 2015
OkparaJesus:






Why is polygamy a crime in US? Is it not human right? How does it affect US? Learn to call a spade a spade.

What makes something a human right? Polygamy is a tradition not a human right. Human right is a right that belongs justify ably to every person. I'm happy you mentioned human right because being gay is human right in his own stead.

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Re: US: We’ll Compel Nigeria To Accept Same-sex Marriage by pansophist(m): 4:47pm On Jul 15, 2015
anigbajumo:



Coz m'avng exam nxt wk,no tyme to check tyme.

But you have time to waste on Nairaland? curiously, which exam be that sef?
Re: US: We’ll Compel Nigeria To Accept Same-sex Marriage by grammarcop(m): 4:48pm On Jul 15, 2015
HungerBAD:
The first time i saw two men kissing was in London, specifically at the St James's Park on a cool summer day many years ago. I still remember the shock and revulsion i felt.

I stood transfixed, staring at them for about 5 Minutes and was just turning my head around like AM I THE ONLY ONE SEEING this,and then it hit me, i was no longer in Africa and even if i had been living in the US, i was yet to see two men kiss. It was a cultural shock for me to see two men make out.

I hated gays.

Then one day in Church, at a bible study. Somebody asked the pastor that if the Church preaches a lot of things about repentance and acceptance,why then do they still find it hard to accept gays?the pastor's reply was an eye opener.

And then it hit me. Why do i exactly hate gays?they don't bother me, they sleep with each other,they marry each other,they pay their own bills,i don't even know them.

As i grow older, i have learned to be very tolerant of others. I have also learned to mind my business with how others handle their lives, that is why i do not judge married women/men when they cheat in their marriages, i am not in their marriage so don't know what lead to the infidelity.

While i do have my personal reservation about the gay thing, i have come to accept the fact that my feelings will not stop people from being gays, or stop them from loving each other. i have also come to accept the fact that no matter what, there will be others that will have sexual orientation that is different from mine.

In Nigeria, there have been instances where men have been caught making love to goats and chickens. Nairaland even carried some of those pictures.

So what am i saying?people should let other people live their lives the way they deem it fit. what you cannot correct, leave alone.

you deserve an applause for this
Re: US: We’ll Compel Nigeria To Accept Same-sex Marriage by Teeboy22(m): 4:49pm On Jul 15, 2015
loomer:
All of us o. As America go talk, "for the greater good"

hmmm...i see
Re: US: We’ll Compel Nigeria To Accept Same-sex Marriage by Excellentmind: 4:49pm On Jul 15, 2015
HungerBAD:
The first time i saw two men kissing was in London, specifically at the St James's Park on a cool summer day many years ago. I still remember the shock and revulsion i felt.

I stood transfixed, staring at them for about 5 Minutes and was just turning my head around like AM I THE ONLY ONE SEEING this,and then it hit me, i was no longer in Africa and even if i had been living in the US, i was yet to see two men kiss. It was a cultural shock for me to see two men make out.

I hated gays.

Then one day in Church, at a bible study. Somebody asked the pastor that if the Church preaches a lot of things about repentance and acceptance,why then do they still find it hard to accept gays?the pastor's reply was an eye opener.

And then it hit me. Why do i exactly hate gays?they don't bother me, they sleep with each other,they marry each other,they pay their own bills,i don't even know them.

As i grow older, i have learned to be very tolerant of others. I have also learned to mind my business with how others handle their lives, that is why i do not judge married women/men when they cheat in their marriages, i am not in their marriage so don't know what lead to the infidelity.

While i do have my personal reservation about the gay thing, i have come to accept the fact that my feelings will not stop people from being gays, or stop them from loving each other. i have also come to accept the fact that no matter what, there will be others that will have sexual orientation that is different from mine.

In Nigeria, there have been instances where men have been caught making love to goats and chickens. Nairaland even carried some of those pictures.

So what am i saying?people should let other people live their lives the way they deem it fit. what you cannot correct, leave alone.




Yes, you need to understand that man is by nature a gregarious animal who doesn't survive in isolation and highly influenced by what goes around in the environment where he finds himself.

In the same way a blind eye was turned on boko haran at the formation stage on the account of freedom of association and religion, and today solution to its brutal activities is not in view.

Therefore, our culture must be maintained at all costs irrespective of the views of those who believe that 'if it's from the white then is good'.
Re: US: We’ll Compel Nigeria To Accept Same-sex Marriage by Nobody: 4:51pm On Jul 15, 2015
evtrade:
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I don't think its about ignorance. In a short while it will be taught in Nursery schools and kids will grow up seeing same sex unions as a norm. There is a reason God made man and woman.
Tell me something,Through your days in school,was there a curriculum for sexual education except the reproduction topic you leart in biology, Is there any school in the world where they teach how to be gay? How can you relate education to sexual orientation and still think you being intelligent thinking straight? C'mon man Think clear and think smart,if your dumb god never saw the reason for gay existence he wouldn't make them come into the world,I feel like am as dumb as you already for you making me to believe god creation while in the real sense,I'm a product of science and a symbol of co-existense. Funk Your god.

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Re: US: We’ll Compel Nigeria To Accept Same-sex Marriage by emperorchedda(m): 4:52pm On Jul 15, 2015
OkparaJesus:






Why is polygamy a crime in US? Is it not human right? How does it affect US? Learn to call a spade a spade.
Do you know in polygamy one of the wives ain't happy.

One of the wife is sad that she's sharing her husband with another woman..these thoughts make her feel undervalued and maltreated. America is against this that's why they protect the women from falling into the trap of being in a marriage they won't be happy in; polygamy

Trust me no woman will freely oblige to her husband getting a second wife, thus making polygamy bad for the woman, this is exactly what America is against thereby rendering polygamy a crime

Unlike homosexuality where the two ADULTS clearly chose their path without forcing anyone to join them

Why is that so hard to comprehend??

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Re: US: We’ll Compel Nigeria To Accept Same-sex Marriage by KnowAll(m): 4:52pm On Jul 15, 2015
Why should d foreign policy of d USA be based on s?x. I don't want to know who my neigbour or d next man or woman is screwing. What is wrong with America and this obsession with same sex marriage. Soon they will be intrested in how many times a man should fcku or not fcku his wife in a day undecided

This obssesion baffles me!!!
Re: US: We’ll Compel Nigeria To Accept Same-sex Marriage by Abbey2sam(m): 4:52pm On Jul 15, 2015
Maintech:
If it was Jonathan i would have said maybe but with Sai Baba... you better have another thought coming because with his Islamic background that is a no-go area. He wont even seat across the table to have such a dirty, inhumane, dehumanizing, adulterous, morally-depraving, ignominious, sadistic, devilish, barbaric, demonic, and gory discussion with anyone including Obama, the killer of Osama.

you're just stup!d for what you have just said about former president, it was this same man that passed a law against gay marriage in Nigeria and here you are spewing rubbish about him,

you're so sure Buhari will not pass the gay marriage into law,
because he's a Muslim, now tell me, what's Islamic view of gay marriage............

cuz in the christiandom sodomy is frowned against
Re: US: We’ll Compel Nigeria To Accept Same-sex Marriage by anigbajumo(m): 4:52pm On Jul 15, 2015
pansophist:


But you have time to waste on Nairaland? curiously, which exam be that sef?
phy 411,jst 20mins on nairaland nd go bk to library.

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Re: US: We’ll Compel Nigeria To Accept Same-sex Marriage by Rexnegro(m): 4:54pm On Jul 15, 2015
HungerBAD:
The first time i saw two men kissing was in London, specifically at the St James's Park on a cool summer day many years ago. I still remember the shock and revulsion i felt.

I stood transfixed, staring at them for about 5 Minutes and was just turning my head around like AM I THE ONLY ONE SEEING this,and then it hit me, i was no longer in Africa and even if i had been living in the US, i was yet to see two men kiss. It was a cultural shock for me to see two men make out.

I hated gays.

Then one day in Church, at a bible study. Somebody asked the pastor that if the Church preaches a lot of things about repentance and acceptance,why then do they still find it hard to accept gays?the pastor's reply was an eye opener.

And then it hit me. Why do i exactly hate gays?they don't bother me, they sleep with each other,they marry each other,they pay their own bills,i don't even know them.

As i grow older, i have learned to be very tolerant of others. I have also learned to mind my business with how others handle their lives, that is why i do not judge married women/men when they cheat in their marriages, i am not in their marriage so don't know what lead to the infidelity.

While i do have my personal reservation about the gay thing, i have come to accept the fact that my feelings will not stop people from being gays, or stop them from loving each other. i have also come to accept the fact that no matter what, there will be others that will have sexual orientation that is different from mine.

In Nigeria, there have been instances where men have been caught making love to goats and chickens. Nairaland even carried some of those pictures.

So what am i saying?people should let other people live their lives the way they deem it fit. what you cannot correct, leave alone.



Guy go straight to ur point that u want nigeria to approve same sex shit here right ? If yes which I know its a yes based on what u wrote then Na osogbo + badagry THUNDERS go fire u wherever u are....who knows if u re a gay sef for saying all the nonsense above
Re: US: We’ll Compel Nigeria To Accept Same-sex Marriage by ayd91(m): 4:54pm On Jul 15, 2015
HungerBAD:
The first time i saw two men kissing was in London, specifically at the St James's Park on a cool summer day many years ago. I still remember the shock and revulsion i felt.

I stood transfixed, staring at them for about 5 Minutes and was just turning my head around like AM I THE ONLY ONE SEEING this,and then it hit me, i was no longer in Africa and even if i had been living in the US, i was yet to see two men kiss. It was a cultural shock for me to see two men make out.

I hated gays.

Then one day in Church, at a bible study. Somebody asked the pastor that if the Church preaches a lot of things about repentance and acceptance,why then do they still find it hard to accept gays?the pastor's reply was an eye opener.

And then it hit me. Why do i exactly hate gays?they don't bother me, they sleep with each other,they marry each other,they pay their own bills,i don't even know them.

As i grow older, i have learned to be very tolerant of others. I have also learned to mind my business with how others handle their lives, that is why i do not judge married women/men when they cheat in their marriages, i am not in their marriage so don't know what lead to the infidelity.

While i do have my personal reservation about the gay thing, i have come to accept the fact that my feelings will not stop people from being gays, or stop them from loving each other. i have also come to accept the fact that no matter what, there will be others that will have sexual orientation that is different from mine.

In Nigeria, there have been instances where men have been caught making love to goats and chickens. Nairaland even carried some of those pictures.

So what am i saying?people should let other people live their lives the way they deem it fit. what you cannot correct, leave alone.



Your response is quite informative. But the fact is being GAY is more social than biological. It is a social factor. You can't be what you don't know. Ever wondered why the influx in the number of 'homosexuals' in the world today? Our kids are raised with the mind set of either being husbands to wives or wives to husbands and this is what they'll envision to be. The moment you create an extra option, they start to dream of that too.
The orientation we give them largely determines who or what they become. We can argue on liberty, right, Respect, understanding, tolerance and what not. But the fact is, homosexuality is an aberration to nature.
How dare this people who now call
themselves 'refined' and 'world leaders' try to force on us what only approximately half of their population have accepted. We have a right to decide what's good for us and what not.
If they are having problems deciding what to be must we share in the confusion? A key was made for a lock and a lock for a key. Majority aren't always right you know... A while back they thought slavery was good so they practiced it to our detriment and now they have "repented" but that idea was shared by most 'developed' countries of then.
They are the same folks against punishment or beating children for developmental reasons, so now they just scold them and send them to their rooms undecided because they want to be 'good' people. And I ask "How's that working out for them"? Crime rates are higher than ever, the use of drugs are higher than ever, dropout rates higher than ever, and teenage pregnancies are on the rise. Till your kid tells you he/she is GAY, you may not understand.
We can't afford to make easy choices... Those little foxes are real and they do destroy the vine.
Child marriages, extramarital affairs, drug abuse, and those things that brings the worse out of us cannot and should not be accepted simply because a large portion of the population has surrendered to it.
When a man starts having preference for men, we should know something has gone wrong because IT IS NOT NATURAL. So too with men and animals. So if people in the US now start having preference for animals should we accept same?
Ask yourself, if Nigeria passes a law permitting canal knowledge between men and animals, would the US do same? Even if 90% of the population wants it, it should NEVER be permitted. What's bad is bad. Anything less is us compromising on standards.

PS: I love gay PEOPLE but not the gayness in them.
When a man old enough to be called a man starts walking NAKED we call him MAD. The US folks call it Nudism. Soon people would have the right to go NAKED on the streets mark my words. We are different from this folks, we are, and we can't afford to compromise because they have.
Good Day.

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Re: US: We’ll Compel Nigeria To Accept Same-sex Marriage by laudate: 4:54pm On Jul 15, 2015
emperorchedda:
So the gays in Nigeria aren't humans that have their rights huh??

America don't care what Nigeria's culture or whatever are they only care about letting humans like you exercise their rights. They didn't force anyone to be gay

What dirty rights are these gay people clamouring for, sef? Abeg, the freedom to swing your arm ends, where my nose begins. Gay people want to shove their so-called rights down everyone's throat. Why??

Make dem park well, jare! Let America legalise polygamy, since they are so fixated on legalising rights for everyone.

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Re: US: We’ll Compel Nigeria To Accept Same-sex Marriage by Nobody: 4:54pm On Jul 15, 2015
ephi123:


So very true. I remember the case of a Christian couple in the UK who refused to bake a cake for a gay couple; they were actually fined.

US should please paddle their canoe abeg, it is NOT by force. We refuse to let our culture integrate this kind of anomaly biko.
same culture has made you backward and under developed in the league of the world nations...what do they call your country again? THIRD WORLD COUNTRY so think!
Re: US: We’ll Compel Nigeria To Accept Same-sex Marriage by olumalcolm(m): 4:57pm On Jul 15, 2015
UnknownT:
I guess that is her "wishlist" to us. cool They should start the push from Russia first
dey won't dare start wit a country dat has ova 6000 NUCLEAR WARHEADS.

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Re: US: We’ll Compel Nigeria To Accept Same-sex Marriage by Holyghostpikin(m): 4:57pm On Jul 15, 2015
Arise oh God and let every preacher of same sex marriage be scattered including d demonic Obama
God punish devil on our behalf
Nigeria is a moral country and the plan of the devil will not prosper
Amen!!!!!!!!

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Re: US: We’ll Compel Nigeria To Accept Same-sex Marriage by deelobe: 4:58pm On Jul 15, 2015
HungerBAD:
The first time i saw two men kissing was in London, specifically at the St James's Park on a cool summer day many years ago. I still remember the shock and revulsion i felt.

I stood transfixed, staring at them for about 5 Minutes and was just turning my head around like AM I THE ONLY ONE SEEING this,and then it hit me, i was no longer in Africa and even if i had been living in the US, i was yet to see two men kiss. It was a cultural shock for me to see two men make out.

I hated gays.

Then one day in Church, at a bible study. Somebody asked the pastor that if the Church preaches a lot of things about repentance and acceptance,why then do they still find it hard to accept gays?the pastor's reply was an eye opener.

And then it hit me. Why do i exactly hate gays?they don't bother me, they sleep with each other,they marry each other,they pay their own bills,i don't even know them.

As i grow older, i have learned to be very tolerant of others. I have also learned to mind my business with how others handle their lives, that is why i do not judge married women/men when they cheat in their marriages, i am not in their marriage so don't know what lead to the infidelity.

While i do have my personal reservation about the gay thing, i have come to accept the fact that my feelings will not stop people from being gays, or stop them from loving each other. i have also come to accept the fact that no matter what, there will be others that will have sexual orientation that is different from mine.

In Nigeria, there have been instances where men have been caught making love to goats and chickens. Nairaland even carried some of those pictures.

So what am i saying?people should let other people live their lives the way they deem it fit. what you cannot correct, leave alone.

Hogwash! I think you need to relocate to these countries. In Nigeria, its not gonna happen. We love the people but the act is disgusting. There is no religion in this country that supports this odious practice

Re: US: We’ll Compel Nigeria To Accept Same-sex Marriage by Excellentmind: 4:59pm On Jul 15, 2015
Marriott1980:


What makes something a human right? Polygamy is a tradition not a human right. Human right is a right that belongs justify ably to every person. I'm happy you mentioned human right because being gay is human right in his own stead.

Who classified polygamy into tradition and gay into human rights? And what right does he have to do the classification? Respond now
Re: US: We’ll Compel Nigeria To Accept Same-sex Marriage by bezimo(m): 5:01pm On Jul 15, 2015
We would think about it if Obama can Marry Mugabe and become Mrs Barak Mugabe.Then he would be leading by example.Until then they should keep their disgusting behaviour to themselves.
Re: US: We’ll Compel Nigeria To Accept Same-sex Marriage by Rexnegro(m): 5:04pm On Jul 15, 2015
ayd91:

Your response is quite informative. But the fact is being GAY is more social than biological. It is a social factor. You can't be what you don't know. Ever wondered why the influx in the number of 'homosexuals' in the world today? Our kids are raised with the mind set of either being husbands to wives or wives to husbands and this is what they'll envision to be. The moment you create an extra option, they start to dream of that too.
The orientation we give them largely determines who or what they become. We can argue on liberty, right, Respect, understanding, tolerance and what not. But the fact is, homosexuality is an aberration to nature.
How dare this people who now call
themselves 'refined' and 'world leaders' try to force on us what only approximately half of their population have accepted. We have a right to decide what's good for us and what not.
If they are having problems deciding what to be must we share in the confusion? A key was made for a lock and a lock for a key. Majority aren't always right you know... A while back they thought slavery was good so they practiced it to our detriment and now they have "repented" but that idea was shared by most 'developed' countries of then.
They are the same folks against punishment or beating children for developmental reasons, so now they just scold them and send them to their rooms undecided because they want to be 'good' people. And I ask "How's that working out for them"? Crime rates are higher than ever, the use of drugs are higher than ever, dropout rates higher than ever, and teenage pregnancies are on the rise. Till your kid tells you he/she is GAY, you may not understand.
We can't afford to make easy choices... Those little foxes are real and they do destroy the vine.
Child marriages, extramarital affairs, drug abuse, and those things that brings the worse out of us cannot and should not be accepted simply because a large portion of the population has surrendered to it.
When a man starts having preference for men, we should know something has gone wrong because IT IS NOT NATURAL. So too with men and animals. So if people in the US now start having preference for animals should we accept same?
Ask yourself, if Nigeria passes a law permitting canal knowledge between men and animals, would the US do same? Even if 90% of the population wants it, it should NEVER be permitted. What's bad is bad. Anything less is us compromising on standards.

PS: I love gay PEOPLE but not the gayness in them.
When a man old enough to be called a man starts walking NAKED we call him MAD. The US folks call it Nudism. Soon people would have the right to go NAKED on the streets mark my words. We are different from this folks, we are, and we can't afford to compromise because they have.
Good Day.
Barrrrrrrrr Man ! Barrrrrrr Man !! Are u mad ? Are u a gay ? Common bring one crate of origin for this guy......guy u too speak well bro....all my sis don marry o if not I for dash u one for this ur sensible well spoken comment...or u want my grandma ? Lol nice comment bro. #SayNoToSameSexInNgieria
Re: US: We’ll Compel Nigeria To Accept Same-sex Marriage by Nobody: 5:05pm On Jul 15, 2015
Marriott1980:


What makes something a human right? Polygamy is a tradition not a human right. Human right is a right that belongs justify ably to every person. I'm happy you mentioned human right because being gay is human right in his own stead.




LOL.... Tradition? So homosexuality is human right? Well the fact remains, where I stay we detest gays so much that we killed one last year. They can go to US say speak but let them come down here. Such a pity. I am eager to shoot a gay now.... SO furious don't let me think you are gay cause I hate chatting with them gosh....... Mm
Re: US: We’ll Compel Nigeria To Accept Same-sex Marriage by emperorchedda(m): 5:06pm On Jul 15, 2015
laudate:


What dirty rights are these gay people clamouring for, sef? Abeg, the freedom to swing your arm ends, where my nose begins. Gay people want to shove their so-called rights down everyone's throat. Why??

Make dem park well, jare! Let America legalise polygamy, since they are so fixated on legalising rights for everyone.

Oga polygamy is not always good on the wives. No woman will say she supports her husbands decision to bring in another woman.
America is against a wife feeling less human because her husbands chose to make the second or third wife feel superior...this is exactly the logic behind America rejecting polygamy

Now compare this with gays who are happy with one another, they voluntarily want to have sex with their partners without any FORCE, respect this, they aren't coercing you to be gay like them. Tell me a polygamy where one wife wasn't forced to accept the new wife.
Re: US: We’ll Compel Nigeria To Accept Same-sex Marriage by EbolaParasite: 5:06pm On Jul 15, 2015
Marriott1980:


We talking about same sex marriage you talking about someone liking killing for fun. How does that relate to each other. When has being gay become a crime that you compare it to having sex with kids which is clearly a crime anywhere in the world. I think you need to remove the cover of ignorance from your face and make reasonable comparison. Thank you

You are the confused one. Sex with kids is a crime because [b]WE AS A PEOPLE [/b]deemed it so. The same applies with being GAY. The only reason it is not a crime is because it has not been deemed so. Again, some people like having sex with children. It's their choice and what they like doing. Should we let them be as well since it's their choice
Re: US: We’ll Compel Nigeria To Accept Same-sex Marriage by Chigold101(m): 5:07pm On Jul 15, 2015
Hysmady:
Yeepaa! shocked Buhari abeg no gree for dis one oh
if buhari no accept all this congo promises G7 made to him will become useless & the USA will disgrace him more than they did to Jona.


So Nigerians should get ready becuase this zoo is in for a very long thing... I pity the inhabitants of this ZOO
Re: US: We’ll Compel Nigeria To Accept Same-sex Marriage by Lionsclaw: 5:08pm On Jul 15, 2015
HungerBAD:
The first time i saw two men kissing was in London, specifically at the St James's Park on a cool summer day many years ago. I still remember the shock and revulsion i felt.

I stood transfixed, staring at them for about 5 Minutes and was just turning my head around like AM I THE ONLY ONE SEEING this,and then it hit me, i was no longer in Africa and even if i had been living in the US, i was yet to see two men kiss. It was a cultural shock for me to see two men make out.

I hated gays.

Then one day in Church, at a bible study. Somebody asked the pastor that if the Church preaches a lot of things about repentance and acceptance,why then do they still find it hard to accept gays?the pastor's reply was an eye opener.

And then it hit me. Why do i exactly hate gays?they don't bother me, they sleep with each other,they marry each other,they pay their own bills,i don't even know them.

As i grow older, i have learned to be very tolerant of others. I have also learned to mind my business with how others handle their lives, that is why i do not judge married women/men when they cheat in their marriages, i am not in their marriage so don't know what lead to the infidelity.

While i do have my personal reservation about the gay thing, i have come to accept the fact that my feelings will not stop people from being gays, or stop them from loving each other. i have also come to accept the fact that no matter what, there will be others that will have sexual orientation that is different from mine.

In Nigeria, there have been instances where men have been caught making love to goats and chickens. Nairaland even carried some of those pictures.

So what am i saying?people should let other people live their lives the way they deem it fit. what you cannot correct, leave alone.



What you have just done with this post is subtle brainwashing. So that people can give just 'a little' space in their heart for this gay shi.t so that with time people will gradually accept it as 'just a way of life'. But just as you think you are smart so other smarter folks are watching too and I can bet you this grand plan is one that will not work in Nigeria. Why? Cos collectively christians, muslims, traditional worshippers and the average Nigerian by culture hate it. It is alien.
As a true Nigerian you shouldnt advocate for it cos you dont have the same mental orientation as a white man. As someone who also lives among these people I can tell you their brain is totally different from ours. For instance a white dude can kill you if you are mean to his cat but back home handling such things the way they do is alien to us. So also is the culture of homosexuality and its the same way they cannot wrap their fingers around why a man should marry more than one wife.
What I am trying to say is that why we are not interfering in their gay culture they MUST not push their own on us. And that it is more saddening that you have become their spokesperson (except you are gay which I dont want to conclude on) instead of being our spokesperson.
You must realize it doesnt get any better cos when everyone has accepted this shi.t next will be freedom to allow men cut off their pen.is and implant brea.st and it gets worse. so see it as an agenda and not a freedom for the oppressed. We have enogh shi.t in the world today already

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Re: US: We’ll Compel Nigeria To Accept Same-sex Marriage by EbolaParasite: 5:09pm On Jul 15, 2015
emperorchedda:
Oga polygamy is not always good on the wives. No woman will say she supports her husbands decision to bring in another woman.
America is against a wife feeling less human because her husbands chose to make the second or third wife feel superior...this is exactly the logic behind America rejecting polygamy

Now compare this with gays who are happy with one another, they voluntarily want to have sex with their partners without any FORCE, respect this, they aren't coercing you to be gay like them. Tell me a polygamy where one wife wasn't forced to accept the new wife.


@Bolded,

So why do they keep including GAY scenes in movies and children cartoons?

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Re: US: We’ll Compel Nigeria To Accept Same-sex Marriage by Chigold101(m): 5:10pm On Jul 15, 2015
kennygee:
The devil is a liar.

Not in Nigeria

God will not allow it.

If the Americans have sold themselves to the devil, we have not.
if GMB fails to accept, then G7 which he hoped & trusted to help him fight boko haram will back out.

The USA will mobolise CNN, NY TIMES & all their e-warriors against him & his government. They will also stop doing business with this Zoo... Finally there will be a crash...gbosaaaaaaa!!!
Re: US: We’ll Compel Nigeria To Accept Same-sex Marriage by Miranda11: 5:11pm On Jul 15, 2015
Naija no be America, I beg oh make dem leave Naija alone oh, make dey no corrupt us lead us go hell fire. Make dem read d word of God

1) God created man and woman not man and man.

KJV Gen 1:27 - God created man in his own image... Male and female created he them

KJV Gen 2:18 - The Lord God said, It's is not good that the man should be alone, I will make him a help meet for him

KJV Gen 2:22 ..... God made he a woman and brought her unto the man

2) Marriage was made for MAN AND WOMAN and NOT man and man

Gen 2:24 - Therefore shall a man leave his father and mother and shall cleave unto his wife and they shall be one flesh.

I don talk my own finish. If America no fit respect God and wan go hell, I beg make dem no try carry Naija with dem.

The evil wey dey call corruption wen we dey face here eh too much for us to begin carry gay matter join am.

Even self Koran, our traditional cultures and evil oracle self condemn dis kind gay evil so where America wan make we fit am in our culture for Naija. If I cause dem thunder from God, Allah and all d oracle wey dey dis country go fire dem.

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