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Re: US: We’ll Compel Nigeria To Accept Same-sex Marriage by akilo1: 5:11pm On Jul 15, 2015
HungerBAD:
The first time i saw two men kissing was in London, specifically at the St James's Park on a cool summer day many years ago. I still remember the shock and revulsion i felt.

I stood transfixed, staring at them for about 5 Minutes and was just turning my head around like AM I THE ONLY ONE SEEING this,and then it hit me, i was no longer in Africa and even if i had been living in the US, i was yet to see two men kiss. It was a cultural shock for me to see two men make out.

I hated gays.

Then one day in Church, at a bible study. Somebody asked the pastor that if the Church preaches a lot of things about repentance and acceptance,why then do they still find it hard to accept gays?the pastor's reply was an eye opener.

And then it hit me. Why do i exactly hate gays?they don't bother me, they sleep with each other,they marry each other,they pay their own bills,i don't even know them.

As i grow older, i have learned to be very tolerant of others. I have also learned to mind my business with how others handle their lives, that is why i do not judge married women/men when they cheat in their marriages, i am not in their marriage so don't know what lead to the infidelity.

While i do have my personal reservation about the gay thing, i have come to accept the fact that my feelings will not stop people from being gays, or stop them from loving each other. i have also come to accept the fact that no matter what, there will be others that will have sexual orientation that is different from mine.

In Nigeria, there have been instances where men have been caught making love to goats and chickens. Nairaland even carried some of those pictures.

So what am i saying?people should let other people live their lives the way they deem it fit. what you cannot correct, leave alone.



gay?ypu are one of them
Re: US: We’ll Compel Nigeria To Accept Same-sex Marriage by Nobody: 5:11pm On Jul 15, 2015
emperorchedda:
Oga polygamy is not always good on the wives. No woman will say she supports her husbands decision to bring in another woman.
America is against a wife feeling less human because her husbands chose to make the second or third wife feel superior...this is exactly the logic behind America rejecting polygamy

Now compare this with gays who are happy with one another, they voluntarily want to have sex with their partners without any FORCE, respect this, they aren't coercing you to be gay like them. Tell me a polygamy where one wife wasn't forced to accept the new wife.





PLENTY.. DON'T SAY WHAT YOU DO TO KNOW.

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Re: US: We’ll Compel Nigeria To Accept Same-sex Marriage by emperorchedda(m): 5:12pm On Jul 15, 2015
EbolaParasite:


You are the confused one. Sex with kids is a crime because [b]WE AS A PEOPLE [/b]deemed it so. The same applies with being GAY. The only reason it is not a crime is because it has not been deemed so. Again, some people like having sex with children. It's their choice and what they like doing. Should we let them be as well since it's their choice
now sex with is illegal because THE KID ISN'T MATURE/OLD ENOUGH TO MAKE HIS/HER OWN DECISION. At the age of 18 everyone is old enough to choose what he or she wants, if the decision ends up hurting you no one cares because it is believed you were mentally strong enough when you chose your path.

Which kid is mature enough to choose who she wants to sleep with?? They don't know what's good for them yet that's why they have parents and guidance to lead them till they are mature enough (18 years)

So when a kid doesn't know his left from his right why will you take advantage of her and sleep with her claiming she consented to it?? That's bullshitt.

This is simply why it's a crime to sleep with people less than 18 because they are considered kids who aren't old enough to make decisions yet
Re: US: We’ll Compel Nigeria To Accept Same-sex Marriage by Nobody: 5:13pm On Jul 15, 2015
KingSango:



[b]Nonsense, accepting sodomites right to marry is not a human right. Not allowing people affected by the psychological illness of homosexuality is a human rights violation. They don't tell you that more than 80% of people infected with this spiritual sickness want to be cured. Most gays got that way from molestation during childhood by an older adult they trusted. Then the other portion of gays are those who acquire the practice from Illuminati Freemason initiation. Freemasons are the ones behind the spread of sodomy because it creates chaos in the societies they target for control. Human rights are that which promotes the betterment of humanity, which is development. Human beings can't develop the way God intends because we've got Freemasons running and ruining the planet. They are those who want to be free from God's laws, which He established so human beings can get the most out of His creation and develop, not to subjugate human beings just because He's God. Freemason's stole the Masonry from Africa, which was based upon Maat, beautiful laws of harmony and peace, then re-instituted Masonry free of Maat, thus "FreeMasonry". All the politicians in the United States and Europe pulling strings and making laws are Freemasons. These Freemasons are running the United Nations, and muscling around smaller states, making them accept ideas as laws which are suicide for humanity. All this wickedness is why the weather is going crazy. God is angry because this wickedness is becoming worst with very few brave people on the planet to stand up to the Freemasonry. So keep fighting and remember its our human right to develop and humanity can't develop as sodomites for it would be the extinction of the human race. Just think these people want to adopt children, after marrying the same sex thus giving up their right to procreate naturally. [/b][i][/i]

first off i believe you can make an opinion and not necessarily disrespect an opinion at variance with yours ,,in the spirit of human rights wink
that said ,i am not very smart and you have succeeded in confusing me and maybe yourself in your bid to propagate a theory i am the least inclined to believe.
whether the free masons and their affiliates is responsible for this societal ill or not is discuss for another day,humanity over the centuries has been assaulted by periods of periods of onslaught from supremacist and guess what , humanity still thrives until this day !!! and until the world ends there will be humanity just as there will always be unholy alliances trying to prey on her .

Today we are talking about why America thinks its okay for it to foist on another sovereign state a policy it considers right and why same america doesn't think the other sovereign state has the right to refuse to be compelled to do its bidding.

why it is okay for a gay couple to demand of me to bake them a cake and while society must respect the gay couples rights to access my service same society refuses to respect my right to refuse to offer the gay couple my service, simply because my religious leanings frowns at their act and we are talking human rights here right ... the right to ask me for something you want, the right for me to refuse to give you something you want that i have in my possession etc..

there has always been gays and there will always be gays ,there will always be fornicators, polygamist, adulterers, polyandrists pedophiles and what have you..shall they all now begin to agitate for a legalization of their sexual leanings in the spirit of respecting their human rights ?
Re: US: We’ll Compel Nigeria To Accept Same-sex Marriage by ZUBY77(m): 5:14pm On Jul 15, 2015
kennygee:
The devil is a liar.

Not in Nigeria

God will not allow it.

If the Americans have sold themselves to the devil, we have not.


Your God just said they will pressurise you to accept something and you are here shouting that God won't allow it.

I am sure this will be very difficult for you to understand but I don't blame you. You will only accept it when your pastor says so. #pity.

As a black, you are very close to animals in reasoning.
Re: US: We’ll Compel Nigeria To Accept Same-sex Marriage by emperorchedda(m): 5:14pm On Jul 15, 2015
OkparaJesus:






PLENTY.. DON'T SAY WHAT YOU DO TO KNOW.

Please make one reference to them

I repeat no woman will be happy seeing her husband bring in another woman to replace her or share him with her thereby denying her some benefits of being the only wife

This is bad and inhuman
Re: US: We’ll Compel Nigeria To Accept Same-sex Marriage by Excellentmind: 5:15pm On Jul 15, 2015
aaronson:
same culture has made you backward and under developed in the league of the world nations...what do they call your country again? THIRD WORLD COUNTRY so think!

The preaching of this evil must be limited to your family whose value system is to adopt white man's culture and jettison yours, so that you will have no story to tell about your existence.

In case you don't know, quest for development of Nations never started on the same day and so can't be compared.

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Re: US: We’ll Compel Nigeria To Accept Same-sex Marriage by Nobody: 5:16pm On Jul 15, 2015
I beg you guys should leave Buhari alone, the person that like woman pass me! he will not pay attention to UNPOPULAR SPECIES OF ANIMALS (USA).

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Re: US: We’ll Compel Nigeria To Accept Same-sex Marriage by laudate: 5:16pm On Jul 15, 2015
emperorchedda:
Oga polygamy is not always good on the wives. No woman will say she supports her husbands decision to bring in another woman.
America is against a wife feeling less human because her husbands chose to make the second or third wife feel superior...this is exactly the logic behind America rejecting polygamy

Now compare this with gays who are happy with one another, they voluntarily want to have sex with their partners without any FORCE, respect this, they aren't coercing you to be gay like them. Tell me a polygamy where one wife wasn't forced to accept the new wife.

And who says so? Abeg, my grandfather was a polygamous traditional chief and all his wives were happy. grin grin It was the norm in their own days. Nobody questioned it. Even in a monogamous marriage, the wife may still be unhappy. So leave that side, abeg. undecided

With regards to gays and LGBT folk, do you think their straight parents and siblings are happy? shocked What about bi-sexuals? Do you think their straight partners are happy, when they see them going off with their homosexual buddies?

Abeg, happiness is a subjective matter. People should stop using that lame ephemeral emotion as an excuse to justify the 'so-called right's that gay folks are now trying to shove down our throats! Imagine a pastor being victimised for refusing to marry a gay couple. Nonsense! angry angry
Re: US: We’ll Compel Nigeria To Accept Same-sex Marriage by kaka74: 5:18pm On Jul 15, 2015
I fit try understand lesbians small cos guys dey like watch lesbian porn proven by research but for my fellow man ah wetin go cos dat 1
Re: US: We’ll Compel Nigeria To Accept Same-sex Marriage by systemz(m): 5:18pm On Jul 15, 2015
HungerBAD:
The first time i saw two men kissing was in London, specifically at the St James's Park on a cool summer day many years ago. I still remember the shock and revulsion i felt.

I stood transfixed, staring at them for about 5 Minutes and was just turning my head around like AM I THE ONLY ONE SEEING this,and then it hit me, i was no longer in Africa and even if i had been living in the US, i was yet to see two men kiss. It was a cultural shock for me to see two men make out.

I hated gays.

Then one day in Church, at a bible study. Somebody asked the pastor that if the Church preaches a lot of things about repentance and acceptance,why then do they still find it hard to accept gays?the pastor's reply was an eye opener.

And then it hit me. Why do i exactly hate gays?they don't bother me, they sleep with each other,they marry each other,they pay their own bills,i don't even know them.

As i grow older, i have learned to be very tolerant of others. I have also learned to mind my business with how others handle their lives, that is why i do not judge married women/men when they cheat in their marriages, i am not in their marriage so don't know what lead to the infidelity.

While i do have my personal reservation about the gay thing, i have come to accept the fact that my feelings will not stop people from being gays, or stop them from loving each other. i have also come to accept the fact that no matter what, there will be others that will have sexual orientation that is different from mine.

In Nigeria, there have been instances where men have been caught making love to goats and chickens. Nairaland even carried some of those pictures.

So what am i saying?people should let other people live their lives the way they deem it fit. what you cannot correct, leave alone.



That's a Nigerian that decides to live real like me taking!!
I hail u bros.
...speaking my mind.
Re: US: We’ll Compel Nigeria To Accept Same-sex Marriage by Mobsync(m): 5:18pm On Jul 15, 2015
HungerBAD:
The first time i saw two men kissing was in London, specifically at the St James's Park on a cool summer day many years ago. I still remember the shock and revulsion i felt.

I stood transfixed, staring at them for about 5 Minutes and was just turning my head around like AM I THE ONLY ONE SEEING this,and then it hit me, i was no longer in Africa and even if i had been living in the US, i was yet to see two men kiss. It was a cultural shock for me to see two men make out.

I hated gays.

Then one day in Church, at a bible study. Somebody asked the pastor that if the Church preaches a lot of things about repentance and acceptance,why then do they still find it hard to accept gays?the pastor's reply was an eye opener.

And then it hit me. Why do i exactly hate gays?they don't bother me, they sleep with each other,they marry each other,they pay their own bills,i don't even know them.

As i grow older, i have learned to be very tolerant of others. I have also learned to mind my business with how others handle their lives, that is why i do not judge married women/men when they cheat in their marriages, i am not in their marriage so don't know what lead to the infidelity.

While i do have my personal reservation about the gay thing, i have come to accept the fact that my feelings will not stop people from being gays, or stop them from loving each other. i have also come to accept the fact that no matter what, there will be others that will have sexual orientation that is different from mine.

In Nigeria, there have been instances where men have been caught making love to goats and chickens. Nairaland even carried some of those pictures.

So what am i saying?people should let other people live their lives the way they deem it fit. what you cannot correct, leave alone.




You have a very valid point. But then, the question is; would you allow your son to marry a man? Would you be happy if your brother married a man? How would you feel if your father divorced your mother and then married a man to be your step-mother? Would you be proud to point to your father and say "that's my father" and then point to the man beside him and say "that's my mother?"

You might feel you are not affected but then, you are. Everybody is affected. Even if you don't marry a man, how would you explain it to your children that the two "uncles" living in the neighbourhood are husband and wife? The bottom line is: a man should marry a woman and vice-versa. If all men married men and all women married women, we all could have never been born.

PS: i hope you do not take offence in me mentioning your father, divorce and son. I only wanted to drive home my point.

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Re: US: We’ll Compel Nigeria To Accept Same-sex Marriage by Nobody: 5:20pm On Jul 15, 2015
emperorchedda:

Please make one reference to them

I repeat no woman will be happy seeing her husband bring in another woman to replace her or share him with her thereby denying her some benefits of being the only wife

This is bad and inhuman


Who told you is bad and inhuman? Likewise no parents will ever be happy in Nigeria to see his or her child endogenous in homosexual sex or lesbian sex.




Come to Muslim families and see for yourself okay... Don't say what you don't know.
Re: US: We’ll Compel Nigeria To Accept Same-sex Marriage by Excellentmind: 5:21pm On Jul 15, 2015
ZUBY77:



Your God just said they will pressurise you to accept something and you are here shouting that God won't allow it.

I am sure this will be very difficult for you to understand but I don't blame you. You will only accept it when your pastor says so. #pity.

As a black, you are very close to animals in reasoning.


Your own reasoning is below that of animal because you have no justification for the position you have taken out of solidarity to US.
Re: US: We’ll Compel Nigeria To Accept Same-sex Marriage by systemz(m): 5:22pm On Jul 15, 2015
Maintech:
If it was Jonathan i would have said maybe but with Sai Baba... you better have another thought coming because with his Islamic background that is a no-go area. He wont even seat across the table to have such a dirty, inhumane, dehumanizing, adulterous, morally-depraving, ignominious, sadistic, devilish, barbaric, demonic, and gory discussion with anyone including Obama, the killer of Osama.
You're actually not talking.
Re: US: We’ll Compel Nigeria To Accept Same-sex Marriage by Nobody: 5:22pm On Jul 15, 2015
I'm proudly homophobic! Say no to sexual nonsense!

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Re: US: We’ll Compel Nigeria To Accept Same-sex Marriage by Nobody: 5:24pm On Jul 15, 2015
eni4real:
I'm proudly homophobic! Say no to sexual nonsense!



My brother me too. My community killed a gay last year. We continued to beat him till he dies at the hospital. Asin am so homophobic. I can't wait to follow and kill another gay.
Re: US: We’ll Compel Nigeria To Accept Same-sex Marriage by laudate: 5:25pm On Jul 15, 2015
emperorchedda:

Please make one reference to them

I repeat no woman will be happy seeing her husband bring in another woman to replace her or share him with her thereby denying her some benefits of being the only wife

This is bad and inhuman

Guy, stop this your 'happiness' mantra, and look for more solid and compelling reasons. Nothing justifies shoving gay rights, down the throats of Nigerians. undecided

For your information, the 1st wife may be unhappy, but the 2nd wife as well as the man, are definitely very happy. wink So whose happiness matters most? The 1st wife who is in the minority, or the husband and his 2nd wife, who constitute the majority?? cheesy grin

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Re: US: We’ll Compel Nigeria To Accept Same-sex Marriage by emperorchedda(m): 5:25pm On Jul 15, 2015
EbolaParasite:



@Bolded,

So why do they keep including GAY scenes in movies and children cartoons?
Because they exist in the society and there is no need to hide them.
Movies are about what happen in the society, gays are in the society

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Re: US: We’ll Compel Nigeria To Accept Same-sex Marriage by hydeka: 5:26pm On Jul 15, 2015
The world has gone mad.
Re: US: We’ll Compel Nigeria To Accept Same-sex Marriage by Nobody: 5:27pm On Jul 15, 2015
ayd91:

Your response is quite informative. But the fact is being GAY is more social than biological. It is a social factor. You can't be what you don't know. Ever wondered why the influx in the number of 'homosexuals' in the world today? Our kids are raised with the mind set of either being husbands to wives or wives to husbands and this is what they'll envision to be. The moment you create an extra option, they start to dream of that too.
The orientation we give them largely determines who or what they become. We can argue on liberty, right, Respect, understanding, tolerance and what not. But the fact is, homosexuality is an aberration to nature.
How dare this people who now call
themselves 'refined' and 'world leaders' try to force on us what only approximately half of their population have accepted. We have a right to decide what's good for us and what not.
If they are having problems deciding what to be must we share in the confusion? A key was made for a lock and a lock for a key. Majority aren't always right you know... A while back they thought slavery was good so they practiced it to our detriment and now they have "repented" but that idea was shared by most 'developed' countries of then.
They are the same folks against punishment or beating children for developmental reasons, so now they just scold them and send them to their rooms undecided because they want to be 'good' people. And I ask "How's that working out for them"? Crime rates are higher than ever, the use of drugs are higher than ever, dropout rates higher than ever, and teenage pregnancies are on the rise. Till your kid tells you he/she is GAY, you may not understand.
We can't afford to make easy choices... Those little foxes are real and they do destroy the vine.
Child marriages, extramarital affairs, drug abuse, and those things that brings the worse out of us cannot and should not be accepted simply because a large portion of the population has surrendered to it.
When a man starts having preference for men, we should know something has gone wrong because IT IS NOT NATURAL. So too with men and animals. So if people in the US now start having preference for animals should we accept same?
Ask yourself, if Nigeria passes a law permitting canal knowledge between men and animals, would the US do same? Even if 90% of the population wants it, it should NEVER be permitted. What's bad is bad. Anything less is us compromising on standards.

PS: I love gay PEOPLE but not the gayness in them.
When a man old enough to be called a man starts walking NAKED we call him MAD. The US folks call it Nudism. Soon people would have the right to go NAKED on the streets mark my words. We are different from this folks, we are, and we can't afford to compromise because they have.
Good Day.

if to say we dey d same axis i for buy you drink ... you are your fathers son

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Re: US: We’ll Compel Nigeria To Accept Same-sex Marriage by Joshcoli(m): 5:27pm On Jul 15, 2015
the thunder that will fire this people

I still doing pressup
Make them just chill
Re: US: We’ll Compel Nigeria To Accept Same-sex Marriage by emperorchedda(m): 5:28pm On Jul 15, 2015
laudate:


Guy, stop this your 'happiness' mantra, and look for more solid and compelling reasons. Nothing justifies shoving gay rights, down the throats of Nigerians. undecided

For your information, the 1st wife may be unhappy, but the 2nd wife as well as the man, are definitely very happy. wink So whose happiness matters most? The 1st wife who is in the minority, or the husband and his 2nd wife, who constitute the majority?? cheesy grin
Someone isn't happy and that matters!

In homosexuality please tell me which of the party ain't happy?

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Re: US: We’ll Compel Nigeria To Accept Same-sex Marriage by Alfred234(m): 5:31pm On Jul 15, 2015
Lol the U.S just wants the anti gay law in Nigeria to be repelled they are not forcing Nigeria to legalise same-sex marriage stop misleading people. Besides if gay marriage is the sign of end time and it has been written in the bible that it must happen then I don't see how anybody can stop it so stop stressing yourselves and start repenting from your sins
Re: US: We’ll Compel Nigeria To Accept Same-sex Marriage by vislabraye(m): 5:31pm On Jul 15, 2015
Egwuda33:
America should take their help and stick it in their A.ss for all I care. Gay Marriage is a NO NO..... I knew Obama was definitely up to something.
#SayNotoGayMarriage. click like if you agree with me


Definitely.......

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Re: US: We’ll Compel Nigeria To Accept Same-sex Marriage by manie(m): 5:35pm On Jul 15, 2015
VULCAN:
@aaronson. It is you that is displaying ignorance for all to behold. Same Sex legislation ALWAYS carries penalties against straight people who refuse to provide services to gays.

Pastors are being arrested for refusing to wed gays. Bakers are being fined heavily for refusing to bake cake for gay wedding. That is manifestation of official intolerance.

Freedom of speech, association and religion is being destroyed by gay rights groups world over. In US if your an actor and you say you don't like Homosexuality, your career is over. That is not right.

If they have a right to exist, we that detest it have a right to air our own views. That is only fair.

After Islamic fundamentalists, gay rights campaigners are the most intolerant group in the world. If you don't agree with them you must be hounded out of your job or your business.

The silly guy who posted earlier about live and let live is sympathetic to them. Most likely he has a loved one who is gay but he doesn't wanna tell us.





Adoption homes that are owned by churches were closed down because they did not allow gay couples to adopt children from them. A hotel owned by a christian was sued because they did not allow a gay couples to lodge in their hotels.

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Re: US: We’ll Compel Nigeria To Accept Same-sex Marriage by cabaliciouscabal: 5:35pm On Jul 15, 2015
Americans and indeed the whites av reached their peak now dey ar nose diving, no more meaningful idea coming out of dia brain, dey av equally pledged allegiance to d devil and are looking for partners in madness, I tot dey told us dat democracy is of the people, by the people and for d people, since our NASS has voted against such, y ar dey getting agitated to compel us, afterall majority carries the votes, am beginning to doubt d concept of dis democracy sold to us by dis crazy westerners, Gays and Lesbians ar not willing to add to lives by reproducing humans beings yet dey want to enjoy and corrupt our children, God Almighty in His Infinite Mercy will destroy dem in JESUS MIGHTY, we said we don't want gay in our country, Na By Force?

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Re: US: We’ll Compel Nigeria To Accept Same-sex Marriage by laudate: 5:35pm On Jul 15, 2015
emperorchedda:
Someone isn't happy and that matters!

In homosexuality please tell me which of the party ain't happy?

In homosexuality, the parents of the homosexuals and siblings who have a straight orientation are definitely unhappy that their son or brother is gay. This situation has torn apart a number of families. sad

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Re: US: We’ll Compel Nigeria To Accept Same-sex Marriage by mikron(m): 5:35pm On Jul 15, 2015
Maintech:
If it was Jonathan i would have said maybe but with Sai Baba... you better have another thought coming because with his Islamic background that is a no-go area. He wont even seat across the table to have such a dirty, inhumane, dehumanizing, adulterous, morally-depraving, ignominious, sadistic, devilish, barbaric, demonic, and gory discussion with anyone including Obama, the killer of Osama.
What exactly re u saying? What do u mean if it was jonathan u would have said maybe he would accept, was is not jonathan's government that stood firm telling Obama and his government NO to same sex marriage in Nigeria? Were you not in Nigeria when the US threatened to withdraw all form of aids from us because the jonathan government signed the anti-gay law against their wish? Here u re like the other haters of GEJ trying to rubbish his legacies. Which ethnic tribe practices homosexualism in Nigeria the most if not people frm the north. It is common knowledge that little boys are seen as sex objects in d North. Btw d past n present president who do u think ll likely be cajoled to sign I ll say it's d man at d helm of affairs. He might listen to the US
Re: US: We’ll Compel Nigeria To Accept Same-sex Marriage by Nobody: 5:36pm On Jul 15, 2015
I don't have a problem with Dullardihno to accept Gay Marriage in Nigeria as long as he allows Obama to "test his own nyash first" undecided
Re: US: We’ll Compel Nigeria To Accept Same-sex Marriage by Nobody: 5:36pm On Jul 15, 2015
A sensible reasoning to a delicate matter, you nibbed it right at the bud. We all have our personal opinions about people with a different sexual orientation to the norm, in this case it depends on what you define as the norm. No one made anyone a judge of others. People who condemn them and are always eager to incite hate, ask yourselfs what exactly have they done to you? Me, nothing!!!


[quote author=HungerBAD post=35878596]The first time i saw two men kissing was in London, specifically at the St James's Park on a cool summer day many years ago. I still remember the shock and revulsion i felt.

I stood transfixed, staring at them for about 5 Minutes and was just turning my head around like AM I THE ONLY ONE SEEING this,and then it hit me, i was no longer in Africa and even if i had been living in the US, i was yet to see two men kiss. It was a cultural shock for me to see two men make out.

I hated gays.

Then one day in Church, at a bible study. Somebody asked the pastor that if the Church preaches a lot of things about repentance and acceptance,why then do they still find it hard to accept gays?the pastor's reply was an eye opener.

And then it hit me. Why do i exactly hate gays?they don't bother me, they sleep with each other,they marry each other,they pay their own bills,i don't even know them.

As i grow older, i have learned to be very tolerant of others. I have also learned to mind my business with how others handle their lives, that is why i do not judge married women/men when they cheat in their marriages, i am not in their marriage so don't know what lead to the infidelity.

While i do have my personal reservation about the gay thing, i have come to accept the fact that my feelings will not stop people from being gays, or stop them from loving each other. i have also come to accept the fact that no matter what, there will be others that will have sexual orientation that is different from mine.

In Nigeria, there have been instances where men have been caught making love to goats and chickens. Nairaland even carried some of those pictures.

So what am i saying?people should let other people live their lives the way they deem it fit. what you cannot correct, leave alone.
Re: US: We’ll Compel Nigeria To Accept Same-sex Marriage by vislabraye(m): 5:39pm On Jul 15, 2015
HungerBAD:
The first time i saw two men kissing was in London, specifically at the St James's Park on a cool summer day many years ago. I still remember the shock and revulsion i felt.

I stood transfixed, staring at them for about 5 Minutes and was just turning my head around like AM I THE ONLY ONE SEEING this,and then it hit me, i was no longer in Africa and even if i had been living in the US, i was yet to see two men kiss. It was a cultural shock for me to see two men make out.

I hated gays.

Then one day in Church, at a bible study. Somebody asked the pastor that if the Church preaches a lot of things about repentance and acceptance,why then do they still find it hard to accept gays?the pastor's reply was an eye opener.

And then it hit me. Why do i exactly hate gays?they don't bother me, they sleep with each other,they marry each other,they pay their own bills,i don't even know them.

As i grow older, i have learned to be very tolerant of others. I have also learned to mind my business with how others handle their lives, that is why i do not judge married women/men when they cheat in their marriages, i am not in their marriage so don't know what lead to the infidelity.

While i do have my personal reservation about the gay thing, i have come to accept the fact that my feelings will not stop people from being gays, or stop them from loving each other. i have also come to accept the fact that no matter what, there will be others that will have sexual orientation that is different from mine.

In Nigeria, there have been instances where men have been caught making love to goats and chickens. Nairaland even carried some of those pictures.

So what am i saying?people should let other people live their lives the way they deem it fit. what you cannot correct, leave alone.






I thank God you're straight.
Being gay is an anomaly no matter how we see it. If gay should be justified, what about bestiality ? The fact is that people should be made to understand that homosexuality is an aberration of nature. I believe if we do nothing about it, more and more people will become gay. It is contagious.

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