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#Don't be decived

Nigerians will accept it when the time,maybe another half a millennium. As at now they are way behind the conventional world and everything is going to come of age with time. Including clean drinking water and stable electricity

Like leadership,it can't be forced on the people just like they tried to do in Iraq and all the crazy world which turned out to be like adding petrol to a burning fire. The people have to grow mentally and gradually to accept,adapt and live with the unconventionals

if you watch pornography, indulge in strange sexual practices and and you are anti-gay, you are just a big hypocrite...
















still make PMB say no to Obama...
if them force am, make him say yes, collect the aid and come back to Nigeria, then increase the punishment for gayism and gay activism

Hating Elton John cos he's gay is not discrimination, hating Elton John's songs cos the artist is gay might be discrimination. I don't care about any though.

Na Fire go burn Obama's yansh!

the greatest abuser of human right claiming to b fighting for human right. its beta the US leave us alone and face other pressing issues. Palestinians are there being oppressed daily by the Israelis, they don't av anything to say on that. just busy spreading their evil all over. Rubbish people.

I trust my president anyway.

HungerBAD:
The first time i saw two men kissing was in London, specifically at the St James's Park on a cool summer day many years ago. I still remember the shock and revulsion i felt.

I stood transfixed, staring at them for about 5 Minutes and was just turning my head around like AM I THE ONLY ONE SEEING this,and then it hit me, i was no longer in Africa and even if i had been living in the US, i was yet to see two men kiss. It was a cultural shock for me to see two men make out.

I hated gays.

Then one day in Church, at a bible study. Somebody asked the pastor that if the Church preaches a lot of things about repentance and acceptance,why then do they still find it hard to accept gays?the pastor's reply was an eye opener.

And then it hit me. Why do i exactly hate gays?they don't bother me, they sleep with each other,they marry each other,they pay their own bills,i don't even know them.

As i grow older, i have learned to be very tolerant of others. I have also learned to mind my business with how others handle their lives, that is why i do not judge married women/men when they cheat in their marriages, i am not in their marriage so don't know what lead to the infidelity.

While i do have my personal reservation about the gay thing, i have come to accept the fact that my feelings will not stop people from being gays, or stop them from loving each other. i have also come to accept the fact that no matter what, there will be others that will have sexual orientation that is different from mine.

In Nigeria, there have been instances where men have been caught making love to goats and chickens. Nairaland even carried some of those pictures.

So what am i saying?people should let other people live their lives the way they deem it fit. what you cannot correct, leave alone.

***Modified***

So i wrote this on the last page, but feel i should add it here too.


Did not know my harmless comments will ignite a firestorm, literally.

No i am not gay, neither am i advocating for gay rights.

So, i took the time to read all the comments here, plus the insults and all, and i find them to be very entertaining.

I am also very appreciative of the mature replies by some, even if they disagree with my views. We all cannot have the same views about things in life, and for the fact that you don't see things my way,or i your way , does not necessarily need for it to get to name callings, insults and the rest.

I have a right to my views. I am a grown man,and my views is with the school of thought that the GAY people should be left alone. If they are not bothering you, they are not a threat to your being, did not steal from you, did not come to you for any kind of relationship, do not have any contact with you in any way.

THEN LEAVE THEM ALONE.

My last page on this topic.

But you're wrong sir. They are a threat to my children and the way they will view marriage. Silence is acceptance of evil. Think about our future: the children. Don't take a selfish stance saying ' If they are not bothering you, they are not a threat to your being, did not steal from you, did not come to you for any kind of relationship, do not have any contact with you in any way'. The will affect that boy,that girl in your neighbourhood, in schools,on the streets...Think about that.

emperorchedda:
You already answered it, the animals couldn't choose!

So if the animal could choose, it would be okay to have sex with it. Are you really serious?

EbolaParasite:
So if the animal could choose, it would be okay to have sex with it. Are you really serious?

Yes I am. It hurts none of the parties involved

Right to love and be loved

So we have to be compelled to recognize human rights?...smh,this reminds me of our acts of killing twins and how we also got to be "compelled" to stop...now everyone would shout "abortion is murder!" forgetting that it was our custom to smash twin heads on rocks..

brainiac007:
But you're wrong sir. They are a threat to my children and the way they will view marriage. Silence is acceptance of evil. Think about our future: the children. Don't take a selfish stance saying ' If they are not bothering you, they are not a threat to your being, did not steal from you, did not come to you for any kind of relationship, do not have any contact with you in any way'. The will affect that boy,that girl in your neighbourhood, in schools,on the streets...Think about that.

I'm sorry how will they affect that boy or girl in your neighbourhood??

If that little kid grows to be an adult he will decide on which sexuality to belong to. By then he will have known the advantages and disadvantages of both and will understand his fantasies and what he wants, with this he can choose to become or straight.

No one on the street will force him to be anything he doesn't want to become

So because a kid sees gays, likes them, you his parent will now force him to become what he doesn't want to be?? Mind you he sees straight people as much as he see homosexuals..so the choice is his or hers!

emperorchedda:
Yes I am. It hurts none of the parties involved

Right to love and be loved

It defies both scientific and religious doctrines so there's no way you can say its correct. If an animal was made to mate with a man, why do females exist and vice versa. If a man was made to mate with a man, why was a woman made with the perfect anatomy (vagiina) to accept his manhood? Spin it anyway you like, it is wrong period. The fact that you have d urge to do something does not justify it.

davien:
So we have to be compelled to recognize human rights?...smh,this reminds me of our acts of killing twins and how we also got to be "compelled" to stop...now everyone would shout "abortion is murder!" forgetting that it was our custom to smash twin heads on rocks..

e no tire u??

Backwardness is not a cursed placed on us, we placed it on ourselves

Human right is the very fundamental and Nigeria need to make it a priority

emperorchedda:
Yes I am. It hurts none of the parties involved

Right to love and be loved

By the way, you can love and be loved without sex. Why must a man have sex with another man to be loved?

OkparaJesus:
Chinoasa homosexual. I will kill you. Proudly homophobic

mark my words wat will kill u is near "delusional bastard!

EbolaParasite:
It defies both scientific and religious doctrines so there's no way you can say its correct. If an animal was made to mate with a man, why do females exist and vice versa. If a man was made to mate with a man, why was a woman made with the perfect anatomy (vagiina) to accept his manhood? Spin it anyway you like, it is wrong period. The fact that you have d urge to do something does not justify it.

not everyone believes in religious doctrines bro. Women weren't made for sexual pleasure. The vagina also has various uses like child birth.

They weren't made just for dickks.

EbolaParasite:
By the way, you can love and be loved without sex. Why must a man have sex with another man to be loved?

You can't teach them how to express their love.

Why do people have sex with people they love? That could be their way of expressing love and it's no one's business

OkparaJesus:
Is It Right to Judge?
How many times have you heard someone whine, "Judge
not, that ye be not judged?" This verse of Scripture from
Matthew 7:1 is often quoted out of context by people who
are terrified at the idea of someone preaching against sin
or pointing out any form of error in anyone, especially in
themselves.
As I stood in a voting line one day I overheard a woman
justifying her foolish choice for president by saying, "Well,
we aren't supposed to judge." Imagine that! Choosing NOT
to judge a political candidate on election day! No wonder
our nation is in such a mess!
As for Matthew 7:1, the context (verses 1-5) allows judging
after you have first judged YOURSELF. Jesus did not make
a blanket statement against judgment. He simply pointed
out a RULE for judging.
Now, the word "judge" in its various forms (judgeth,
judging, judgment, judges, etc) is found over 700 times in
God's word. One whole book of the Bible is titled "Judges"
for it was written at a time when God raised up judges to
lead His people.
As we are about to see, God EXPECTS His people to judge.
In fact, you are sinning against God if you refuse to judge!
(Read that again, please)
God Expects Us to Judge
"The mouth of the righteous speaketh wisdom, and his
tongue talketh of judgment." (Psa. 37:30) A righteous
person will talk of judgment. He will not REFUSE to judge.
He will talk judgment.
"Seek good, and not evil, that ye may live: and so the
LORD, the God of hosts, shall be with you, as ye have
spoken. Hate the evil, and love the good, and establish
judgment in the gate: it may be that the LORD God of hosts
will be gracious unto the remnant of Joseph." (Amos
5:14-15) How can you hate the evil and love the good if
you refuse to judge? You can't. You are SINNING when
you refuse to judge.
Our generation is well described in Isaiah 59:8: "The way of
peace they know not; and there is no judgment in their
goings: they have made them crooked paths: whosoever
goeth therein shall not know peace." People have refused
to judge, so there is no peace.
Paul said in I Corinthians 1:10 to ". . . be perfectly joined
together in the same mind and in the same judgment."
Why would Paul make such a statement if judging is
wrong? In I Corinthians 2:15 Paul says, "But he that is
spiritual judgeth all things, yet he himself is judged of no
man." Judging is not a sin; judging is a characteristic of
being a spiritual person! Satan has been lying to us, hoping
that we will NOT judge, because he knows that the right
kind of judgment PLEASES God and betters our lives and
Christian service.
Someone says, "But should we judge PEOPLE?" Yes, we
certainly should. Paul actually REBUKES the Corinthians
for NOT judging: "Dare any of you, having a matter against
another, go to law before the unjust, and not before the
saints? Do ye not know that the saints shall judge the
world? and if the world shall be judged by you, are ye
unworthy to judge the smallest matters? Know ye not that
we shall judge angels? how much more things that pertain
to this life? If then ye have judgments of things pertaining
to this life, set them to judge who are least esteemed in
the church. I speak to your shame. Is it so, that there is
not a wise man among you? no, not one that shall be able
to judge between his brethren?" (I Cor. 6:1-5) If judging is
wrong, then Paul needs to confess and repent for
misleading these Christians! He clearly told them to
JUDGE PEOPLE.
If judging people is wrong, how can we obey Romans
16:17-18? II Corinthians 6:17? II Timothy 3:5-6? I John
4:1? Friend, if judging is wrong, then God has contradicted
Himself and His words cannot be trusted!
Notice Malachi 3:18: "Then shall ye return, and discern
between the righteous and the wicked, between him that
serveth God and him that serveth him not." WOW! Does
that sound like it is wrong to judge?
What about Revelation 2:2? " I know thy works, and thy
labour, and thy patience, and how thou canst not bear
them which are evil: and thou hast tried them which say
they are apostles, and are not, and hast found them liars:"
Why would the Lord be pleased with these Christians if
judging was wrong? Is it not impossible to find someone a
"liar" without judging them?
If the Bible is clear about anything, it is clear about the
importance of judging on a regular basis in order to
properly serve and honor God. To ignore this fact is to
ignore all of the Scripture just presented and also the rest
of the Bible. God expects us to judge.
God's Rules for Judging
Now I do not wish to imply that we should spend all of our
time judging. Sometimes people judge when they have no
business doing so. In John 7:24 Jesus tells us to judge
RIGHTEOUS judgment. This can only be done by following
the rules that God has established in His word. Here follow
seven good rules from Scripture:
Judge Scripturally
Isaiah 8:20 says, "To the law and to the testimony: if they
speak not according to this word, it is because there is no
light in them." Our standard is God's word, not our
feelings, our traditions, or our opinions. Right and wrong
should always be determined by God's word.
Don't Judge When God's Word Is Silent
If God's word is silent about a subject, then you may not
have to judge at all. Don't rush to judgment on an issue
when the Bible says very little or is silent about it. Don't
make more of a matter than God makes of it. A good
example of this is found in Colossians 2:16: "Let no man
therefore judge you in meat, or in drink, or in respect of an
holyday, or of the new moon, or of the sabbath days:" That
is, these are not subjects of great importance today, so
let's not make these great issues of judgment.
Pray for Good Judgement Ability
When Solomon received his kingdom he asked God to
"Give therefore thy servant an understanding heart to judge
thy people, that I may discern between good and bad: for
who is able to judge this thy so great a people?" (I Kings
3:9) James 1:5 says, "If any of you lack wisdom, let him
ask of God, that giveth to all men liberally, and upbraideth
not; and it shall be given him." We should pray for good
judgment ability.
Don't Respect Persons
Proverbs 24:23 says, "These things also belong to the
wise. It is not good to have respect of persons in
judgment." Treat all parties fairly without favoring anyone,
such as family members or friends. A truly fair judge is
blind and deaf to any outer influence. (Isa. 42:1, 19-21)
Judge in Truth
Do not judge another when you do not have all the relevant
facts. Jeremiah 5:1 says, "Run ye to and fro through the
streets of Jerusalem, and see now, and know, and seek in
the broad places thereof, if ye can find a man, if there be
any that executeth judgment, that seeketh the truth; and I
will pardon it." A true judge is one who seeks the truth. If
you must judge, be sure and get all the facts. A Japanese
proverb says to "search seven times before you judge."
Judge Mercifully
Remember the words of Jesus in Matthew 7:2: "For with
what judgment ye judge, ye shall be judged: and with what
measure ye mete, it shall be measured to you again."
You'll reap what you sow (Gal. 6:7-. If you are swift and
harsh in judging others, then God will see to it that you
receive the same from others. Has God not been very
merciful to you, even though you deserved it not?
Likewise, you should exercise mercy toward others.
Don't Forget to Judge Yourself
I Corinthians 11:30-31: "For this cause many are weak and
sickly among you, and many sleep. For if we would judge
ourselves, we should not be judged." If you are a true
Christian, then you belong to God. You are God's child. If
you refuse to judge and improve yourself as a child of God,
then God will take it upon Himself to judge you. Many of
the troubles that we face in life are nothing more than
God's way of judging us since we often neglect to judge
ourselves.
Wouldn't it be amazing if every Christian actually took time
to judge themselves before judging anyone else? In
Matthew 7:4-5, Jesus says, " Or how wilt thou say to thy
brother, Let me pull out the mote out of thine eye; and,
behold, a beam is in thine own eye? Thou hypocrite, first
cast out the beam out of thine own eye; and then shalt
thou see clearly to cast out the mote out of thy brother's
eye." A good judge will not fail to judge himself.

ure as dumb as an ass!! gay

HungerBAD:
[s]The first time i saw two men kissing was in London, specifically at the St James's Park on a cool summer day many years ago. I still remember the shock and revulsion i felt.

I stood transfixed, staring at them for about 5 Minutes and was just turning my head around like AM I THE ONLY ONE SEEING this,and then it hit me, i was no longer in Africa and even if i had been living in the US, i was yet to see two men kiss. It was a cultural shock for me to see two men make out.

I hated gays.

Then one day in Church, at a bible study. Somebody asked the pastor that if the Church preaches a lot of things about repentance and acceptance,why then do they still find it hard to accept gays?the pastor's reply was an eye opener.

And then it hit me. Why do i exactly hate gays?they don't bother me, they sleep with each other,they marry each other,they pay their own bills,i don't even know them.

As i grow older, i have learned to be very tolerant of others. I have also learned to mind my business with how others handle their lives, that is why i do not judge married women/men when they cheat in their marriages, i am not in their marriage so don't know what lead to the infidelity.

While i do have my personal reservation about the gay thing, i have come to accept the fact that my feelings will not stop people from being gays, or stop them from loving each other. i have also come to accept the fact that no matter what, there will be others that will have sexual orientation that is different from mine.

In Nigeria, there have been instances where men have been caught making love to goats and chickens. Nairaland even carried some of those pictures.

So what am i saying?people should let other people live their lives the way they deem it fit. what you cannot correct, leave alone.

***Modified***

So i wrote this on the last page, but feel i should add it here too.


Did not know my harmless comments will ignite a firestorm, literally.

No i am not gay, neither am i advocating for gay rights.

So, i took the time to read all the comments here, plus the insults and all, and i find them to be very entertaining.

I am also very appreciative of the mature replies by some, even if they disagree with my views. We all cannot have the same views about things in life, and for the fact that you don't see things my way,or i your way , does not necessarily need for it to get to name callings, insults and the rest.

I have a right to my views. I am a grown man,and my views is with the school of thought that the GAY people should be left alone. If they are not bothering you, they are not a threat to your being, did not steal from you, did not come to you for any kind of relationship, do not have any contact with you in any way.
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THEN LEAVE THEM ALONE.

My last page on this topic.

So you are saying you decided to say all this rubbish and then run away from the thread so you don't have to defend it?

Shame on you and your propaganda.

Stop lying you hated homosexuals before. You are probably one.

emperorchedda:
not everyone believes in religious doctrines bro. Women weren't made for sexual pleasure. The vagina also has various uses like child birth.

They weren't made just for dickks.

You shot yourself in the foot. Thats my point. The vagina has uses like childbirth right? Well the penis is part of that process and is used for urinating and impregnating a woman. It is not meant to be inserted in another man. Also i said both religious and scientific doctrines

emperorchedda:
You can't teach them how to express their love.

Why do people have sex with people they love? That could be their way of expressing love and it's no one's business

Answer me this, if a man was meant to have sex with a man, why isn't the male anatomy shaped for it?

I don't even know why this people would want to push their perverted liberal views down the throat of everybody else. Nigeria is not US. We are different in more ways than we are similar and tell you, this gay thing is one of such. We would not allow this here and the earlier this is registered in their consciousness, the better for us all.

God help our country Nigeria. If they should legalize LGBT that is naija go turn to sodom and gomorah end time.

I cover my precious hole with the blood of buhari

I support the continuity of the human race..... #gays don't support the continuity of the human race..say no to Satanism

EbolaParasite:
Answer me this, if a man was meant to have sex with a man, why isn't the male anatomy shaped for it?

oh listen
Nothing was pre determined or meant to be.

We discover things each day ourselves.

Maybe since before civilization that we had no clothes, clothes were not meant to be

Is the US mad?
Anyway, until the rapture happens, evil/iniquity will never have the upper hand.

Love thy neighbor and acknowledge that we're all sinners. Humble yourselves before your only God. If you believe of course.

John Chapter 8

1 Jesus went unto the mount of Olives.

2 And early in the morning he came again into the temple, and all the people came unto him; and he sat down, and taught them.

3 And the scribes and Pharisees brought unto him a woman taken in adultery; and when they had set her in the midst,

4 They say unto him, Master, this woman was taken in adultery, in the very act.

5 Now Moses in the law commanded us, that such should be stoned: but what sayest thou?

6 This they said, tempting him, that they might have to accuse him. But Jesus stooped down, and with his finger wrote on the ground, as though he heard them not.

7 So when they continued asking him, he lifted up himself, and said unto them, He that is without sin among you, let him first cast a stone at her.

8 And again he stooped down, and wrote on the ground.

9 And they which heard it, being convicted by their own conscience, went out one by one, beginning at the eldest, even unto the last: and Jesus was left alone, and the woman standing in the midst.

10 When Jesus had lifted up himself, and saw none but the woman, he said unto her, Woman, where are those thine accusers? hath no man condemned thee?

11 She said, No man, Lord. And Jesus said unto her, Neither do I condemn thee: go, and sin no more.

12 Then spake Jesus again unto them, saying, I am the light of the world: he that followeth me shall not walk in darkness, but shall have the light of life.


Luke 10:25-36

25 And, behold, a certain lawyer stood up, and tempted him, saying, Master, what shall I do to inherit eternal life?

26 He said unto him, What is written in the law? how readest thou?

27 And he answering said, Thou shalt love the Lord thy God with all thy heart, and with all thy soul, and with all thy strength, and with all thy mind; and thy neighbour as thyself.

28 And he said unto him, Thou hast answered right: this do, and thou shalt live.

29 But he, willing to justify himself, said unto Jesus, And who is my neighbour?

30 And Jesus answering said, A certain man went down from Jerusalem to Jericho, and fell among thieves, which stripped him of his raiment, and wounded him, and departed, leaving him half dead.

31 And by chance there came down a certain priest that way: and when he saw him, he passed by on the other side.

32 And likewise a Levite, when he was at the place, came and looked on him, and passed by on the other side.

33 But a certain Samaritan, as he journeyed, came where he was: and when he saw him, he had compassion on him,

34 And went to him, and bound up his wounds, pouring in oil and wine, and set him on his own beast, and brought him to an inn, and took care of him.

35 And on the morrow when he departed, he took out two pence, and gave them to the host, and said unto him, Take care of him; and whatsoever thou spendest more, when I come again, I will repay thee.

36 Which now of these three, thinkest thou, was neighbour unto him that fell among the thieves?

I'm happily married to a woman and pray to have children soon.

I'm in no way a supporter of individuals that choose to have same sex relations, but at the same time it is not my job to judge or condemn. My God (our God) expects us to love each other with no reservations.

Leviticus 20:13
"'If a man has sexual relations with a man as one does with a woman, both of them have done what is detestable. They are to be put to death; their blood will be on their own heads.

'You shall not lie with a male as one lies with a female; it is an abomination. Leviticus 18:22

1 Timothy 1:10
for the sexually immoral, for those practicing homosexuality, for slave traders and liars and perjurers--and for whatever else is contrary to the sound doctrine.

Romans 1:27
In the same way the men also abandoned natural relations with women and were inflamed with lust for one another. Men committed shameful acts with other men, and received in themselves the due penalty for their error.

Scriptures don't lie-we are truly in the end times

chinedujones:
you just killed it bro!! I just wonder why some people can't you mind their own business, why not ask GOD!!! Y hE CREATED GAYS, FOR THE LOVE OF GOD THEY DID NOT CREATE THEM SELFS, I ONCE HAD A GAY DOG, YEA I ONCE IT, AND WAS SHOCKED WHEN I DISCOVERED MY MALE DOG WAS GAY! WHAT WILL OF THAT, I RECALL A VERSE IN THE GOOD BOOK WHICH SAYS JUDGE NOT LESS YE NOT BE JUDGED.

abeg stop using that verse to suit the situation,the Bible condemn gay etc...i don't think God ever created gay..

James 1:17New International Version (NIV)

17 Every good and perfect gift is from above, coming down from the Father of the heavenly lights, who does not change like shifting shadows.

Being perfect God cannot have created gays...

I like this! Now I'll know whether baba dogo yaro(buhari) will be able to resist the pressure from Obama n his gay goons!