I am currently dating a gorgeous 27 year old banker and things have been going great for about two months now until I started noticing some things that are getting me worried. It started about a week ago when she stopped taking my calls at the first ring, I would call for three or four times before she takes it and even then she wouldn't apologise. If I asked her why she didn't pick she would say she did it on purpose so that I would get angry that since we started dating that she has not seen me angry. I asked her why she would want to see me angry and she said that if I don't get angry or shout at her it means that I don't love her. I was like whaaaat.??
One day she didn't take my call all day and she didn't call back. I was distressed, I thought maybe something had happened to her and even called her colleague to know if she was Okay the colleague said she was fine but when I asked her to give her the phone she told me she said she didn't want to talk to me. I kept calling and later at Night she took my call and out of anger I shouted on her and asked her why she did that (I was really angry and even wanted to end the relationship instantly) she laughed hard and said YES that it is now that she knows that I am serious and started apologising still laughing under her breath. I cut the call out of anger and instantly she called back and we talked for 11mins all the while she was apologising. Later that night she sent me a goodnight text something she had not done in ages and even sent me a Whatsapp text around 1am that she couldn't sleep because she was thinking about me, I was sleepy so I replied “go to bed it's 1am, log off immediately” she replied “yes sir” and asked if I would seize her phone if she refused to go off and I wrote yes. Instantly she begged me not to seize her phone, first thing in the morning she called me and still apologised for waking me up.
Now fast forward to last tuesday she said she will come over for the weekend and told me that she wants me to beat her very well when she comes so that she will know that I am a real man and I really love her. I told her that I have no reason to beat her and she said she will give me a reason and she hasn't taken my call since then and has even sent me one nonsense text just to spite me and make me beat her when she comes. Anytime I shout on her or threaten to slap her she will laugh silently, the other day in the car she tried to mock-slap me so that I would get angry and slap her back. I am a Beta male (as against the Alpha male) and I know better than to hit a woman. she just enjoys it when I rough handle her which I don't enjoy since its painful.
What do I do people, I am soo confused.

Humans are such tortured creatures.

Everyone I know,no matter their race, fortune, or location has some issues, and for the most part, we tend to keep the worst ones hidden deep down inside.

Abuse is like a contagious domino effect. Once it’s inflicted upon you, there’s a huge chance that you will either become dependent on such abuse, or start abusing others. What happens to us during childhood is carried throughout the rest of life.

I know a fantastic woman and mother who was always in the middle of her neglectful parent's violent fights as a child, and now, as a middle aged adult, she’s still in an abusive relationship with her man . Since she seems like such a strong woman inside and out, I asked her how she can stand to stay with him. She said that she feels emptiness without the sounds of shouting and anger around her.

You could ignorantly dub such women as “weak,” but we are all allowed our weaknesses. For some, it’s alcohol and drugs, and for others, sex or money. Then, sadly, there are those who are forced to associate pain with fulfillment.

This your banker friend, wants to associate pain with fulfillment, do not indulge her please.

incase

Ur babe is weird. Guess this was what she saw her mum experience while growing up.

she wants to knw d worst dat could happen. tolerance range testing mostly when man dey do like ice cream. ladies ar always like pretenders ar worst in action.

She's drunk in love

Oga mi...dem no go tell u...but i must tell u o.. ...u dey date psychopath

A friend's gf loves being beaten up then begged.. For makeup sex..

Chai.. Pple dey sha

Gals and their wants.... Very complicated set of people......

Some don't their to beat dem while some do



For me... I can't beat my bae unless she insults my parents

Sicko

Op maybe u pet her too much nd it makes u luk lyk a woman dnt be suprised when ur bae leaves you cause it seems ur relationship is too boring. what if i tel u that's what makes bad guys more romantic and confident than the good ones.

If you beat her black now
Tomorrow will be black and blue
Next will be red black and green
She leaves you
You used to beating your woman
And you meet an angel
You raise your hand, she leaves
Meet another, same
My guy, your woman is ready to turn you around to a beast.
Choice is yours, beat her to have her and she eventually leaves
Don't beat and she might leave
Either ways
Its your choice to decide your future
Turn monster or the saint you are
Goodluck on your choice

Real men never touch their women come what may. Perhaps she's never 'felt' you before and now wants to get laid 'real' hard by a 'real' man.

her own is too much jor" is she a witch?

HeartRobber:
She's drunk in love

Nope, she is has lost some nuts. OP is getting a working mad girl. Such a pity.

I am not beating anybody. I could be angry, but not beating anybody! If she's keeps doing it, it's over! They re many ways to kill a rat!

The test is good but dont beat her. she want to know what you can do when angry. show her love. Let her know you are not lady beater.dont pretend because she is not trust u yet.

yokka:

she wants me to beat her very well when she comes so that she will know that I am a real man and I really love her. I told her that I have no reason to beat her and she said she will give me a reason and she hasn't taken my call since then and has even sent me one nonsense text just to spite me and make me beat her when she comes. Anytime I shout on her or threaten to slap her she will laugh silently, the other day in the car she tried to mock-slap me so that I would get angry and slap her back

OP you've entered one-chance

Touch that psycho ... and watch her use it to SET YOU UP with the POLICE whenever she doesn't have her way with you.
She's psychologically disturbed


^^ HungerBAD go and be a preacher ok.. you type moral essays for daysss!

She is a psycho using you to run test trial on a secret CIA new drugs

Guy treat her fvck up.. Or beta still take her to aso Rock

Never beat a woman...

Instead,Listen to dis freestyle by me..

http://my.notjustok.com/track/24670/

yokka:
I am currently dating a gorgeous 27 year old banker and things have been going great for about two months now until I started noticing some things that are getting me worried. It started about a week ago when she stopped taking my calls at the first ring, I would call for three or four times before she takes it and even then she wouldn't apologise. If I asked her why she didn't pick she would say she did it on purpose so that I would get angry that since we started dating that she has not seen me angry. I asked her why she would want to see me angry and she said that if I don't get angry or shout at her it means that I don't love her. I was like whaaaat.??
One day she didn't take my call all day and she didn't call back. I was distressed, I thought maybe something had happened to her and even called her colleague to know if she was Okay the colleague said she was fine but when I asked her to give her the phone she told me she said she didn't want to talk to me. I kept calling and later at Night she took my call and out of anger I shouted on her and asked her why she did that (I was really angry and even wanted to end the relationship instantly) she laughed hard and said YES that it is now that she knows that I am serious and started apologising still laughing under her breath. I cut the call out of anger and instantly she called back and we talked for 11mins all the while she was apologising. Later that night she sent me a goodnight text something she had not done in ages and even sent me a Whatsapp text around 1am that she couldn't sleep because she was thinking about me, I was sleepy so I replied “go to bed it's 1am, log off immediately” she replied “yes sir” and asked if I would seize her phone if she refused to go off and I wrote yes. Instantly she begged me not to seize her phone, first thing in the morning she called me and still apologised for waking me up.
Now fast forward to last tuesday she said she will come over for the weekend and told me that she wants me to beat her very well when she comes so that she will know that I am a real man and I really love her. I told her that I have no reason to beat her and she said she will give me a reason and she hasn't taken my call since then and has even sent me one nonsense text just to spite me and make me beat her when she comes. Anytime I shout on her or threaten to slap her she will laugh silently, the other day in the car she tried to mock-slap me so that I would get angry and slap her back

Sexual Masochism

Wow, really weird.

Dude, the form ain't important. A goat would always be a goat. Someone who's come out of an abusive relationship would be scarred and branded and could definitely expect other guys to be like her ex. Question is what are you gonna do about it: D'you love her enough to conform to her animalistic tendencies? If what it takes to save your relationship is by "beating" her, dude I'd advise you get whips that wouldn't suffer from wear and tear.

i guess ur relationship is boring nd she's trying to spice things up. wrestle her sumtyms, pinch her softly, race her, go out nd do stuffs.
on the other hand, the idea of master-slave sex may appeal to her. i guess sum ladies like rough sex

orogodoganyin:
i guess ur marriage is boring nd she's trying to spice things up. wrestle her sumtyms, pinch her softly, race her, go out nd do stuffs.
on the other hand, the idea of master-slave sex may appeal to her. i guess sum ladies like rough sex

Marriage?

CertifiedFreak:
Dude, the form ain't important. A goat would always be a goat. Someone who's come out of an abusive relationship would be scarred and branded and could definitely expect other guys to be like her ex. Question is what are you gonna do about it: D'you love her enough to conform to her animalistic tendencies? If what it takes to save your relationship is by "beating" her, dude I'd advise you get whips that wouldn't suffer from wear and tear.

LOL. I swear NL got me cracking up this morning ...

HungerBAD:

Marriage?

oh... relatnship i guess

boboLIL:
Gals and their wants.... Very complicated set of people......


Some don't their to beat dem while some do




For me... I can't beat my bae unless she insults my parents

The ones that dont want to be beaten end up with the beaters
The ones that want to be beaten end up with the nice guys

CertifiedFreak:
Dude, the form ain't important. A goat would always be a goat. Someone who's come out of an abusive relationship would be scarred and branded and could definitely expect other guys to be like her ex. Question is what are you gonna do about it: D'you love her enough to conform to her animalistic tendencies? If what it takes to save your relationship is by "beating" her, dude I'd advise you get whips that wouldn't suffer from wear and tear.

Hehehehe
Dude while advising him, I hope you know that when he eventually stands on trial for murder the judge wont hear

' your honour she liked to get her ass kicked and would often ask me to beat the shot out of her'

Under no circumstance will I lay a finger on a "woman" talk more of my woman but that doesn't mean I won't correct her when necessary