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Re: Marriage? Nigerian Guys In Europe Are Shying Away From Nigerian Girls by Nobody: 11:39am On Jul 21, 2015
skyfullofstars:


No, I'm not frustrated. I'm simply defending my ideals which are part of my essence.

On the other hand, I know you are frustrated, because of your profile and user name. I wholeheartedly advice you to visit a psychologist and solve your problem with "Nigerian" women, or women in general...
I BIT YOU NEED A PSYCHOLOGIST MORE THAN ME.

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Re: Marriage? Nigerian Guys In Europe Are Shying Away From Nigerian Girls by daimlerbenz: 11:39am On Jul 21, 2015
Ain't a sin in Europe. But Naija guys like awoof. It's painful but it's the truth.
stillreal:



Its a sin to kiss on the street now? shocked
Re: Marriage? Nigerian Guys In Europe Are Shying Away From Nigerian Girls by daimlerbenz: 11:40am On Jul 21, 2015
When last did you love just one Nigerian lady? When last did you not play jay jay okocha with ladies? Look inside man.
sonofananimal1:
THERE IS JUST NO LOVE ANYMORE.

YOU CANT FIND LOVE IN ANY NIGERIA LADIES
Re: Marriage? Nigerian Guys In Europe Are Shying Away From Nigerian Girls by Nobody: 11:42am On Jul 21, 2015
skyfullofstars:


Well, I already told mine that if he ever sleeps with another woman I will simply divorce him.
The thing is, what did I get married for? Marriage is not to be checking whether your husband is unfaithful or not.

YOU SEE HOW YOU ARE CONTRADICTING YOURSELF!!!

I SWEAR YOU DON'T KNOW WHAT YOU ARE TALKING YOURSELF,

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Re: Marriage? Nigerian Guys In Europe Are Shying Away From Nigerian Girls by stillreal(m): 11:43am On Jul 21, 2015
daimlerbenz:
Ain't a sin in Europe. But Naija guys like awoof. It's painful but it's the truth.

I live in Europe , so i know, but you seemed to make it sound like a taboo
Re: Marriage? Nigerian Guys In Europe Are Shying Away From Nigerian Girls by ModiKen(m): 11:43am On Jul 21, 2015
pbs4real:
mah guy even the so cal'd loyal ones. . .nah little time them go CHANGE. . . . .trustme speaking frm xperience. . .grin

For a loyal babe to change, then she must have decamped from APC to PDP. grin
Re: Marriage? Nigerian Guys In Europe Are Shying Away From Nigerian Girls by Fele1: 11:43am On Jul 21, 2015
sonofananimal1:
Bro pls we need to relate. I sent u a pm #ItsMixedOr.....
Re: Marriage? Nigerian Guys In Europe Are Shying Away From Nigerian Girls by Nobody: 11:44am On Jul 21, 2015
daimlerbenz:
When last did you love just one Nigerian lady? When last did you not play jay jay okocha with ladies? Look inside man.
A VERY LONG TIME AGO undecided
Re: Marriage? Nigerian Guys In Europe Are Shying Away From Nigerian Girls by daimlerbenz: 11:44am On Jul 21, 2015
Tell me what you know man. Tell me what you know. And please, I did not diss on your person, don't diss on mine. I really don't know where you are, my response is based on the OP's mention of Germany.

And to say Germans are not supremacists, shows you don't know. So please don't say what you really don't know.
betandwin8484:



You are very wrong and you must be a local or street boy,, you must be the kind that 4ks around even when married. Yes there are many men who prefer naija girl, that's not wrong, but don't come here and splash rubbish about things you don't know.

Re: Marriage? Nigerian Guys In Europe Are Shying Away From Nigerian Girls by Nobody: 11:44am On Jul 21, 2015
[quote author=Fele1 post=36117498][/quote]I didn't see your pm. Try resend it again
Re: Marriage? Nigerian Guys In Europe Are Shying Away From Nigerian Girls by daimlerbenz: 11:45am On Jul 21, 2015
How do you think I know it happens in the street bro?
stillreal:


I live in Europe , so i know, but you seemed to make it sound like a taboo
Re: Marriage? Nigerian Guys In Europe Are Shying Away From Nigerian Girls by Neplusultra(f): 11:45am On Jul 21, 2015
I don't blame the guys seriously! Our girls just turn to something else one they get there!

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Re: Marriage? Nigerian Guys In Europe Are Shying Away From Nigerian Girls by daimlerbenz: 11:46am On Jul 21, 2015
And you want them to be loyal

Assume you are the girl, will you be
sonofananimal1:
A VERY LONG TIME AGO undecided
Re: Marriage? Nigerian Guys In Europe Are Shying Away From Nigerian Girls by Nobody: 11:47am On Jul 21, 2015
AjaniDWickedBoy:
You are likely to die in a plane crash grin grin grin than to come across a naija lady that's not after your pocket (wealth) cheesy cheesy cheesy

Oga, abeg make i no spill drink for car seat grin grin i don laugh so teh driver dey ask me if everything is ok sir grin
Re: Marriage? Nigerian Guys In Europe Are Shying Away From Nigerian Girls by daimlerbenz: 11:48am On Jul 21, 2015
To say someone has not been to places because you think you are in places speaks volumes. Don't forget, Nairaland is a faceless forum. You don't and can't know who anyone is. I therefore don't pride in being to places that no one else have been?
sonofananimal1:
STOP FORMING A VILLAGE CHAMPION AND EXPLORE THE WORLD,

BASE ON YOUR WRITEUP, YOU HAVE NOT BEING TO PLACES THAT'S WHY YOU CAME UP WITH THIS RUBBISH.

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Re: Marriage? Nigerian Guys In Europe Are Shying Away From Nigerian Girls by Nobody: 11:51am On Jul 21, 2015
daimlerbenz:
To say someone has not been to places because you think you are in places speaks volumes. Don't forget, Nairaland is a faceless forum. You don't and can't know who anyone is. I therefore don't pride in being to places that no one else have been?
COME!! NO BODY IS PRIDE HERE, IS JUST THAT YOUR COMMENT DID NOT SOUND LIKE SOMEONE WHO KNOW WHAT HE IS TALKING ABOUT.
Re: Marriage? Nigerian Guys In Europe Are Shying Away From Nigerian Girls by Neplusultra(f): 11:53am On Jul 21, 2015
cachilike12:
U rmb the saying " money miss road" that's the story of our ladies abroad. First they are two Class of Nigerian ladies living abroad... The one from a rich or middle class home that came to study and the second class is the one that came to find future and hope cos Naija failed them.

The first class don't have so much time living abroad they only came to study and if u are lucky to get there attention before another Nigerian young dude get them, then consider yourself lucky. Cos they are down to earth and have tested luxury, comfort and powers. But the second class heart is evil, satanic and looking for young naija dude to derail. They come and have a feel of how women are considered first in the society before men and they used there wicked money miss road syndrome" In these case now" power miss road" to destroy any naija man that comes there way in the bid of testing superiority over men. Let me make it easier to understand they screw up our men in abroad big time.So naija men run to other National to make relationship and in turn get married. The pleasant thing is that other national can die to have a naija man and work with them with little or no hassles. Especially East African, Central african and white ladies.
Enough said!!! Dats all!!!
Re: Marriage? Nigerian Guys In Europe Are Shying Away From Nigerian Girls by daimlerbenz: 11:54am On Jul 21, 2015
How does it sound?
sonofananimal1:
COME!! NO BODY IS PRIDE HERE, IS JUST THAT YOUR COMMENT DID NOT SOUND LIKE SOMEONE WHO KNOW WHAT HE IS TALKING ABOUT.

Re: Marriage? Nigerian Guys In Europe Are Shying Away From Nigerian Girls by slimmykisses(f): 11:55am On Jul 21, 2015
The truth is a lot of Nigerian men whether at home or abroad are after chicks who can pay their bills and spend money on them, I call such men "iyawo men" . I mean ,as a lady I can imagine meeting a guy for the first time and the first question he ask is "what do you do for a living", it sounds crazy -i mean what has what I do got to do with how u feel abt me?#stillslimmykisses#
Re: Marriage? Nigerian Guys In Europe Are Shying Away From Nigerian Girls by betandwin8484: 11:55am On Jul 21, 2015
daimlerbenz:
Tell me what you know man. Tell me what you know. And please, I did not diss on your person, don't diss on mine. I really don't know where you are, my response is based on the OP's mention of Germany.

And to say Germans are not supremacists, shows you don't know. So please don't say what you really don't know.
..

Did the op mention that german girls are proud ? did he mention They have a supremacist mentality - if not a German guy, it's no one.

They prefer to live with you as partner and not as spouse.


Please clarify
Re: Marriage? Nigerian Guys In Europe Are Shying Away From Nigerian Girls by stillreal(m): 11:56am On Jul 21, 2015
daimlerbenz:
How do you think I know it happens in the street bro?

You are being defensive, i'm not attacking you. i wrote earlier people don't need to diss to have a convo, only asking you a question. You said white girls kiss on the streets, you made it sound like it was a taboo to, that's all i asked . No ones bothered about where you live, i only mentioned i stay in Europe cause you said its not a sin in Europe, i obviously know.
Re: Marriage? Nigerian Guys In Europe Are Shying Away From Nigerian Girls by daimlerbenz: 12:00pm On Jul 21, 2015
God bless you for this exposition. Make the guys wey dey beef me say Naija girls rock dey there. I no vex. Make una go marry Oyibo. People wey dey there know where the shoe dey pinch dem for leg. Truth is, as a Naija guy wey hammer and I mean real hammer, if you marry oyibo, you are on your own.

Come to think of it. Have you guys (betandwin and sonofananimal1) found out the rate of divorce in these countries? Have you found out the state of the men after the divorce? See, you can only say what you know.
cachilike12:
U rmb the saying " money miss road" that's the story of our ladies abroad. First they are two Class of Nigerian ladies living abroad... The one from a rich or middle class home that came to study and the second class is the one that came to find future and hope cos Naija failed them.

The first class don't have so much time living abroad they only came to study and if u are lucky to get there attention before another Nigerian young dude get them, then consider yourself lucky. Cos they are down to earth and have tested luxury, comfort and powers. But the second class heart is evil, satanic and looking for young naija dude to derail. They come and have a feel of how women are considered first in the society before men and they used there wicked money miss road syndrome" In these case now" power miss road" to destroy any naija man that comes there way in the bid of testing superiority over men. Let me make it easier to understand they screw up our men in abroad big time.So naija men run to other National to make relationship and in turn get married. The pleasant thing is that other national can die to have a naija man and work with them with little or no hassles. Especially East African, Central african and white ladies.

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Re: Marriage? Nigerian Guys In Europe Are Shying Away From Nigerian Girls by Nobody: 12:01pm On Jul 21, 2015
daimlerbenz:
How does it sound?
THE WAY YOU GENERALIS THE WHITE SUPREMACY STUFF. IS NOT HOW YOU PEOPLE SEE IT
Re: Marriage? Nigerian Guys In Europe Are Shying Away From Nigerian Girls by daimlerbenz: 12:02pm On Jul 21, 2015
Sorry bro. I must have responded to you in the boilings of the response of my two friends.
stillreal:


You are being defensive, i'm not attacking you. i wrote earlier people don't need to diss to have a convo, only asking you a question. You said white girls kiss on the streets, you made it sound like it was a taboo to, that's all i asked . No ones bothered about where you live, i only mentioned i stay in Europe cause you said its not a sin in Europe, i obviously know.
Re: Marriage? Nigerian Guys In Europe Are Shying Away From Nigerian Girls by daimlerbenz: 12:05pm On Jul 21, 2015
I was responding to who listed reasons why white girls are better. I put up my own list narrowed down to the average German girl. I may be wrong be generalizing it. I should have said, the average schwabish girl.

Noted.

betandwin8484:
..

Did the op mention that german girls are proud ? did he mention They have a supremacist mentality - if not a German guy, it's no one.

They prefer to live with you as partner and not as spouse.


Please clarify
Re: Marriage? Nigerian Guys In Europe Are Shying Away From Nigerian Girls by daimlerbenz: 12:07pm On Jul 21, 2015
Really!!! Are they not? C'mon, don't tell me you don't know. You think the dark days are over. Welcome to the era of neo-colonialism.
sonofananimal1:
THE WAY YOU GENERALIS THE WHITE SUPREMACY STUFF. IS NOT HOW YOU PEOPLE SEE IT
Re: Marriage? Nigerian Guys In Europe Are Shying Away From Nigerian Girls by damiso(f): 12:10pm On Jul 21, 2015
undecided undecided undecided

goes both ways these days I am beginning to know and notice more women of Nigerian descent with men from other nationalities.


Its all down to choice.

and na wa for the level of stereotyping on this thread.

Like the woman who went after her now rich husband for child support for a 32 year old child/man was a Nigerian.
Re: Marriage? Nigerian Guys In Europe Are Shying Away From Nigerian Girls by Litmus: 12:21pm On Jul 21, 2015
Marrying out will be disastrous for Nigeria in the long run. Nigeria largely still has an intact nuclear family structure, which is rare in Africa and abroad. The consequence of this, are often well-rounded boys and girls that turn into well-rounded men and women that make good husbands and wives sort after by others. Nigerian men are sort after because they value the family and will likely do all that they can to preserve its sanctity. Even when Nigerian men stray, they still protect the family. I know a yoruba guy married to his Nigerian wife, has three children. He made the mistake of straying and consequently has a Jamaican girl with two kids for him. The guy works every hour he can to provide for his legal Nigerian wife and his Jamaican second family. None of the women know of the other.

Nigerian mothers play a huge role in instilling the values that have made Nigerian men strong. It seems a pity that women of other cultures are reaping the reward. I only hope that these foreign women instill in their children the Nigerian values of hard work, family loyalty and integrity.

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Re: Marriage? Nigerian Guys In Europe Are Shying Away From Nigerian Girls by vague: 12:28pm On Jul 21, 2015
ibkgab001:
NIGERIA girls are so classy , picky and so fake They started the war they can't end


Driving faster to my Zimbabwe baby

10 hours behind the wheel
lucky babe.
Re: Marriage? Nigerian Guys In Europe Are Shying Away From Nigerian Girls by vague: 12:30pm On Jul 21, 2015
jerryunit48:
I even saw one who said she is not ready to work only to be a house wife
grin she wants to sit at home and control your life, thats already a full-time job grin only you pay her for it lipsrsealed
Re: Marriage? Nigerian Guys In Europe Are Shying Away From Nigerian Girls by daimlerbenz: 12:34pm On Jul 21, 2015
Many Nigerian men don't see it this way. I don't know why.
Litmus:
Marrying out will be disastrous for Nigeria in the long run. Nigeria largely still has an intact nuclear family structure, which is rare in Africa and abroad. The consequence of this, are often well-rounded boys and girls that turn into well-rounded men and women that make good husbands and wives sort after by others. Nigerian men are sort after because they value the family and will likely do all that they can to preserve its sanctity. Even when Nigerian men stray, they still protect the family. I know a yoruba guy married to his Nigerian wife, has three children. He made the mistake of straying and consequently has a Jamaican girl with two kids for him. The guy works every hour he can to provide for his legal Nigerian wife and his Jamaican second family. None of the women know of the other.

Nigerian mothers play a huge role in instilling the values that have made Nigerian men strong. It seems a pity that women of other cultures are reaping the reward. I only hope that these foreign women instill in their children the Nigerian values of hard work, family loyalty and integrity.
Re: Marriage? Nigerian Guys In Europe Are Shying Away From Nigerian Girls by vague: 12:35pm On Jul 21, 2015
Dragonking:
Why marry a nigerian girl and regret it for the rest of your life. undecided undecided undecided

#team foreign girls all the way#
the children you will have will be Nigerian girls so be wise before making foolish comments

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