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My Husband Would Rather Masturbate Than Have Sex With Me by misshipsy88(f): 7:44pm On Jul 21, 2015
For sometime I have noticed that my husband would rather masturbate instead of having sex with me,even when I try as much as possible to spice up our sex life.please what do I do to stop it?

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Re: My Husband Would Rather Masturbate Than Have Sex With Me by Nobody: 7:44pm On Jul 21, 2015
You better find toyboys or f***buddy undecided...........Speaking of Toyboys grin grin grin. In all seriousnes Porn has damaged your Husband's REASoning. He cant tell Reality from Fantasy again. Just try to see if you can act some of his fantasies. cool#LOVEGURU Meanwhile I am dropping my Novella 1:30pm GMT-5 because of mh Reddit fans and Time Difference. Catch it like it's hot on Reddit or Nairaland cool

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Re: My Husband Would Rather Masturbate Than Have Sex With Me by Shebarh(f): 7:45pm On Jul 21, 2015
angry
Re: My Husband Would Rather Masturbate Than Have Sex With Me by KingKuntaVart: 7:45pm On Jul 21, 2015
Cut off your husbands hands, that would stop it.... i wouldnt advice u get another fork mate, since its obvious ur no longer in the market..... gosh any man that would prefer his hands to the wet hole must have married the worlds ugliest wife...... as in eeeeehhhh babe go check urself... madam wide hole... slippers boobs grin

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Re: My Husband Would Rather Masturbate Than Have Sex With Me by meimoks(f): 7:50pm On Jul 21, 2015
grin grin

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Re: My Husband Would Rather Masturbate Than Have Sex With Me by Nobody: 7:51pm On Jul 21, 2015
LWKM Bind that demon Go and learn how to satisfy him Change your looks Wear more attractive clothes Bang him well Let him hunger for your POMO

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Re: My Husband Would Rather Masturbate Than Have Sex With Me by Cutehector(m): 7:56pm On Jul 21, 2015
Rape him

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Re: My Husband Would Rather Masturbate Than Have Sex With Me by Nobody: 7:57pm On Jul 21, 2015
How fat are you?

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Re: My Husband Would Rather Masturbate Than Have Sex With Me by Houseofglam7(f): 7:57pm On Jul 21, 2015
Take him to a strip club and pay to let him have a lap dance!

I swear na car him go nail you!


If that doesn't work, sell him on OLX angry

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Re: My Husband Would Rather Masturbate Than Have Sex With Me by LegatusGlaber(m): 8:00pm On Jul 21, 2015
You need to find out where it all went wrong, that is if he enjoys sex with you before nd how it has alwys been like.

Have in any way complained of over or under satisfaction during intercourse?

You need a lot of soul searching and also dialogue with him to get to the root of the matter

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Re: My Husband Would Rather Masturbate Than Have Sex With Me by MRBrownJ: 8:10pm On Jul 21, 2015
misshipsy88:
For sometime I have noticed that my husband would rather masturbate instead of having sex with me,even when I try as much as possible to spice up our sex life.please what do I do to stop it?

let me be the bearer of bad news (please dont shoot the messenger):
i am sorry to tell you that there is very little you can do about the fact that you dont turn your husband ON any longer.
but here is how you need to look at this issue:
A) did you always satisfy your hubby's sexual needs in the past? did you have a healthy sex life in the past? do you even know what turns him on?!
B) pls go get nekkid in front of the mirror and look carefully, while asking yourself if you remotely resemble your old sexy self.
C) then ask yourself if you have always been the freak that your partner was seeking for in the bedroom... or better yet, what have you done all these years to spice your bedroom activities? if you think that you can revive something that you overlooked and dismissed for year, then the joke is on you. when its dead, its dead!
D) most importantly, your husband must be masturbating to something that turns him on.... so the question you should ask yourself IS:" do you remotely look as sexy as the women he masturbates to OR do you do the type of stuff that he enjoys watching while playing with himself?"

the fact that you would want him to stop doing it, without thinking or asking the important question, which is "WHY/HOW has it come to this?", is the reason why you can never succeed in solving the issue....your answers are right in front of you.

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Re: My Husband Would Rather Masturbate Than Have Sex With Me by teepsee(f): 8:11pm On Jul 21, 2015
Wonder shall never end.


You not talk to him, as a friend and let him tell u where you are missing it. And u try to help him on that.



But if that is not working, then take it by force. Nobody go blame u. That's ur right

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Re: My Husband Would Rather Masturbate Than Have Sex With Me by MRBrownJ: 8:13pm On Jul 21, 2015
^^^lol, see women now advocating for rape. women and their double standards bwaaaaah!

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Re: My Husband Would Rather Masturbate Than Have Sex With Me by Onemansquad(m): 8:24pm On Jul 21, 2015
Houseofglam7:
Take him to a strip club and pay to let him have a lap dance!

I swear na car him go nail you!


If that doesn't work, sell him on OLX angry
speaking from experience cheesy

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Re: My Husband Would Rather Masturbate Than Have Sex With Me by Houseofglam7(f): 8:27pm On Jul 21, 2015
Onemansquad:

speaking from experience cheesy




Lets just say I have a creative imagination grin

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Re: My Husband Would Rather Masturbate Than Have Sex With Me by StPete: 8:39pm On Jul 21, 2015
Child birth MAY have widened your pucci so it could result in him not getting that satisfaction.

Try some Kegel, I hope it helps

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Re: My Husband Would Rather Masturbate Than Have Sex With Me by rawtouch: 8:41pm On Jul 21, 2015
Nkan mbe

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Re: My Husband Would Rather Masturbate Than Have Sex With Me by rawtouch: 8:42pm On Jul 21, 2015
Nkan mbe











Sips my alcoholic malt
Re: My Husband Would Rather Masturbate Than Have Sex With Me by Nobody: 8:44pm On Jul 21, 2015
Ouch! Must be tough on your self esteem.

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Re: My Husband Would Rather Masturbate Than Have Sex With Me by gamaliel121(m): 8:45pm On Jul 21, 2015
Masturbation is highly addictive..
Yarn him how you feel about it.. Sure he'll start giving ur pucci more attention Good luck
Re: My Husband Would Rather Masturbate Than Have Sex With Me by Nobody: 10:01pm On Jul 21, 2015
Sorry to hear that. But to be honest, i doubt you can do anything about it.

You probably have to wait it out til he comes back to his senses.

Or maybe just sit him down and have a frank talk with him.

Better yet, try find out what his fantasy is and if possible make it happen for him
Re: My Husband Would Rather Masturbate Than Have Sex With Me by Nobody: 10:16pm On Jul 21, 2015
If you are married... Y the moniker "misshipsy"... .. If you are... Your husband was probably a yabaleft escapee coz i don't see y a good thinking man will rather masturbate then Bleep a pussy.... Even if you are the ugliest in the world... He should still Bleep it.... Its nt too late... You can still take him back to yabaleft

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Re: My Husband Would Rather Masturbate Than Have Sex With Me by kpolli(m): 10:22pm On Jul 21, 2015
Houseofglam7:
Take him to a strip club and pay to let him have a lap dance!

I swear na car him go nail you!


If that doesn't work, sell him on OLX angry

Depends on who is giving the lap dance

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Re: My Husband Would Rather Masturbate Than Have Sex With Me by Nobody: 10:34pm On Jul 21, 2015
Na wa ooo.
Re: My Husband Would Rather Masturbate Than Have Sex With Me by Houseofglam7(f): 10:35pm On Jul 21, 2015
kpolli:


Depends on who is giving the lap dance

Gotta be some smoking hot chic

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Re: My Husband Would Rather Masturbate Than Have Sex With Me by thorpido(m): 10:45pm On Jul 21, 2015
Your husband is a mastorbation addict.Guys who are hooked on it usually don't(or take time to) get used to the female organ.
Another thing is that he must also be into you.If he is not really sexually attracted to you,it will be an issue.Try to patiently help your hubby kick the habit and step up your bedroom skills.

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Re: My Husband Would Rather Masturbate Than Have Sex With Me by cdaboss: 10:53pm On Jul 21, 2015
Re: My Husband Would Rather Masturbate Than Have Sex With Me by COvo(m): 10:58pm On Jul 21, 2015
Did you become fat after he got married to you? If yes then that's the reason.

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Re: My Husband Would Rather Masturbate Than Have Sex With Me by Nobody: 11:04pm On Jul 21, 2015
Do u have an infection?if yes dat is d reason**go for treatment**

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Re: My Husband Would Rather Masturbate Than Have Sex With Me by shigo20(m): 11:07pm On Jul 21, 2015
try sitting him down and ve a heart to heart talk with him

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Re: My Husband Would Rather Masturbate Than Have Sex With Me by Pierocash(m): 11:14pm On Jul 21, 2015
misshipsy88:
For sometime I have noticed that my husband would rather masturbate instead of having sex with me,even when I try as much as possible to spice up our sex life.please what do I do to stop it?
just contact me I can help u out cos my girl is complaining that 6rounds that I take on is much, maybe I can switch allegiance

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Re: My Husband Would Rather Masturbate Than Have Sex With Me by Tbillz(m): 11:15pm On Jul 21, 2015
Add Msc in sex to your professions

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