HungerBAD:
NO.

Do not visit her, this is where commonsense supersedes what the heart says. She is not running away, call her one million times a day, but do not go there.

She will be alright and she will understand.

HungerBAD:
NO.

Do not visit her, this is where commonsense supersedes what the heart says. She is not running away, call her one million times a day, but do not go there.

She will be alright and she will understand.

dorox10:
My girlfriend has been suffering from chicken pox for the last four days and I have been codedly avoiding her in other not to contact the disease since I learnt its very contagious expecially when I have not suffered from such ailment before .
But the issue now is that she's complaining bitterly and implying that I don't care about her. I sincerely love her and I don't want her to feel or think otherwise.
I have a very important exams to write in a couple of days and chicken pox is the last ailment I want to contact right now.
Please what should I do without appearing insensitive to her and still maintain a good health

DuchessLily:
Where is the love

There is love in sharing nau... Go share in d chicken pox abeg


But seriously, how would u feel if u were in her shoes?

kathykathy:
tell her u av ebola

dorox10:


I don't really know how I will feel in her shoes and the funny thing here is that we've always promised to be there for each other no matter what. This issue looks like a test of some sort

Xiadnat:


This your GF is being incredibly selfish. She is highly contagious until all of her poxes/blisters and rashes have crusted over.

Do not go visit her especially when you have not had active or passive immunization of varicella virus.

Good luck

VickyRotex:


Oh, Maybe I had that immunization then, or I was just lucky.

Reason is,
My aunt once had the disease, I was quite young then. I noticed people avoided having any contact with her. And My parents explained to us. My parents even gave her a separate room, and took care of her when necessary, but I sneaked to always be with her, touching her and tryna take care of her. There was a time I slept beside her, and she sent me away.

I thought she dint appreciate what I was doing. My parents then explained to me again, this time more scary. I got scared, and felt I might have contacted it and up til this moment, I've not contacted Chicken pox.

I've been with friends with such cases aswel.

dorox10:

Woow! Are you advising that I go spend some time with her? Are there chances that I will not get infected even if the chances are slim?

HungerBAD:
NO.

Do not visit her, this is where commonsense supersedes what the heart says. She is not running away, call her one million times a day, but do not go there.

She will be alright and she will understand.

VickyRotex:


Oh, Maybe I had that immunization then, or I was just lucky.

Reason is,
My aunt once had the disease, I was quite young then. I noticed people avoided having any contact with her. And My parents explained to us. My parents even gave her a separate room, and took care of her when necessary, but I sneaked to always be with her, touching her and tryna take care of her. There was a time I slept beside her, and she sent me away.

I thought she dint appreciate what I was doing. My parents then explained to me again, this time more scary. I got scared, and felt I might have contacted it and up til this moment, I've not contacted Chicken pox.

I've been with friends with such cases aswel.

dorox10:

She doesn't even pick my calls anymore all she wants right now is for me to be there for her(physically I guess)

DuchessLily:
Where is the love

There is love in sharing nau... Go share in d chicken pox abeg


But seriously, how would u feel if u were in her shoes?

So if you were the girlfriend you would feel the same way too?

Xiadnat:
You likely had active immunization as a child; often given collectively as MMR-V at 18 months or so of age.

Either that, or you were incredibly lucky. It happens. But, you will always remain at risk if you aren't actively immunized.

firstEVA:
this is ths first time hungerbad is making sense. Kudos.

bqlekan:
I think chicken pox is airborne, you are better off not visiting her be wise. just explain to her on phone and if she doesn't understand, i think you should forget about her.

dorox10:

Forget her in what sense bro? I dont want to imagine that atall right now!!