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Sassybae:
I know there are other topics one can talk about, you really don't understand sha

Sassybae:
Not a chyker
Someone I once called boo, tho it was cool at times sha

Ok then...But I'll Surely Never understand Women ...I still believe everyone's Preferences is based on there Individual Choices...so The Shy Guys you don't Like might Just be the Perfect Guy My Sis Prays for.

Cutehector:
lol I do... Buh its not a must u guys must keep talkn and chattn all the time, thr should be a moment of silence... Lol u talk all the gist finish until thr is nothn to jist abt anymore... Its very much ok to keep silent

Sassybae:
Ok, let's say, I left ma house to go see my boo, so you expect us to just stay like that and look at ourselves?

Slimzjoe:
Ok then...But I'll Surely Never understand Women ...I still believe everyone's Preferences is based on there Individual Choices...so The Shy Guys you don't Like might Just be the Perfect Guy My Sis Prays for.

Cutehector:
cc: sassybae, ninanigeria.


I hope u read dis

NinaNigeria:
yes i agree with u, bcoz we r all different and unique, and we shud stop generalising.

Cutehector:
depends on what u goin to see him for... left for me I lurv bedroom talk .... Dats if u knw wad I mean.. Play play yarns...

Sassybae:
Cool, which ever works for you

Sassybae:
Lol, buh I know at a point she'll get tired...cause I expect girls to act that way not a guy, we all different sha so different choices

Slimzjoe:
But Come to think of it...How many Married Couples do You see the Husband Doing all the Talking?

Sassybae:
Hehe I dint say he should do all the talking, you still don't understand me, am talking bouh "boring" here

Cutehector:
u seem lyk someone dats frm delta state

Cutehector:
u seem lyk someone dats frm delta state

And How Do Deltans Look

Slimzjoe:
I Get it Now Missy!

Sassybae:
Nah, am not
Ermm you're that cutehector abi, that chased me out of ya thread

Cutehector:
u will born twins amen..

Cutehector:
yes I am, u still hating on me?

yungkiz:
[b][/b]I come across this aticle on a punch news paper so I decide to share it with you guiz and know your thought..

Tunde Ajaja

It is no gainsaying that most women prefer dating men who appear confident and outspoken, not neccesary because such men are better lovers, but partly because they exhibit an aura of protection, safety and reliability for their spouses.

Notably, shy men may not be every woman's preference maybe because they appear calm and non-aggressive in situations that demand absolute exhibition of their manliness, but it now appears that women who prefer dating the macho men to shy men may be missing out on the best possible mate or the company of a better lover. This is because studies have shown that men who shy are better lovers.
No doubt, the natural attraction of females to 'confident' men has compelled some men to 'come out of their shell' in order to impress women, more so because they sometimes have to prove their masculinity with some bold and dramatic displays. How ever, if the findings of these studies are anything to go by, women who are in relationship with shy men should count themselves lucky for being in the company of better mates.

Some biologist at the Plymouth University, United Kingdom, found that men who shy the most do have the most to offer their potential lover.
In some other reports to buttress the point that there are several benefit in dating a shy guy, a post on allwomenstalk.com showed that the main chanllenge shy men have is that their spouses may need to work harder to get some information out of them because they usually do not readily share information about themselves. Also people tend to have a wrong perception of who they really are. This unlike the 'confident' guy who would want to talk about his past, present and future. The report added that the men who talk a lot about themselves, such men could put off some possible lovers with their actions for being too forward and dominating conversations.


According to the post, shy guys are also more sincere than the outspoken guys because they think deeply about their words beforehand and are more careful in their expression than those who are not and usually ready to talk as soon as situations present themselves. Also shy men were found to be less intimidating than their 'confident' partner's. Who would want everyone around to feel that they are more than they truly are.
They are considerate and are more likely to consider the inpact of their words and actions on their partner, hence, making them a preferred spouse. Also, they are less likely to cheat, not only because women tend not to consider them for relationship but also because they focus their attention on more productive things rather than chasing women,” it added.

For women who love rapt attention and a listening man to talk to, no one does it better than shy men because they usually don't and are not always eager to dominate conversations. Rather, they listen well and only talk when they feel like or when they have something better or interesting to say. This accordingly, implies that shy men respect the feelings and opinions of others. According to the post, shy men have been found to make valuable contributions in a group discussion because they spend more time meditating, and are not in a hurry to speak. Beyond these, it was also revealed that shy guys are more receptive, all making them a better lovers.


In summarising the benefits of dating a shy man, another report on amerikanki.com, said, it's believed that gurls tend to talk much more than guys, but every now and then, even women need a person that can keep silent and listen to them. They want to talk more and be listened to and any man who can afford them such would readily score some point.

A shy man will never act artificially and his words always correspond to his thought and women can be sure that shy guy means exactly what he says. Indeed it's a good reason to date a shy guy

”Shy guys aren't so talkative and probably most ladies will have to make great efforts to get along with them, just that if such men choose to talk, they are sincere and their words are meaningful and they don't bother their partner with annoying questions. Even if they have to reject people or their opinion, they do it in a polite manner.

These imply that shy guys shouldn't be ignored at all because dating a shy guy is all about advantages and these are only few of them. If you want an attentive, careful person, dating a shy guy is definitely a right idea, even if they are not the readily combat-ready men.

Commenting on the study, a professor pyschology, Toba Elegbeleyen said shy guys categorised as introverts, and that they are people who like to be quiet, studious and alone, not for the fear of publicity but for them to exhibit their internal qualities. He pointed out that such people have fantastic inner qualities and they usaully believe that they are the only ones that understand their personality better.
He said, “They are very hardworking and intelligent people because they are able to explore all their internal qualities. So it may not be wrong if somebody concludes that they are better lovers because they have the patience to live with and correct their partners in love if there is need.

They usually have internal resilience that makes them consider issue several times before they take action, and most of such actions cannot be faulted. These qualities may make them better lovers.

Sassybae:
not really sha, its ok, just that you sounded too rude, and that was annoying

Cutehector:
I am truely sorry for that... I shouldn't hav done that anyways..

Sassybae:
Cool, tho if you noticed, I've tried avoiding everything concerning you, dint even want to reply your mention

Cutehector:
I am sorry... Friends?

Cutehector:
depends on what u goin to see him for... left for me I lurv bedroom talk .... Dats if u knw wad I mean.. Play play yarns...

yungkiz:
U be guy...



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