Babalegba:
This is the kind of thread that proves to the world that Nigeria contains some of the daftest people on earth and that Nigerian education is fake. In Nigeria rape is consensual sex even when it is clear that the rapist took advantage of the victims desperation to acquire Nigerian fake education that seldom develop the brain. Corrupt politicians are given weighty chieftaincy titles ,people can post decapitated limbs and torso on public forums and sixty year old sitting governors are marrying twenty four year olds .I blame the west for classifying such obvious mentally inadequate samples as homo sapiens.

what you tag advantage, some persons might tag playing smart.

And what does the public judgement without a court trial have to say about our judicial system? we mean we should just swallow everything because the victim says we should? How smart are you, really?

winniz:
How low can someone go? I can't believe this Yoloba Idiott shachris opened a thread to try justifying a rape case committed by his Yoloba brother Tufiakwa!!

must you always bring tribe and religion into everything?

@OP, are you the lecturer who took the girl to Unilag? You have gone out of your way to justify the sexual assault perpetrated against this girl. For this, I say shame on you.

The lecturer took undue advantage of a girl who was desperate for admission. The man has no excuse for even attempting to have sex with the girl he never knew and met for the very first time.

At the very least, the lecturer is a shameless Pervert and at worst a cold blooded rapist.

shachris02:


must you always bring tribe and religion into everything?

Ain't you very stupidd and dumb, creating a thread to defend rape case cos he's from your tribe shows how useless and worthless you are!

shachris02:


What if the man always keeps a condom in his wallet like every other average dude out there?

Then he is still in trouble as it would be assumed that he is a sex "wannabi"! Nobody will agree that he is just an average man again.

nduchucks:
@OP, are you the lecturer who took the girl to Unilag? You have gone out of your way to justify the sexual assault perpetrated against this girl. For this, I say shame on you.

The lecturer took undue advantage of a girl who was desperate for admission. The man has no excuse for even attempting to have sex with the girl he never knew and met for the very first time.

At the very least, the lecturer is a shameless Pervert and at worst a cold blooded rapist.

You are making various assumptions that are so not correct. First off, the man is not a stranger to the girl. He lives in the same street with the girl and has being the dad's friend, so the girl must have being familiar with him in some way.

What if the attraction was spontaneous? What if the girl actually took advantage of the situation to live out her fantasy? or you think small girls do not fantasize doing older men?

one thing I've realized from reading comments on this thread is that 70% of Nigerians reason with emotions instead of with their brains and logic.

if the evidence are there starring some people in their faces they'll still make judgements based on emotions. rubbish!

sinkhole:
Then he is still in trouble as it would be assumed that he is a sex "wannabi"! Nobody will agree that he is just an average man again.

I keep condoms very close anywhere i am too. Does that make me a 'wannabi'. Then most naija guys are wannabis because i know most guys always have condoms at hand just in case.

shachris02:


What if the attraction was spontaneous? What if the girl actually took advantage of the situation to live out her fantasy? or you think small girls do not fantasize doing older men?

Oga, the fact that you continue to give the shameless lecturer the benefit of the doubt and didn't do the same for the girl shows that your view is biased.

Your reasoning is typical of male chauvinists

nduchucks:


Oga, the fact that you continue to give the shameless lecturer the benefit of the doubt and didn't do the same for the girl shows that your view is biased.

Your reasoning is typical of male chauvinists

someone has to speak for the poor man. You guys have given the girl all the benefit of the doubt. All i am saying is that, there is always a two side to every story and we should not rush into conclusion based on sentiments.

Larryfly:


Why said anything about you and your wife or assault. But before going further sir, i ll like to ask if you are in the Legal profession or a police officer

I'm none.

hinwazaka:

As I wrote earlier, go and read up on past law cases involving rape, period

Do you know that it's only väginal penetration that constitutes rape? Anäl penetration doesn't.

This OP is a rapist cos it's only rapist that defend their fellow rapist, be rest assured shachris you will be caught some day.

segzicres:
one thing I've realized from reading comments on this thread is that 70% of Nigerians reason with emotions instead of with their brains and logic.

if the evidence are there starring some people in their faces they'll still make judgements based on emotions. rubbish!

Whatever that man's defence is, he messed up big time. But trust Nigerians to go off the chart with emotional reactions, I blame men who can't keep it in their pants.

OrlandoOwoh:

Do you know that it's only väginal penetration that constitutes rape? Anäl penetration doesn't.

lord have mercy.

since when?

hold on, anal sex is sodomy, so it would count as rape also.

I think next time I will just have to Baruwa this small girl I hv been chasing for months.

New word- Baruwa, meaning- rape.

Example- Ishilove, I will baruwa you when next you visit my house.

Hahahahahaha!

zaynie:

If he was my husband, brother or father and he actually claims that they did have s.ex, I have already lost all trust and I will most likely not believe him, depending on prior attitudes or character; is he aggressive? domineering? lacks self control.
I just answered your question buh you havent answered mine.
Having high libido is no justification, its like saying having a bad temper justifies murder. If you have a weakness, you work on it and dont make people suffer for it.

I'm strongly against rape. but I can't help but ask. is verbally voicing disagreement to intercourse the definition of rape? what is the evidence she said no? is it a mere matter of her word against his.? I agree that too many rapists go unpunished, but a few convicted ones "might" be victims of a set up. also., can a man rape his wife? is he punishable?

nduchucks:


Oga, the fact that you continue to give the shameless lecturer the benefit of the doubt and didn't do the same for the girl shows that your view is biased.

Your reasoning is typical of male chauvinists

While I condemn the lecturer for being immoral, I won't absorb those, and the girl in particular, that hold that she was raped when there is no evidence (as far as the legal definition of rape is concerned) to support it. This forum should be a meeting point where people are educated, not where people pour their emotion.

hinwazaka:
This is typical of the OP.Always talking about things he has refused to research on. Let me enlighten you, the first thing in rape analogy is "No means No". It doesn't matter if the girl precipitated the action or led him on, all that matters is if at the point of penetration, she withdrew from the action or indicated her reluctance. Once she says no and you continue without her consent, such action constitutes RAPE. Also it is normal for girls at the point of rape to freeze and blank out their mind. This happens about 90% of the time. The fear of facing the reality of rape would force them to withdraw into a subconscious shell inorder to pass through the ordeal. This action is involuntary and so can't be turned on or off. Also FYI: she displayed all the characteristics of a rape victim: unusual quietness, change in behavioural pattern, withdrawn personality and so many others. This is in no way a case of blackmail or retribution. The lecturer is just trying to be clever. He probably has done this so many times and had gotten away with it because of the experience and nature of the other victims. The recent victim is the first virgin and so why the turn of his luck. Please read up on rape before helping the lecturer get off the hook because of your subconscious misogynistic nature

What computer model are u? What are u implying? Did u read the main post at all? He never justified or tried helping anyone off the hook. You are now the one trying to put is as though you were there. As he is reading about rape,pls try and read up what being "guilty" means in justice

Spartan1203:

I'm strongly against rape. but I can't help but ask. is verbally voices disagreement to intercourse the definition of rape? what is the evidence she said no? is it a mere matter of her word against his.? I agree that too many rapists go unpunished, but a few convicted ones "might" be victims of a set up. also., can a man rape his wife? is he punishable?

It's said that she was "raped" in a lecture theatre, did she shout to draw the attention of the university community? This question is begging for answer(s). Did she "jejely walk out after the "rape?"

zaynie:
Its not just girls that lie, EVERYBODY lies!
So what if its the man thats telling the lies.
So what if there is an iota of truth in the girl's story? We sweep it under the rug and continue to ask victims of rape to speak out, for what? So we can shame them? Prove their story untrue? Label them liars?

The man in this case is an adult, married, a custodian. Even if they had consensual se.x, he is not legally,morally and ethically justified to indulge in it. Your friend handed his daughter to you, you claim she started it and you had se.x with her, abeg if she kan get the admission nko?
There is something called self control and this man obviously lacks it.

At the end of the day the man has a lot to lose, his job, his dignity, respect, family.....all for what?
The girl also loses on her part. Whether she told the truth or not. People around her will never look at her the same way again. She has more struggles to go thru if there is truth in what she says.

My simple question to the OP, what if this girl was your sister, girlfriend or daughter, would you be so quick to judge and label her? I dont mean this as an insult, buh I have noticed that we dont extend the love and protection we feel towards ours to others. Until we start to do so, the world isnt going to get better.
Have a nice weekend.

If u didn't judge or question your sister and jump into prosecution, have u achieved fairness and who else would you allow to do so?. I didn't see the op as siding anyone. In my opinion both are at fault,but the man as been matured and experienced should have gotten to a level that no matter any show the girl plays,he should have stood still to what is right in doing.

shachris02:


i just pity the poor lecturer that has being passed judgement on by the public. He might lose his job and maybe his family as well.

the lecturer deserve to lose his job and his family as well. even if the girl gave him greenlight, it's because of desperation, she needed admission badly. The man knows this, so he utilizes the opportunity cos he might not get it again. The man should have informed the girl's parent or scolded the girl, he is old enough to father her for Christ sake.

tpiander:


lord have mercy.

since when?

hold on, anal sex is sodomy, so it would count as rape also.

Non-consensual anäl penetration is assault, not rape. Go read our criminal laws and those of other countries.

TGM2015:


Just modified the post your quoted, but it is not consensual not forgetting that the lecturer has readily available condom in his office.

There's no law banning having personal effects in your personal office. I do not support rape though whether proven or not proven.

In my own opinion that girl was not raped. She enjoyed it and she's trying to make the world see her as the victim. We all know what an average Nigerian girl would do in order to get something.

Babalegba:
This is the kind of thread that proves to the world that My family contains some of the daftest people on earth and that the education we got is fake. In my family rape is consensual sex even when it is clear that the rapist took advantage of the victims desperation to acquire education that seldom develop the brain.I blame my father for bringing up such obvious mentally inadequate samples as homo sapiens.

May God have mercy on your stupidity

OrlandoOwoh:

It's said that she was "raped" in a lecture theatre, did she shout to draw the attention of the university community? This question is begging for answer(s). Did she "jejely walk out after the "rape?"

exactly!! in unilag. u no see anybody to report give?? we all..ok most of us know how these things happen IN CASES OF A SET UP. so if some girl i had relations with 2 weeks ago wakes on the wrong side of the bed and accuses me of rape, na jail b dat abi. the guy doesnt deny the intercourse, shes over 18. it might be rape o and if she proves it, this man is officially persona non grata. but pls prove it. dont come back 10 yrs later seeking forgiveness for ruining the career of a promising young man. i might appear biased, but emotions tend to cloud judgement in sensitive matters of this sort

the first thing in rape analogy is "No means No". It doesn't matter if the girl precipitated the action or led him on, all that matters is if at the point of penetration, she withdrew from the action or indicated her reluctance. Once she says no and you continue without her consent, such action constitutes RAPE

hinwazaka, with this your theory, it is official that 98% of men are rapists.

segzicres:
one thing I've realized from reading comments on this thread is that 70% of Nigerians reason with emotions instead of with their brains and logic.

if the evidence are there starring some people in their faces they'll still make judgements based on emotions. rubbish!

Which evidence?

The useless muslim fanatic op took a journalistic accounts as the official investigation case file.

It is people like OP that make rape cases rampant because they can't believe that a woman can be raped.

He goes on to state that the girl's virginity is in doubt as if only virgins can claim to be raped.

The fool also stated the age of the girl as being 18 also proves she can not be raped.

This is your typical Muslim scum who will demand 4 Mulim adult males as witness or there was no rape.

shachris02:


what you tag advantage, some persons might tag playing smart.

And what does the public judgement without a court trial have to say about our judicial system? we mean we should just swallow everything because the victim says we should? How smart are you, really?

I'm not claiming to be smart,what I 'm saying is that Nigerians are some of the daftest people on earth and Nigerian education is an insult to the human intellect. We all know that the rape victim experience is repeated throughout Nigeria's educational institutions and has almost become the norm. I concur though that the lecturer should be charged to court and scapegoated so that the other deviant sex fixated animals masquerading as lecturers would act less daftly in future.

BishopMagic:



Which evidence?

The useless muslim fanatic op took a journalistic accounts as the official investigation case file.

It is people like OP that make rape cases rampant because they can't believe that a woman can be raped.

He goes on to state that the girl's virginity is in doubt as if only virgins can claim to be raped.

The fool also stated the age of the girl as being 18 also proves she can not be raped.

This is your typical Muslim scum who will demand 4 Mulim adult males as witness or there was no rape.

Dude, i am a Christian, and my name is Christian....ShaCHRIS.

Babalegba:
I'm not claiming to be smart,what I 'm saying is that Nigerians are some of the daftest people on earth and Nigerian education is an insult to the human intellect. We all know that the rape victim experience is repeated throughout Nigeria's educational institutions and has almost become the norm. I concur though that the lecturer should be charged to court and scapegoated so that the other deviant sex fixated animals masquerading as lecturers would act less daftly in future.

it is better 99 criminals roam about than 1 innocent man be convicted.